Question about husbands music choice

Have you checked his Youtube search history yet?

Have you checked his Youtube search history yet?

Check his browsing history too before he orders Pink concert tickets..

Just to clarify...I wasn't checking up on him. He ordered them off of Amazon (my debit card is on his account for ordering shows/movie that we stream through our blu-ray) and used my card to pay for them.

Unless he is rather dense (which is a possibility) would he have used your card to pay for them if they were for some nefarious reason?

If I wanted to get some CDs for my mistress then I certainly wouldn't use a joint account I had with my wife to pay for them. No self respecting lothario would be that shoddy.

At face value, I'd have to agree that he was probably embarrassed. However, none of us know you or your husband or your relationship and it's none of our business either. Our opinions are only based on our own experiences and ideals.

Either have a chat with him to find out for sure or let it go.

Hey, it is my business.

The whole 'asking for an opinion on the internet' thing is a dead giveaway.

Anyway, at face value, I'd say the bloke was frustrated with his life and wanted to connect with his imagined younger self through music.

I do the same, Vera Lynn floats my boat nightly, don't tell the wife

He lied. I'd want to know why.

Aw geez Patti!

It's a Pink CD! He's probably embarrassed because that isn't exactly "tough guy music." And you say it's not what he normally listens to, so he'd definitely feel embarrassed.

Relax. He bought some music.

OR he's using the sweet lyrics of Glitter In The Air to lure girls into backseat car sex. Which do you think is more likely?

i think you're onto something, Brett... Glitter In The Air makes my knickers drop EVERY TIME. kind of embarassing when it happens in public...

here's a question: why are married ppl not allowed to have anything that's their own? srsly, it's music. he didn't order a bunch of stuff from an adult site that you're not into or wasn't in your size... it's MUSIC. proportional responses, ppl, proportional responses.

here's a question: why are married ppl not allowed to have anything that's their own?.

They are. Just not sure why they have to lie about it.

So of course she'll be honest and tell him she started a thread on a website listing his choice of music selection and her suspicions...


Right?

So of course she'll be honest and tell him she started a thread on a website listing his choice of music selection and her suspicions...


Right?

Ha ha........dude, you read my mind.

here's a question: why are married ppl not allowed to have anything that's their own?.

They are. Just not sure why they have to lie about it.

Can you tell that to my wife please? Every time I say: "that's a nice dress / coat / pair of shoes / skirt / tiara / faberge egg, when did you get it?" she always says "ooooooh, this old thing? I've had it for ages. I got it in the sales"

Does she think I don't know what's in fashion this season? Well, I do! Women. The nerve of it....

Can you tell that to my wife please?

Dear msf74's Wife,
You don't have to lie about what you buy. It's YOUR money. If you want a new outfit, tell him you're going shopping for a new outfit. If your budget doesn't allow for it and you have to lie about the purchase, you probably shouldn't buy it.

Sincerely,
perfectingpatti

Hey that might work!

I'll ask her after she's finished listening to those new P!nk CDs she got in the post the other day. Funny though. She always downloads her music....wait....nope, the thought's gone.