What was your downfall?
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Grazing all day long every day, plus meals.0
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I actually wrote a blog post about this recently!
Food:
Eating only rice & beans or baked zitti for dinner every night for my life (what my mother & sister primarily cook ); pizza, Chinese food, ice cream, or fast foods during & after school daily; Nature's Valley & Gatorade religiously; not enough vegetables; no water at all, only juice or Gatorade; overeating my favorites: 6 hotdogs, 6 pieces of baked bread, 2-3 plates of shrimp alfredo, half of a pot pie, etc (not in the same meal!).
Exercise:
No strength training & never challenging myself when doing it; only 1 mile daily (8-10 minutes, then go home); not participating in dance or sports.
Now, I only drink water, eat very healthy & in moderate proportions, & I avoid anything with high cholesterol, sodium, sugar, & anything with saturated or trans fats. I do not eat processed foods for the most part, except yogurt (Greek no-fat plain) & crackers (moving to no-sat/trans-fat, low-sodium soon). I exercise daily & always challenge myself. I belly dance & I actively pursue how to become better. I'm becoming physically stronger & faster everyday, & a far cry from how I used to be!0 -
-One of the downfalls to my success has been my aversion to fruits and vegetables. I have texture issues with them. Put the fruit in a smoothie and I'm fine. Hand it to me whole, and I won't eat it.
-I started to gain weight when I went off ritalin for ADD and hit puberty in the same year. Double whammy. When I was on ritalin, I was top of the charts for height and lower 1/3 for weight.
-Pretty much my whole family is overweight and while I've seen them have some success while dieting, I've also seen them all gain it back and then some.
-When I went to college and later moved into my own apartment I over portioned. I've started weighing all my food on a scale and can't believe how much I was over eating.
-I'm an emotional eater. Bad day - have a big pasta meal at a restaurant. Bored - open a bag of chips and eat half of them. Craving - eat 3 portions of it.
-I'm lazy and I'd rather grab a soda and a candy bar for breakfast and eat fast food for lunch than to take the extra 15 minutes in the morning to make those two meals.
-I get discouraged easy and if I didn't see results immediately and continually, I quit.
-I'm a home body/introvert. As I grew out of childhood I preferred staying home and read a book or watch TV rather than go out and do something.0 -
Well growing up my mother cooked almost daily so junk food/fast food was not an option! I wasn't overweight, I was actually a very active kid but there was this taboo about junk and fast food and when I did get it at other people's houses or at parties it was like WOW!!!! A happy meal was earned by making striaght A's on my report card, I read many books because of the Book It program so I could get a free personal pan pizza. Anything academic that was tied to food, I was there!
Then I went to college and I wasn't so active (unless you count dropping it like it's hot in the club), I over indulged, didn't exercise, drank, got high, which lead to late night food runs to Taco Bell or to get pizza or whatever was open! By the time I earned my bachelor's degree I gained 100lbs!
A few years later, I lost 85lbs and kept it off for a couple of years, until I went back to school to get my master's degree and between working full-time and going to school and internship, I quit! I stopped working out and started stress eating, I don't know what it was about sitting in front of the computer or reading that made me have to have something to munch on, but that did it! All those all nighters, research papers, study sessions, and picking up something "quick" on the way, did me in and I gained every ounce of those 85lbs back in those 3 years!
So "here I go again on my own" Whitesnake! I think that was a Whitesnake song! LOL0 -
Mine started when we had our 1st son and he was so sick and nearly died a handful of times and his health issues lasted until he was 12. They were really intense for 8yrs. Then I was diagnosed with MS and became paralyzed in fear, fear of throwing my body into a flare up or getting injured.
