Why Am I having so much trouble??

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  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    When it comes to "weight loss" eating less and exercise is all that matters. I'm not arguing against eating lean and green. Just stating that the above is misinformation.
    How is it misinformation? You can only eat a finite amount of food per day. The foods that i just recommended eating are the foods that have the lowest calorie density of all the foods out there. (plus, the highest nutrient density) If you eat low calorie density foods, instead of high calorie density foods, YOU ARE EATING LESS!!!

    But if you eat high calorie density food you will still lose weight if you stay within your goals...If you eat low calorie density foods you are actually eating MOAR food!!! <-Removed by the poster
    Yes you can. I think it is healthier overall and more sustainable if you increase the amount healthy, filling, recipes that are in your regular rotation, rather than trying to eat under your hunger drive by eating rich foods that don't satiate you. It's also important for health, happiness and energy to get adequate micro-nutrients.

    Since the ultimate goal of this thread is to help the OP with her issue, i think we should find some common ground. Can we agree that fruits and vegetables are good, and that highly concentrated foods should be limited? Haha, i'll probably get 20 replies of "no, eat nothing but fat" or something to that effect.

    Nice ninja edit!!!
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member

    In all honesty- if YOU personally want to eat just fruits and vegs and low fat- that fantastic. BUT as someone else stated, that is not the only way that someone can maintain a healthy lifestyle.
    It's the best way though. Why not let the OP know the best way, and let her deviate as she sees fit from there?

    This is your problem, man. It's not. For every study that you read (that, really, as dizzle said... are probably a bit antiquated) that advocates for the "low fat, low protein" diet, there's multiple, more current studies saying, "Well, THIS is also good, too" or "This is BETTER."

    Hell, there was just the "Five Places with the Most Longevity" study that came out a few weeks ago, and EVEN the cited Asian culture (Okinawa) had a huge ingestion of fish. In fact, they found that the common factors in these different groups diets was legumes... and fish. Red wine was also a big factor.

    You have stated in other posts, "I think..." Keep saying that, and keep realizing what that means. It's an opinion; it's not necessarily "bad," but it doesn't make it the "best." Objectivity is a beautiful thing.
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
    OP: Eat what you want, eat what you'll eat today and tomorrow and the rest of your life. Eat what you like, eat what tastes good and makes you feel good. Eat at a deficit now, and keep tracking and eat at maintenance later when you don't want to lose anymore. Eat more upon occasion, go over, go in the red once in a while if you want...do it without guilt. Enjoy yourself, enjoy life!!! This isn't that hard. Don't make it hard.

    Lose weight = less calories than you burn in a day. Simple. Lift some heavy things once in a while for body composition. Do some cardio if it makes you feel good.

    Not one person here is going to be with you every single day. Not one person here can tell you what foods you enjoy and if you eat what you enjoy now, you'll have no problem eating what foods you enjoy later.

    If you like a lot of fruits and veggies, then eat a ton of them, but if you're like me, and you're more of a meat lovers pizza over the supreme, then order the meat lovers, with extra cheese. (Mmmm....Pizza)

    Now, in honor of this post, I'm going to have a small candy bar with my coffee at 8:30 in the morning.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,042 Member
    So, when you lost all that weight - did you do it through deprivation dieting? Low calorie intake? Because that kinda crap happens when people don't really ever learn how to eat in moderation at a healthy calorie level. It sucks. I was on the yo-yo diet train for yeeeaaaarrrrrssss. How much are you eating now? 80% diet, 20% exercise will get your body back...so let's start at the basics.


    I was eating at the calorie content that MFP gave me - and eating back some but not always all of the exercise calories earned. I want to do it healthy and have it be a lifetime change and not a "diet". I had knee surgery again in Sept this year (Other knee and a different injury)........so my activity hasn't been happening and I'm having to start over but finally my knee is healed enough that I can get back to doing some things.

