Flirting/Sexting...How??

silky_kitten
silky_kitten Posts: 171 Member
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I've been told I don't flirt or sext enough...it makes me sad, so here I am asking total strangers for advice. How do you flirt and/or sext with someone?
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  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Uh...
  • ekkand
    ekkand Posts: 592 Member
    Tell them you want them. How you want them. What you would do to them or will do when they are there. I sext my husband all the time lol
  • SteveJWatson
    SteveJWatson Posts: 1,225 Member
    *waits for the OP to get an inbox full of filth as "examples"*
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    *waits for the OP to get an inbox full of filth as "examples"*

    Pretty much, or offers to teach her. Just asking for it.
  • sclarktiw
    sclarktiw Posts: 217
    I dont have that problem...I cant find anyone to flirt or sext with! Who is telling you that?
  • homerjspartan
    homerjspartan Posts: 1,893 Member
    Since I have been married 15 years the only one I have sex with is myself. So I sext myself all time. Leave myself random notes about what I am going to do to myself when I get home.

    Then when I finally get alone, I have a headache and just play video games.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Fairly revealing pics with an air of mystery which are supposed to make the other person want you usually followed by enticing words. Do not show your face or objects that may be recognisable .
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    It's all in the details. The naughty... sweaty... details.
  • BlackStarDeceiver
    BlackStarDeceiver Posts: 590 Member
    It's all in the details. The naughty... sweaty... details.

    ^This
  • coe28
    coe28 Posts: 715 Member
    Ask my ex-husband. He tries to do it to me all the time.... :huh:
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    Since I have been married 15 years the only one I have sex with is myself. So I sext myself all time. Leave myself random notes about what I am going to do to myself when I get home.

    Then when I finally get alone, I have a headache and just play video games.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    A good sexy story involving the conference room table never hurts....
  • coe28
    coe28 Posts: 715 Member
    Since I have been married 15 years the only one I have sex with is myself. So I sext myself all time. Leave myself random notes about what I am going to do to myself when I get home.

    Then when I finally get alone, I have a headache and just play video games.

    Oh my gosh, this made me laugh....:laugh:
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.

    *noted*

    :tongue:
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.
    Oh I disagree!
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    pictures... videos... but to be followed up with a call to describe in detail, unless you are close enough to be in person...
  • happywithme12
    happywithme12 Posts: 477 Member
    I try to sext my husband lol but he is not interested in that but it not that hard just put what you want to do with that person in to small text messages back and forth and throw little details in there that you wouldn't normally say if your shy that is. Just imagine in your mind what would drive you crazy and text it to that person and im sure you will enjoy the results lol and so will the other person
  • sissiluv
    sissiluv Posts: 2,205 Member
    I've been told I don't flirt or sext enough...it makes me sad, so here I am asking total strangers for advice. How do you flirt and/or sext with someone?

    Well first off, you don't HAVE to flirt or sext in any sort of amount so ignore people who tell you you don't do it enough unless you personally feel you don't (provided you haven't been manipulated into feeling this way).

    You do what YOU are comfortable with. You're number one, screw everyone else if they don't agree.

    Likewise, there are guides to flirting that you can find online such as (ttp://www.wikihow.com/Flirt)here, [http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/valley-girl-brain/201203/how-flirt-without-it-seeming-youre-flirting]here and [http://www.canadianliving.com/relationships/dating_advice/dating_advice_learning_how_to_flirt_again.php]here.

    As for sexting, imagine it sort of like text-based RPing if you've ever done it. Sexy texts and sexy photos selfies. I'm sure you can google that too.

    Good luck. c:
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.
    Oh I disagree!

    I disagree as well. There is something just so sexy and erotic seeing the written words and being able to read them over and over... *ahem*

    It's like interactive porn.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.

    I beg to differ.
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.

    Whatev.
    :huh: :yawn:
  • stetienne
    stetienne Posts: 560 Member
    I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.

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  • tismyhardbody
    tismyhardbody Posts: 100 Member
    aww this is sad!
    think abt something super dirty you secretly want somebody to do to you and then SAY IT to somebody.
    its that easy!
  • Shannon16385
    Shannon16385 Posts: 29
    Since I have been married 15 years the only one I have sex with is myself. So I sext myself all time. Leave myself random notes about what I am going to do to myself when I get home.

    Then when I finally get alone, I have a headache and just play video games.

    I'll admit I laughed a lot when I read this!
  • homerjspartan
    homerjspartan Posts: 1,893 Member
    I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.
    Oh I disagree!

    Now just wait. I think we all know that everyone on these forums need to agree at all times, so you take that back young lady!!!!!
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
    Attention-seeker is attention-seeking.
  • rebdiane
    rebdiane Posts: 16 Member
    be confident, be coy & use innuendos to start.... try to say things that can be taken more than one way i.e.: “I had a great day, a few extra calories. Any ideas how I can burn them off ;)”
    or: “great dinner with the girls, but boy I am I hungry ;)”
    once you get flirting more… then guys enjoy the naughty specific details of how, where & when….
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I would rather be told anything sexy on the phone or in person. There is nothing sexy about a text message.
    Oh I disagree!

    I disagree as well. There is something just so sexy and erotic seeing the written words and being able to read them over and over... *ahem*

    It's like interactive porn.

    Agreed.
  • happywithme12
    happywithme12 Posts: 477 Member
    Since I have been married 15 years the only one I have sex with is myself. So I sext myself all time. Leave myself random notes about what I am going to do to myself when I get home.

    Then when I finally get alone, I have a headache and just play video games.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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    This is very very funny I been married for 15 years to so i had to laugh

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