Need support... Is all this really worth it?

I guess I'm just feeling over whelmed I need to lose A LOT of weight! Like around 100-200 pounds. And it's so so hard to do all the right things work out everyday eat all the right things. Instead of sitting down watching tv or playing on the computer and eating whatever I want. Does is ever get easier? I have hypothyroid and a prolactinoma pituitary tumor with no treatment for either due to no health insurence. I just don't know what to do. Any advise? Anyone going through the same? Does it ever get easier?
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  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,733 Member
    i don't know about the restrictions due to your medical conditions, but you can lose the weight. it takes patience. for now, forget all the baloney about low carb, clean eating, low fat, low sugar, etc. etc. etc. (unless you have to follow those for your medical conditions!). just get started logging your food. learn your BMR/TDEE and get in the habit of going under each day. it's critical to establish these behaviors as habits. once you do, none of this is hard... it just takes time. to lose 200 lbs, you should expect to be at this for a good 2 years or so. once you're on the way, then you can start researching nutrition and strength training and all those other things. what's important now is just getting started and learning to use the information and tools at hand so that you're equipped with an understanding of how and why your body gains and loses fat.

    i'll tell you one little secret... it's not as hard as you think it will be. plenty of people lose lots of weight simply by logging their food, making sure they are eating at a calorie deficit, and walking for exercise.
  • jlr2001
    jlr2001 Posts: 25 Member
    it's worth it, what i have done is make short term goals that are achievable and gone for that with the long range goals set as well.
    Do my best very day hopefully more good days than bad. Good luck , know you can do awesome!!!!
  • nuemmedigg
    nuemmedigg Posts: 220 Member
    Hi, I'm not a veteran loser yet, but it's got to be worth it. with your hypothyroidism you are probably cold a lot... so moving will feel good and warm you up. take it one day at a time, just do the best by focusing on wanting to feel good and energetic. wishing you much success and feel free to add me.
    Judith
  • ihad
    ihad Posts: 7,463 Member
    It is worth it. It can change your life. Realize you don't have to do everything at once. Start building new habits. As they take, build more. Don't obsess about the scale, focus on changing what you do. Eat less. Move more. Eat better. Lift some heavier things. You're building a new lifestyle - don't look to fad diets or drastic actions - use the process of losing weight to teach yourself how you'll live when you're done.
  • bgelliott
    bgelliott Posts: 610 Member
    It's so worth it but it's not easy. Sorry for your struggles but stick with it because in the end the rewards rock!
  • ravenchick
    ravenchick Posts: 345 Member
    When I started, I had 170 pounds to lose. That was 10 months ago. I still have 50 pounds to go but all I can say is, it is worth it more than you can imagine!! I see the world differently now. There really are no words to tell you how worth it, it really is. Do it for you, do it for your health. Do it for your future. Live a longer life. Good luck!
  • RonnieLodge
    RonnieLodge Posts: 665 Member
    It is worth it.

    How about baby steps - i.e. today instead of eating while at the computer, reading or watching tv, make sure when you eat you only eat sitting at a table with no other distractions.

    I used to eat loads while watching tv and movies but once I broke the habit, it saves a lot of calories.
  • cruzcrzyMarie
    cruzcrzyMarie Posts: 251 Member
    It is absolutely worth it. YOU are worth it. I saw a tag line once and it went something like this "dieting is hard, being fat is hard...choose your hard".... It is SO true. Hang in there. One day at a time. Remember, lots of self positive talk.




    Marie
  • annepage
    annepage Posts: 585 Member
    i don't know about the restrictions due to your medical conditions, but you can lose the weight. it takes patience. for now, forget all the baloney about low carb, clean eating, low fat, low sugar, etc. etc. etc. (unless you have to follow those for your medical conditions!). just get started logging your food. learn your BMR/TDEE and get in the habit of going under each day. it's critical to establish these behaviors as habits. once you do, none of this is hard... it just takes time. to lose 200 lbs, you should expect to be at this for a good 2 years or so. once you're on the way, then you can start researching nutrition and strength training and all those other things. what's important now is just getting started and learning to use the information and tools at hand so that you're equipped with an understanding of how and why your body gains and loses fat.

    i'll tell you one little secret... it's not as hard as you think it will be. plenty of people lose lots of weight simply by logging their food, making sure they are eating at a calorie deficit, and walking for exercise.