Now I have been working out for 10month, 60lbs down, walked 5 5k's, did the Warrior Dash in August, suffered a full achilles tendon rupture and continued to wo while healing. I was in the gym 1 week post op working out from the waist up. THough I held myself back and let life hold me back, I have taken back my life and despite the injury I feel better than I have in yrs. I am still healing but as my trainer said today, "I don't want you to be fast right now. I want you to be the little engine that could and keep moving and going forward. You'll get there quit being so hard on yourself." SO that's what I'll be
You are totally AWESOME!!!!!:flowerforyou:0 -
Sedentary lifestyle
Drinking way too much Mt. Dew (seriously, I use to go through at least 1 64 oz fountain cup a day)
No portion control (what I've heard referred to the Walmart effect. Huge portions of cheap food)
Not giving a damn.
I'm something of an emotional eater, although I eat when I'm happy. This last year has been really good, so I spent the first half of the year gaining 20 pounds. In the end, it was my girlfriend and her mom's weight loss success that spurred me on to actually start watching what I eat, reading labels, trying to make better decisions and actually stick with using MFP to hold myself accountable. 65 days and counting, it's the longest I've ever stuck with anything health related.0 -
In school I was a little over weight. Then Athletics happened and I was strong as hell and went with it. I worked out all the time from 7th grade to senior year. I was a contender for state in power lifting senior year and had the bench press state record in the bag. Then in Football someone hit me in the knee while the dude with the ball was 40 yards down the field. Broke my knee. Tore some stuff and actually broke the top of my tibia. There was no chance even competing in power lifting the rehab was just too long. So having all that muscle I ate the same and blew up. So bad that I didn’t go take senior pictures. Went from 185 to 270 sometime before the end of my senior year.
I have been down to 190 since then but I was not as thin because I don’t have all that muscle anymore. This time I gained it just happened about 10 or 15 lbs a year until I hit about 315. Now I am on my way back down at 266.0 -
Mine started when we had our 1st son and he was so sick and nearly died a handful of times and his health issues lasted until he was 12. They were really intense for 8yrs. Then I was diagnosed with MS and became paralyzed in fear, fear of throwing my body into a flare up or getting injured.
Now I have been working out for 10month, 60lbs down, walked 5 5k's, did the Warrior Dash in August, suffered a full achilles tendon rupture and continued to wo while healing. I was in the gym 1 week post op working out from the waist up. THough I held myself back and let life hold me back, I have taken back my life and despite the injury I feel better than I have in yrs. I am still healing but as my trainer said today, "I don't want you to be fast right now. I want you to be the little engine that could and keep moving and going forward. You'll get there quit being so hard on yourself." SO that's what I'll be
You are totally AWESOME!!!!!:flowerforyou:
I couldn't agree with ^ more!!! :flowerforyou:0 -
For me I think it was portion control. I went from having fairly active jobs to a completely sedentary job and didn't exercise at all. We also ate a lot of convenience foods and didn't plan meals very well. Finally, I would tell my self that I'm not THAT big, so I can have ice cream at night or cake or cookies or whatever and it'll be okay. Honestly, the weight just kinda crept on.0
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college life - as in "a lot of parties and night out". booze is not strictly involved, most eating out0
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Using food for entertainment, boredom, comfort, a friend, a reward, a punishment instead of for fuel, which is what it should be.
I have been a yo yo dieter all my life and gained and lost the same 50-70lbs AT LEAST 6 times. This time, I've kept most of it off (up half a stone to a stone and a half) for the last several years.
Another problem for me is going to the States on holidays/visiting family. I can't say no to my favourite foods there and this time, after 11 days, I gained 11lbs! You have to work very hard to gain that much weight!!
Grrrr .... at myself.0 -
my downfall is eating anything that crosses my path.. i will spare nothing to stop through drive thru fast food joints, eat pizza and wings , eat white flour based breads with gobs of butter ,ice cream galore ,sweets .. its all my downfall0
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I too have been overweight since childhood. I could pick any number of excuses, but i think the main cause was the lack of nutritional knowledge really. as a child i didn't know those sugary cereals were bad for me, plus all of my friends were eating them too. We ate out of convenience, my mom was a single mom, and we'd have dinner thrown together, so alot of processed foods, which again i didn't realize were so bad for me. That coupled with lack of activity, as a single parent my mom couldn't afford for us to play sports or take dance classes. My bad nutrition continued into college, where as a poor college student I'd eat off the dollar menu at McDonalds or ramen noddle soup, just to save a buck. Now that I am more established and preparing meal for myself, I can control more what i purchase and prepare. It is still a challenge because fresher better choices still tend to be more expensive then cheaper processed foods, but I have learned my health and life are worth more than any $$. I have learned more about portion control then I've ever known before, and i read every label and make better choices even when shopping.0
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I went from exercising fanatically and counting calories to staying at the hospital, eating hospital food (AKA fried chicken tenders and French fries), ...