    I agree completely that it has to be a combined effort to get the results (health, tone, balance, nutrients) that is the goal.

    I'm struggling with logging, staying in my calorie range, etc..........I need to regain my focus..........I was so focused before.........I'm not sure how to regain that.
    It's depression. Not uncommon. When you have the ability to be physical, then it gets taken away, it's easy to fall into depression. Athletes go through it as well as regular people.
    So write down what you really want to do and make it specific. Post it up on your bathroom mirror, your fridge and your car visor so you can see it consistently to remind yourself. You've been there before, so it's not impossible. Start small and progress each week. In no time, you'll return to form, albeit with some modifications of physical work.


    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • Rocbola
    Rocbola Posts: 1,998 Member
    Nice ninja edit!!!

    escloflowne didn't "ninja edit" the edit is listed for all to see.
    Look at the bottom of the post. The edit tag is on all edited posts.

    "Edited by escloflowne on Fri 12/07/12 06:23 AM"
  • cally69
    cally69 Posts: 182 Member
    and I'm having such a challenging time trying to get things to kick in again!

    I'm not surprised.

    Psychologically you have suffered a set back. You have to pick yourself and start from square one again. That is difficult to reconcile and you don't have that "honeymoon" period of starting something new to push you forwards. What you do have hopefully is more knowledge then you did last time.

    I think once you have 3-7 days of consistent logging under your belt you will find the swing of it again. Getting back into the routine will probably be the hardest thing. Once you have conquered that you will be fine.


    I think the above is the best answer to the OP so far. She had already lost 40lbs so was doing something right and it seems that her lack of motivation this time around was lacking, not her nutritional knowledge. It can be hard to get back on the wagon but like this poster says, once you've logged and got back into the habit again, you'll be off and running. Just remember why you want to do this. Get up each day and JUST DO IT. The results will follow.
    Wishing you success
    X
  • Rocbola
    Rocbola Posts: 1,998 Member

    In all honesty- if YOU personally want to eat just fruits and vegs and low fat- that fantastic. BUT as someone else stated, that is not the only way that someone can maintain a healthy lifestyle.
    It's the best way though. Why not let the OP know the best way, and let her deviate as she sees fit from there?

    This is your problem, man. It's not. For every study that you read (that, really, as dizzle said... are probably a bit antiquated) that advocates for the "low fat, low protein" diet, there's multiple, more current studies saying, "Well, THIS is also good, too" or "This is BETTER."

    Hell, there was just the "Five Places with the Most Longevity" study that came out a few weeks ago, and EVEN the cited Asian culture (Okinawa) had a huge ingestion of fish. In fact, they found that the common factors in these different groups diets was legumes... and fish. Red wine was also a big factor.

    You have stated in other posts, "I think..." Keep saying that, and keep realizing what that means. It's an opinion; it's not necessarily "bad," but it doesn't make it the "best." Objectivity is a beautiful thing.
    I preface my opinions with "i think" to let the reader know it is an opinion.
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member

    In all honesty- if YOU personally want to eat just fruits and vegs and low fat- that fantastic. BUT as someone else stated, that is not the only way that someone can maintain a healthy lifestyle.
    It's the best way though. Why not let the OP know the best way, and let her deviate as she sees fit from there?

    This is your problem, man. It's not. For every study that you read (that, really, as dizzle said... are probably a bit antiquated) that advocates for the "low fat, low protein" diet, there's multiple, more current studies saying, "Well, THIS is also good, too" or "This is BETTER."

    Hell, there was just the "Five Places with the Most Longevity" study that came out a few weeks ago, and EVEN the cited Asian culture (Okinawa) had a huge ingestion of fish. In fact, they found that the common factors in these different groups diets was legumes... and fish. Red wine was also a big factor.

    You have stated in other posts, "I think..." Keep saying that, and keep realizing what that means. It's an opinion; it's not necessarily "bad," but it doesn't make it the "best." Objectivity is a beautiful thing.
    I preface my opinions with "i think" to let the reader know it is an opinion.

