GYM ETTIQUETTE

ninerbuff
ninerbuff Posts: 48,961 Member
Major Pet Peeves In Gym Etiquette - Your Mother Doesn't Work Here!


Where has gym etiquette gone? I have been around gyms for over twenty years and have never seen the outrageous things I see going on today. Here’s a brief list on the latest gym pet peeves and how to improve.

By: Lisa Sutton Jun 30, 2008
Your Mother Doesn't Work Here!

Too often when I walk the gym floor, I will undoubtedly find dumbbells left out or weight plates left on a machine. This infuriates me because it isn't just a five pound plate or ten pound dumbbell; it's usually our one hundred pound plates and a couple of forty fives left on a leg press machine. Sometimes the inconsiderate culprit will leave out the heavy dumbbells on the floor. Thanks guys, it really makes my day to clean up after you.

I am not saying women don't leave weights out as well, but the men are the biggest offenders when it comes to the heavier weights. Not too many women I know are using the eighty-pound dumbbells for example.

It never ceases to amaze me how people think that we are responsible for racking their weights. Get a clue, its part of your workout, not to mention its plain and simple common courtesy to the other members. Do you want to unload someone else's weights off a machine or barbell so you can use it?


Where has gym etiquette gone? What happened? I have been around gyms for over twenty years and have never seen the outrageous things I see going on today. I don't know if it's the generation or that people just do not give a d@mn about anyone else around them anymore. Back in the day if you left a weight out you were immediately reprimanded and possibly thrown out of the gym all together. Now, it's a free-for-all.

Not only are people not racking their weights, they are abusing the equipment. This by the way can be dangerous. It isn't uncommon for me to hear the machines being slammed or weights being dropped and I don't mean bumped a little. These people are literally dropping the weights (particularly the dumbbells) from heights you can't even imagine. They just don't get it... doing this can break the dumbbell as well as damage the floor.

This type of behavior could potentially hurt a fellow member. The weight could roll over on somebody's hand or foot. The slamming of the equipment could also be an accident waiting to happen. The pin in a machine will eventually get caught between plates and then POW! Here is an injury that could have easily been avoided.

Next, share the equipment, don't hog it. If you have multiple sets to do, then let someone break in and do their set or sets, it makes for a more pleasant environment when people are actually polite to one another.


I have yet another pet peeve, and that is not wiping down the equipment after sweating all over it. It is unsanitary as well as rude. We provide small towels and disinfectant bottles for that very reason. So why aren't some people utilizing them? Who the h#ll knows? This unconscionable behavior has baffled me for years.

I am not saying our clientele in general is unmanageable and rude, but there are those few people who make it difficult on everyone. By not racking your weights, you make it hard for the next person to find what they need to use. When you don't share the equipment, you make it trying for a person to get their workout in. Finally, PLEASE wipe down the machines and or equipment you use and perspire all over. Nobody wants to sit or lay in your body fluids.


Be Courteous And Help Keep The Gym Neat And Clean.

Next time you go to the gym for your workout, be mindful of these issues. There are certain rules in life we all have to abide by. It's no different in a gym or fitness facility.

Be courteous and help each other keep the gym neat and clean.

Major Pet Peeves In Gym Etiquette - Your Mother Doesn't Work Here!

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  • supermodelchic
    supermodelchic Posts: 550 Member
    LOL I agree with you I have been lifting for 32 years , formal training in a powerlifting gym with some big , strong guy's so I have no know problem busting those people and telling them to pick up , unload weights ect..Kinda fun actually!
  • Jenism1
    Jenism1 Posts: 149 Member
    Totally agree! I hate having to take off weight plates that people leave on. It happens all the time. Or the ones who move the bench over to the Smith machine and then leave it there for someone else to move. Or take off the handles to the cable machine and then you have to go on a scavenger hunt to locate them. URG! Good thing I am there lifting weights and getting out some aggression that way...

    Thanks for the reminder of gym etiquette!
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,961 Member
    In my gym, I will stop any guy who leaves weights on the bars and doesn't rerack them. Usually I'll say "If you're not aware of it (I know they are) when done with exercising, we ask that you rerack the weights."

    I had one guy ask me "why" if other guys are just going to put it back on. I said "because if it was your wife, mother, or sister, and they aren't as strong as you, should they have to unload it to put on the weight they need to use?"

    He went back and reracked the weights.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • iplayoutside19
    iplayoutside19 Posts: 2,304 Member
    Amen.

    The group of people in my home YMCA are usually very good about the whole ettiqute thing. But once I week I go to another YMCA in another town and this place houses the biggest losers I have ever seen. This morning when went to the deadlift platform I was greeted with 225 loaded up on the bar. I asked the nearest CurlBro if anyone was using it and he said no. I made some snide comment about it being nice of people to pick up after themselves.

