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I agree! I have a few people on my friend's on here who are regularly doing this, but I just don't know what to say, or if they will even listen to me?!

I was watching bulging brides yesterday on TV and they put this girl on an 800 cal/day diet?!?!? What the heck? Great thing to teach people...

That is quite low, but it is only for 6 weeks not for a long period of time.

Thanks for your concern. I fall into that catagory, but it can be deceiving...sometimes I am one calorie under....which I don't think is bad. If I see that I am going to be more than 50 under, I will grab an apple at the end of the day...the calorie log, to me, is to help me not to go way over....I may not chart the apple because it is the end of the day and I know I need it for the calories it contains. So by monitoring my own calories, I will actually be over my limit; it just won't be charted as I don't put the info in at the end of the day. That is how I work it for me. Maybe others do the same? Just a thought.

I have a lot of days where I'm just not hungry, but I'm not way below 1200 calories, usually its 50 or less!

Someone can be set at 1200 (a deficit of at least 500 usually) and then eat 1000 calories and still get the "congrats, you're under!" Granted, there'll be that little "you may be under-eating" clause at the bottom of the food diary, but we all congratulate people for being under their calories. Sometimes this is a great thing because so many of us strive to not go over. But sometimes we overdo it and starve our bodies of the nutrition they need by not eating enough...and fooling ourselves into thinking that we're doing great!

It doesn't say "CONGRATS" at all!! It's the way people are interpreting it! It says you're "under your calorie goal." That means you FAILED to MEET YOUR GOAL. So, I'm pretty sure it alerts your friends that you're under so that they can encourage you to EAT MORE. People have just completely and utterly missed the point. :ohwell:

Also, to the people who say they're not hungry -- Do you have room for 2 tablespoons of peanut butter & and an 8oz cup of milk? Because that would add 300 calories to your day. And those are healthy calories. No more excuses now, eh?


Edit: Trust that I've been there. And trust that I screwed the crap out of my metabolism not eating enough for 4 months (I was eating about 1100-1300 cals most days & exercising a lot). And trust that it has taken me 3 months to straighten it all back out again (and I consider myself lucky it only took that long). Now I'm eating 1500-2000 calories most days and still losing weight faster than I was eating 1200 cals a day after my metabolism adjusted itself to cope. While everyone's body may not respond the way mine has to the huge calorie deficits, just know that people are concerned for you for a reason. Not only could your metabolism slow way down, but with eating so little, you could very well not be getting the nutrients your body needs (especially if you're exercising a lot as well) and that could do permanent damage to your body.

No don't be sorry, it's a fact! I'm one of those people of whom you speak. This is my problem, I'm simply not hungry. Most days I eat pretty well and feel full. When I try to force myself to eat those exercise calories, I get sick and have a hard time mentally with it. It's like what am I doing shoveling food into my mouth when I'm not the slightest bit hungry. I appreciate you pointing this issue out and if anyone has any ideas I'd be appreciative of those as well. So thanks Allykat for posting your vent!!!:flowerforyou:
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Try adding small healthy high calorie items earlier in your day. Sprinkle sunflover seeds or nuts on your salad. Use and avacado on your turkey or use vinegar and olivve oil dressings with your salad. There are ways to raise your calories without having to feel like you are stuffing yourself silly. I also punch my exercise in in the morning even if I am not exercising until the evening. It helps me spread out my calories and make sure I'm not too far under. I also recently learned that you should take protein in with in 15-30 minutes of exercising. I bought whey protein shakes that I mix with water for work out days. 100-120 calories and its liquid so it doesn't make me feel too full. I work hard for the muscle tone that I am finally gaining and I don't want to lose it because I'm not providing my body the right nutrients!!

Hopefully this helps:flowerforyou:

Great Topic for discussion....
I have been doing a TON of reading these past couple of weeks. I want to know what the heck is going on and why am I NOT losing any weight....I found some articles posted that I think is my situation to a "T".....
I have about 20-25 lbs to lose, and I am in my 6th week of Insanity and I have actual.gained 2lbs back that I had intitinally lost.....some may say its muscle, I would say NO, I lifted weights 3 days a week (super sets) prior to this new program....

I have had a few people that have looked at my menu that I am not eating enough....I ranged around 1300-1400 cal a day, regardless of my workout.

