What's your deal breaker?

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  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    How could I forget: POTHEADS!
  • Rosa1213
    Rosa1213 Posts: 456 Member
    -Anyone who is turned off by my vitiligo spots.
    -Smoking, for sure.
    -Lack of intelligence.
    -No sense of humor. (I am a big jokester and I want someone to giggle with.)
    -Anyone who thinks that my art is a waste of time. I love to paint and being a science major, I don't come across many art enthusiasts.
    Oh, and I almost forgot: he must love animals! :)

    There are more, but none as prominent as these.
  • Jennicia
    Jennicia Posts: 409 Member
    a liar and a cheater!
  • dawn2313
    dawn2313 Posts: 125 Member
    I can get past mostly anything unless you have no sense of humor at all. I get that it might take a while to let it out if you're shy and all that, but if you can't make me laugh eventually then it's definitely a deal breaker!
  • cdpark617
    cdpark617 Posts: 316 Member
    Wow....all the people who say smokers. That's really sad. Granted, it's not the best of habits to have, but as a non-smoker who has been with a smoker for 8 years, it's not as horrible as one would think, especially if they make it a habit to brush their teeth often and smoke outside of the home. But I also come from a family of smokers, so this might be what swayed my decision to not care about it.

    Deal breakers for me? Abusive personality. Alcoholism (real alcoholism, not the weekend drinker. My parents drink daily....I can't stand that....and it's *ALOT* daily).

    It is partially a smell thing for me, I walk by someone smoking and the smell is revolting. Also, for me anyone who is near my age grew up in an era where it was 100% clear smoking was bad for you. If you choose to smoke, that is your free choice, it just tells me that we most likely have different priorities.
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    Smoker
    No sense of humor
    Someone I am not attracted to
  • animallover1989
    animallover1989 Posts: 39
    If hes a smoker than it cant go any further.
    If hes not then no drivers license and vehicle.
  • Ivy_leaves
    Ivy_leaves Posts: 103 Member
    Racist.
    Less than average intelligence.
    Super religious.
    Drug addict... Especially alcohol/heroin/crack/meth ugh yes all that - no thanks.
  • kittyraj
    kittyraj Posts: 129 Member
    I won't date someone religious or associated with extreme religions.

    Some Islamic sects, Mormons, Seventh Day Adventists, Jehovah's Witnesses, just nothing too extreme that's all.

    I won't date a drug user nor an ex drug user or someone who has sex for drugs / money (for health reasons)

    I won't date a man who has had sex with another man.

    I won't date someone who can't drive.

    I won't date someone who is not my financial equal, the last divorce cost me enough!
  • kittyraj
    kittyraj Posts: 129 Member
    a liar and a cheater!

    Oh yeah and that too!
  • belladonna786
    belladonna786 Posts: 1,165 Member
    Stupid
    Drug user
    Liar
    small junk

    I think anything else I can handle.
  • DenyseMarieL
    DenyseMarieL Posts: 673 Member
    Bad Kisser
    No sense of humor
    No sense of the ridiculous
    Horrible in bed
    No self respect
    Bad with money
    Bad driver

    in other words anyone with a passing resemblance to my ex-wife...


    amen
  • memcd911
    memcd911 Posts: 230 Member
    Jacked grill
    Lack of ambition
    Hard core liberal
  • AmberJo1984
    AmberJo1984 Posts: 1,067 Member
    Alcohol and smoking.

    There's actually a few other things... but, these are the two top things that come to mind.
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    How could I forget: POTHEADS!

    With a user name maryjane88.. I find this highly ironic... :laugh: :smokin:
  • Briteblu
    Briteblu Posts: 71
    Bad Kisser
    No sense of humor
    No sense of the ridiculous
    Horrible in bed
    No self respect
    Bad with money
    Bad driver

    in other words anyone with a passing resemblance to my ex-wife...

