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SomeoneSomeplace
SomeoneSomeplace Posts: 1,094 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
I'm just curious if a girl says she's slept with 20 guys would you judge her as a slut? (For the record NO I haven't slept with THAT many, lol)

Now if a guy said that is he a "man *kitten*" or is it different for a guy?

I know the double standard exists but I think it's stupid. I feel like women are judged poorly when we just want a casual relationship where emotions aren't involved but if a guy wants that it's completely normal.

I'm just wicked bored tonight and figured this might be a fun thread to start and I am honestly curious as to what you guys and girls thing about this. Also a guy I've been casually seeing just got all upset because even tho I've been honest from the beginning about what this is he wasn't happy to learn I've been dating someone else as well, as has he but apparently as a women I'm not supposed to do that? Uh eff that!

I honestly see NOTHING wrong with one night stands, casual sex, hooking up etc within reason. Obviously you shouldn't go around banging anything with knees but if there is an attraction and you want to do it then why should you have to worry about being a "slut" when it's really not that big of a deal. I'm not saying gong f*** a different guy every weekend I'm just saying there's nothing wrong with it outside of a relationship.

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  • fattarzan
    fattarzan Posts: 31
    I agree with you nothing wrong with casual sex but safe sex must be practice... so be very careful mydear.
  • FearlessRobb
    FearlessRobb Posts: 249 Member
    well depends how u look at it. guys wanna be the best. so the more the women have been with the more they have to compete against lol. some guys dont care how many guys a girls been with like me but i wont lie i wanna be rememebered.

    but to me dont matter guys or girls if ur fine with it thats all that matters. if a guy or girl thinks ur a slut or a man *kitten* then there not the right person for u.
  • SomeoneSomeplace
    SomeoneSomeplace Posts: 1,094 Member
    Haha I wasn't saying like screw so many guys that you can't even remember their names, more just like if a girl has a sexual relationship with a guy without the emotional or commitment aspect then shes a "slut" but if a guy has that he's like "the man" I just think that double standard is stupid. I also forgot I posted this haha
  • FearlessRobb
    FearlessRobb Posts: 249 Member
    well in my eyes its just as bad. Im dissapointed in my number lol. but when u get dumped alot the numbers add up fast. Or when ur special friends finds a bf or another then u move on lmao. over years it all adds up fast but i dont see a girl a slut thats been with alot of guys caqus u never know why. if explained it could make total sense :)
  • Ninjarider85
    Ninjarider85 Posts: 20
    ok Im gonna say it goes both ways, I mean if u go out every weekend and bang someone new u got a problem but if u go out and happen to meet someone, why not, get bottoms up lol
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    well in my eyes its just as bad. Im dissapointed in my number lol. but when u get dumped alot the numbers add up fast. Or when ur special friends finds a bf or another then u move on lmao. over years it all adds up fast but i dont see a girl a slut thats been with alot of guys caqus u never know why. if explained it could make total sense :)

    Why would it need to be explained?

    I agree there is a double-standard, and I think it's complete BS. I don't even see the problem if someone does want to sleep with someone new every weekend. It's none of my business. I say, do what you want, just don't be stupid about it, and get tested as appropriate.
  • ShreddedTweet
    ShreddedTweet Posts: 1,326 Member
    20 guys isn't really that many if you're of a certain age, it could only be two guys a year for 10years! I couldn't give a damn anyway how many people a person has slept with, it's their business, I don't judge - as long as they're not cheating on me then work away!
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