New life is making weight loss very difficult, need help!

It happens sometimes. Focus on small changes that you can adopt one at a time, and add them in when you can.

Try googling once-a-week cooking or monthly cooking - lots of ideas for make & take meals, generally better than prepackaged or fast food. (Well, not tater tot casserole. Use your judgement.)

Get a tub of protein powder and make breakfast smoothies - fine to make them the night before, takes 5-10 minutes including cleanup. Powder, milk, frozen fruit, veg. Done!

Teaching is standing up, right? So that's better than a desk job already. If you can, take a walk during your lunch break (if you get one) - even 10 minutes is better than none.

I don't know many car exercises, but try paying attention to your posture while driving. You will be surprised how much it engages your core. And you might not lose weight, but hey, at least you'll be standing up straight, and that's slimming.

Good luck!

You'll get some good tips but I think you need to ask yourself if this is actually a sustainable lifestyle. I'm sure you have good reasons for your choices but all I think reading it is "something's gotta give ".

Good luck.

No apologies necessary! We are just lucky you had a moment to breathe to even type this girl!

First, just know that your body composition is 80% food and 20% exercise...so while it would be terrific if you could fit something in ~~~> like with the boyfriend, your weight loss is not totally dependent on it!

My first thought is that in your off-time...cook! Healthy things! It could become a FUN hobby! That's what I did way back in the day!

Go shopping once a week and get the good stuff: veggies, salad stuff, easy to cook meats, eggs...you CAN do this...all of us had to learn NEW ways of doing our lives AND I think YOU can too!

:flowerforyou:

Check out my dairy if you want I like easy stuff.

For breakfast I do a protein smoothie or instant oatmeal and a hard boiled egg (for protein).
The English muffin isn't a bad start try adding some protein peanut butter or maybe fat free cream cheese

Lunch is often lowfat greek yogurt I often throw in granola but you have to watch there isn't a ton of sugar so its just a handful for crunch if you're watching sugar and have the calories/fat I also like to toss in slivered almonds for crunch. A cup of grapes and cubed cantalope (I cut on Saturday and portion it out just grab a bag or container and go.) then maybe some mini rice cakes and a string cheese for a snacks.

All of this can go in a little cooler and be carried anywhere and you probably get more calories per day than I do (I'm a shortie and closer to my goal weight so I have a pretty low goal).

If you have to do frozen or quick for dinner watch the sodium...try to stick to sandwiches and salads if you have to eat out.

As for exercise what kind of school? elementary, middle or HS? do you have a recess or teacher prep hour? If so pack some tennis shoes and go for a nice brisk walk you'd be surprised how many calories you can burn in 30 minutes just walking.

I second the protein shake suggestion. I bought a Ninja blender with the single serve cups - best investment I could have made. Frozen banana, chocolate protein powder, unsweetened almond milk, pulse a few times and I'm out the door with breakfast in hand. I divide and freeze fruits and veggies for my protein shakes into individual servings. Great way to "save" produce that's getting close to going bad too. Almond milk is lower on calories (but lacking the extra protein) but the big plus is being able to buy extra boxes that are stored in the pantry so you always have it on hand.

Several days a week I don't make it home early enough to enjoy dinner at home. So I will try to pack something in my lunch box that I take to work that I can eat/drink in the car. Premixed protein smoothies, a wrap with turkey, cheese and some veggies, Protein bars (watch the sugar and carb content on them), and I always have a serving or two of nuts and seeds mix (cashew, almonds, sunflower, pepita, raisins, etc) in my purse and car.

As far as fast food....not a whole lot that can be considered good. Heck even the salads at some joints are worse that the big mac, fries and soda you could have had. If you must do fast food - do your homework first on their website looking at the nutrition content. The books "Eat this, not that" are very educational....and entertaining.

As far as weekend with the boyfriend, time to change those habits and fit the healthy eating into your routine.

As someone else said, work in one or two small things at a time, until they become natural, then add another one or two. You can do this!!! Good luck!!

I am a substitute teacher, too. I don't work a second job, but I do have two little kidlets so that is almost a second job.

I usually make refrigerator oatmeal the night before (oatmeal, water or milk, dried fruit, nuts, etc.) and it's ready the next morning. I make a loaf of bread into peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and freeze them. The trick with the PB and J is to put peanut butter on both slices of bread and the jelly in the middle. Then the jelly doesn't make the bread soggy. I put one into my lunch in the am, and it thaws by lunch. I also pack a water, cheese stick, and an apple for the rest of my lunch. I eat a snack with my kids in the afternoon. I also pack healthy snacks into my bag so if I get hungry I will eat that instead of something out of a vending machine. I try to pack luna bars, whole wheat crackers, all natural popcorn, etc. I try to think ahead on that one.

Dinner for me is usually something I throw in the crockpot in the am before I head out the door, like a veggie soup or beans and rice or something easy. You might want to make a big meal and freeze portions as someone else mentioned.

Frozen low fat turkey burgers take 10 min. in a skillet. You can grill onions, buy thin slice cheese, add whatever you like. I cook them 2-3 at a time for the next couple of days.
Heat refried beans and warm a tortilla.
I buy cooked chicken, cut in pieces and freeze. 1 min. thaw in the microwave.
Sweet potato microwaved
Frozen vegetables, 5 min. microwaved

For junk food craving:
Pop Chips
Lean Cuisine pizza is pretty good.
Hebrew Nat'l Fat Free hotdogs @ 40 cals each, topped with turkey chili. They freeze well.