You'd think hospitals, being HOSPITALS, would have healthier food. But I guess it's like dentists with lollipops; they want to keep you coming back.
I know! I have never understood why hospitals have such horrifically unhealthy food. When I would visit my nana when she was in intensive care, the best you could get was a little fruit cup. They had hot dogs, nachos with fake cheese, everything. I wish they could at least put in salad bars or something :-/0 -
Removal of my gallbladder - For me, whether it was age, coincidence or truly that my body doesn't process things the same any more, I'd never had a weight issue until after the surgery. I don't think my eating habits or anything else changed drastically, but I gained 40+ lbs in two years time.
Me, too! : ( Never over 132 even full term pregnant) then Gallbladder out and have dieted my way up to current weight!! Hate it and am trying hard to change my mind set! Good Luck everyone!0 -
The first time I gained a lot of weight was when we barely had enough money to scrape by. We lived off of hamburger helper and the cheap menus. When we moved, things were a little better and I lost the weight. But, this time around I blame the weight on college. Definitely stress eating, portion control, and night binge eating.0
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Snacking here and there! It added up. I can't blame my family because they gave me a healthy eating foundation, but we owned restaurants so tasty, fatty, lovely culinary creations were always at hand if you wanted it. One too many hush puppies on the way past the line in the kitchen me thinks!0
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woman.... they an't nothing but trouble
Very true. And I just love trouble...0 -
marijuana ... just jokin .... no seriously
No hating here....I'm sure you got the munchies a lot! LOL0 -
My downfall was my car crash of 2006. I was rear-ended while waiting for pedestrian to cross at a crosswalk. The person who hit me was going so fast that the airbag was deployed in the car that the offender was driving. I gained 90 lbs in the year following the crash (I had just lost 20-30 lbs and was down to 160 lbs. Can't wait to see 160 again. Goal weight is 130-120 lbs)
Since the weight gain I've been trying to figure out when my initial weight gain started. It was when I got my first car (or when I got my first boyfriend who had a car). That's when I stopped walking or taking the bus. HUGE MISTAKE!0 -
Overeating & portion control, going to restaurants and eating out, beer, eating out of boredom...my office is surrounded by fast food restaurants UGH! Also being a super busy mom and always on the go it was always easier to just stop at Wendys or something. I found myself eating when I wasn't even hungry.0
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I thought I ate unhealthy food when I was stressed. The reality is that I eat bad food when I'm tired and sick, simply because it's easier and I don't feel like cooking or going to the store.
I rarely get stressed so maybe I learned how to manage my stress so the next thing was eating anything when tired or sick. This is when I eat the most unhealthy foods.
My granddaughter's pre-school started teaching her how to eat properly at age 3, with a discussion about what foods are healthy and what foods we need to be careful about. She is 8 years old now and we still have conversations about healthy foods. She is a bean pole as I was when her age. She has known me at 258 lbs and now. She is very complimentary and aware of people who are overweight.
Her mom was a few hundred pounds overweight before her gastric bypass and is still about 100 lbs overweight. My granddaughter has determined that she doesn't want to be fat. She is very active but eats a lot of sweets. Her mother still hasn't adopted a healthy lifestyle so I worry about my granddaugher and contine to teach about healthy lifestyle.0 -
Hmm, what got me here in the first place..
