How many calories should each meal be?

i've read places that meals should not be larger than 300 calories but it's hard to eat that little per meal and feel full... tonight i had an 800 calorie dinner once all the fruits were counted up that i ate along with dinner (i decided to eat a large dinner bc i was feeling really weak and cramped at the gym). geez... so how many calories do YOU think each meal should be, personally?

also how many calories ARE your meals?
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  • SideSteel
    SideSteel Posts: 11,068 Member
    I think you should base this entirely on personal preference and gym performance.
  • NareenaTheGypsy
    NareenaTheGypsy Posts: 475 Member
    What I've done is take my daily # of cals I am allotted and divide them by four. I am a snacker and I can't give that up. If I do I am bound for failure. Believe me, I've tried (past diets, etc). Anyway, what I do is divide the cals by 4. 1/4 for breakfast, 1/4 for lunch, 1/4 for dinner and 1/4 for my snacking throughout the day (mid-morning, mid-afternoon and after dinner usually). It's not an exact amount, as there are times I'll have a lighter breakfast and lunch so I can have my "guilty" dinner (anything over 500 cals usually). If I come in a bit under par for that meal, I know I can spread it a bit more through the rest of the day.

    By all means, it's nothing exact. Often, I find eating a lighter breakfast and mid-sized lunch means I don't snack as much though. Since I am trying to keep my portion sizes small, snacking between meals works better for me in that regard.
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,419 Member
    I really have to have one meal every day that is more than 600 calories. So I usually have a 400 cal breakfast, some little snacks through the day and then a big meal about four hours before bed. Otherwise I never feel full and happy.
  • SongDragon
    SongDragon Posts: 205 Member
    I like to use 200-250 for breakfast to get going. Lunch I generally have as a series of snacks, such as a fruit at noon, then a yogurt at two. Maybe string cheese somewhere in there. Then dinner is whatever is left over. I especially need this if I'm going out. Other times I spend dinner to see what I can get away with. Sometimes it's avocado on toast and other times it's a couple of plums and a hard-boiled egg.
  • RunAlyndaRun
    RunAlyndaRun Posts: 162 Member
    i have my day set up by time frames (6-8 am, 8-11, etc.) since I'm more of a snacker than a meal eater. I tend to eat between 1700-2000 calories per day (depending on exercise), so I try to keep each time frame around 300-400 calories. Some are over and others under. It just depends on the day. Some times I'll have a big meal if we go out or something, but they are almost always under 500. I find that if I eat 300 calories or so every three hours (ish) then i don't get REALLY hungry at all.

    You have to do what works for you:-) There are a million ways to make this work and what works for one person may not work for you:-)
  • Amy911Gray
    Amy911Gray Posts: 685 Member
    Small for breakfast (133), a snack at mid-morning (100), lunch at noon (400), snack at 3 (200), and dinner (500-600). And most days, a snack before bed (140).

    Sometimes more sometimes less--and usually with a tablespoon of peanut butter (95) during lunch making time.
  • BlackTimber
    BlackTimber Posts: 230 Member
    I don't like the feeling of being really full, so I divide my total calories for the entire day by 6 ~even meals. Ends up somewhere between 300 and 400 each. I also try to compensate from one meal to the next, eating more or less depending on what I ate for the previous meal. Everyone is different though.
  • Muscles_Curves
    Muscles_Curves Posts: 385 Member
    I try to have a large breakfast (450-500), medium lunch (350-400) and a small-ish dinner (300-400). It all depends on how many calories I burn. I have 3 snacks a day and each can range from 50-250 cals each. I lose consistently. I hope this helps.
  • monicalosesweight
    monicalosesweight Posts: 1,173 Member
    I usually do three larger meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) and two snacks. I find that if I spread it out over the day I seem to feel less hungry. I also seem to have more energy. I've noticed since switching to the smaller meals I now can't eat a bigger one without feeling sorta bloated and nasty.
  • stines72
    stines72 Posts: 853 Member
    tahnks so much for your input everyone. it really is hard to make meals fit a specific calorie goal like 300... i think i'll try the dividing thing
  • Michellereducf
    Michellereducf Posts: 168 Member
    I just aim for a daily total. Losing weight is hard enough without turning every meal into a mathematical equation.
  • Graelwyn75
    Graelwyn75 Posts: 4,404 Member
    I tend to go to bed in the early hours so my breakfast is before bed, as a bedtime snack and I then don't tend to eat until late afternoon when I have worked out, usually just a few snacks. Then I have a proper dinner. My before bed meal averages around 400-500 calories, my daytime snacks come to around 400-600calories, and my dinner is between 400 and 600 calories. I am on maintenance.I don't plan out how many calories I will have, I would find that too taxing and inhibiting.
  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,487 Member
    This is my struggle - to be at my max calories for the day I should be eating no more than 300 per meal, but it is so hard! My family has started making dinner too which makes it worse because my dinners are now much higher than I would cook so I need to cut down my breakfast and lunch even more.