    "It's the best way" vs. "I think it's the best way, personally."
  • keeponkickin
    keeponkickin Posts: 1,520 Member
    dafuq? Uhm, NO. This is 1990s thinking - low fat diets are crap. So are low-carb. Eat in moderation. Protein is king when you want to retain lean mass while losing fat.

    ^^^THIS^^^
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
    and I'm having such a challenging time trying to get things to kick in again!

    I'm not surprised.

    Psychologically you have suffered a set back. You have to pick yourself and start from square one again. That is difficult to reconcile and you don't have that "honeymoon" period of starting something new to push you forwards. What you do have hopefully is more knowledge then you did last time.

    I think once you have 3-7 days of consistent logging under your belt you will find the swing of it again. Getting back into the routine will probably be the hardest thing. Once you have conquered that you will be fine.

    Thank you for your post and encouragement. That does put the emotional side into perspective - definitely!
  • _Wits_
    _Wits_ Posts: 1,286 Member
    and I'm having such a challenging time trying to get things to kick in again!

    I'm not surprised.

    Psychologically you have suffered a set back. You have to pick yourself and start from square one again. That is difficult to reconcile and you don't have that "honeymoon" period of starting something new to push you forwards. What you do have hopefully is more knowledge then you did last time.

    I think once you have 3-7 days of consistent logging under your belt you will find the swing of it again. Getting back into the routine will probably be the hardest thing. Once you have conquered that you will be fine.


    I think the above is the best answer to the OP so far. She had already lost 40lbs so was doing something right and it seems that her lack of motivation this time around was lacking, not her nutritional knowledge. It can be hard to get back on the wagon but like this poster says, once you've logged and got back into the habit again, you'll be off and running. Just remember why you want to do this. Get up each day and JUST DO IT. The results will follow.
    Wishing you success
    X

    This.
  • Rachlmale
    Rachlmale Posts: 640 Member
    there's a diet for everyone...if you wanna eat paleo....have at it. I, for one, like my treats and refined sugars so that whole moderation thing will work for me for life. ;)

    Not gonna argue with vegan boy about his claims. Don't really care. You wanna keep the weight off? You need to learn how to eat and not deprive yourself of things you enjoy while moving your booty a bit more. Period, the end.


    Agreed :)
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
    OP: Eat what you want, eat what you'll eat today and tomorrow and the rest of your life. Eat what you like, eat what tastes good and makes you feel good. Eat at a deficit now, and keep tracking and eat at maintenance later when you don't want to lose anymore. Eat more upon occasion, go over, go in the red once in a while if you want...do it without guilt. Enjoy yourself, enjoy life!!! This isn't that hard. Don't make it hard.

    Lose weight = less calories than you burn in a day. Simple. Lift some heavy things once in a while for body composition. Do some cardio if it makes you feel good.

    Not one person here is going to be with you every single day. Not one person here can tell you what foods you enjoy and if you eat what you enjoy now, you'll have no problem eating what foods you enjoy later.

    If you like a lot of fruits and veggies, then eat a ton of them, but if you're like me, and you're more of a meat lovers pizza over the supreme, then order the meat lovers, with extra cheese. (Mmmm....Pizza)

    Now, in honor of this post, I'm going to have a small candy bar with my coffee at 8:30 in the morning.

    Rebel~!!! lol
    There are donuts in the breakroom this morning..........please enjoy mine with your coffee as well~!! lol (Thanks for your post -- although, you did plant the seed for pizza now.... ;-( )
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    Nice ninja edit!!!

    escloflowne didn't "ninja edit" the edit is listed for all to see.
    Look at the bottom of the post. The edit tag is on all edited posts.

