DepoShot - Ladies

cm1458
cm1458 Posts: 742 Member
edited January 2 in Health and Weight Loss
I have been on the depo shot since may. Since starting the shot, I haven't had even one period... I love that part!
But there are negatives that have started since starting the shot

Negatives
-My hair is falling out (not badly, but it is WAY thinner
-I am getting acne
-My hair breaks near the root and i am left with little (2-3inch long) twigs of hair that stick straight up
-I have started over-eating and craving foods and gained back 20 pounds
-I've noticed I am moody and irritable at times

I really like not having periods but I'm not so sure the negatives are worth it?
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  • I was on the depo shot years ago for about 3 years. When I went off of it, it took my body a long time to recover. I had my period for about 9 months, pretty much straight. I'd have it for 2 weeks, stop for maybe a week (if I were lucky), then again for another 2 weeks. It sucked and although it was convenient at my (young) age, it really sucked coming off of it.

    There's a lot of other alternatives these days to depo...where you only get your period every 2 or 3 months.
  • LittleBallofFurr
    LittleBallofFurr Posts: 242 Member
    Ive been on the depo shot for 3 years. I was really moody for the first 3-4 months and then it balanced out. Your hormones go wacky the week that you get it renewed, but other than that (and the occasional breakout) I have had no problems.
  • Garnet2727
    Garnet2727 Posts: 11 Member
    Depo works well for some women; not so well for others. I've been on Depo for 13 years without a single negative side effect. It's been a miracle drug for me. My periods were horrible; I'll spare everyone the gory details of that. On the other hand I have a friend who can't tolerate Depo at all. The negative side effects she encountered were just too much and she went off of it after the first shot. Instead, her doc put her on an oral form of birth control with a different hormonal mix. She just skips the placebo week and doesn't have a period at all.
  • 3dogsrunning
    3dogsrunning Posts: 27,167 Member
    It wasn't for me at all. The moodiness was bad enough but when I end up having a light period continuously (for like 3 weeks at a time) for which my dr prescribed Premarin for (more hormones, usually prescribed for menopause), I was out.
    I never liked the no period thing. I am paranoid I guess I like the reassurance when I get it.
  • invisibubble
    invisibubble Posts: 662 Member
    I was on the depo shot years ago for about 3 years. When I went off of it, it took my body a long time to recover. I had my period for about 9 months, pretty much straight. I'd have it for 2 weeks, stop for maybe a week (if I were lucky), then again for another 2 weeks. It sucked and although it was convenient at my (young) age, it really sucked coming off of it.

    Same experience here. No period for over a year, then 9 months of bleeding. Maybe a day or two's freedom here and there.

    Edited to say that I like my period to arrive properly as well. Freaks me out when it's not normal.
  • BelleHeart
    BelleHeart Posts: 281 Member
    I don't think that it's worth it! Getting your period only happens once a month and I know it stinks. But losing hair and gaining weight? I would rather deal with my girl problems.
  • blink1021
    blink1021 Posts: 1,115 Member
    I was on the deposhot for about 1 year back in 2000-2001. Gained 75lbs while on it and they pulled me off it. My husband also said I was a nightmare on it I guess I would just yell at him for random things at random times. I didn't notice he but he did. I also loved the fact that I did not have my period but when they pulled me off it it took 18 months for me to get back to normal and the first month that I had my period I ended up pregnant. I still haven't lost the weight I gained and 2 kids later it is going to be harder. I tried the Nuvaring back in 2005 and at first I liked it never gained a pound or had mood changes, but since I had a vaginal delivery with my first child the ring didn't like to stay in which I found out later is a problem with women who have had children. Birth control is a pain I think this time after I have this kid I am going to try an IUD. I do not take the pill because it causes my blood pressure to go screwy.
  • lunglady
    lunglady Posts: 526 Member
    I've been on it for >15 years (except for the break I took to have my son). I love it and haven't had any side effects. To me, it's magic.

    My sister on the other hand also complained of weight gain.

