Suddenly single......
jazzalea
Posts: 412 Member
ok why am I at home alone on a friday night looking THIS freaking good and suddenly single???? why can't I go downtown and just have fun???? why did I lose all this weight just to be alone????.... and no I'm not down.... and I"m not feeling sorry for myself... I just don't know how to actually do it!.... I've always been the ""big" girl... the one who babysat for everyone else while THEY went out.... have I missed my chance???
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WOW!!!!!! Your weight loss is awesome. You just need to go out with some friends and let loose it, you will fall into the scene again. So how long has it taken you to lose the weight? and did you have surgery or did u do it all with diet and exercise?0
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I just became single. Ex called off the wedding 2 months ago. So yeah don't feel too bad. Go out.. Don't you have friends? Go out and get pretty and guys will approach you. It's the easiest thing for a girl! May I suggest online dating too? It's pretty awesome!0
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ok why am I at home alone on a friday night looking THIS freaking good and suddenly single???? why can't I go downtown and just have fun???? why did I lose all this weight just to be alone????.... and no I'm not down.... and I"m not feeling sorry for myself... I just don't know how to actually do it!.... I've always been the ""big" girl... the one who babysat for everyone else while THEY went out.... have I missed my chance???
Why can't you?
Just go out.0 -
WOW!!!!!! Your weight loss is awesome. You just need to go out with some friends and let loose it, you will fall into the scene again. So how long has it taken you to lose the weight? and did you have surgery or did u do it all with diet and exercise?
poor man's way.... diet and exercise my friend.... no friends to go out with.... no idea how to just do it!.... losing weight was easy compared to this!0 -
no you have not missed your chance, you have to get out there and give yourself a chance, enjoy life and celebrate the great work you've done to be a healthy person.
congrats!!0 -
try meetup.com0
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I actually understand what you are going through and what you are feeling. I feel like I missedmy chance too. Even though Im only 27, I feel like its never going to happen to me ( love life, marriage etc)0
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You women are depressing me! Go out! :-p0
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Hey I'm 22, im a city of young people and here I am on a saturday, sitting around on MFP, I don't have any friends within a 3000km radius and sometimes it drives me up the wall, but at the end of the day I remember I dont like people and I stick to myself. It blows.0
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Never to late girl.. you are amazxing that weightloss is out of this world... and so gorgeous!! Im home on a friday night to... all my friends have dates..my date is wine..LOL0
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Just go! It was hard to do for me as well but I just went. I started with a local pub for dinner. Yes I ate alone however after I did it a few times it got easier. People got to know my name and before long I was making friends. Before I knew it I was out for the entire evening. Just do it! Good luck.0
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You have not missed your chance. YOUR TIME IS NOW!!! Put yourself out there and be proud of what you have done for yourself. You are amazing.0
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You women are depressing me! Go out! :-p
I would go out but I have no one to go out with. It's kinda weird going out alone
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I'm the same age as you darling and I am a married mother who still manages to go out and have fun. So no you have not missed your chance. You probably just need to go and practice being out there and enjoying yourself.0
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Salvadorian? Me too! :-)You women are depressing me! Go out! :-p
I would go out but I have no one to go out with. It's kinda weird going out alone0 -
i am so proud of you. Go out, look hot, have a drink, be around people come home. Simple!!0
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LOL it's not the size that matters but how you use it. Maybe you're annoying or have some string of personality issues. I frankly could care less about how good someone looks if they're totally lame, boring, rude, neurotic, etc.
Anyways friends and relationships are OVERRATED LOL.0 -
Start by going to a bar and grill type place... You can sit at the bar, dress up have a couple drinks and chat with whomever is at the bar. Much less pressure than going to a full out bar. And you can get comfortable in that situation make some "friends" and eventually you will be headed out for a night on the town with some friends...
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One thing I do a lot is travel alone and I have been to many places and met so many people. You just got to do it. The greatest things happen outside your comfort zone!0
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ok ok ok I'm going!...........
wish me luck!
fingers crossed and knee's shakng..... :drinker:0 -
It's like everything... Sometimes you find someone and sometimes you don't. But I can guarantee you that you can talk anyone at a bar... I've done it many times and I'm shy!0
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woohoo you go girl.. we want an update 0
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Yep, you go girl! I had to just go out to country western bars when I got separated, and it was fun. Get out, meet people, dance! Talk to the girls!!!! Meet some new girlfriends and you can arrange to go out with them again!0
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go put on that one outfit you feel absolutely amazing in and go burn up the town!!
you deserve to get out and have some fun!! 0 -
Just go out and do it! I understand the "I don't know how" complex. I had it until I was 23, thats right all through high school, back when I was skinny... But you just got to go out there and do it. It may be odd at first but you'll be fine and make friends along the way.0
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Same here. I want to go out but no one to go out with. Alot of my "friends" are only my friends because we've known each other from childhood not because we actually have something in common.You women are depressing me! Go out! :-p
I would go out but I have no one to go out with. It's kinda weird going out alone0 -
One thing I do a lot is travel alone and I have been to many places and met so many people. You just got to do it. The greatest things happen outside your comfort zone!
TRUE TRUE
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LOL it's not the size that matters but how you use it. Maybe you're annoying or have some string of personality issues. I frankly could care less about how good someone looks if they're totally lame, boring, rude, neurotic, etc.
Anyways friends and relationships are OVERRATED LOL.
your advice makes no logical sense.0 -
LOL it's not the size that matters but how you use it. Maybe you're annoying or have some string of personality issues. I frankly could care less about how good someone looks if they're totally lame, boring, rude, neurotic, etc.
Anyways friends and relationships are OVERRATED LOL.
your advice makes no logical sense.
that's why I kind of ignored it
and yes yes I'm going.... just wanted to say thanks for the encouragement! 0 -
I messaged you too but I remembered my friend lives where you do. She is a divorcee- maybe you can go out looking for fun with her. She is about 10 years old but she looks great and has been working at losing weight too.0
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