he doesnt like me cos im fat

Better to be Happy and Single, then Together and Miserable!

No one wo makes you feel bad, in anyway, is worth your time.

Get rid of him, and focus on you!

You are your number one priority!

If someone doesn't like you - move on, there are bound to be plenty of other people who do.

And remember that losing weight isn't a guarantee of happiness. Getting to a healthy weight is a great thing to do - I wish I'd done it years ago, BUT seeing a different number on the scale doesn't change who you are or automatically make you happier. That is a whole different journey!

Judging by the fact you seem to be 15 years old, you should really go and talk with resources people in your school about self-image issues. It's quite important to have a strong self-esteem, and you definitely can get help in that department, no need to lose weight before starting working on that front.

Then, get in touch with PT teachers or trainers/nurses, they will have more relevant information for you than these boards, which are aimed at adults losing weight, which is quite different.

Good luck...

if that pic is u...... u need medical attention if u think ur fat... other wise... if they think ur fat..u dont want them any how...

You sound VERY young. The person who you're with is I'm sure still an immature little teenager. If he isn't then he is acting like it. You're too young to put up with this from someone. I say dump him there are plenty of better people you can be with. Also get some help you obviously have emotional/self esteem issues, nothing wrong with it but it's better to address it now

Also try the website teenhelp.org I used to work for them I think it could help you a more appropriate place to seek help then a fitness site, good luck!

i feel like a failure im too fat to be loved with the ugliest personality trying to lose weight and e happy for the past 3 years getting no where i feel like dying now what can i do ?

Move on. Find a new guy. World isn't ending.

He's a loser that doesn't see the real you. Drop him!
My boyfriend loves me at the weight I am NOW and the only thing he wants for both of us is BETTER HEALTH!

I can't wait to knock him out with my new body! :happy: :laugh:

Do not let yourself be defined by the numbers on the scale or by how you look (easier said than done, I know). You have value and worth just because you are you. God created you and gave you life; that automatically gives you value and worth.
Maybe try to focus on loving yourself and being the best you that you can be, not trying to focus on getting to a certain goal weight or looking a certain way.
And part of that journey of getting healthy can certainly be meeting with a dietician or nutritionist and moving more (just go on walks), but the focus needs to be HEALTH, not looks.
Hang in there, and good luck.
And by the way, whoever that guy was, he sounds like a jerk.

Oh, and PLEASE do not take T7OMFD's advice. That's vulgar and will not solve anything.

Losing weight wont make you happy. Trust me. I was unhappy before, decided to lose weight to make myself happy, went too far, now in recovery from anorexia and hate my body/self more then I did when I was overweight.

Truthfully - if anyone isn't interested in you, for WHATEVER reason: forget them. If they don't like you, then you're not worth their time and they certainly aren't worth anymore of your energy.

So how do you forget them? Simple: make a list of every positive thing about yourself. You're cool because .... etc.
If you can't make the list, talk to your friends and family and have them help you.
Do something you really love. Find a new hobby. Learn to play an instrument. If you're uncomfortable with how you look take up a sport.
Get involved in some kind of group. Go to a church youth group. Volunteer somewhere with other people. Join some kind of club.
Remind yourself how awesome you are everyday.
Take care of yourself. Give yourself the best of everything (within your means).
Don't be shy. Be outgoing. Tell jokes. Dance more. Be kind. Encourage others. Stand up for yourself.

Eventually, you'll find someone who is into you because they see exactly how amazing you are; in the meantime, you'll be having so much fun you'll forget about this guy.

Are you sure its your weight thats the problem? Because it seems like your self-esteem that needs a little bit more work...

Being overweight does not= ugly personality....

If you don't love yourself its not exactly fair for someone to fall for you unconditionally.

i feel like a failure im too fat to be loved with the ugliest personality trying to lose weight and e happy for the past 3 years getting no where i feel like dying now what can i do ?

Will losing weight honestly bring happiness to your life? Or will finding someone else that truly values and loves you for who you are going to bring you true happiness?

This^

Therapy

If someone doesn't like you - move on, there are bound to be plenty of other people who do.

And remember that losing weight isn't a guarantee of happiness. Getting to a healthy weight is a great thing to do - I wish I'd done it years ago, BUT seeing a different number on the scale doesn't change who you are or automatically make you happier. That is a whole different journey!

^ This is so true. Everyone (including myself) needs to work on the physical, mental, psychological and spiritual.