    Definitely. In the beginning, just log in EVERYTHING you eat. I used to go over by a ton when I started last year, but continued logging. After you're used to logging, then try to shoot for your calorie goal. Nothing extreme. Just do what you can to start getting closer and closer to that number. Eventually, meeting that number will become easier and before you know it, you've lost some weight in the process and it's time for a calorie deficit adjustment. It's been a year and I'm just starting to try to learn about the nutritional/strengthening/overall fitness aspect of this. Don't give up and don't get discouraged just because you're going over or it seems too tedious logging in everything. You'll get used to it as long as you stick with it and it is DEFINITELY worth it.
  • It's so worth it but it's not easy. Sorry for your struggles but stick with it because in the end the rewards rock!

    exactly! Don't lose your focus and stick to it. You'll be happier and healthier in the end. :flowerforyou:
  • JackKsavestheday
    JackKsavestheday Posts: 182 Member
    It's never easy but it does get easier to get into a schedule and before you know it you're not thinking about it. Yes it's hard and yes there will be days when you want to say F it. It's worth it when you look back and see all your hard work and your progress.
  • Its is very worth it. My life is so much better now and the more i lose the better it gets.
  • mikmurphy
    mikmurphy Posts: 57 Member
    You have to ask yourself if doing nothing and possibly gaining even more weight is worth it? As others have pointed out start with some small achievable goals, whatever that is for you. Like cutting out one soda instead of two, skip a pastry, whatever. Doing a quick 5 minutes of jumping jacks still burns some calories. Small victories add up. You'll feel the payoff as you drop pant sizes. You can do this! You'll gain a certain confidence in yourself too!
    Add me if you want.
  • trogalicious
    trogalicious Posts: 4,584 Member
    yeah, it's worth it. You'll get to the point where you don't WANT to just sit down at the computer or TV.
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,416 Member
    Do what you can - start with logging all your food, the good and the bad - this is definitely a learning process, and you are going to have days when you just can't do it. That's okay, just keep pushing toward your goal.

    Make a rule that you can't eat while on the computer. Then come here and read.

    There is no such thing as failure, only delayed success.
  • squirrelythegreat
    squirrelythegreat Posts: 158 Member
    It's worth it. It's definitely worth it. Down 115 lbs in 2 years. None of the steps I've taken have been very much work in and of themselves. Start small and make sustainable lifestyle changes. Then simply build from there. Whether those small steps are eliminating something negative (like a pack of soda a day) or adding something positive (parking further away at the store to get some extra walking in) you will slowly and surely start to feel better. Logging calories can seem like an awful lot of work, but in the end it's made all the difference for me. Best of luck on your journey! :)
  • Rayman79
    Rayman79 Posts: 2,009 Member
    Nah you're right its totally not worth it!

    I mean sure you will live longer, have less health complications including being at lower risk for diabetes, heart conditions, and a number of other degenerative diseases, be able to buy nice clothes and like the way they look on you, have increased self confidence, be able to move more freely, be happier and have more energy, get increased respect from the general community (I know that sounds judgmental but there is objective evidence to show this happens).

    But on the other hand, making a change to your life will require a little bit of effort. You will have to say no to the occasional slice of pie and make a conscious effort to get up and move on a daily basis...

    Actually, when you put it like that, it does seem worth it doesn't it!
  • DopeItUp
    DopeItUp Posts: 18,771 Member
    i don't know about the restrictions due to your medical conditions, but you can lose the weight. it takes patience. for now, forget all the baloney about low carb, clean eating, low fat, low sugar, etc. etc. etc. (unless you have to follow those for your medical conditions!). just get started logging your food. learn your BMR/TDEE and get in the habit of going under each day. it's critical to establish these behaviors as habits. once you do, none of this is hard... it just takes time. to lose 200 lbs, you should expect to be at this for a good 2 years or so. once you're on the way, then you can start researching nutrition and strength training and all those other things. what's important now is just getting started and learning to use the information and tools at hand so that you're equipped with an understanding of how and why your body gains and loses fat.

    i'll tell you one little secret... it's not as hard as you think it will be. plenty of people lose lots of weight simply by logging their food, making sure they are eating at a calorie deficit, and walking for exercise.

