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Can you be "hot" at 40?

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  • blazergrad
    blazergrad Posts: 603 Member
    As long as my wife is still saying I'm hot, that's all that matters! :glasses:
  • wjniii
    wjniii Posts: 110 Member
    Not only "hot" but knowledgeable. A killer combination!
  • supahstar71
    supahstar71 Posts: 926 Member
    I think you can be hot at almost 42. :smokin:



    Just saw this. Indeed, Etoiles! :drinker:
    I dunno. Ask all the boys in their 20's chasing after me.
  • fitbu
    fitbu Posts: 1 Member
    I am 42 and I would I say I pretty HOT.:)
  • HurricaneElaine
    HurricaneElaine Posts: 984 Member
    I think you can be hot at almost 42. :smokin:

    Supahstar, with those legs, you are definitely HOT!!
  • SideSteel
    SideSteel Posts: 11,068 Member
    What's the cutoff? I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder but can you really be considered "hot" at 40? 45? 50?

    Hell yes, my FL has quite a few 45+ hotties.
  • rascallycat
    rascallycat Posts: 248 Member
    There is a cutoff? If that is the case, I am wasting my time by going to the gym.
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    I like to think so.
  • Minnesota_Nice
    Minnesota_Nice Posts: 414 Member
    87.... That's my cut off. Fantastic in bed...
  • BaileyP3
    BaileyP3 Posts: 151 Member
    I think 'Hot' is part confidence and part taking care of oneself. And when I say confidence I don't mean arrogance. I know many younger women that confuse sass and arrogance with confidence. As a 49 year old I've got enuff mileage on me that I have come to believe that time smoothes out the rough spots. :-) , meaning: there's not as much of a sharp edge to the personality. (that whole 'what do you mean by that?' attitude where a person is looking to be offended)

    By the time you're over 40 chances are you've seen a lot and done a lot in your life (if you've chosen to pay attention)

    'Hot' comes in so many shapes and sizes :-)) Can you be 'hot' over 40? Ask Tina Turner, Sophia Loren, Cindy Crawford. I think so.
  • iorahkwano
    iorahkwano Posts: 709 Member
    All over 40yrs old... I searched for pics from 2012. No idea who had botox or work done, but here...
    Catherine+Zeta+Jones+Michael+Kors+Backstage+wZQnM8VEY8Dl.jpg
    Catherine Zeta-Jones

    Jennifer-lopez-pure-nightclub-Caesars-Palace-blue-white-EDITION-by-Georges-Chakra-blue-dress-spring-2012-christian-louboutin-lady-peep-pumps-9.jpg
    Jlo

    jennifer-aniston-600.jpg
    Jennifer Aniston

    Gwen-Stefani-at-The-2012-AMAs-111912wh.jpg
    Gwen Stefani

    lucy-lui-emmys.jpg
    Lucy Liu

    NAACP+Image+Awards+2012-vanessa-williams.jpg
    Vanessa Williams

    Cindy+Crawford+amfAR+New+York+Gala+Kick+Off+RLBdwHzlj9wl.jpg
    Cindy Crawford

    Meryl-Streep-will-court-her-fourth-Oscar-for-August-Osage-County.jpg
    Meryl Streep

    And some randoms...
    beautiful-older-women.jpg

    2009-06-02-carmen.jpg

    lee4.jpg
  • coffee_rocks
    coffee_rocks Posts: 275 Member
    My 49 year old wife is the hottest woman I know. Seriously, dropped 40 pounds running, looks fantastic, and is confident in herself. Now that's hot.
  • JamieSK
    JamieSK Posts: 266 Member
    Sure can!!
  • Mad_Dog_Muscle
    Mad_Dog_Muscle Posts: 1,251 Member
    Look around, this site is full of hot 40 and 50 year olds!
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    hell yeah, I have a friend that is 40 and hot. I have another42 year old friend that is a hottie also!
  • jennyrebekka
    jennyrebekka Posts: 626 Member
    No - you are not hot until you reach late 40s-50s - - it's called Menopause
  • IAmKellOnWheels
    IAmKellOnWheels Posts: 47 Member
    Oh absolutely!! I know when I hit 40, I finally felt comfortable, confident and really knew my body and how to use it ;). Hubby likes the 40 year old me! And confidence is the #1 thing that makes anyone sexy in my humble opinion!
  • CalJur
    CalJur Posts: 627 Member
    HYFR!!!!!!!! Put in the work and you can be hotter at 40 than you were at 20.
  • Of course coming from a 44 year old who is always mistaken for younger :flowerforyou:
  • Gwen_B
    Gwen_B Posts: 1,018 Member
    Absolutely!!! or I am working out and lifting weights for no reason at all ;-)
  • etoiles_argentees
    etoiles_argentees Posts: 2,827 Member
    I think you can be hot at almost 42. :smokin:



    Just saw this. Indeed, Etoiles! :drinker:
    I dunno. Ask all the boys in their 20's chasing after me.

    Right? We got it girl! xo!
  • heatherloveslifting
    heatherloveslifting Posts: 1,428 Member
    My highly unscientific observations suggest a huge YES.
  • logicman69
    logicman69 Posts: 1,034 Member
    I'm working on it. My goal is to be "hotter" at 40 than I was at 25.
  • neverstray
    neverstray Posts: 3,845 Member
    Hot is as hot does.
  • chanstriste13
    chanstriste13 Posts: 3,277 Member
    a cutoff for hotness?! no such thing!
  • iorahkwano
    iorahkwano Posts: 709 Member
    All over 40yrs old... I searched for pics from 2012. No idea who had botox or work done, but here...
    Catherine+Zeta+Jones+Michael+Kors+Backstage+wZQnM8VEY8Dl.jpg
    Catherine Zeta-Jones

    Jennifer-lopez-pure-nightclub-Caesars-Palace-blue-white-EDITION-by-Georges-Chakra-blue-dress-spring-2012-christian-louboutin-lady-peep-pumps-9.jpg
    Jlo

    jennifer-aniston-600.jpg
    Jennifer Aniston

    Gwen-Stefani-at-The-2012-AMAs-111912wh.jpg
    Gwen Stefani

    lucy-lui-emmys.jpg
    Lucy Liu

    NAACP+Image+Awards+2012-vanessa-williams.jpg
    Vanessa Williams

    Cindy+Crawford+amfAR+New+York+Gala+Kick+Off+RLBdwHzlj9wl.jpg
    Cindy Crawford

    Meryl-Streep-will-court-her-fourth-Oscar-for-August-Osage-County.jpg
    Meryl Streep

    And some randoms...
    beautiful-older-women.jpg

    2009-06-02-carmen.jpg

    lee4.jpg

    Just quoting myself since it took so long to write lol
  • Edithrenee
    Edithrenee Posts: 546 Member
    I am 43 i dont think im HOT anymore per say but im getting back to it !! lol I used to be called hot by the youngens, but i put on weight in the last 5 yrs and i dont think i hear it much as i used to..
    But i am like i said getting back to me!!! I dont think i look 43 however so that is a good thing.
  • Allison22451
    Allison22451 Posts: 686 Member
    i wish i knew.
    but if anyone has that witches brew, id like a tub full.
    please and thank you.
  • ShellyMacchi
    ShellyMacchi Posts: 975 Member
    "i" wasn't able to be hot at 40... but I sorta feel like I am at 56 :)
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    Totally Hot. I'm hotter than a lot of the ladies I see that are half my age. You can be gross at 40 too, though, so there are no guarantees of hotness at 40. :laugh:
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