Backslide

Hezmia
Hezmia Posts: 19
I am getting so frustrated with myself and I don't know what to do. I just start making some headway and lose a few pounds and then the weekend comes or a celebration of some sort and I gain it all back. Now that the Christmas season is upon us and parties are happening all the time I am constantly eating and drinking and seem to have no will-power to resist. Of course the defeat and frustration I feel because I eat, drink and gain makes me eat, drink and gain more. How does one overcome this?

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  • Glendower
    Glendower Posts: 5 Member
    Go public as you have done. Nothing like the thought of "failure" in front of the whole world to keep you on track.

    Hang in there!
  • cebreisch
    cebreisch Posts: 1,340 Member
    Usually it takes some sort of event to push you in that direction. For me, it was an event at my daughter's school. I could hardly walk to the door without having to stop a few times to catch my breath - once inside the door, I had to sit on the floor to catch my breath because there were no chairs, and everyone coming in had to walk around me. I was so humiliated, embarrassed, mortified, and my daughter was standing right beside me. It was that moment that I said, "Something HAS GOT to change!!"

    Once you make your mind up, it'll happen.
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