    "Edited by escloflowne on Fri 12/07/12 06:23 AM"

    ok?
  • chelsifina
    chelsifina Posts: 346 Member
    Just my 2 since but my doctor (a Harvard-educated specialist in longevity and optimal health) put me on the paleo diet. She suggested reading Primal Mind Primal Body. She tweaked the author's suggestions the following ways: stevia as the only sweetener, no tropical fruits, no dairy except goat cheese. I have to be quite strict about all of it because of my own medical issues, but I lost 5 pounds right away (It took me 2 years to lose my first 10 because of my medical issues) without much exercise.
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
    and I'm having such a challenging time trying to get things to kick in again!

    I'm not surprised.

    Psychologically you have suffered a set back. You have to pick yourself and start from square one again. That is difficult to reconcile and you don't have that "honeymoon" period of starting something new to push you forwards. What you do have hopefully is more knowledge then you did last time.

    I think once you have 3-7 days of consistent logging under your belt you will find the swing of it again. Getting back into the routine will probably be the hardest thing. Once you have conquered that you will be fine.


    I think the above is the best answer to the OP so far. She had already lost 40lbs so was doing something right and it seems that her lack of motivation this time around was lacking, not her nutritional knowledge. It can be hard to get back on the wagon but like this poster says, once you've logged and got back into the habit again, you'll be off and running. Just remember why you want to do this. Get up each day and JUST DO IT. The results will follow.
    Wishing you success
    X

    aww thanks....you're right.....I WAS doing something right to have lost.......just getting back into the swing of things is probably what I need~!! Much appreciation!
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    OP: Eat what you want, eat what you'll eat today and tomorrow and the rest of your life. Eat what you like, eat what tastes good and makes you feel good. Eat at a deficit now, and keep tracking and eat at maintenance later when you don't want to lose anymore. Eat more upon occasion, go over, go in the red once in a while if you want...do it without guilt. Enjoy yourself, enjoy life!!! This isn't that hard. Don't make it hard.

    Lose weight = less calories than you burn in a day. Simple. Lift some heavy things once in a while for body composition. Do some cardio if it makes you feel good.

    Not one person here is going to be with you every single day. Not one person here can tell you what foods you enjoy and if you eat what you enjoy now, you'll have no problem eating what foods you enjoy later.

    If you like a lot of fruits and veggies, then eat a ton of them, but if you're like me, and you're more of a meat lovers pizza over the supreme, then order the meat lovers, with extra cheese. (Mmmm....Pizza)

    Now, in honor of this post, I'm going to have a small candy bar with my coffee at 8:30 in the morning.

    Rebel~!!! lol
    There are donuts in the breakroom this morning..........please enjoy mine with your coffee as well~!! lol (Thanks for your post -- although, you did plant the seed for pizza now.... ;-( )

    I eat what I want but stay in my calorie goal, my diet is high fat because that's the food I enjoy! I've lost 90lbs since January and all my blood tests come back very healthy so just get back to eating within your goals again and enjoy the food you eat!
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
    Well....while I certainly didn't mean to cause such comotion, I defnitely appreciate all the comments, advice, encouragement that I received from you all this morning -- and some of the humor!

    You've picked my morning up and given me some points to ponder........much appreciation for all of that.

    Thus far, I'm up to 2000 steps today -- not bad considering I'm at an office job from 6am-5pm...........hoping to hit 10,000 today! Logging food as I go.

    I also checked out Fat2Fit and think it is definitely worth spending a little time there.......www.fat2fitradio.com

    again, much appreciation everyone. You've turned my head in a positive direction and for that I'm very grateful. Thanks for being here for me this morning.
  • Rocbola
    Rocbola Posts: 1,998 Member

    In all honesty- if YOU personally want to eat just fruits and vegs and low fat- that fantastic. BUT as someone else stated, that is not the only way that someone can maintain a healthy lifestyle.
    It's the best way though. Why not let the OP know the best way, and let her deviate as she sees fit from there?

