What's your deal breaker?
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Bad Kisser
No sense of humor
No sense of the ridiculous
Horrible in bed
No self respect
Bad with money
Bad driver
in other words anyone with a passing resemblance to my ex-wife...0 -
LMAO, nice :-)Bad Kisser
No sense of humor
No sense of the ridiculous
Horrible in bed
No self respect
Bad with money
Bad driver
in other words anyone with a passing resemblance to my ex-wife...0 -
- Dumb
- No personality
- Shorter than 5"10
- Insults me (some guys do this as a form of flirting. I do not respond to it.)
- Flirts with other women in front of me
- Doesn't like dogs
- Tries to change me
- No sense of humour0 -
Married People
"Hood" dudes
Saggy Pants (when i can see your boxers)
Bad Tippers
Texting while driving
Facebook Fanatics
and I mean this in a dating sense,0 -
- Stupidity, I like my men with a brain.
- No sense of humour, I like boys that are cheeky & funny.
- Wearing jeans and running shoes together and unless he's beyond perfect , I don't like guys under 6ft.
- And has to be a good hugger & kisser! Because I love kisses & hugs more than anything x0 -
Bad hygiene
Bad teeth
Smoker
Dumb (no long term intellectual stimulation)
Rude to others
I am sure there are many others0 -
a snitch or a wimp0
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This is going to sound nuts, but I actually have an Excel spreadsheet made up of 107 qualities a guy must have (for me). I came up with it when I was single, because I was tired of dating guys who I should have known earlier would not be a good match. Not all 107 qualities are deal breakers, but here are some that are:
- smoker
- can't make me laugh
- doesn't get along with my family or friends
- does drugs
- doesn't like to travel
- gambles
- has significant debt/money problems0 -
Stupidity
Close minded
Laziness
Boring0 -
Smoker is definitely on the list. Also lack of intelligence.
Can't be obese. Was engaged to an obese man....he died from heart disease.
And no one pining for his ex. Why you would date ANYONE when you feel like that is beyond me.0 -
Bad Kisser
No sense of humor
No sense of the ridiculous
Horrible in bed
No self respect
Bad with money
Bad driver
in other words anyone with a passing resemblance to my ex-wife...
No offense....but why did you marry her?0 -
She was probably banging:laugh:Bad Kisser
No sense of humor
No sense of the ridiculous
Horrible in bed
No self respect
Bad with money
Bad driver
in other words anyone with a passing resemblance to my ex-wife...
No offense....but why did you marry her?0 -
Smoker #1
Poor sense of humor
Lack of energy (Lazy)
If he smacks his food, he has to go
Bad kisser
And I absolutely cannot stand a mama's boy!!!0 -
A few of mine are...
Your dog sleeps in bed with you
A deadbeat dad who thinks paying child support is "money for her"
If his cell phone is in his hand ALL the time to play games
When his cell phone isn't in hand, the latest sports game is on
Drug user (other than medical uses, I support TRUE needs for those purposes ONLY and it would need to be proven to me)
Money issues so bad he has to live with his parents/grandparents/ex's place
Gambling of any kind
Anyone who thinks my 1 or 2 glasses of wine a month are unacceptable
Anyone who did not accept and love my daughter like I do
I'm sure there are a jillion more, but those came to mind pretty quickly.
EA: He absolutely CANNOT chew with his mouth open OR talk with food in his mouth. Ew...just...EWWW!0 -
Funny as hell.
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She was probably banging:laugh:Bad Kisser
No sense of humor
No sense of the ridiculous
Horrible in bed
No self respect
Bad with money
Bad driver
in other words anyone with a passing resemblance to my ex-wife...
No offense....but why did you marry her?
^ This! I can relate...0 -
I could never date someone who is pro-life or anti-gay or anyone who thinks animals deserve to be tortured. So it's a good thing my fiance is NONE of those things.0
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Nickleback fan0
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Married People
"Hood" dudes
Saggy Pants (when i can see your boxers)
Bad Tippers
Texting while driving
Facebook Fanatics
and I mean this in a dating sense,
I totally agree with all of these!0 -
Nickleback fan
:laugh: Their earlier stuff wasn't that bad!0 -
Superficial:
- Bad Teeth
- Typical Wannabe/ Frat Douche/ Jersey Shore-esque Persona
- Height - must be taller than I am, ideally over 6 ft, so that I can wear heels
- Smoker
- Someone who is terrible at sex and not adventurous (not Christian Grey adventurous, but at least be willing to visit the lady garden)
Personality:
- Someone whose not passionate
- Someone who doesn't have a raunchy sense of humor
- Someone who is uptight
- Someone who is controlling
- Someone who has issues with spontaneity and trying new things0 -
Hypercritical and judgemental
plays head games
phony/insincere
superficial
overdramatic
lack of intelligence
hypochondriac
hates children
hates older people (frankly, anyone who categorically hates any group of people is not for me!)
Alcoholic or drug abuser
Gambles in any form
hates animals
refuses to travel
My biggest deal-breaker is someone who makes me feel terrible about myself. The first three fall under that category.0 -
I could never date someone who is close-minded0
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Ever hit me
Smoker
Selfish
Drug problem0 -
1.No sense of humor!
2.Bad teeth
3.If they are shorter than me (I am 5'3)
4.Rude
5.'Ghetto' guys0 -
Wow....all the people who say smokers. That's really sad. Granted, it's not the best of habits to have, but as a non-smoker who has been with a smoker for 8 years, it's not as horrible as one would think, especially if they make it a habit to brush their teeth often and smoke outside of the home. But I also come from a family of smokers, so this might be what swayed my decision to not care about it.
Deal breakers for me? Abusive personality. Alcoholism (real alcoholism, not the weekend drinker. My parents drink daily....I can't stand that....and it's *ALOT* daily).0 -
a snitch or a wimp
I'm LMAO at this! Greatest deal breaker ever hahaha0 -
Drugs and alcoholism, negative attitude, controling, abusive, lack of sense of humor, insensitive un-sympothetic, hateful in all forms, superficial, self absorbed!! The list could go on, but I don't have all night!!0
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Wow....all the people who say smokers. That's really sad. Granted, it's not the best of habits to have, but as a non-smoker who has been with a smoker for 8 years, it's not as horrible as one would think, especially if they make it a habit to brush their teeth often and smoke outside of the home. But I also come from a family of smokers, so this might be what swayed my decision to not care about it.
Deal breakers for me? Abusive personality. Alcoholism (real alcoholism, not the weekend drinker. My parents drink daily....I can't stand that....and it's *ALOT* daily).
My fiance is a smoker. He tries to quit, but something always happens where it's either he smokes, or he's unable to function. I've dated many smokers. It doesn't bother me because I've grown up in a house with a smoking mother and brother.0 -
If something happened to my husband these would be mine:
They cant be a smoker (as an ex-smoker I can't stand to be around it, I have a child and want more and don't want to raise my kids in a house hold with someone who smokes)
Does not like, love, and respect my son
Commits any type of abuse (duh)
Has no foundational faith (doesn't have to be a specific faith)
Makes less money than me (I'm currently in that situation and it causes a lot of difficulty, the female friends that I have in similar situations tell me that they experience the same, there's an insecurity that this situation seems to arouse in even some of the seemingly most secure men)
They must love dogs
They must get my sense of humor
They must be active, doesn't have to be the same activities I enjoy but the must be active and appreciate that I am active.
Parents vastly different from me. My husband and I parent similarly, but we agrees upon all parenting methods, and out of respect always compromise to the more conservative options when we don see eye to eye. If we parented very differently we wouldn't be parenting together at all.0
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