    Funny thing is, don't you go to the gym to be stronger and have more energy? They must not be working out correctly because surely if you can work out...you have enough energy to pick up after yourself.
  • No_Finish_Line
    No_Finish_Line Posts: 3,661 Member
    I've only wiped down a bench a handfull of times lol. I rarely see anyone wiping down anything but cardio equipment. Is it gross? yeah i guess it is but i'm not going the extra mile when i'm going to end up sitting in someone else filth anyway (yes i could wipe before and after lol). does that make me a scum bag? yea probably. btw, i've never seen or heard of anyone wiping down barbells or dumbells and thats probably the most germy/sweaty parts of the gym, might not be safe if it made it slippery tho i guess.

    Leaving the weights on the bar doesn't bother me, sometimes i'll even leave 45s on if i'm pretty sure some guys going to get on it next. But i can't stand when people leave dumbells out because you can never be sure they are not being used.

    BUT my absolute WORST pet peeve is when someone will take like 3 or more sets of dumbells and horad them for 30 mins while they do three sets and take 10 min in between. They'll literally act insulted if you ask to use one of the sets of dumbells that they aren't currently using. Pisses me off.
  • Greenrun99
    Greenrun99 Posts: 2,065 Member
    Great tips, There has been numerous times I am trying to use a bench or the leg press and there are weights everywhere, ask someone hey is someone on this? Nope haven't seen anyone use it.. Like really, rack your weights.. If you leave 1 45 on each side, fine.. cause I usually add that and more.. but multiple plates.. come on don't be lazy.

    And the worst and I think others have the same experience, the sharing.. Now I don't neccessarily like sharing weights/machines pull down racks with people, but if they ask I am not going to say no.. But outside of that, I hate those people that will place a towel or something on weights or a water bottle next to a machine or something like they are reserving it.. then when your on your 3rd set, a couple minutes into your workout they come over and say.. Didn't you see my towel/water bottle/ whatever? Ya I seen it but nobody was around, figured someone just left it there..
    People walk around and act like they own the gym nowadays and that the staff is there to wipe machines and rack their weights.. Sure they do that at the end of the day or down times, but not between people's sets.. It is getting out of hand.
  • ACepero79
    ACepero79 Posts: 711 Member
    My biggest pet peeve are the people that crop dust the free weight area and walk briskly away.
  • I hate when a pair, or even three people (seen both MALES and Females do this) Men actually being worse.
    They come in chatting, fair enough, do a set each of what their workout is, stand around hogging the equipment for 5-10 mins then attempt another set with bad form.
    I even attempted to help out.
    One guy was doing rear delt raises with an arched back. i went over and said "you shouldnt arch your back like that you will hurt yourself and the exercise isnt working as well as it would if you had correct form'
    me being a smaller guy than he, just say "ok,whatever, i dont need your help"
    his friend just standing laughing.

    See his friend a week later and he came and told me the other guy has a bad back.

    Karma.
    I Love it
  • n_unocero
    n_unocero Posts: 445 Member
    what's worse than not reracking weights is when people can't put them back in the right spot. In my gym there are little stickers on every peg saying what weight goes on what peg....and i hate when i have to take 2 35lb plates off to get to the 10's i need because apparently people don't know their numbers!
  • kinmad4it
    kinmad4it Posts: 185 Member
    I was almost through with my work out yesterday, just had squats and calf raises left. This one guy had already been hogging the Smith Machine for 30 minutes. Worse still, after every set he'd sit on the bench and use his phone, then do a quick set of barbell curls which he was also hogging.
    Finally, 45 minutes after getting on the machine he finally leaves it and wanders off to the chest fly machine. No surprise he also left all the weights on the bar and the bench he'd been using and also the steps and plates he'd set up to make the bench decline.
    Took me longer to clean his mess up than it did to actually complete my sets.
  • JustANumber85
    JustANumber85 Posts: 644 Member
    I dont see the slamming of weights. I do see more wiping down cardio than weight area. My guess would be because theres no hook for you to hang your towel on while working out, theres not even a place for your water, pencil or anything so you havw to drop it all on the dirty floor to do your set and then wipe it down.
  • lewcompton
    lewcompton Posts: 881 Member
    This is why I got a Total Gym, use the Wii Fit, have a pedometer, plan to add a chin bar and bench press. Really tired of seeing why my Jr. High students act like jacka$$e$... Apparently it's genetic! I was working out with their parents who are...
  • mhotch
    mhotch Posts: 901 Member
    If I knew it would work, I would print this out and tape it to all the equipment!!
  • algebravoodoo
    algebravoodoo Posts: 776 Member
    In my gym, I will stop any guy who leaves weights on the bars and doesn't rerack them. Usually I'll say "If you're not aware of it (I know they are) when done with exercising, we ask that you rerack the weights."