    This is your problem, man. It's not. For every study that you read (that, really, as dizzle said... are probably a bit antiquated) that advocates for the "low fat, low protein" diet, there's multiple, more current studies saying, "Well, THIS is also good, too" or "This is BETTER."

    Hell, there was just the "Five Places with the Most Longevity" study that came out a few weeks ago, and EVEN the cited Asian culture (Okinawa) had a huge ingestion of fish. In fact, they found that the common factors in these different groups diets was legumes... and fish. Red wine was also a big factor.

    You have stated in other posts, "I think..." Keep saying that, and keep realizing what that means. It's an opinion; it's not necessarily "bad," but it doesn't make it the "best." Objectivity is a beautiful thing.
    I preface my opinions with "i think" to let the reader know it is an opinion.

    "It's the best way" vs. "I think it's the best way, personally."
    I think it's the best way, based on the research data. There are a lot of theories out there, but the reality is that there are billions of people in this world, and throughout the world, many different cultures eat many different things. The people that eat more fruits and veg, and less fat, live longer, are skinnier, and have less instances of the diseases that kill most Americans. So i base my opinions on fact. Before i was exposed to the research, i bought into the same biases, misinformation, theories and outright lies as everyone else on here.
  • annepage
    annepage Posts: 585 Member
    [/quote]It's depression. Not uncommon. When you have the ability to be physical, then it gets taken away, it's easy to fall into depression. Athletes go through it as well as regular people.
    So write down what you really want to do and make it specific. Post it up on your bathroom mirror, your fridge and your car visor so you can see it consistently to remind yourself. You've been there before, so it's not impossible. Start small and progress each week. In no time, you'll return to form, albeit with some modifications of physical work.


    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    [/quote]


    I'm no athlete so I don't know what they are taught or the training they go through. From your experience, how do they typically combat this depression from becoming inactive due to injury? Sometimes it feels like setback after setback with injuries and not being able to consistently exercise which gets even more frustrating/depressing. It's also frustrating because unlike athletes who probably get to put their healing/training as their #1 priority because that's their profession, people who aren't athletes are not able to and the whole process takes longer. Is it all just summed up in the mindset that "to achieve fitness you have to overcome adversity and obstacles?"

    Thanks.
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
    OP: Eat what you want, eat what you'll eat today and tomorrow and the rest of your life. Eat what you like, eat what tastes good and makes you feel good. Eat at a deficit now, and keep tracking and eat at maintenance later when you don't want to lose anymore. Eat more upon occasion, go over, go in the red once in a while if you want...do it without guilt. Enjoy yourself, enjoy life!!! This isn't that hard. Don't make it hard.

    Lose weight = less calories than you burn in a day. Simple. Lift some heavy things once in a while for body composition. Do some cardio if it makes you feel good.

    Not one person here is going to be with you every single day. Not one person here can tell you what foods you enjoy and if you eat what you enjoy now, you'll have no problem eating what foods you enjoy later.

    If you like a lot of fruits and veggies, then eat a ton of them, but if you're like me, and you're more of a meat lovers pizza over the supreme, then order the meat lovers, with extra cheese. (Mmmm....Pizza)

    Now, in honor of this post, I'm going to have a small candy bar with my coffee at 8:30 in the morning.

    Rebel~!!! lol
    There are donuts in the breakroom this morning..........please enjoy mine with your coffee as well~!! lol (Thanks for your post -- although, you did plant the seed for pizza now.... ;-( )

    I eat what I want but stay in my calorie goal, my diet is high fat because that's the food I enjoy! I've lost 90lbs since January and all my blood tests come back very healthy so just get back to eating within your goals again and enjoy the food you eat!

    That is an AMAZING accomplishmenet!!!! WOW
  • hypotrochoid
    hypotrochoid Posts: 842 Member
    It takes about eight weeks to form a habit, and it's really hard to get back on the horse once you fall. That being said, it's doable. You did something, it worked. Now you just need to get back to doing it, one day at a time. Concentrate on one thing- just logging your food. When you're back in the habit of that, start adding in other things. It's easy to get overwhelmed if you try to restart everything at once.