    Haha!
  • LadyIvysMom
    LadyIvysMom Posts: 391 Member
    People who chew loudly/with their mouth open. Grosses me out.

    Anyone who didn't like my pets would be shown to the door pretty fast too.
  • caldon4523
    caldon4523 Posts: 227 Member
    Many folks said "bad kisser". Of all the women I've dated over the years, including my ex, I've only known one who was a terrific kisser. A few were disappointing kissers (bad breath caused by lack of flossing) but most were okay. I enjoy kissing but have only experienced one true "great kisser". I can't say kissing would be a deal breaker. Frankly, I think many of you overrate yourselves. :ohwell:
  • Briteblu
    Briteblu Posts: 71
    I'm going to take a few from everyone cause I see some good ones lol...
    Bad kisser
    No sense of humor
    Horrible in bed
    No self respect
    No personality
    Dumb
    Shorter than 5"7
    Bad hygiene
    Bad teeth
    A wimp
    Has significant debt/money problems
    A deadbeat dad/man
    Drug user
    Someone whose not passionate
    Someone who doesn't have a raunchy sense of humor
    Someone who is uptight
    Someone who is controlling
    Someone who has issues with spontaneity and trying new things
    Small junk (has to have something to work with at least)
    Hates children/animals
    A Prick/*kitten* sums up a lot of the other ones I saw on here

    LOL Too much?!
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    I'm going to take a few from everyone cause I see some good ones lol...
    Bad kisser
    No sense of humor
    Horrible in bed
    No self respect
    No personality
    Dumb
    Shorter than 5"7
    Bad hygiene
    Bad teeth
    A wimp
    Has significant debt/money problems
    A deadbeat dad/man
    Drug user
    Someone whose not passionate
    Someone who doesn't have a raunchy sense of humor
    Someone who is uptight
    Someone who is controlling
    Someone who has issues with spontaneity and trying new things
    Small junk (has to have something to work with at least)
    Hates children/animals
    A Prick/*kitten* sums up a lot of the other ones I saw on here

    LOL Too much?!

    Only if you are single :tongue: :laugh:
  • FitnFabMichelle
    FitnFabMichelle Posts: 161 Member
    Jobless (and not looking)
    Carless
    Negative attitude
    Bad teeth
    Bad breath
    Shorter than a true 5' 9" (without shoes)
    No sense of humor
    Deadbeat dad
  • kittyraj
    kittyraj Posts: 129 Member
    I'm going to take a few from everyone cause I see some good ones lol...
    Bad kisser
    No sense of humor
    Horrible in bed
    No self respect
    No personality
    Dumb
    Shorter than 5"7
    Bad hygiene
    Bad teeth
    A wimp
    Has significant debt/money problems
    A deadbeat dad/man
    Drug user
    Someone whose not passionate
    Someone who doesn't have a raunchy sense of humor
    Someone who is uptight
    Someone who is controlling
    Someone who has issues with spontaneity and trying new things
    Small junk (has to have something to work with at least)
    Hates children/animals
    A Prick/*kitten* sums up a lot of the other ones I saw on here

    LOL Too much?!

    Yes and all that too.
  • Briteblu
    Briteblu Posts: 71
    I'm going to take a few from everyone cause I see some good ones lol...
    Bad kisser
    No sense of humor
    Horrible in bed
    No self respect
    No personality
    Dumb
    Shorter than 5"7
    Bad hygiene
    Bad teeth
    A wimp
    Has significant debt/money problems
    A deadbeat dad/man
    Drug user
    Someone whose not passionate
    Someone who doesn't have a raunchy sense of humor
    Someone who is uptight
    Someone who is controlling
    Someone who has issues with spontaneity and trying new things
    Small junk (has to have something to work with at least)
    Hates children/animals
    A Prick/*kitten* sums up a lot of the other ones I saw on here

    LOL Too much?!

    Only if you are single :tongue: :laugh:

    Yeah might be why lol. I've just met a lot of crappy guys I guess!

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