    I had one guy ask me "why" if other guys are just going to put it back on. I said "because if it was your wife, mother, or sister, and they aren't as strong as you, should they have to unload it to put on the weight they need to use?"

    He went back and reracked the weights.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    LIKE!!!! Best response there is.
  • MsJulielicious
    MsJulielicious Posts: 708 Member
    Everytime I use the hack squat machine I am removing a serious amount of weight plates off that have been left on. Drives me insane!!! That and the not wiping the equipment down!!! When I first started going I got a rash up my arms! Now I religiously wipe BEFORE using a machine. Boo People!
  • I recently had the very unpleasant experience of getting a yeast infection on my hands. Yes, my hands. I wasn't sure what it was at first, so I went to the Dr. I asked how that could happen. The Dr. asked what things I had been doing. When I said that I had been going to the gym 5-6 days a week, she stopped me and said there is your problem. I now wipe down all of the equipment I use before and after I use it. I will admit though, when I see some of these guys who absolutely refuse to wipe down equipment, I think maybe I shouldn't have bothered being so nice while I actively had that infection. I promise after dealing with a nasty yeast infection one time, they may reconsider. The best part about it is yeast infections will sometimes travel from one area of the body to another. Think about guys. Not a pleasant thought if you ask me.
  • RECowgill
    RECowgill Posts: 881 Member
    Some guys, especially the younger ones, are just clueless and don't know anything yet. =)

    Nobody ever taught them manners. Or because they're in a gym lifting weights and doing "man stuff", they think they don't have to have any manners. Ridiculous.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,961 Member
    I should link this with my "Put the damn phone away" thread because some there don't think gym etiquette is necessary.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 28+ years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • vtmoon
    vtmoon Posts: 3,436 Member
    Haha I read that when she first wrote it. She is the nicest person but snaps from stuff that is common sense but isn't followed. Used to ref her beach volleyball tournaments on the East coast.
  • MooMooooo
    MooMooooo Posts: 306 Member
    Back in the day if you left a weight out you were immediately reprimanded and possibly thrown out of the gym all together. Now, it's a free-for-all.

    THIS is what's wrong. No consequences. It's the owners/ managers fault for not issuing consequences for improper use of equipment.
    The owners/ managers need to take care of it and not leave it to other club members to confront rude/ entitled people.
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    WTG! I clean all machines after I am done but there are lazy people ya know?
  • Everytime I use the hack squat machine I am removing a serious amount of weight plates off that have been left on. Drives me insane!!! That and the not wiping the equipment down!!! When I first started going I got a rash up my arms! Now I religiously wipe BEFORE using a machine. Boo People!

    Eew! I'm totally going to start doing this.
  • bdamaster60
    bdamaster60 Posts: 595 Member
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  • brevislux
    brevislux Posts: 1,093 Member
    My personal pet peeve is people who leave their goddamn sweaty towel on some equipment and go do over things. I'm not talking about people who rest between sets, because I can sometimes spot a towel at the same place for as long as 15 minutes and longer. And then when you go around the gym to find the owner and find out what the deal is, they suddenly recall they want to use that equipment now.... :mad:
  • girlinahat
    girlinahat Posts: 2,956 Member
    weights left on the bar is my pet peeve. I'm 5 foot tall and there's 400lbs of weight on the bar up high because someone tall has squatting (with poor form - I watched him). I'm not afraid to tell someone to clear the rack, but it annoys me when EVERY time I go to the gym I have to have a workout getting the damn things off the bar before I can even start!!!

    It's not funny and it's downright DANGEROUS
  • jimmmer
    jimmmer Posts: 3,515 Member
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    Ha ha! I love this.....
  • No_Finish_Line
    No_Finish_Line Posts: 3,661 Member
    Last night, this guy must have been in his 60s, certainly old enough to know better.

    Hes doing standing laterals. He's got his water on one bench. When he's done with the set, he puts his weights down on a bench (not the same one as his water is on), then takes six steps and sits his *kitten* on another bench.

    Guy was taking up three benches at once! and not using any of them for exercise!
  • One thing i dont personally do but i do agree with (my opinion so dont hate on me)...... Curling in the squat rack.

    Yes you could take the barbell out and curl another place, but if no one is using the equipment you have every right to use it, do you not?

    Im guessing people questioned Arnold when he used his now famous "Arnold Press", look where that got him.
    Curling heavy is getting progress. The only thing that should be of concern is if they hog it for too long or their form is terrible!
  • alpine1994
    alpine1994 Posts: 1,915 Member
    This stuff reminds me why I love working out at home or in the great outdoors.
  • Brunner26_2
    Brunner26_2 Posts: 1,152
    My biggest pet peeve are the people that crop dust the free weight area and walk briskly away.

    I don't understand.