    And... because I have to... High fat diets aren't the devil. It all depends on the TYPE of fat. I will never give up my almonds.
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    I think it's the best way, based on the research data. There are a lot of theories out there, but the reality is that there are billions of people in this world, and throughout the world, many different cultures eat many different things. The people that eat more fruits and veg, and less fat, live longer, are skinnier, and have less instances of the diseases that kill most Americans. So i base my opinions on fact. Before i was exposed to the research, i bought into the same biases, misinformation, theories and outright lies as everyone else on here.

    *shakes my head*
    I got nothing..
  • DanaDark
    DanaDark Posts: 2,187 Member
    Food:

    Protein is used to repair damaged cells. People that engage in exercise require significantly more protein than those that do not as exercise damages many more cells than standard living. Simply breathing damages cells, walking, standing, etc. Protein is a MUST for a healthy diet.

    Fats are essential to the nervous system, which is mostly fatty tissue. Particularly, the myelin sheath surrounding the axon of the nerve cell is used as insulation, without it, normal nervous system function cannot be done. Fats also aid in the uptake of several vitamins and minerals that otherwise would pass through he body if not eaten with some fats.

    Carbohydrates tend to have the highest nutritional content when it comes to vitamins and certain minerals. Carbohydrates are also rather easily processed, digestion beginning directly in the mouth in the case of certain simply sugars. It would be exceedingly difficult to get adequate nutrition without the aid of several vitamin pills if one were to lower their intake of carbohydrates.

    Food wise, when in a caloric deficit, one need never worry about eating too much fat, protein, or carbohydrates. Intake should only be limited by those operating in excessive caloric surpluses. A normally healthy individual will almost never see poor health results from their macro choices unless it was directly related to malnutrition.

    Anyone arguing to minimize any of these three or maximize them is simply using incorrect information regarding the proper function of the human body.

    As for the OP...

    You know what to do. You know how to do it. The only thing you are really posting this thread for is to get others to push you into getting it done, and you know it. You didn't lose that 40 pounds initially by magic.

    So... get to it.
  • testease
    testease Posts: 220
    Most people who have troubles with weight loss, pure and simply suck at counting calories.

    They think they are eating a proper amount but due to being neglegent in weighing measuring, reading serving sizes, eating out to much, they are probably just breaking even or eating to much still.
  • JanaCanada
    JanaCanada Posts: 917 Member
    Opinions are like arseholes...everyone has one. :tongue:

    OP, if you lost weight before, you can do it again. You know how. You have the tools. You have the support. You may not have the knees anymore, but speaking as someone with ACL in both of mine, there ARE things you CAN do to exercise. It's a state of mind...you just have to make up your mind that you ARE going to do this and that you CAN do this...and the rest will fall into place.

    Listen, dieting or lifestyle change, whatever you want to call it, doesn't have to be complicated. Personally, I get annoyed by the "pros" who speak in acronyms, and those most juvenile posters who jump all over another poster with whom they disagree. There's all kinds of info out there, and a lot of it is contradictory and confusing...and it doesn't have to be.

    In my opinion, use the K.I.S.S. Method. The simpler, the better...because when all the "facts" are in, there is ONE common denominator among them: you eat less, you burn calories, you lose weight. Period. Not everything you put in your mouth is going to be healthy or "good for you", but losing weight IS healthy and the benefits of weight loss, regardless of HOW you do it, are many,

    So, in conclusion, just eat what you want, eat less of it, stay within your dailies, and get your body moving. It's YOUR life and YOUR diet. Make it work for YOU and fuggetabout the naysayers. Life is to be enjoyed.
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member

    In all honesty- if YOU personally want to eat just fruits and vegs and low fat- that fantastic. BUT as someone else stated, that is not the only way that someone can maintain a healthy lifestyle.
    It's the best way though. Why not let the OP know the best way, and let her deviate as she sees fit from there?

