does this guy at the gym seem to like me?
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I always catch this guy lookong at me and we make eye contact, but then I look away. I always look at him and he catches me and I look away. the other day I smiled and he smiled and looked away still smiling. I walked down the stairs one day after I passes by a room he was in alone. I didn't look at him. I got to the bottom of the stairs and looked up and he was standing at the top of the stairs and we looked at each other at the same time. I am so confused. Normally guys say hi. I am 27 years old!
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Do you find him attractive?
If so, say hi first. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!0 -
Yes super attractive, but I am in a failing relationship with a bf and not sure...Id rather it ended with my bf first but we are working it out. I noticed this guy for months, but recently we look at each other so much. I think we both wear headphones and maybe he takes his off..I never noticed. I am not sure if he will ever say hi haha. Also we are always across the room using different machines. i think when I went down the stairs maybe he was trying to come talk to me, but I left quickly.0
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I always catch this guy lookong at me and we make eye contact, but then I look away. I always look at him and he catches me and I look away. the other day I smiled and he smiled and looked away still smiling. I walked down the stairs one day after I passes by a room he was in alone. I didn't look at him. I got to the bottom of the stairs and looked up and he was standing at the top of the stairs and we looked at each other at the same time. I am so confused. Normally guys say hi. I am 27 years old!
You have nothing to lose, walk over and ask him if he would mind showing you some pointers and take it from there =P Easy as eating pie0 -
Yes super attractive, but I am in a failing relationship with a bf and not sure...Id rather it ended with my bf first but we are working it out. I noticed this guy for months, but recently we look at each other so much. I think we both wear headphones and maybe he takes his off..I never noticed. I am not sure if he will ever say hi haha. Also we are always across the room using different machines. i think when I went down the stairs maybe he was trying to come talk to me, but I left quickly.
On second thought....monkey branching onto another guy is a recipe for disaster and a major red flag0 -
Yeah I am not being outgoing because of that, but I am getting really curious as to what is going on and all the mystery behind him now. I can't be flirty at the moment. Maybe I have to wait it out til things either work out or don't with my bf and then maybe this guy will either say hi soon or be there later. I am not sure. He has been going to the gym at the same times as me for months, so I should still see him.0
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Yeah I am not being outgoing because of that, but I am getting really curious as to what is going on and all the mystery behind him now. I can't be flirty at the moment. Maybe I have to wait it out til things either work out or don't with my bf and then maybe this guy will either say hi soon or be there later. I am not sure. He has been going to the gym at the same times as me for months, so I should still see him.
You love the attention and this is not going to end well for you, you are already lining this guy up should something go wrong with your current relationship. This is not a healthy mindset and I would strongly recommend you either break up and enjoy the single life for a while or work on you current relationship.
Trust me this new and exciting attention you are getting will be short lived....0 -
--cut----but I am in a failing relationship with a bf and not sure...Id rather it ended with my bf first but we are working it out. ----.
Reread that that there. Very contradicting. If it's a failing relationship as you say, maybe you should end it...? You say you'd rather it ended with your bf first...so ? Just sayin'...as a person who stayed in a nosediving relationship too long in the past, I'd say if it's ill-fated, it's probably a good idea to get out sooner rather than later, especially at your age.0 -
Honestly, usually attention from guys annoys me. I noticed this guy the first time I went to this gym and now I am interested but not in anyone else and don't really want anything out of anything except that he looks like my type which is rare and for him to be giving me these signals is confusing me. My best friend keeps wanting to set me up with someone else.0
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Thanks for the advice0
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Honestly, usually attention from guys annoys me. I noticed this guy the first time I went to this gym and now I am interested but not in anyone else and don't really want anything out of anything except that he looks like my type which is rare and for him to be giving me these signals is confusing me. My best friend keeps wanting to set me up with someone else.
Looks like your type? Based on what?...his looks?