There are online nutrition sites for McDonalds and any fast food, but even the low cal choices are packed with sodium and chemicals. You can cook fast food just as fast and make it healthful. Tastes better too. You can make your own Egg McMuffin.

Sometimes life throws us through a loop, but you can get back on track. I definitely know what you're feeling though. In the last month I have moved into my own place, got a car, and my co-worker quit so I got a full time position (7days a week) until this week (now 5 days a week).

It has really helped to make things in bulk. Like I'll make a bunch of meatballs at one time and freeze them in portion size bags and defrost them the night before for my boyfriend and I, so that when I get home all I have to do is make the pasta, heat up the sauce, and add the meatballs. I do this with soups too.

It also helps to precut your veggies and prep fruit ahead of time so you can just grab what you need and toss something today.

I have became a fan of theyummylife.com. She has overnight oatmeals and oatmeal smoothies that you can make in bulk and freeze. They're really good and perfect for when you're on the run. I personally love the smoothies! She also has something for McMuffin Copycats, which I have made and my boyfriend loves. You bake the eggs and assemble the muffin sandwiches adn either refridge or freeze them until eating.

Once you get your system down and if you like to have regular or similar meals each week, it's easy to put these things in the MFP recipe builder and save for later.

EDIT: I also find things that you can bake very handy. For example, will defrost chicken breast and bake it for about 30 minutes at 350 with veggies around it. while it is cooking, I'll take the time to pick up the house or work on something else that I need to do. It really helps for making a healthy meal. Only con is you have to wait for it to cook, but I find it worth it some nights when I get home late and don't wnat to cook, I just toss it in and do a craft to relax while it cooks.

Wow really good suggestions here!! diddo on the shake smoothies for breakfast you can ever grab it and drink it on the road and as much as I hate to admit (cuz I hate doing it!!) taking a hour or so to prep your food on the weekend is CRUTIAL to make sure you eat better during the week, cut your veggies, fruits etc.. and put in portion containers/baggies so in the morning it's grab and go.
I started boiling my chicken breast I cut it in pieces and freeze in baggies I bring in my lunch to add to a salad or make a quickk wrap with hummus.
The crock pot is your friend! use it, look on Pinterest for great preparation ideas that you bag up in your freezer and stick in the crock pot in the morning.
and...if you have to eat out just be careful, have sauce/dressing on the side and get just a sandwich no sides! (no cookies, chips or fries!) and drink water.
Best of luck!

ziplock steamer bags should be your friend! you can have a yummy chicken and veggie meal in no time and much more filling than those yucky frozen meals. And really it comes down to choices and no excuses. don't make them (excuses) and don't take your own excuses. they will only make you fat.

How much do you enjoy your night job? Is it worth it? Is their something closer to home? Even if it is a slight pay cut, the 1-3 hours it seems you spend on commute would make up for gas and sanity and allow you more free time.

On a weekend make one very large breakfast frittata, you can find healthy recipes on line. Freeze most of it, and then microwave as you go. Eggs can give you a good amount of protein, and being hot, will keep you fuller, longer.

Lunches
Prep a salad that will last 3 days and in a separate container put in chopped veggies to agg through the week.

A baked ziti gives you an opportunity to add in a LOT of veggies you normally have a hard time adding in.
Chili is another dish. Make one huge meal of both and freeze for a few weeks. Thaw 2 or 3 at at time so you have a choice.

There are lots of healthy soups you can get as well.

Investing in containers is your best route. There are a few "boil, heat and eat" meals out there to take advantage of. Spinach and cheese ravioli with marinara is good.

Good luck, cooking for 2 weeks at a time will allow you to have 2 free weekends and some hearty meals along the way. Get in extra water, too

This is Interesting,

I have heard from multiple "professional" sources (podcasts, books, etc.) that weightloss is anywhere between 75 and 90% DIET and that exercise is a good way to speed along the process and make your skinnier body look better, however it is much more about what you eat.

That being said, it is all about preplanning. Your day sounds completely exhausting, and I don't blame you for being stressed out and wanting to just stop at a fast food restaurant and go the easier route.

As others have said before, you can even spend one afternoon a month preparing most of your food (chicken etc) and freezing, and then a very short amount of time the other Sundays preparing some of the more perishable foods. Get some freezer containers and prepare a bunch of frozen healthy meals. There is a podcast called Fat2Fit that I HIGHLY recommend, and one of the guys prepares over 40 meals at a time!!

There are many snacks that you can just put in your trunk as well as a case of water for those times that you are needing a snack and can just throw something in your purse. For example, Emerald almonds have lots of different flavors that are super yummy. You can either pre-portion them, or there are 100 calorie packs you can buy as well. I just keep an entire container in my purse (I have a big purse haha) and when I get hungry I grab a small handful.

Finally, I suggest downloading some podcasts for your long rides. Jillian Michaels, Fat2Fit Radio, etc. Some may disagree with certain advice, etc. but it will keep your mind in the right place and always keep you aware that you really do want to be making those better decisions.

Good luck!