    it's hit or miss. I say this a s a woman and as a physician.
  • I've been on the shot now for about 6 months, and while never getting a period is pretty awesome, I have noticed that I tend to crave foods too. And binge eat. It's pretty bad, and I'm trying to find healthy coping mechanisms for when I want to binge. (Not sure if the bingeing is directly from the depo though.)
  • My daughter was born 15 years ago and I knew I didn't want anymore kids after her, I was 21. First thing I did was the depo shot. It was horrible, had all the side effects you mentioned. I went from 130 lbs to 172 lbs AFTER she was born on the shot and felt horrible, again, 21 years old. Went off the shot, and tried every pill known to man, some did OK, some not. Every time some new BC pill came out promising to be different and great I would switch. Even did the patch for about a year.
    When I turned 30 I told my Doctor to give me something non-hormonal, even if we had to do surgery (which she would not because, again I was 30 and only 1 kid she was convinced I would change my mind, NOT). This was after reading all the "bad" stuff, cancer statistics, etc. They are ALL the same. You are putting a chemical based hormone into your body that would otherwise not naturally be there. Therefor there will be negative side effects in some way shape or form from all of them. She suggested the copper T IUD. We did it 6 years ago and I've never looked back. No side effects, no pregnancy, I don't even know its there. I'm replacing mine next year with a new one. And hopefully after that I wont have to worry about BC ever again. I've read where some people say they fall out, however I don't know how, its in your uterus, unless you have a hole the size of Texas, sorry but its true, and my doctor told me she is convinced those people are lying for some reason, there is just no way it can travel from your uterus past your closed cervix and out your hoohaa. To me that's like saying you peed out your kidney. LOL Anyway, I love it, have never felt it and have gone on with my life never worrying about BC for the last 6 years! And the second best part, if you ever decide to get PG again, you go right on back to your DR. she pops it out, feels similar to a PAP. And your good to go, no waiting.
  • I have a Mirena IUD - no periods (yay!) and none of the wild side effects I'm reading about on this thread.

    Best of luck to you - I really cannot imagine trying to manage those levels of side effects.
  • Ivy_leaves
    Ivy_leaves Posts: 103 Member
    Depo shot is bad news from what I hear. Personally, I take the generic of sesonique. Only 4 short periods a year and none of the crazy weight gain I've heard about that comes with the shot. You will get bigger boobs with sesonique though. XD
  • Car0lynnM
    Car0lynnM Posts: 332 Member
    Sounds like it really depends on the individual. I've been on Depo for about 17 years, and I wouldn't want to go off it. I haven't noticed any horrible side effects, and I LOVE not having a period.
  • sandylion
    sandylion Posts: 451 Member
    Any kind of hormone based birth control turns me into a crazy psycho nut case. 1 week a month of total inconvenience, 2 crabby days, and some cramps are better for me then that! On the other hand I know lots of girls who are actually much more mellow on the hormonal bc, so it's good for them! I am a little jealous. Would love to skip the nastiness. Ah well.
  • I tried the Depo shot years ago....It made me very irritable too....except I didn't notice it but everyone around me did. I jumped off it as soon as I could and took the pill instead.
  • BrawlerBella
    BrawlerBella Posts: 400 Member
    I've been on Depo for 4 years now. No negative side effects to speak of. Zero weight gain. In fact I've lost 42# to date. I love not getting my period.
  • kellimr
    kellimr Posts: 69
    I have been on & off the Depo shot (off right now) for almost 20 years. I did gain weight when I first started taking it as well. I was able to lose it but have yo-yoed with my weight all this time so can't blame depo specifically. Definitely had some mood swings but...again I can't say it was the Depo for sure that was to blame or simply being a woman. Most women have mood swings regardless of what type of b/c they are on ~ if any! I have taken a break from it for the past year and I do thing my moods have improved but I still get pms now that periods have returned which took about 8 months to be regular. They are normal periods now. All in all it worked for me and wasn't horrible. Good luck with your decision!
  • vabchloser
    vabchloser Posts: 223 Member
    I've been on depo for over a year. I found that, at first, I had to handle food cravings (or that could have been mental, who knows). I weigh less than when I got my first dose.

    Side effect - I get the shot every 3 months. In those 3 months, I'll probably spend 3 weeks spotting, maybe a few days of period. Not where you'd have to wear heavy equipment, but enough that you do not wanna go in for sexy time with someone new.
  • Joreanasaurous
    Joreanasaurous Posts: 1,384 Member
    I lost bone density on it and my hair fell out. Wasn't worth it for me. No thank you. I use an IUD now, which everyone I hear hates, but I love. Everyone is different, but just remember that when it comes to birth control there are countless options, so if this isn't working for you, ask your doctor to try another.
  • smokedragon97
    smokedragon97 Posts: 111 Member
    I've been on the Depo for 16 years and I absolutely love it! No period at all. I had a couple of girlfriends that had bad side effects when I recommended it to them - the extra heavy bleeding and weight gain; but I've not had any. Love not having to worry about having "that time of the month" come around. I started way too young - and good riddance!!
  • JasonsSoulMate
    JasonsSoulMate Posts: 115 Member
    I personally hate depo... it's a 30kg weight gain in a needle!!
  • dakotababy
    dakotababy Posts: 2,407 Member
    WARNING - kind of "disturbing" material.

    I went on depo for 9 months. I found that the longer I stayed on...the worse it got. By the 6th month...i was bleeding every single day. I continued with 1 more shot in hopes it would stop - but it didn't. I bled for about 5 months straight.

    The first few months were amazing - i loved it. My acne actually cleared up, lost my period, everything was awesome. As time went on, it got worse and worse.

