well that was just uncalled for...

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n0ob
n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
(wife after WW meeting)

Her: only a lb. in two weeks :-(

Me: So, still losing, Good Job!!!

Her: STFU

what did i say? (chasing after crying wife)
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  • bushidowoman
    bushidowoman Posts: 1,599 Member
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    Awwww, she was disappointed with herself. Don't say anything. Just hold her while she cries, tell her you love her, tell her she's beautiful.
  • holeshottdr
    holeshottdr Posts: 364 Member
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    It's a no win situation man.... Let her vent and move on.
  • n0ob
    n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
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    2 posts and no "break up wth her"

    You people are slacking today...
  • holeshottdr
    holeshottdr Posts: 364 Member
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    I was going too but.... Sorry to dissappoint *feelsbadman*
  • AmbieSweetz
    AmbieSweetz Posts: 72 Member
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    Awwww, she was disappointed with herself. Don't say anything. Just hold her while she cries, tell her you love her, tell her she's beautiful.

    ^^ Or maybe TOM?? That was soo sweet your reply though!
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
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    Just break up.
  • AmberJo1984
    AmberJo1984 Posts: 1,067 Member
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    Awwww, she was disappointed with herself. Don't say anything. Just hold her while she cries, tell her you love her, tell her she's beautiful.

    THIS**

    It probably wasn't what you said. She's just disappointed.
  • n0ob
    n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
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    Awwww, she was disappointed with herself. Don't say anything. Just hold her while she cries, tell her you love her, tell her she's beautiful.

    ^^ Or maybe TOM?? That was soo sweet your reply though!

    Nah, not the TOM. I usually keep up with when that's coming better than she does...

    Usually at the TOM I have to remind her that she's probably bloated and the weight will come off at the next weigh in (which it nearly always does).
  • marinegirl92
    marinegirl92 Posts: 184 Member
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    A few years ago I was part of a weight loss program - they separated the women and the men into 2 support groups. Me being a woman and in the women's group - us ladies were working so hard... tracking food, working out, drinking water - doing everything right to loose 0.5#'s each week when the guys were loosing 2 - 6 #'s per WEEK. Pure physical make-up and biology at work!

    Just be yourself and talk through it! This is small stuff!

    I have food allergies and some health concerns... I look at my body as a fine luxury race car that takes special food and care. My husband on the other hand... he's a beater car - he can eat ANYTHING he wants and never gains weight. It's not fair but it is what it is!
  • n0ob
    n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
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    Just break up.

    :flowerforyou: :heart:
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    Just tell her that a pound in two weeks is good for a lot of people. And guys lose weight easier. Or something. Both are true kind of. BUT LIE IF YOU HAVE TO. LIE!

    Anyway, just tell her that she looks great and you love her.
  • beccyleigh
    beccyleigh Posts: 847 Member
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    Just tell her to eat less. That should work.
  • auroranflash
    auroranflash Posts: 3,569 Member
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    Awwww, she was disappointed with herself. Don't say anything. Just hold her while she cries, tell her you love her, tell her she's beautiful.

    ^
    Some of the times I realized I love my BF the most is when he doesn't take offense to me if I happen to misstep/say something out of anger or frustration. He just forgives me, knowing I was just upset, and we move on. It takes a lot of heart to do that but it doesn't go unnoticed.
  • jr1985
    jr1985 Posts: 1,033 Member
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    lol silly men! When your girl is upset just play with her hair and tell her she's pretty!
  • Chief_Rocka
    Chief_Rocka Posts: 4,710 Member
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    LOL @ you trying to be logical with an upset woman.
  • Juliejustsaying
    Juliejustsaying Posts: 2,332 Member
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    Just break up.

    ahahahah

    I swear that is your standard post isn't it....:flowerforyou:
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
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    Go with "Sex burns (whatever the number is) calories..lets lose 10 pounds together this week!
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
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    2 posts and no "break up wth her"

    You people are slacking today...

    You only get those if the situation was reversed. If a woman if doing that to you, its A-OK on MFP. GIRL POWER!
  • _JR_
    _JR_ Posts: 830 Member
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    Tell her that still more than your girlfriend lost. :wink:
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
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    I would like to say...ooohhh sparkles...(I so hate ADD)