I feel it's quite unfair to your boyfriend that you keep stringing him along while you are on the lookout for a replacement. Keep your dignity and self respect, it's always the last impression of you that people will remember you by....0 -
You said you always have your headphones on. How about you take them off once? Like walking down the hall.....before passing him. Give him the opportunity to talk to you. Then it ends the mystery.0
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He could be a complete wanker; you have no idea... I'd say sort your relationship out or end it...then give yourself some breathing time... a good Irish saying is 'what's for you won't pass you by'..0
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Based on looks because rarely someone looks the exact type I like but also the dedication he shows to the gym and health. I wouldn't lie to him or my bf or cheat so there is no worries here I am just confused by the mystery and I like the advice of no headphones too thank you. With my boyfriend, he hasn't had a job for 2 1/2 years we have been together and I pay for everything and tired of it. I told him to move recently. He is hanging by a thread unless he makes changes.0
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True i like the irish saying. I will not worry much and just live out my life and see.0
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"he hasn't had a job for 2 1/2 years we have been together and I pay for everything and tired of it."
OP- this alone should give you a clear indication on what you should do.0 -
maybe you just always happen to have a boogie on your nose every time he sees you0
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Yeah I am not being outgoing because of that, but I am getting really curious as to what is going on and all the mystery behind him now. I can't be flirty at the moment. Maybe I have to wait it out til things either work out or don't with my bf and then maybe this guy will either say hi soon or be there later. I am not sure. He has been going to the gym at the same times as me for months, so I should still see him.
You love the attention and this is not going to end well for you, you are already lining this guy up should something go wrong with your current relationship. This is not a healthy mindset and I would strongly recommend you either break up and enjoy the single life for a while or work on you current relationship.
Trust me this new and exciting attention you are getting will be short lived....
Yes, this. If you are in a relationship, let gym guy go smile at some other girls that actually are single. I don't mean this as mean as it sounds.0 -
act like your 27 DUH0
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Just hit it and quit it0
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Sounds like he's attracted to you.
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act like your 27 DUH
Even 27-year-olds can feel shy or uncertain.0 -
Based on looks because rarely someone looks the exact type I like but also the dedication he shows to the gym and health. I wouldn't lie to him or my bf or cheat so there is no worries here I am just confused by the mystery and I like the advice of no headphones too thank you. With my boyfriend, he hasn't had a job for 2 1/2 years we have been together and I pay for everything and tired of it. I told him to move recently. He is hanging by a thread unless he makes changes.
2.5 years without a job. Wow, he must be awesome in the sack, lol0 -
Based on looks because rarely someone looks the exact type I like but also the dedication he shows to the gym and health. I wouldn't lie to him or my bf or cheat so there is no worries here I am just confused by the mystery and I like the advice of no headphones too thank you. With my boyfriend, he hasn't had a job for 2 1/2 years we have been together and I pay for everything and tired of it. I told him to move recently. He is hanging by a thread unless he makes changes.
You pay for EVERYTHING??! I need a suga mama too, How YOU doin'?:flowerforyou: :laugh:0 -
Two and a half years? Seriously? He can't even find a part time job? I'd suggest telling him to move in with his parents, especially if he's not even looking for a job. He sounds way too comfy for me.0
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If he has no health issues or some other reasonable excuses for not working, i don't see why you are still holding onto this relationship that you said yourself is failing. With you being 27 i am assuming he is way too old to be sitting on his *kitten* at home while you pay for everything.Based on looks because rarely someone looks the exact type I like but also the dedication he shows to the gym and health. I wouldn't lie to him or my bf or cheat so there is no worries here I am just confused by the mystery and I like the advice of no headphones too thank you. With my boyfriend, he hasn't had a job for 2 1/2 years we have been together and I pay for everything and tired of it. I told him to move recently. He is hanging by a thread unless he makes changes.
Man...i hope at least he cooks you dinner and gives you a massage at the end of your day.0 -
If you're worried about how your boyfriend would react to you talking to some guy at the gym, you need to re-reevaluate your relationship. You can have gym buddies or random friendly acquaintances without making plans to start a relationship, especially if you haven't even said hi. It's a gym, not a night club.0
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You are where you are because you choose to be. The question is - why do you choose to be there? Is it because you are holding out hope things will get better? Afraid of being single and alone? These are questions you must honestly answer yourself before you can take the next step. Leaving one relationship and entering another in a state of confusion will only end in disaster.
While he may be attracted to you and vice versa, it would be a mistake to persue him right now.0 -
Perhaps he's a mute? That's why he hasn't said anything.0
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