    I did not want to have sex EVER. My drive went to 0...and at one point when my boyfriend was trying to get me going...i went into an anxiety attack. I became very "dry" as well which was incredibly embarrassing for me and my boyfriend. I ended up getting a prescription for estrogen at high levels. The pharmacist was concerned, and even discretly asked me how old I was (22 at the time) and she asked if I knew why my dr. prescribed me a med typically given to 50 year old ladies. She thought it was a mistake. :(

    Along with the terrible, traumatic side effects...i gained weight. A lot of weight. About 60 pounds in 9 months.

    So i was bleeding every day, had no sex drive, and gained massive amounts of weight - that is enough of a birth control for me. I didn't even like looking at myself in the mirror - sex was out of the question. We were both miserable and suffered through this.

    I went for the copper IUD next - best thing i have ever done for myself....painful, but amazing. 0 size effects after 3 months or so.

    Please read reviews on Depo provera. I read them thinking "it won't happen to me"...and at first i thought i was a lucky one...but I'm not, almost everything people had mentioned, i ended up getting sooner or later.
  • andrea198721
    andrea198721 Posts: 173 Member
    loved not having a period but after a couple of months on the shot I would actually have 2 to 3 migraines a month around the time of my period. I didn't gain any weight but felt bloated all the time. And whenever I went off, my body took a long time to get back on a normal schedule.
  • BelindaDuvessa
    BelindaDuvessa Posts: 1,014 Member
    The negatives weren't nearly worth it for me. I was on it for 2-3 years. I got off of it because I realized 2 things.
    1. My mood swings were out of control. My husband and I had many many fights over this period of time, most of which were not warranted. We finally decided it was the Shot.
    2. At least half of my weight gain during this time was because of the shot. This also affected my sex drive to non-existent.

    I stopped it and wasn't actively trying to get pregnant, but not preventing it either. It took a year after stopping the shot before I got pregnant with my little girl last year. And I still hadn't had a period since stopping the shot, so I didn't know I was pregnant until I was at least 16 weeks along. And even though I haven't taken the shot for a couple of years, my periods are still messed up. I hadn't had one since December or January. I managed to get pregnant again this year (after having the Essure procedure done......yeah, another can of worms I don't recommend), but didn't know again with this pregnancy until about 16-18 weeks, because of missed periods. I honestly want my cycle back!
  • SunnyAndrsn
    SunnyAndrsn Posts: 369 Member
    Depo was hell for me. I gained 60 pounds in the year and was very, very depressed. I think it did contribute to a major depressive episode.

    It took years for my period to return after a year on the shot.
  • SunnyAndrsn
    SunnyAndrsn Posts: 369 Member
    Any kind of hormone based birth control turns me into a crazy psycho nut case. 1 week a month of total inconvenience, 2 crabby days, and some cramps are better for me then that! On the other hand I know lots of girls who are actually much more mellow on the hormonal bc, so it's good for them! I am a little jealous. Would love to skip the nastiness. Ah well.

    Yup, that's me too. I'm not a nut case, but an emotion-less zombie. It's weird, and I honestly didn't notice it at first. We were using the pill to time my cycle for fertility treatments and my husband was the one who noticed my odd behavior. Sure enough, several years later when we did IVF and I had do a month one the pill again pre-cycle I turned into the zombie again.

    One of the perks of being infertile is that we don't have to worry about birth control.
  • flynnfinn
    flynnfinn Posts: 209 Member
    Depo works well for some women; not so well for others. I've been on Depo for 13 years without a single negative side effect. It's been a miracle drug for me. My periods were horrible; I'll spare everyone the gory details of that. On the other hand I have a friend who can't tolerate Depo at all. The negative side effects she encountered were just too much and she went off of it after the first shot. Instead, her doc put her on an oral form of birth control with a different hormonal mix. She just skips the placebo week and doesn't have a period at all.

    this is my exact story! i've been on depo for a VERY LONG TIME!! no side effects whatsoever. the only time i wasn't on depo was when i went off it to get pregnant. i'd been on depo already for 11+ years then my husband and i decided we'd try. we both thought it would take us a long time to get pregnant but after 60 day off depo, bam! PREGGERS!!

    i returned to depo after i gave birth and remained on it while breastfeeding. i am still on depo and my son is 3. i'll most likely stay on depo for as long as i can or until we decide to have a second child.
  • cm1458
    cm1458 Posts: 742 Member
    Thanks for all the replies.
    I'm on the shot because I used to have periods that would last anywhere from 15 days to two months EVERY TIME i had my period. I tried 5 different pills over the course of 3 years, none worked, some made it worse. My mom wont let me try the ring, the patch, or anything else.
  • CINDYRN33
    CINDYRN33 Posts: 148 Member
    I have been on Depo for 14 years and love it. just make sure you are all taking your calcium or it can be very bad news for your bones in the long term.
  • Depo masde me gain weight (about 30lbs).

    The worst part was . . . hair loss. I have thick, wavy hair, the kind that needs almost zero maintenence. I wash it then, that is about it. After a few months on Depo my hair was thin and stringy. I must have lost about half of what I had. Now a few years later my hair is back to its normal level of awesome!
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