    I agree with all of this. Really it's quite easy, it just takes a little bit of work on a daily basis. But it takes a long time, that's the hard part - patience. Probably a couple years for you. Just do a little every day, the first few weeks is the only really hard part where you're adjusting your life. I'm approaching the 2 year mark myself and it's long been second nature.
  • fusion777
    fusion777 Posts: 197
    It's so worth it! I wish I started this time last year and I'd already be at my goal.

    I wish you lots of luck!
  • bethvandenberg
    bethvandenberg Posts: 1,496 Member
    It's worth it if you want to live in a different body. It's hard. I would recommend that you do your homework and plan your meals/snacks etc to fit your life. If you like to watch tv and eat then get some healthy snacks and pre sort them out into servings. If you spend an hour in the kitchen you can make a lot of healthy things and have them ready to go when it's time to eat. You'll know the calories.

    You've got to move for a half hour a day. Do something. Go for a walk. Look up on you tube and do some sort of exercise.

    Give up soda. If you don't drink it good for you. Get a water bottle and carry it with you everywhere and drink lots of water. Add lemon or whatever you like to it. :)

    If you can say that you can picture yourself smaller and want to be smaller than it's worth it! Choice is up to you. Friend me if you want. :) Best of luck.
  • Your diary is filled with so much sugar and processed foods. You can eat so much more if you fill your meals up with healthier choices, fruits, veggies, salads, whole grains, lean meats. Go through the success stories and find people with open diaries to get some ideas to make healthier choices. You will feel alot better!
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    In all honesty, this is an answer you need to give yourself. Sure we can point out that with fitness you will have better health, better adult life, better social life, better... life in general. But you have to ask yourself if the effort is worth it. Your NEED to get fit must be greater than your WANT to stay on couch eating potato chips and twinkies (RIP) all day.

    When you decide that YOU'RE worth the effort, we're here for you.

    Just gonna leave this link for you and hope you get some reasoning to why I think you're worth it

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/831382-maybe-definitely
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    It is worth it. It can change your life. Realize you don't have to do everything at once. Start building new habits. As they take, build more. Don't obsess about the scale, focus on changing what you do. Eat less. Move more. Eat better. Lift some heavier things. You're building a new lifestyle - don't look to fad diets or drastic actions - use the process of losing weight to teach yourself how you'll live when you're done.

    ^^this...absolutely.

    for me, it was baby steps...making better decisions here...better decisions there...working out a little here and a little there. Pretty soon I was making 80-90% better decisions as to what was going into my body...my walks 3x weekly turned into runs and HIIT and started walking on the less intense days just to keep moving...so 5 times per week...now recently have incorporated weight training on my non cardio intense days...

    It's been a slow process but I'm getting there little by little and feeling better than I have in years. Just baby stepin' to a new lifestyle...the results on the scale and my measurements are just gravy.
  • tenajh
    tenajh Posts: 208 Member
    Please feel free to friend me. Ask yourself this. Where do I see myself 1 year from now? in 5 yars from now? I have had some major obstacles and understand how difficult it can be to lose one single pound. What matters is where you want to be in your future, only you can make the necessary mental changes needed to change your mental/physical and psychological being. It takes a lot of effort and discipline and support, that is where we come in - to encourage you. I log on daily and highly suggest you do the same. I do not have a lot of wt to lose, but if I stop moving, I don't know how much longer I will be around. I am astounding my docs, so purely from a health stand point, you can have an easier life, if you start now. Look at your goals- are they tooo high? It gets easier when you do SOMETHING physical every single day, get into the habit - then start increasing it, it will become addictive. Eat well, this is the only body you get here on earth, so treat it that way. Would you want less for someone you love? Love, peace and light ~ janet
  • axialmeow
    axialmeow Posts: 382 Member
    I have lost over 100lbs. Here is my advice(I am a person who becomes easily overwhelmed and gives up). Start. Slow. Yes, it's very tempting to jump right in head first but that never worked for me. When I first started losing weight I started with just diet change. No formal exercise. I had to do one thing at a time and concentrate on just that. When I started losing I added in some exercise.

    If you can commit to small changes and make them become habits it can make this whole process much easier. It was daunting to think of making a big diet change plus commiting to 5-6 days a week of working out. I couldn't do it. Call me weak, whatever you want but this worked for me.