    This is your problem, man. It's not. For every study that you read (that, really, as dizzle said... are probably a bit antiquated) that advocates for the "low fat, low protein" diet, there's multiple, more current studies saying, "Well, THIS is also good, too" or "This is BETTER."

    Hell, there was just the "Five Places with the Most Longevity" study that came out a few weeks ago, and EVEN the cited Asian culture (Okinawa) had a huge ingestion of fish. In fact, they found that the common factors in these different groups diets was legumes... and fish. Red wine was also a big factor.

    You have stated in other posts, "I think..." Keep saying that, and keep realizing what that means. It's an opinion; it's not necessarily "bad," but it doesn't make it the "best." Objectivity is a beautiful thing.
    I preface my opinions with "i think" to let the reader know it is an opinion.

    "It's the best way" vs. "I think it's the best way, personally."
    I think it's the best way, based on the research data. There are a lot of theories out there, but the reality is that there are billions of people in this world, and throughout the world, many different cultures eat many different things. The people that eat more fruits and veg, and less fat, live longer, are skinnier, and have less instances of the diseases that kill most Americans. So i base my opinions on fact. Before i was exposed to the research, i bought into the same biases, misinformation, theories and outright lies as everyone else on here.

    Well aren't you a piece of work.
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
    Opinions are like arseholes...everyone has one. :tongue:

    OP, if you lost weight before, you can do it again. You know how. You have the tools. You have the support. You may not have the knees anymore, but speaking as someone with ACL in both of mine, there ARE things you CAN do to exercise. It's a state of mind...you just have to make up your mind that you ARE going to do this and that you CAN do this...and the rest will fall into place.

    Listen, dieting or lifestyle change, whatever you want to call it, doesn't have to be complicated. Personally, I get annoyed by the "pros" who speak in acronyms, and those most juvenile posters who jump all over another poster with whom they disagree. There's all kinds of info out there, and a lot of it is contradictory and confusing...and it doesn't have to be.

    In my opinion, use the K.I.S.S. Method. The simpler, the better...because when all the "facts" are in, there is ONE common denominator among them: you eat less, you burn calories, you lose weight. Period. Not everything you put in your mouth is going to be healthy or "good for you", but losing weight IS healthy and the benefits of weight loss, regardless of HOW you do it, are many,

    So, in conclusion, just eat what you want, eat less of it, stay within your dailies, and get your body moving. It's YOUR life and YOUR diet. Make it work for YOU and fuggetabout the naysayers. Life is to be enjoyed.

    Good advice. And - yes, not everything put into my mouth will be healthy or good for me -- and yes, eat what you want, eat less of it, stay within your dailies, and get your body moving. It's YOUR life and YOUR diet. Make it work for YOU and fuggetabout the naysayers...and YES, Life is to be enjoyed. THANKS!
  • gwenmf
    gwenmf Posts: 888 Member
    Food:

    Protein is used to repair damaged cells. People that engage in exercise require significantly more protein than those that do not as exercise damages many more cells than standard living. Simply breathing damages cells, walking, standing, etc. Protein is a MUST for a healthy diet.

    Fats are essential to the nervous system, which is mostly fatty tissue. Particularly, the myelin sheath surrounding the axon of the nerve cell is used as insulation, without it, normal nervous system function cannot be done. Fats also aid in the uptake of several vitamins and minerals that otherwise would pass through he body if not eaten with some fats.

    Carbohydrates tend to have the highest nutritional content when it comes to vitamins and certain minerals. Carbohydrates are also rather easily processed, digestion beginning directly in the mouth in the case of certain simply sugars. It would be exceedingly difficult to get adequate nutrition without the aid of several vitamin pills if one were to lower their intake of carbohydrates.

