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richmondcowgirl
richmondcowgirl Posts: 137 Member
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but I do live an alternative lifestyle that has limited support... looking for open minded friends

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  • Rachielous
    Rachielous Posts: 80 Member
    Intrigue is getting the better of me.... Care to expand?
  • bunsen_honeydew
    bunsen_honeydew Posts: 230 Member
    There is a poly group on here: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/groups/home/2900-poly-fit

    but I haven't seen anything that's directed for people who are into BDSM (I presume that's what you're referring to)

    If it helps, I know there are fitness groups on Fetlife.com, but honestly I don't see how it's really that relevant to fitness/health! I am "lifestyle" too, add me if you wish :-)
  • Rachielous
    Rachielous Posts: 80 Member
    Okay so I have now read your profile.. all becomes clear!
  • richmondcowgirl
    richmondcowgirl Posts: 137 Member
    Fetlife is way to fat girl friendly... we try to support each other but munches and potlucks every week and encouraging chocolate for aftercare. I try.
  • bunsen_honeydew
    bunsen_honeydew Posts: 230 Member
    Chocolate is not required for aftercare! You can have fruit, you can pack small boxes of nuts/dried fruit.

    You can always say no.
  • richmondcowgirl
    richmondcowgirl Posts: 137 Member
    I like the fruit idea... Sir and I have been bringing veggie trays to everything and lately I've been living off the carrots on those things. He and my Secondary both want to get in shape but have little to no drive so hoping me taking the first steps will encourage them.
  • bunsen_honeydew
    bunsen_honeydew Posts: 230 Member
    In my opinion you need to take control of your eating back. There are other ways to establish/maintain your dynamic, without your Sir telling you what to eat especially if he is going to make unhealthy choices for you.

    And another thing. Aftercare does not have to involve food!!
  • richmondcowgirl
    richmondcowgirl Posts: 137 Member
    That's actually a new thing we just started. Im hoping with this being able to print out my diaries we can work on this issue together.
  • richmondcowgirl
    richmondcowgirl Posts: 137 Member
    Aftercare doesn't involve food... for me it does. Im a heavy impact, blood/knife player. Food is a great way to bring me back without dropping hard.
  • bunsen_honeydew
    bunsen_honeydew Posts: 230 Member
    Aftercare doesn't involve food... for me it does. Im a heavy impact, blood/knife player. Food is a great way to bring me back without dropping hard.

    Me too. I've found it works out fine if I make sure I eat enough beforehand, and afterwards I'll be ok with some tea/coffee. I prioritise eating prior to play, and also eating prior to driving home if it's late at night/a long way to go. You might want to experiment with different foods so you are not stuck having chocolate bars etc, convenient though they may be

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