Dear people with sugar addictions..

I'm not that fond of sugar, so not qualified to speak to the addiction thing, but as to people offering it to you when they know you're trying to quit (which horribly enough does actually happen with cigarettes, booze, and drugs . . . sadly, I know this all too well). People know I don't really like sugar but they offer it to me all the time. I just say, "Oh thanks, sorry i don't really care for it." Or, if I think that will seem rude (like, it's their grandma's home-baked cookies or something), I tell the other truth, which is that it makes me feel sleepy and weird, so I just can't eat it at work. If you have a good story ("Oh, I can't drink, it's a medical thing," "Sorry, weed makes me paranoid," "Sugar makes me fall asleep") and repeat it enough, folks do start to "get it." But I agree if you just say, "I'm trying to quit" some idiots see it as a challenge. Oh, another one that works is "My doctor told me I need to lay off for a while."

Hello, I am a chocoholic. There I said it. And not only that I am raising 3 more and enabling a 4th. I am such a bad mother. Oh well. Maybe you can get some of those 100 calorie cookie snacks. The fudge grahams are really good. Like others I allow myself something, but try to limit it and make sure it fits in my daily allowances. I understand the fruit suggestion, but if you are like me- I don't like fruit or vegetables for that matter! If it is a huge uncontrollable craving, eat part of it and then work it off later with exercise. I know, not real healthy. But this is a day by day learning journey. You have to figure out your body and what works for you.

If the craving is due to emotional/mental control-
1.have a cup of hot water(as warm as you can handle)-the craving will be gone.
2.if it still persists-i have wedges of oranges in a ziplock with me-pop one in.
3.have a protein bar

If there is an internal problem that has not been handled-
4.it can be magnesium deficiency-take cal-mag supplements
5.Stress/sleeplessness can cause serious cravings-try stress relief methods.

Have something!
Greek yogurt blended with frozen berries (or fresh fruit and ice)
Greek yogurt with sugar free preserves (boysenberry is awesome) mixed in
One square of the best chocolate I can find. Currently hazelnut Milka. Only do this if you can actually stop at one piece though
No sugar added fruit bars. These are 40 cals a piece
Any berry or sliced nectarines with a little cream and splenda
Swiss miss sensible sweets no sugar added. These are 60 cals. Sometimes I add a splash of cream for extra richness
Chocolate protein shake. I usually have one for breakfast so it gives me my "chocolate milk" fix and it helps me get my protein
I have little, individually wrapped sour punch straws. I used to eat a whole pack, now two or three little ones does the trick
Sugar free jello made with canned pinapple, peaches, or mandarin oranges
Tapioca pudding from the box, replacing the sugar with splenda
Canned pumpkin (not pie mix!) mixed with some splenda and cinnamon. Stir and warm in microwave. Veggie bonus!
Starbucks light mocha frappacinos in a bottle. 100 cals!
Fun size of whatever candy you like! Freeze the rest to get them out of your head.
Melt dark chocolate (get chips) in the microwave then dip strawberries or bananas in it and freeze them.
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"skinny" cupcakes

1 box devil's food cake mix + 1 can pumpkin puree = 12 delicious cupakes about 100 cals each
or
1 box yellow cake mix + 1 can crushed pinneapple (20 oz.) - 24 delicious cupcakes 95 calories each

I keep a couple out, then freeze the rest and take them out to defrost when I am having a craving. Delicious and not horribly calorie crushing.

Don't deprive yourself, find things that fit into your calorie plan!

My absolute favorite solution is Jello sugar free fat free chocolate instant pudding. 1/2 cup (which they consider a serving) is 80 calories, but if you go nuts and eat the whole damn recipe it's still only 320. Bonus points for the protein in the skim milk

I'm insulin resistant/ have pcos (poly-cystic ovary syndrome), so sugar cravings used to be a major for me.

I now take a daily magnesium supplement (it's supposed to help keep your blood sugar levels level), I don't eat white bread, white sugar, white pasta etc, try to make sure there is protein in every meal I have, and read up on low G.I foods and try to stick to those.
I spent a good chunk of the past ten years doing that to get pregnant, and now it's just the way I eat, and my sugar cravings are pretty much nil. (I still ate way too much of the "good stuff" though, lol, it was never a weightloss thing, not all low gi foods are "healthy"!)

If I do feel like something sweet I have a glass of water first. I drink a herbal tea called Black Adder (not sure if you can get that in the States) but it's a fennel, aniseed, licorice thing and tastes really sweet, or any other herbal tea sweetened with stevia. Cinnamon is good for blood sugar levels too. I don't have artificial sweetener in anything as it triggers my migraines.

I tend to find my breakfast is enough of a sweet fix, I have greek yoghurt, one scoop of protein shake powder, mixing it together it goes mousse-y, and a cup of frozen blueberries.

The only thing that helps me is complete avoidance...I basically cycle in and out of the first phase of the South Beach Diet. By cycling, I mean I'll do it until I lose X amount, take a break (sometimes gain back a pound or two), then back at it. This isn't intentional. Ideally, I'd stick to a plan, move on to the "nicer" phases and enjoy treats while still losing weight. That just hasn't worked for me. So I'm losing the weight slowly. I realize I have work to do to really change myself, and I'm working on it.