    Food wise, when in a caloric deficit, one need never worry about eating too much fat, protein, or carbohydrates. Intake should only be limited by those operating in excessive caloric surpluses. A normally healthy individual will almost never see poor health results from their macro choices unless it was directly related to malnutrition.

    Anyone arguing to minimize any of these three or maximize them is simply using incorrect information regarding the proper function of the human body.

    As for the OP...

    You know what to do. You know how to do it. The only thing you are really posting this thread for is to get others to push you into getting it done, and you know it. You didn't lose that 40 pounds initially by magic.

    So... get to it.

    <....gettting to it~! ;-)
    thanks
  • carlom18
    carlom18 Posts: 174 Member
    Here is what you can do.

    Using a calorie calculator on google or myfitnesspal (does it automatically), calculate the amount of calories you should consume to maintain you current weight. 1 pound of fat is 3500 calories, which is safe and steady weight loss which means you should be in a 500 calorie deficit each day to lose 1 pound of fat per week. To achieve this (as you know) it requires a mix of a good diet with plenty of nutrients and plenty of exercise. Im sure you knew about this any way.

    While nutrition is important to living a healthy style, the most important factor to weight loss is the amount of calories you consume each day, so yes, you could possibly lose weight on a diet of ice cream if you stayed within you calorie range, but this isn't recommended.

    What you could do to kick start you back off while you are still healing is to implement the calorie deficit without exercise. So for example, if your maintenance calories were 2200, then you should be eating 1700 calories each day. Now you don't have to do this straight away. Take it slowly. Reduce it maybe by about 100 calories per week so you slowly adapt your body to it. Now this isnt the best way to lose weight but it helps and can work

    When you are sure your knee is healed up enough, start exercising, do what you did before or change it and PLEASE make sure it is interesting!:smile: go at least 3 times a week. Aim for 4 -5. When you exercise you can up the calories a bit as the 500 calorie deficit can be met through a mix of dieting and exercise (Plus, you need to eat more when exercising, as you know)

    With nutrition, try and calculate macros based on your calorie intake. You don't need this to lose weight, but once you start getting close to your goal, implementing this can make a lot of difference in your health. Implementing correct macros early though is most beneficial imo.

    Ill give you an example of macros: so my calories for each day are 2100 and that is reached by making sure the food i eat is low - medium in calories and hits my macros which are 208 grams of protein, 85 grams of fat and 130 grams of carbs. Now this is a low carb macro split (40% protein / 35% fat / 25% carbs). There are so many calories that make up a gram of fat, a gram of protein and a gram of carbs.

    I'll also give you a very brief rundown of what i may eat on any given day in the week.

    Pre-work Out: protein shake (soon to change to BCAA's - DONT WORRY YOU DONT NEED THESE lol :smile: )

    Breakfast: Oats cooked in water with a drizzle of honey and a 3 egg white omelet (try looking around for low carb high protein pancakes - plenty of different recipes on youtube!)

    Snack 1: a piece of fruit with almonds

    Lunch: A tuna salad (Any salad!)

    Snack 2: more fruit and or celery/ carrot sticks with almond butter (Organic nut butters are VERY good for getting in your good fats - do not be afraid of fats by the way, eating fat DOES NOT make you fat!)/ almond butter on wholegrain/ rye break or a rice or corn cracker (I don't do the bread part at all)

    Dinner: Stews, Soups, grilled meats and salads, some pasta or rice doesn't hurt either. What ever you feel you like really, as long as you make it yourself and it packs plenty of nutrients!! Dinner time is where I eat the heaviest, as I eat lighter during the day!

    Snack 3: no fruit i have been told - too much sugar for night time unless its a low sugar fruit then i guess it is ok! - maybe just a can of tuna will do for a late night snack.

    Oh and another thing, multivitamin supplements a diet full of nutrition VERY WELL! maybe even fiber supplements to make you feel fuller if you struggling to get back into the whole eat less thing

    Hope i Helped!!


    And eat what you want to, don't deprive yourself!



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