How do you keep motivated every day?

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  • geekyjock76
    geekyjock76 Posts: 2,720 Member
    I don't.

    If I only worked out when I felt motivation in the air, it would never happen. I do it because it's good for me. Just like brushing my teeth and flossing. Who needs motivation for that? Nobody. Everyone knows you do it because it's healthy.
    This is why you are so incredibly awesome - despite having outrageously bulky calves that are the envy of mountain goats :wink:
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    I feel motivated most days because I remember how I felt a year ago.

    I feel ALIVE now!

    I cant WAIT to get to the gym. crank up my music, snarl at the weights, and show myself who I am.

    was it always this way?
    no... But I wanted it...I wanted it more than anything because I was slowly dying inside, and killing myself on the outside.

    Who are you? and who do you want to be?
  • DawnieB1977
    DawnieB1977 Posts: 4,248 Member
    I love the sticker chart! My 3 year old has a reward chart with stars haha, although his goals are slightly different to yours lol.

    My motivation is the way I look I guess. I put on weight in pregnancy, so I have been thinner, and 10 years ago I was at my thinnest and actually kept my clothes from then. So I use clothes as my motivation. My first step was my pre-pregnancy jeans. Now they fall down. So then my step was my Levis from 11 years ago. They fit perfectly now. My next goal is some other trousers from 10 years ago. Between the Levis and these ones i'd spent a lot of time in the gym! I think once these clothes fit me I am done with losing weight and will focus on toning up and building more muscle.

    I will also treat myself to some Diesel jeans!
  • supahstar71
    supahstar71 Posts: 926 Member
    I was just having this conversation with a real life friend.

    Motivation is totally overrated. If I waited to be motivated everyday, I would never do anything. You just have to do it anyway. Make it a part of your schedule- get home, lace up running shoes, run (or whatever the equivalent is for your workouts)- don't even let yourself think about the option to do it or not. Just do it.


    This. It's not so much that I'm motivated; it's become a part of my lifestyle.
  • Athena98501
    Athena98501 Posts: 716 Member
    Mine is easy. I started because of an "oh sh#%" moment. It's not appropriate to post, but my point is, I know why I started this, and that's why I know I'll be seeing it through.

    If motivation is a problem, you should probably aim for a smaller deficit. If the alternative is giving up, which is a risk by the sound of it, try something that's manageable, and that you can live with.
  • GiGiBeans
    GiGiBeans Posts: 1,062 Member
    I was just having this conversation with a real life friend.

    Motivation is totally overrated. If I waited to be motivated everyday, I would never do anything. You just have to do it anyway. Make it a part of your schedule- get home, lace up running shoes, run (or whatever the equivalent is for your workouts)- don't even let yourself think about the option to do it or not. Just do it.

    Exactly! I just put on exercise clothes and do it. It's another thing I do now, like brush my teeth, take a shower, to care for my body.
  • tachyon_master
    tachyon_master Posts: 226 Member
    "If I don't do it today, I'm not going to feel like it tomorrow either and that's what caused problems in the first place".
  • tynahhhh
    tynahhhh Posts: 10 Member
    I am going to make a sticker calendar hahhaa.
  • nini915
    nini915 Posts: 2 Member
    My daughter and my husband. I think about how my husband has stood by me and how I wanna look for our 1 year anniversary as a married couple. my daughter because although she is 4 and very petite but she grabs my face everyday and showers it wih kisses saying c'mon mommy u can do it!!! with her I know I can!!
  • Swany2
    Swany2 Posts: 37 Member
    Stickers, what a fabulous idea, love it....
  • I keep falling off track badddd lately... =( Wish I knew how to keep on track, I was doing so good and then totally blew it, I'm so angry at myself! Anyway, ya'll find something that works, I would love to know!
  • nexangelus
    nexangelus Posts: 2,080 Member
    I set myself challenges, I also have my workouts pre-planned for the week ahead by the weekend. For example, this year I want to complete a sprint triathlon and also do a tough mudder run. They are motivation enough to keep going. As is the thought of the jiggly bits I need to get rid of so my tri and wetsuit don't look like they are holding a blubbery whale ; )
  • Moniqua1
    Moniqua1 Posts: 195 Member
    I get dressed (but more importantly, UNdressed) for the gym in front of the mirror....2. One in front, one in back. It reminds me that there's always room for improvement.....that back mirror is cruel. Lol
  • gvdoliver
    gvdoliver Posts: 106 Member
    Motivation for me comes from the results I'm getting. After working out harder over the past few weeks and months I went to the gym last night and really found I could do more, lift more, run faster, push the rowing machine more, feels great!