    I now work out regularly. I don't always log exercise on here. I use mfp for calorie tracking mainly.

    This works if you can commit to doing it. Maybe start with making NO diet changes and logging every single thing you eat/drink on here. See what you've been eating. Be honest about it. It'll give you a good starting point. Then start with small changes. See what you can cut out or lower day by day.
  • nancycaregiver
    nancycaregiver Posts: 812 Member
    It is totally worth it. At least it is to me! But only you can decide if it is worth it to you. You have to make that step. You have to do it for yourself. I can't tell you f it's worth it or you. Just try to not look at the big picture yet. Set short term goals. If you weigh 326, set your first goal to get under 300. Then celebrate! But not with food. Do some serious soul searching and if you decide to be healthy, add me. I can offer support and encouragement. Good luck.
  • Jesstruhan
    Jesstruhan Posts: 331 Member
    If you look at "easier" as changing your lifestyle to include smaller portions (which was hard for me), more exercise (another one I had to work at) and changing the WHAT you eat along with the how much....at the start it's hard.

    As you get use to doing life differently, it's much easier. Being mindful of your body and your health becomes a "new normal". But that...it takes a long time.

    What I've learned is that you have to like what you are eating, but eat a LOT less of it. I use to eat a lot of cheese. Now I eat just one portion (the legit, lipstick-sized piece) when I have it, and only really once per day. I don't need it on EVERYTHING anymore like I use to. I find I buy different cheese now than I did as well. I buy it to savor and enjoy now instead of just being the huge hunk of cheddar because I'll eat it within a month.

    Forcing yourself to exercise more is actually the easiest thing. Start with anything. When you watch TV, get up and start doing jumping jacks for a minute at a time. Or 20 body-weight squats. or 5 push-ups. ANYTHING to start getting addicted to wanting it to be easier and feel better. Once the fever to feel good kicks in, you won't want to stop.

    Make change slowly, or you run the risk of not doing it at all. Replace your soda with water. Keep a food diary to start. See where you normally are in calories vs. where you need to be. If you are eating too many calories, try to eat a little less and measure/weigh your food to know what portions are supposed to be (this is still a struggle for me). Get an idea of where you are to know where you need to be.

    I believe in you. You CAN do it. It takes what feels like forever, and you'll be discouraged at times, but that's what we're here for. We're doing this "new normal" thing together.

    Best of luck!!
  • danasings
    danasings Posts: 8,218 Member
    In all honesty, this is an answer you need to give yourself. Sure we can point out that with fitness you will have better health, better adult life, better social life, better... life in general. But you have to ask yourself if the effort is worth it. Your NEED to get fit must be greater than your WANT to stay on couch eating potato chips and twinkies (RIP) all day.

    When you decide that YOU'RE worth the effort, we're here for you.

    Just gonna leave this link for you and hope you get some reasoning to why I think you're worth it

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/831382-maybe-definitely

    ^^^^YES.

    And yes, it is worth it. YOU are worth it. You have my support if you'd like it.
  • With needing to loose 100 pounds myself I always remember my Dad telling me this one thing...he said you didnt put the weight on overnight and it wont come off overnight. SLOW AND STEADY is the way to go..any little change you make will make it easier to loose the weight. I started using my fitness pal on January 2nd and so far I am down 8 lbs. One change I made is when I come home from work I dont sit on the couch...I walk on my tredmill for at least 1/2 hr...I am also making healthier choices when eating..so far this is working for me....slow and steady
  • wendybird5
    wendybird5 Posts: 577 Member
    It is completely overwhelming, but only you can decide if it's worth it or not. I think it is and I think you are worth the effort, but that's just me. The important thing to remember is that it doesn't come off over night. It took me a year and a half to lose my weight because I had a lot of set backs and times when I got frustrated and just stopped doing what I was doing even though I was half way to my goal. But suddenly I found myself within ten pounds of my goal and it felt as if it had all happened over night. It's hard work, but if you can be patient and forgiving of yourself and focus on small goals, you can make it happen for yourself.

    I can't speak to your medical issues since you really need a professional to deal with that and I hope that you are able to get insurance soon to have those things addressed because they could be contributing factors as well.

    Good luck!