Weird?

Not weird as long as you are up front about your marital status and reasons.

I like to cruise the diaries of other men to see what I could feed my own man without him turning his nose up at it. As long as both parties have innocent then no harm done

I'm married w/ guy friends on here. I don't see a problem with it as long as no one on my list is trying to look for a hook up.
Actually, I like looking at guys diaries for ideas at home w/ the hubby.

No it's not weird at all - I joined this site with my partner and we both have other people on ours. Everyone's on this site for the same reason, either to lose weight or keep fit. Everyone likes some support and motivation and I'm sure no one would think you are creepy... Just a fellow poster on a similar journey

I don't see a problem with it. People seem to have forgotten what the word "Platonic" means these days.

I don't see a problem with it. People seem to have forgotten what the word "Platonic" means these days.

I totally agree.... my best friend (other than my husband) is a guy, and sometimes the odd looks and comments I get are rather amusing. I'm completely secure in my marriage, my husband is probably the least jealous person you could ever meet, and I can't help it if I tend to get along better with men. It's probably because I was the son my father never had -- and I have two brothers! :laugh:

Not weird at all to me. Feel free to add me if you would like. I am a married woman of 23 yrs.

I don't think it's creepy, but if it makes your wife uncomfortable, don't do it.

Asks the guy with the creepy handlebar mustahce picture. LOL. I can kid becuase you are already mine....add away!!

Nope- support can come from either sex, religious or sexual affiliation, ethnicity, or size. This is just a place to come to have people to cheer you on and answer questions, share tips, and be there for each other. I don't think I've seen anyone use this to even try to date. If you feel uncomfortable, you can always get your wife to get an account and add you as a friend- then she'll see all you do. But I'm sure she trusts you.

Not weird at all....you can get motivation from both sexes. And each one can give a different perspective on things! I am married as well and wen through the same affliction , until my husband explained that same reason to me:)

I've got a few men friends and about a dozen lady friends. I didn't feel comfortable asking them, but through my replies to others posts, being open about my own weight loss, and a few well-chosen pictures of my dog or horse....the women eventually started asking me.
No flirting, just encouragement through the C25K running program or ideas for different foods and recipes, what works and what doesn't. The usual fitness related stuff. Its fine to have friends of all genders.

I have both male and female friends in my friends list, married and single, young and old...I have requested alot of my friends because they have similar goals and I feel I can benefit from their experience and knowledge, others I have requested because I have been where they are at and I feel I can help support them...some of my friends are just fun and I couldn't imagine how boring this would be without them...lol

It's more about support, there are people on here for a variety of reasons, (bulild muscle, lose weight, overcome physical injuries, clean eating) it's beneficial to find people who have goals in the same areas because you can learn so much from them, but there are alot of great people on here that are just willing to support you just because they are great supporters..lol.

If you still feel uncomfortable about it, only request to be friends with women that are out of state, it may give you a little bit of a security barrier.

Hope this helps