    With that in mind I've decided to put up my latest 'body' shot and this can be my before pick. Can't wait to compare it in a few months when I've built myself up more and toned my body.
  • MidniteDayDream
    MidniteDayDream Posts: 142 Member
    My motivation is to stop being unhappy with myself. I hate myself when I look in the mirror. I want to be a mom that my 11 month old son can be proud of, not one that he is ashamed of. It's a daily, Hell an Hourly, struggle for me sometimes. I have little setbacks, but I'm still trudging ahead.

    The one thing I look forward to is my Cheat Saturdays. Yes, I have cheat days. It's one day a week and I still go to the gym that day. No, I don't care what anyone thinks about cheat days. They keep me sane.

    I also set myself daily and weekly goals. I take my weight goals in small one month increments. The smaller goals give just as much satisfaction when I reach them, but I'm not stressing over the big goal.
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    i think of the end goal ... great motivation here
  • gvdoliver
    gvdoliver Posts: 106 Member
    If your son is your motivation, that makes you a great Mom already that any kid would be proud of
  • LOVE your sticker ideas. I'm a teacher and have hundreds of the things! ...

    I make a graph .. and plot it every day. The stickers could be work with that!

    YES ... I know it will go up and down ... I accept that ... but I love statistics and I love when it does go down.

    Sometimes it goes up almost 1kg and stays there for 2 days then drops back to normal.

    I know people say only do it once a week .. but what if it was one of those days when my weight went up ... it would just depress me so much and send me to the icecream palour LOL

    Oh .. and I'm all for mini rewards ... I lost some weight before MFP and rewarded myself every 5 kg .. It started simple ... First 5kg was a new nailpolish and got a little bigger each time. Eg 20kg was an upgrade to first class on one leg of a domestic flight.

    Most planned rewards though are for things that make my changing body feel/look great. Eg manicures, massages, hair treatment, perfume ... Once I crossed out my "New Necklace" for "2 scoops of icecream" .. only cause I love the stuff so much and wanted to justify it as a reward (as opposed to something regular)
  • SurfyFriend
    SurfyFriend Posts: 362 Member
    I realized that I wanted this.
    So I made it a goal.
    I make my actions revolve around achieving it.
    When temptation appears, I think on my goal.

    I start the day with a good breakfast, because it makes me want to have a personal best healthy day.
    I walk or cycle where I can instead of driving, and this gives me extra time to think about the healthy choices I will make.
    I enjoy the smells and colourfullness of fruit and vegetables
    I go to the beach in a bikini even if I'm feeling fat. It seems to put me in my place
    Sunshine, new tunes, great company are the best pick-me-ups
    Running feels like flying
    Weight lifting makes me feel strong.
    The hardest part is starting, from there on, it starts to become fun :)
  • Rhozelyn
    Rhozelyn Posts: 201 Member
    I was just having this conversation with a real life friend.

    Motivation is totally overrated. If I waited to be motivated everyday, I would never do anything. You just have to do it anyway. Make it a part of your schedule- get home, lace up running shoes, run (or whatever the equivalent is for your workouts)- don't even let yourself think about the option to do it or not. Just do it.

    Thanks for posting this as it has resonated with me! Pushed me to exercise and to know I really don't have any other option. Just have to practise perseverance.
  • Faye_Anderson
    Faye_Anderson Posts: 1,495 Member
    My competitive streak and my ticker :drinker:
  • kcoftx
    kcoftx Posts: 765 Member
    You don't. (Try to stay motivated every day, I mean.) There are plenty of days when I just don't feel like it.

    There are lots of good tricks because motivation is important. Having said that, motivation is but a mere push. Commitment is the true key.

