What annoys you ...

My ex wife CONSTANTLY ...notice I said EX WIFE ...wanted to know where I was and what I was doing at all times. That is one of the million reason's im not with that crazy woman anymore. Someone needing to know where I am , what im doing or whom Im with all the time...that ANNOYS the crap outta me. You ain't my babysitter, your my gf...you dont need to know where I am 24/7.

My EX-wife always wanting to know when I was going to be home from work with the car so she could take it out, with my paycheck and spend my money on her various boyfriends and staying out all night. Apparently our marriage interfered with her dating life so we split up. 3 1/2 of those 4 years were pretty annoying. Oh, and when her bi-polar mood swings would kick in and she was throwing the can of corn at my head because she changed her mind while I was at the store and wanted green beans instead, but wasn't able to tell me...yeah...that kinda annoyed me too.

Her apologizing now and wanting me back...well, that...that is priceless.

lol

for starters- he's VERY needy- like if I don't text him back immediately he freaks out (mind you, I have a 2 yr old and a full time job- i'm sorry I can't exactly text 24/7 - ) AND HE ALWAYS TELLS ME HIS EVERY MOVE... 'driving.' 'at work' 'leaving work' 'lunch' 'dinner' 'gym' .....so on and so forth- I mean- cool, I don't think i'd ever have to QUESTION where he's going b/c he TELLS ME .....but I really DON'T NEED TO KNOW EVERY SECOND OF YOUR DAY.... luckily, he hasn't started with the 'taking a s^it' yet but it still urks my nerves.....

My fiance has the exact opposite problem.. He won't answer his damn phone. Now, I'm not a needy human being. At all. It is not uncommon for me to wake up and go to work all day and not have any communication with him until I get home. That's just how it is. I'm at work.. I have nothing exciting to say.. Don't need to talk.

BUT LIKE THE ONE TIME THAT I NEED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT SOMETHING IMPORTANT HE WON'T ANSWER.

Why. Why. Why. Why. Why.

I don't call him over and over and over and over. I will text him once and if 30 minutes goes by, I'll call him. But he always forgets to take his phone off silent or he leaves it in the car or outside or whatever. It's not just me, either. His family and friends will text me asking if he's alive or not.

I mean, maybe it's a good thing he's not so dependant on his phone. I can't go anywhere without mine..

I am so so glad my husband is not that way (he wouldn't be my husband if he was) That would drive my crazy! If you were that way to him, I'm sure he would say that you were being clingy! You honestly don't need a report about every minute of the day, your busy with your life and have a child that you have to put first! It's good that he's a nice person but that doesn't mean anything if he keeps annoying you with his millions of text messages each day! If you were dating I'm sure you would find an increase in them!!!
One of the things I find annoying is that when i am busy I'm expected to drop everything for my husband when he wants to talk to me but I can't talk to him when he's busy! I do have a list of other things and I'm sure he does with me since we have been with each other for 8 years and know each others habits and flaws. If I couldn't deal with them though I wouldn't be with him!

I don't do needy.

And apparently I make guys feel insecure because they always turn needy on me.

I hear about girls who are texting every few seconds. Girls who are constantly calling. Girls who are constantly updating their SO's but not me. I tend to be a little TOO quiet... and then I get these guys who have to text me every second and check in ALL THE TIME and I dump them before the second date because I can't tolerate it. At all.

So ... where ARE the needy girls? Really? Because all I ever see are needy guys. :P

I am a Needy GF... but my BF travels alot like he will be gone for up to 2 months at a time so when he is home I expect him to make up for all the lost time. We work together we drive to work together and we live together, we also snowborad, bike, run, hike, and relax together.

for starters- he's VERY needy- like if I don't text him back immediately he freaks out (mind you, I have a 2 yr old and a full time job- i'm sorry I can't exactly text 24/7 - ) AND HE ALWAYS TELLS ME HIS EVERY MOVE... 'driving.' 'at work' 'leaving work' 'lunch' 'dinner' 'gym' .....so on and so forth- I mean- cool, I don't think i'd ever have to QUESTION where he's going b/c he TELLS ME .....but I really DON'T NEED TO KNOW EVERY SECOND OF YOUR DAY.... luckily, he hasn't started with the 'taking a s^it' yet but it still urks my nerves.....

My fiance has the exact opposite problem.. He won't answer his damn phone. Now, I'm not a needy human being. At all. It is not uncommon for me to wake up and go to work all day and not have any communication with him until I get home. That's just how it is. I'm at work.. I have nothing exciting to say.. Don't need to talk.

BUT LIKE THE ONE TIME THAT I NEED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT SOMETHING IMPORTANT HE WON'T ANSWER.

Why. Why. Why. Why. Why.

I don't call him over and over and over and over. I will text him once and if 30 minutes goes by, I'll call him. But he always forgets to take his phone off silent or he leaves it in the car or outside or whatever. It's not just me, either. His family and friends will text me asking if he's alive or not.

I mean, maybe it's a good thing he's not so dependant on his phone. I can't go anywhere without mine..

Maybe he is busy with his girlfriend

But I'm the only one allowed to have girlfriends.

I wonder if he gets annoyed that you don't know how to spell 'irk'?

F! That sucks, I am such a grammar nazi too, and I hate when I spell words incorrectly. Oh well, can't always be right. Thanks though, changed it.

What annoys me:

When people use the abbreviation DH or DW to refer to their spouse. "Oh hey honey I love you enough to call you dear but not enough to write the whole thing out"

Comments on cooking sites. "OMG this scampi is so good! I just made a few little changes: used beef instead of shrimp, added some tomato sauce and oregano, and served it over angel hair pasta. YUM!!!!!!"

On a similar note: Rachel Ray. "OMG these delish sammies with EVOO are totally yummo!"

People who refuse to let you change lanes on the highway. "What's that? He's turning on his turn signal? BETTER SPEED UP DERP"

People who make get video game facts wrong. "LIEK MY BOYFRIEND PLAYS GAMES ALL THE TIME, HE PLAYS MADDEN ON HIS PLAYSTATION 360."

Oh you meant things about my significant other. Nope, can't think of a thing.