    I took my total cals and divided by 4 to see what I should have per meal - 300 per meal max and 2 150 cal snacks...
  • Jester522
    Jester522 Posts: 392
    It doesnt matter. As long as you reach your macros for the day.
  • Lift_hard_eat_big
    Lift_hard_eat_big Posts: 2,278 Member
    I just had. 3,100 calorie dinner. Does that mean I wasted my money on 2,800 calories worth of food?
  • Jester522
    Jester522 Posts: 392
    EPIC!!!!!

    Get big.
  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
    I think you should base this entirely on personal preference and gym performance.

    ^^

    I do intermittent fasting because I really like to eat one or two big meals and a few little snacks, or some days like today, I literally ate all my calories in 2 big meals (with a coffee shake that barely counts separately). That's what makes me feel best!
  • Crystal_Pistol
    Crystal_Pistol Posts: 750 Member
    I eat 1700-1900 calories a day. I sometimes compete with one of my male pals on meal size. My proatmeal breakfast has almond butter in it and clocks in around 700 calories. I can knock out 1K+ EASILY if I go to Chic-Fil-A.

    Daily cals (that is actually not true, it is more of trend range over time), but let's just say DAILY cals, not per meal. Maintain a deficit= you're fine.
  • WilmaDennis91
    WilmaDennis91 Posts: 433 Member
    Having a big breakfast helps your metabolism for the day. So it could be eggs, bowl of cereal with yogurt, or whatever you like to eat for breakfast. And for lunch, it should be something healthy, enough to get you to dinner, along with a good snack. But for dinner, I heard it should be small. But depending what is it.
  • Breakfast/lunch/tea 350 and morning and afternoon snack 150 each
  • MissNations
    MissNations Posts: 513 Member
    I have pretty much the same breakfast every day & it comes in around 300. Lunch and dinner vary. I like to have a beer with dinner so I try to leave the bulk of my calories for dinner. We mostly eat at home but if we do go out it is usually for dinner. I might have 300 breakfast, 300 lunch, 950 dinner and 250 snacks.
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  • I just aim for a daily total. Losing weight is hard enough without turning every meal into a mathematical equation.

    i like your thinking
  • sharleengc
    sharleengc Posts: 792 Member
    I think it depends on you and your preferences. I typically have 200 for breakfast, 300 for lunch, 500-600 for dinner and then about 200-300 left over for snacks. That works fine for me. My 200 breakfast gets me to lunch and my lunch gets me to dinner. That is my average, not a set number.

    I have never been a breakfast person and prefer to be awake a few hours before eating. However, with my current job I don't have any break to eat until lunch time so I just keep it small to make it to lunch. That's the only reason my breakfast is small.

    On weekends, I really only eat twice a day so breakfast/lunch is bigger and dinners about the same but I have more snacks...
  • gaylynn35
    gaylynn35 Posts: 854 Member
    bump
  • shaleasymphony
    shaleasymphony Posts: 172 Member
    well here's a method.

    say your going for 3 meals and 2 snacks a day and say you have 1200 cal limit

    divide 1200 by 4 which you get 300.

    so have 3 meals for 300 cals and 2 snacks a day worth 150 each.

    take away from some to add more to a meal or shake your *kitten* and burn some cals to add 100 extra cals to turn one of those snack into a piece of cake haha
  • cbirdso
    cbirdso Posts: 465 Member
    I am still trying to lose about 4 pounds and this is my guide. On the days I eat more (i.e. more exercise) I increase two or more meals. On my sedentary days, I reduce my lunch and dinner by a hundred or so. Sometimes, I skip snacks, but I try not to because it makes me hungry later and it is difficult to keep within my target range. Also, eating more in one sitting (combining snacks with meals) makes me feel hungrier so I try to avoid doing that, too. To some people it might seem like a lot, but it has worked for me - I hate being hungry!
    380 breakfast
    170 snack
    500 lunch
    150 snack
    400 dinner
    200 bedtime
    1800 Total
  • I am still trying to lose about 4 pounds and this is my guide. On the days I eat more (i.e. more exercise) I increase two or more meals. On my sedentary days, I reduce my lunch and dinner by a hundred or so. Sometimes, I skip snacks, but I try not to because it makes me hungry later and it is difficult to keep within my target range. Also, eating more in one sitting (combining snacks with meals) makes me feel hungrier so I try to avoid doing that, too. To some people it might seem like a lot, but it has worked for me - I hate being hungry!
    380 breakfast
    170 snack
    500 lunch
    150 snack
    400 dinner
    200 bedtime
    1800 Total
  • Well said, I need to do something like this, it seems I either eat about the same daily or go to snacks later which I think does not help my loss. I know you stick pretty close to what you have here.
  • Arexxx
    Arexxx Posts: 486 Member
    Mine are all about 400-450 =]

    Plus a few snacks about 100-200 calories. I'm losing weight just fine, and dont feel hungry