NEED ADVICE FROM EX_SMOKERS

I smoke two packs a day. Have for most of my life. I have quit several times but it never sticks. I am trying again cold turkey. I could use advice and stories of how you did it, what it took to make that decision. I hope this will help and inspire me.
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  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
    I quit cold turkey because I was ready to start trying to get pregnant and didn't want to be one of those people who waits til they're pregnant to quit. DH had a MUCH harder time quitting. He ended up getting an e-cig. I think he has the ego-C. I can't vouch for their safety vs cigarettes but his doctor said he'd rather him vape than smoke. Have you tried any of the other stuff? Gum, patch, Chantix(sp?) Good luck!
  • paygep
    paygep Posts: 401 Member
    I quit cold turkey, too. These things helped me:

    Don't PAY an evil corporation to KILL YOU.

    You CANNOT be healthy if you smoke.

    Just don't have a cigarette TODAY... you can worry about tomorrow when it comes.

    And good luck to you! It's not easy, but it is worth it.
  • MrsSardone
    MrsSardone Posts: 194 Member
    I smoked for more than half my life. This is the longest I've gone without smoking. It's been almost 3yrs. I was on Wellbutrin and the patch to quit. I think the patch REALLY helped take the edge off.
  • richh963
    richh963 Posts: 78 Member
    I was a 3pack a day chain smoker, I quit over 18 yrs ago. I quit kinda cold turkey, every time i smoked one I made it so many minutes tell I could have the next one until I was down too 2 cigs a day, then I just stopped, never smoked again. dont even think about it anymore or when someone smokes near me i dont even crave having one. Just quit and spend that money you save on you.
  • Christygogo
    Christygogo Posts: 47 Member
    Read Allen Carr's the easy way to quit smoking. Works!
  • I switched to an electronic cigarette.. It's not quitting, but I can breath easier..
  • Natihilator
    Natihilator Posts: 1,778 Member
    I've quit many times, and currently my last smoke was in October. To be honest - and I am not advising this to others - I will probably have a cigarette at some point in the future. But I'll still have gone from several packs a week (me 5 years ago) to a rare social smoker having several cigarettes a year. It's not ideal but it's realistic for me.
  • i switched to the puff disposable e cigarette after one month i was barely using it and now i only use it when im super stressed
  • 388gigi
    388gigi Posts: 485 Member
    I tried about 10 times before actually finally giving it the flick....over 2 years since my last puff!!

    I had a plan for everything.

    - When I go out with friends every time I really feel like a smoke i'll go to the bar and get a water.
    - When I'm at home every time I feel like a smoke I'll take my dog for a walk or do core exercises
    - When I'm at work, I'll go for a short walk or get a cup of herbal tea

    Then because I wasn't smoking, I felt like running instead of walking. So I started the C25K program. I had never run very far in my life, so the fact that I was starting to be able to run for minutes was reason enough for me to stick to the non smoking.

    Then I decided to go to the gym in the afternoons if there was a good class on, because I seemed to have more time on my hands.

    It went on and on from there.

    I still occasionally feel like a smoke when it's around me, but most of the time I hate it. Hate the smell, hate the fact that my fiance still smokes, hate the look of it.

    I dunno, I think something just finally switched with me.

    Make sure you have a plan for all the situations you might face :-)
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    Getting pregnant did it for me. It was ok to wreck my health and lungs, but not my future child's.
  • besaro
    besaro Posts: 1,858 Member
    quit cold turkey. changed all my favorite habits around smoking, no bars, no drinking, long talks on the phone. I had already limited my smoking to outside only. Craved it for months. After a few years there were still times I would smell a cigarette and crave one. Now, finally, I find the whole habit very distasteful and smell of cig smoke, yuck. But it took a long time! Good luck!! I'm 20 years off them. Finally getting around to working on the weight I gained from quitting. lol.
  • melindanew
    melindanew Posts: 150 Member
    Champix (Chantix in the US) worked for me after 25 years. It's been four years now. Can't imagine smoking again but the first couple of weeks were awful.

    Can't understand this e-cig thing. Nicotene isn't good for you, and why not just break your addiction instead of trading it?
  • dinosnopro
    dinosnopro Posts: 2,177 Member
    First you have to really want to quit, if you don't want it bad enough you will most likely fail. What helped me was the patch.
  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    I quit two years ago cold turkey. For me it was just getting through one craving at a time. Eventually the cravings got less and less and weren't as strong. I get cravings every once in a while, but I just remember how nasty it smells and how gross it tasted and that stops me from being stupid.
  • TNR32
    TNR32 Posts: 110 Member
    I was on the patch and chewing spearmint gum. I had tried every other nicotine replacement gum, lozenge, and the cravings increased...but I finally quit it has been 3+ years the patch and spearmint gum worked well for me.:drinker:
  • henkemonica
    henkemonica Posts: 60 Member
    After smoking for 35 years I quit using the patch and Nicolette gum. It has been 3 1/2 yrs. my husband wasnt so lucky, it took two strokes and a heart attack before he awoke to the fact that the cigs were killing him. Now he is disabled, can only do an activity for 15 minutes before he needs to rest.
  • I just failed at quitting again, but my last quit lasted 8 months. I used an e-cig from vapor4life.com. Also, join quitnet.com for awesome support with your quit. I plan to quit again as soon as I get this diet thing under control :)

    Top tips: When you want a cigarette, take deep breaths, as if you were inhaling on a cig. When you want a cig, take a drink of water instead.