When I'm in a complete, sugar-free state, I use the following to curb cravings: 1 serving of sugar-free chocolate Jello-O pudding, a tbsp of shaved almond, a tbsp of light cool whip (all = 100 calories, which is the daily allowance of SF snacks on the SBD phase 1). I realize the cool whip isn't SF, but it's a tiny amount and still under calories. On my good days, this does it for me and I'm happy. On the bad days, it doesn't cut it and I wouldn't say I "cave", as much as I realize that fighting a strong craving will only lead to binging, so I often have a SMALL treat (i.e. some carb-smart breyer's ice cream).

Fighting the cravings doesn't do me any good and the longer I can go without sweets, the less I crave them. Unfortunately, I don't seem to be able to go for very long!

I can relate! Before MFP, I was eating a good half pound of candy per day. The first few days were hard hard hard! The biggest thing that helps is truly *wanting* to change and making a commitment to do so. Without that, nothing will change. Here are some things that help me keep it down to one sweet per day:

1. Cold turkey on the "trigger" sweets. For me, it's regular, cheap candy, like miniature Reese's Cups. I don't have it in the house. I just don't even start. That's just easier for me than torturing myself with a "hair of the dog" and knowing there's a whole bag in the cupboard. I just can't handle it. Know that this ban is temporary, not forever. My rule for myself is not to eat it again until 2013. That's only 3 1/2 months.

2. Substitute another kind of sweet treat that's not a trigger food. Here are mine:
* (Expensive) 70% dark chocolate. I agree with you, 90% is so dark it almost tastes like coffee or tobacco. Get a kind you enjoy that is really creamy and rich.
* Small portion-sized ice cream bars (like Dove miniatures) instead of a carton of ice cream. The individual wrappers make it easier to feel like you're finished with just one. For me, the real thing (not reduced-calorie), because it's richer, is more satisfying and just one feels like enough.
*High-fiber granola bars (I like Fiber One). With 9 grams of fiber, you'll be satisfied after just one for about 2 hours.
* VitaMuffins and VitaBrownies. Another high-fiber treat. Their chocolate ones are *really* flavorful. I bake them from the mixes and add peanut butter chips. Keep them in the freezer and they stay fresh.

Another bonus for the high-fiber sweets: they have a built-in deterrent (GI distress) if you eat more than, say two or three. I'm sure you're wondering how I know this :-)

Substitutes that work for me to head off sweet cravings:
*Mint sugarless gum
*Hot herbal tea--some are sweet without added sweetener required
*Frozen berries

Good luck! You're doing a good thing. I'm right there with you!

I have a major love of chocolate as well and I'm sure a ton of people on here are going to cringe when they read what I eat to calm that craving but oh well. I would be going crazy if i tired to cut out chocolate/sweets altogether. I get the 100 calorie bags of snackies. Its just enough to calm my craving without me completely over doing it. 100 calorie Nutty bars, chocolate covered pretzels, little chocolate chip cookies, nature valley granola thins (they have a layer of chocolate on the bottom). You only live once so don't make yourself miserable by not enjoying the sweets. You just have to eat them in moderation.

My issues are chocolate and Coke. I know eliminating them does not work for me, but you have to find out what works best for you. Some people just cannot do moderation and have to stop completely. I have 2 Dove chocolate promises every night. I also don't eat back most of my exercise calories and spike my calories one day a week (Saturday) and I eat a lot more of what I want. It isn't a cheat day because I do not exceed my calorie allotment for the week. This way I have just a little daily (usually before bed or after dinner), and I have something bigger on Saturdays. It has to be a lifestyle you can live with long term or it won't be effective.

Also, like another poster stated, the more you cook things yourself and don't eat food from a box or can, the less you want processed sugars. The other thing that is extremely helpful is exercise that produces an endorphine rush (e.g. running), as I find that I am way more in control if I do intense exercise for a half an hour or more. I also make sure that I don't have easy access in my house to these types of foods, it is a must!

Unfortunately, I fell a couple weeks back and broke my tailbone, so I am unable to exercise temporarily and the cravings came back extremely strong, especially for Coke because I am more sedetary now. My sugar craving got so bad this afternoon that I actually ate two of my son's gummy vitamins, LOL!!

"skinny" cupcakes

1 box devil's food cake mix + 1 can pumpkin puree = 12 delicious cupakes about 100 cals each
or
1 box yellow cake mix + 1 can crushed pinneapple (20 oz.) - 24 delicious cupcakes 95 calories each

I keep a couple out, then freeze the rest and take them out to defrost when I am having a craving. Delicious and not horribly calorie crushing.

Don't deprive yourself, find things that fit into your calorie plan!

This is beautiful. I have around 40 cans of pumpkin in my pantry. normally i make pumpkin soup and dark chocolate-chip pumpkin cookies with them, but i already have 2 gallons of the soup in my fridge and a couple dozen trays of cookies so.... yea. but chocolate cupcakes would be a nice change of pace.

I slowly replaced sugary food items (ice cream, energy bars, etc.) with sugar free drinks. I then started to water down the overly sweetened drinks with water (still pelnty sweet). Now I do not crave sugar, I use very little sugar/sweetner, and only occasionally buy sweetened food items anymore. Addiction gone!

Trader Joes has milk chocolate bars 100 calories 6 grams fat and 10 grams of carbs. They also have mini hold the cone ice cream and lemon bars all 100 calories and portioned the right size to beat that craving. They are delicious!! Can you tell I have a sweet tooth?? I chew sugar free gum (five) which helps too. I also believe that as time passes my cravings have lessened because I do not eat much sugar and keep on hand just in case. Now is the perfect time to buy green or black seedless grapes. They are so sweet and really help. Because this is my weakness, I am very careful of my sugar intake.