Breaking up is hard to do :-(
deniseearheart
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Well, here it is almost two weeks into it already :-( Life still pretty much sucks although I cry a lot less now ..... ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :-(
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So what was so great about him? Can you remind me what the scenario with you is pls?0
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Wasn't he a jerk royale? You are better off. Focus on the good. How's the job training going?0
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Dont feel too bad. It takes time. I broke up with my long term bf two months ago and am still mending... Try to remind yourself of all the bad things he did and then you remember how much better off you are! thats what I do! works every time. Hang in there!0
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So what was so great about him? Can you remind me what the scenario with you is pls?
Cause if this is the tool that left you high and dry with no funds and nowhere for you and your child to live.....f^ck him! (sorry if that's not you) I'd be MAD as f^ck, not sad.0 -
Sorry, I definitely know how that feels. Broke up after 5 years, and 4 months into it and I'm doing a lot better but still mending.
You will definitely get through this! Focus on yourself. Go out and have fun, try to distract yourself. Here for you if you need an ear.
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So what was so great about him? Can you remind me what the scenario with you is pls?
Keep reminding yourself why you left. No one deserves to be treated like your were.0 -
It was just about 2 years before I started to feel better after ending my marriage of 20 years.
I still have my moments but I think about how much better I am without him and all his drama, emotional crap and that improves my mood.
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OP come back! LOL! I can't remember your scenario!0
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So what was so great about him? Can you remind me what the scenario with you is pls?
Cause if this is the tool that left you high and dry with no funds and nowhere for you and your child to live.....f^ck him! (sorry if that's not you) I'd be MAD as f^ck, not sad.
it is the same guy but we were only separated 24 hours (I did not have my child with me that night) before he came and helped me... He put my son and I in a hotel until I can afford my own place etc.... So he is helping me...0 -
So what was so great about him? Can you remind me what the scenario with you is pls?
Cause if this is the tool that left you high and dry with no funds and nowhere for you and your child to live.....f^ck him! (sorry if that's not you) I'd be MAD as f^ck, not sad.
it is the same guy but we were only separated 24 hours (I did not have my child with me that night) before he came and helped me... He put my son and I in a hotel until I can afford my own place etc.... So he is helping me...
Denise, you and your son should not be in a motel with all the creepers outside.
You need to be in a house, with money, transportation. Being locked in a hotel room for days on end will drive you insane. He's not worth it. You're gorgeous. You will find a man that will treat you right and take care of you like you deserve.0 -
So what was so great about him? Can you remind me what the scenario with you is pls?
Cause if this is the tool that left you high and dry with no funds and nowhere for you and your child to live.....f^ck him! (sorry if that's not you) I'd be MAD as f^ck, not sad.
it is the same guy but we were only separated 24 hours (I did not have my child with me that night) before he came and helped me... He put my son and I in a hotel until I can afford my own place etc.... So he is helping me...
but the relationship has been going bad for about a year.. Still , I love him... I don't know other than I just love him.. A friend of mine yells at me and says " No Denise you did not really love him. you are in love with being in love" I want to scream at her. How does she know my heart....0 -
Topic: Breaking up is hard to do :-(
Waking up is hard to do and sleeping is impossible to do. everything is reminding me of you.. listen to maroon50 -
Ugh......be MAD girl.....not sad! Anger will drive you to make change and succeed and NEVER put yourself in a situation like that again! What a f^cking tool bag. Do not waste one more second being sad.....be glad you were shown the light!!!!0
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If you can love a man that slimy, I recommend therapy. You need to build your self esteem! You are better than this!0
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I think therapy is a great idea. Honestly.
Get your life together and work for you and your son.
Only when you love yourself and see how this man was not good for you and you did not love him, will you truly be loved like you deserve.0 -
Sizzle is right...0
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And I am certain there must be therapists in your area that are no cost/low cost.0
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No one can tell you how to feel; it's hard to walk away from love even if parts of it are destructive. No One, I repeat No One has walked in your shoes. I highly recommend counseling to help you work through this. Best of luck ♥0
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Sizzle is right...
:flowerforyou: Man....after that jacked up night on your thread, that feels really good.
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Sizzle is right...
:flowerforyou: Man....after that jacked up night on your thread, that feels really good.
Try replying to my PM!0 -
Sizzle is right...
:flowerforyou: Man....after that jacked up night on your thread, that feels really good.
Try replying to my PM!
I didn't get one! I think the in boxes have been jacked up today! Resend??0 -
No one can tell you how to feel; it's hard to walk away from love even if parts of it are destructive. No One, I repeat No One has walked in your shoes. I highly recommend counseling to help you work through this. Best of luck ♥
Yes maybe I do. I might just be F'd in the head .The relationship has not always been bad. We have been together 4 years. only the last year has been bad. I still love him and the great times we had together. I guess I am still in disbelief how the last year has been.. I don't know but grief counselling might be good for me.0 -
No one can tell you how to feel; it's hard to walk away from love even if parts of it are destructive. No One, I repeat No One has walked in your shoes. I highly recommend counseling to help you work through this. Best of luck ♥
Yes maybe I do. I might just be F'd in the head .The relationship has not always been bad. We have been together 4 years. only the last year has been bad. I still love him and the great times we had together. I guess I am still in disbelief how the last year has been.. I don't know but grief counselling might be good for me.
25% is a large portion of a relationship.0 -
Sizzle is right...
:flowerforyou: Man....after that jacked up night on your thread, that feels really good.
Try replying to my PM!
I didn't get one! I think the in boxes have been jacked up today! Resend??
Can you hear me now?0 -
Hang in there my friend. Take care of yourself and definitely look into counseling. Prayers to you ♥0
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Well, here it is almost two weeks into it already :-( Life still pretty much sucks although I cry a lot less now ..... ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :-(
So is this a 2-week stand?0 -
She means that it has been two weeks since they broke up, not that they have only been together for two weeks...0
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She means that it has been two weeks since they broke up, not that they have only been together for two weeks...
I see now. Thank you.
Find a rebound.0 -
She means that it has been two weeks since they broke up, not that they have only been together for two weeks...
I see now. Thank you.
Find a rebound.
haha ya that is what I hear to do .... I don't know LOL0 -
You are not defined by a man. You are not defined by your heartbreak.
You are defined by how you pick up the pieces and move on now with your head held high.0
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