    The first time I quit, I made it 6 months. My smoking was masking hypothyroid, which kicked in about 3 months after I quit. I was miserable. I read that it's pretty common with women who quit smoking, so if you start getting fatigued or cold or any other symptoms of hypothyroid, go get your levels checked immediately.
  • badgranola
    badgranola Posts: 67 Member
    I quit in August. I was up to over pack a day when I quit. I "cheated" and had pneumonia so I wouldn't recommend that. However, the QuitNow App for my phone helped me a lot. (I LOVE seeing how much money/time I've saved)
  • Smilee3233
    Smilee3233 Posts: 108 Member
    I quit 12 years ago with hypsosis. It worked wonders and now the smell makes me feel sick. Never quit quitting, you will get there.
  • Like others said, you need to want to quit. When I quit 9 years ago DH and I wanted to have a baby. So I decided to quit before we even started trying. I did it using the patch and it worked for me. I'm actually to the point that I feel like I was never a smoker. I can't imagine smoking around my kids and that's why I know I'll never go back to it. Plus then I was able to start running like I had always wanted to do. I started off slow and over the years worked on my mileage. I just ran my first half marathon last year. I also have to say I'm in the best shape and health that I've ever been in and smoking played a big part in it. One thing lead to another, stopped smoking, changed my eating habits and became more active. Now it's my lifestyle. Good luck and feel free to friend me for support.
  • Kotuliak
    Kotuliak Posts: 259 Member
    I quit cold turkey. I tried dozens times before. I have no clue why it worked this time. I used patches. Don't go macho. Patches will get you through the rough times. I've been clean for over 3 years. Actually, it'll be 4 in February.

    I tried a few times when I knew I wasn't ready. Not a chance.

    I tried several times when I was ready, and I failed all of the times except the last one.

    My triggers - cup of coffee and beer. When I quit smoking, for six months I quit both. Now I do both and no matter how drunk I get I don't want a cigarette.

    All I can say, keep trying and good luck.
  • I quit cold turkey, too. These things helped me:

    Don't PAY an evil corporation to KILL YOU.

    You CANNOT be healthy if you smoke.

    Just don't have a cigarette TODAY... you can worry about tomorrow when it comes.

    And good luck to you! It's not easy, but it is worth it.

    ^^^This! I quit cold turkey 9 days ago, and it has been challenging. But I got to a point where I was just tired. Tired of stinking, tired of half a*$ doing my work outs b/c of my horrible lung capacity, tired of burning away my hard earned dollars. I'm taking it one day at a time. I tell myself "No. Right now you can't have a cigarette. You don't even really want it. But if you reeaalllly want it later/tomorrow you can have it." With each passing day I'm doing this less and less. It's a wonderful feeling! I truly wish you the best on this journey.
  • AllTheSparkles
    AllTheSparkles Posts: 11 Member
    I OD'd on nicotine patches so I had to quit cold turkey, so I did a little bit of everything but here are the most important ones:

    1. Switch to a brand you hate
    2. Cut down to the bare minimum of cigarettes you can in a day- after meals, long drives act.
    3. Start exercising.
    4. Make smoking literally disgusting, uncomfortable and inconvenient for yourself.

    In the mean time, buy some Orbitz bubble mint gum (makes cigarettes taste really odd) and dark chocolate, like 70% or more cocoa and go for it! Good luck.
  • vjohn04
    vjohn04 Posts: 2,276 Member
    I was a pack a day for 10 years, just celebrated one year smoke free around Xmas. Honestly, I quit in one of the most hellish ways possible. I took Chantix, and had the worst side effects. It was like legal speed for me, and I was very depressed. Dropped 10 lbs, couldn't sleep, and was off the wall crazy.

    But..... I didn't smoke. No cravings. That was my third and final quit.

    I'm done with smoking, I'll never go back.
  • hereisgone125
    hereisgone125 Posts: 79 Member
    I love my e-cigg, I haven't smoked in almost a year. You can transition from nicotine levels, so that you aren't going "cold turkey" and eventually work your way down to a zero nicotine e-juice.
  • I quit using Champix. At first I was having really bad nightmares so only took 1 pill in the morning then I just stopped taking them. For some reason xmas morning I bought a pack and the same again on New Years Eve but since then not one puff and am back on Champix with no side effects. Habit was the worst thing for me to over come. At work me and a co-worker would go out for a smoke every hour on the hour. I would have about 3 smokes just on my hour lunch break. A smoke every time I hopped in the car. I still actually now roll down my window and don't realise what Im doing lol but I hardly ever think about having a ciggy :)
  • I recommend looking at your previous quits for information. You were successful at quitting just not staying quit. Do what worked, investigate what tripped you up, and put a plan in place for the barrier or trigger that had you going back. The person who said she had a plan for everything has the right idea. Whatever triggers you have should be planned for with some alternative. Smoking is not only an addiction but a habit. Replace every cigarette with something else, have a strategy for every craving, trigger and barrier you've experienced in the past, including any signs or symptoms of withdrawal. You've done it before, you can totally do this again. You just need to tweak your planning. GOOD LUCK!!!!
  • I quit in 1991 as a birthday gift to my husband. Shock of all shocks six months later I found myself pregnant with our second child after 13 years of trying. I used Nicorette gum for a week or so and then gradually stopped that too because I didn't like the taste of it. I say anything that helps you transition from being a smoker to a non smoker is a good thing if it helps you. Try whatever is out there and eventually something is bound to help you quit. Good Luck!!!!
  • Susay2942
    Susay2942 Posts: 211 Member
    Not real healthy..but lollipops are a great substitute for smoking.
  • QuietRain
    QuietRain Posts: 157
    I quit cold turkey four years ago. I chewed a lot of cinnamon gum.
    If I had to do it over, I'd probably would've learned a hands-ons skill. That would've helped heaps as well, so hands and mouth could be occupied at the same time.