Well, we ate out a lot growing up. My parents were divorced, so usually whatever parent we were with took us out to eat. My dad got re-married when I was 16 and this lady cooked her @$$ off and we always had a pantry full of goodies. I mean...EVERYTHING you could imagine. I remember opening the freezer and gallons of ice cream were falling out of it. I thought I struck gold at the time. Not so much now...
Fast forward to 18 years old, I moved after graduation, got my first serving job at the WAFFLE HOUSE. I worked on average 50 hours a week, therefore I was eating waffles, scrambled eggs with cheese, and chocolate milk... like it was going out of freaking style. I gained almost 40 pounds working there. It was sick.
But, overall, I love food and I abused it back then. I had no idea of what I was putting into my body until one day I was tipping the scales at nearly 200 pounds. I'm glad I realized what I was doing to my body before it was too late.0 -
When I was first married I weighed about 108 lbs. My mother-in-law was a great cook. When we would go for a visit she would say "have some dinner". We would say "no thank you, we just ate". She would say, "Eat again". and we would. I gained about 42 lbs in the first year I was married. My mother-in-law was over weight (from Georgia) and died at age 53 from a heart attack. Your "no" has to mean "NO!"0
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For me it was loss of a supportive community. When we lived in Southern California, my wife and I were part of a program. Not sure if I should name it but it's that one where you "Watch" your "Weight" :-). We had a great group of men and women and and excellent leader who provided a lot of great tips and positivity. We hit our targets in just over a year and were doing well with maintenance.
When we moved to New England, we lost that. We tried a variety of meetings but the all seemed to be filled with bitter middle age women. (I'm not being sexist here, it's just the way it was. In many of the meetings I was the only guy.) All they did was complain about the state they were in. It's as if they felt that they were entitled to lose weight and get healthy without having to change anything. And then never offered words of encouragement to someone who needed a lift. If someone did lose a pound or have a positve change in the week there was no congratz. In fact they acted jealouse and made you feel bad about doing well.
But that's all changed recently. Through the gym in my office building I found a fantastic trainer to help me get started again and the support and encouragement from the MFP community is the best there is. So thanx guys and gals for helping me get up and go!0 -
marijuana ... just jokin .... no seriously
Yep, I did that phase at 17-18 years old, definitel did not do me any favors.
It was fast food for me. I think... okay, well I KNOW.... it's very addictive and I was most definitely addicted.0 -
I went from exercising fanatically and counting calories to staying at the hospital, eating hospital food (AKA fried chicken tenders and French fries), ...
You'd think hospitals, being HOSPITALS, would have healthier food. But I guess it's like dentists with lollipops; they want to keep you coming back.
I think hospitals have seen the light and offer better options now.0 -
I went from exercising fanatically and counting calories to staying at the hospital, eating hospital food (AKA fried chicken tenders and French fries), ...
You'd think hospitals, being HOSPITALS, would have healthier food. But I guess it's like dentists with lollipops; they want to keep you coming back.
I know! I have never understood why hospitals have such horrifically unhealthy food. When I would visit my nana when she was in intensive care, the best you could get was a little fruit cup. They had hot dogs, nachos with fake cheese, everything. I wish they could at least put in salad bars or something :-/
Ours has excellant choices. OK I confess to the chicken tenders today but we also have healthy options. Here are some of todays choices.
•Soup of the Day: Broccoli Cheddar | Vegetarian Chili
•Entrees: Citrus Baked Cod | Carved Pork Loin with an Onion Gravy
•Saute Station: Mediterranean Tacos
•Hot Vegetables: California Blend Vegetables | Roasted Red Potatoes | Peach Cobbler
•Quick Grab: Pizza | Oriental Style Chicken Wings | Plain Chicken Wings0 -
Slowly gaining a pound a year for 10 years after my metabolism slowed down in my mid-40's but my eating did not.
ALSO . . . the door to my pantry
I would come home hungry and talk to my husband while standing in the door to our pantry. It has small snacks like cashews, pistachios, figs, dates, licorice . . .
All reasonably healthy but calorie dense. I'd snack a little while talking and add 200 calories to my day.0
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