    “There’s a difference between interest and commitment. When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstances permit. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results.” ~Unknown

    I admit... I have different levels of commitment. When life has a speed bump, I have certain minimum standards and then when I can breathe again (and for the majority of the time), I ramp it back up to all the mini goals I push towards. In the end, we should be striving towards progress at all times. Where we start is just a starting point. The goal is to keep growing. What is hard now will not be your challenge later. But if you wait to be always motivated, you won't be. Instead, rely on commitment to grow. Identify your goals and tell yourself you WILL do them. Don't accept anything less. Then move on and make more goals. It's a process. Embrace it. Commit to change.
  • dovetail22uk
    dovetail22uk Posts: 339 Member
    Every morning when I wake up I feel happy that I've "started" and that I'm not still thinking "I'll start soon".

    It's all the motivation I need to keep going, even when I might have overeaten a little or been lazy the day before. Gotta look at the bigger picture and keep going!
  • tekwriter
    tekwriter Posts: 923 Member
    I think the stickers are a really cute reminder of what you have done each day. I may do that on my calendar. I tend to set goals also as I really start dropping on a regular basis. I am thinking of getting a tattoo when I loose 100 lbs.
  • runwmeNC
    runwmeNC Posts: 612 Member
    Get on the scale every morning, then standing naked in front of the mirror, grab my belly fat and say " you got to go"

    Its working so far :D
  • jakidb
    jakidb Posts: 1,010 Member
    I stay motivated by logging onto this site and that's the honest truth. I've hit somewhat of a plateau and have bn there for a while now BUT when I log onto this site and read the sucess stories as well as the not so sucess stories, it inspires me bc even those that are not having such gr8t sucess rt now are encouraged by others who have "been there"
  • pkw58
    pkw58 Posts: 2,038 Member
    Make it a lifestyle habit and you won't need much motivation.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness industry for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    Agreed!
  • sundaywishes
    sundaywishes Posts: 246 Member
    *sigh* Yes, if you make it a lifestyle change you *shouldn't* need motivation, however, some people need motivation in the beginning, before discipline sets in. Others don't and are disciplined from the get-go. I was disciplined with my calories, but needed motivation for my workouts. I don't use these methods anymore, because I don't feel the need for them anymore but they were definitely helpful when I first started working out again.


    I got a large clear mason jar (from a bar...that my alcoholic drink came in lol) and labeled it...unoriginally..."workout jar" lol. Every time I did a workout, I'd put a dollar in the jar. Seeing the money add up really helped me to get and stay motivated. Looking at a pathetic, empty jar made me determined to fill it (and thinking about what I'd spend the money on helped, too )

    I also did something similar to you with the stickers. I went to the dollar store and got a pack of 180 motivational stickers. I printed out a calendar and every day I worked out, I put a sticker corresponding with how I did. "Good job" was for an average workout, "perfect", "whale of a job", and "great job" were for awesome ones, "best job yet" was for ones where I upped the amount of weights I was lifted or the intensity I ran during my HIIT cardio, and "you did it!" was for the days that I REALLY didn't feel like working out, but I did anyway. Slowly the "good job" and especially the "you did it!" stickers made fewer appearances and the "perfect," "whale of a job," and "great job" ones appeared more, as well as the "best job yet" ones. It may sound silly, but I think the stickers motivated me more than the jar. I loved being able to come home (I work out in the evenings), look at the calendar, and think about which sticker I was going to add to my calendar. Saving the calendars and actually seeing the past ones being so full was also motivation. Hope this helps!

    PS--I've also seen people with 2 clear mason jars, one labeled "pounds lost" and one "pounds to go". They use marbles to represent either a pound, half pound, quarter pound, etc. based upon how much they want to lose. Every time they lose weight, they take the adequate amount of marbles out of the "pounds to go" jar and put them in the "pounds lost" jar. So if someone has 20lbs to lose, they'd have the marbles represent a quarter pound so the jars are more filled, and if someone has 100lbs to lose the marbles would represent 1, 2, or 5lbs.

    In closing, I'd say get motivated in the beginning, but be and stay committed from beginning to...well, no end :drinker:
  • Just freakin awesome.

    Check this out. Just a awesome Marine. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gk6GN1XGDQ4
  • runwmeNC
    runwmeNC Posts: 612 Member
    Living as good role model for my 12 yr old daughter