Well yesturday, I wore my HRM for 24 hours, including an hour workout and It indicates I burned 2,888 cal for the day....I consumed about 1500 cal....that means 1,333 or so, calorie deficit....I believe I have slowed my metabolism way down....its not just the calorie, but lack of sleep too...6 weeks ago I started a midnight shift and rarley sleep more that 6 hours, and never straight....

Through all of the chats and research, I do believe I need to feed my body more, and eating more healthy actually means you end up eating alot more...."LITTLE SPY" has one good solution...that I love, found a Great natural peanutbutter....only peanuts,and salt, slathered on apple wedges, bumps me up 320 cal....and it really is yummy...

I am crossing my fingers and Digging Deeper (thanks shaun T)...and my body will finally realize it is ok, and let go of the extra, it doesnt need...
Thanks ALL for the motivation!

A few of you on here might know this has been an issue for me and that I have created forum topics about my under-eating. I know you all think it is the worst possible thing to do on a diet. However, I recently went to see my GP about my dizzy spells; I told her that sometimes I ate 500 calories a day and that, if I'm honest, I very very rarely exceed 1000. My GP was so nice about it; the only negative thing she said was that my blood sugar might be low and she asked me if I am eating things from all the food groups- I told her yes but I try to limit fats and carbs (I said I eat carbs more through fruit and veg than pastas rice etc). She told me I am doing so well, commended my weight-loss and said NOTHING about starvation mode, under-eating- zilch (except the blood sugar thing). She was absolutely thrilled about my progress- I hadn't seen her since I began my diet and she insisted on weighing me so she could update my medical file.

Whilst I understand the concerns and appreciate the help and advice that everybody gave me on my forum topics, this made me feel so much better about how I am dietting. I think as long as you are getting a variety of nutrients, vitamins etc, it's fine! Maybe you'll gain weight when you re-increase calories when you hit your target weight, but that can be dealt with.

Also, I'd just like to comically point out that there is a man in India who claims he has not eaten for 70 years- perhaps calorie counting is not all it's cracked up to be afterall! xxx

Saying this as gently as possible, most doctors don't have much training in nutrition and a second opinion from a nutritionist or dietitian, who focuses their entire career on proper eating plans, would probably be more suited to state whether or not eating between 500 - 800 calories a day is appropriate and healthy. Sure, your doctor may see that you've lost a significant amount of weight now, but what about long term effects?

You already know from my previous posts to you that I say this out of concern and not criticism. And that goes for everyone. I used to think to myself I couldn't eat less than 1200 calories a day, then I realized that the side effects of being lightheaded, fatigued, irritable, etc. simply weren't worth it. Now I can't imagine eating less because I feel like absolute crap if my net is too low.

Saying this as gently as possible, most doctors don't have much training in nutrition and a second opinion from a nutritionist or dietitian, who focuses their entire career on proper eating plans, would probably be more suited to state whether or not eating between 500 - 800 calories a day is appropriate and healthy. Sure, your doctor may see that you've lost a significant amount of weight now, but what about long term effects?

You already know from my previous posts to you that I say this out of concern and not criticism. And that goes for everyone. I used to think to myself I couldn't eat less than 1200 calories a day, then I realized that the side effects of being lightheaded, fatigued, irritable, etc. simply weren't worth it. Now I can't imagine eating less because I feel like absolute crap if my net is too low.

Yeah I know: I'm having a blood test on Thursday. If that shows any clear reasons for my dizziness then I will follow the results. If not, then I will speak to a nutritionist. xxx
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Yay! Happy to hear that you're being proactive. :flowerforyou:

I am definatley one of the people you are speaking to. I don't go out of my way to be under, but I am going to admit that I am usually way under my calorie goal.

I have found my eating routine that has worked for the last few months. My slimfast shake for breakfast and lunch. Mid-morning and mid afternnon snack. (usually a greek yogurt or cheese and crackers) and then a lite dinner that my husband cooks.

I really never paid attention to how low my calories were, I just made sure they were under. Under is good right? But then one day my huband comented on how few calories I was eating a day even with my hard workouts. But I told him that when I workout I will eat a cliff bar or something to account for the burned calories...he said he wasn't convinced.

When I stopped and looked at it I realized I eat somewhere between 900-1300 calories a day. I can't believe I am admitting this, but sometimes, I only eat half a meal and log the entire thing so it looks like I have more calories.

I don't feel starved, or even hungry most of the time, but I know it's just as unheathy as the binge eating I used to do. I think what it really comes down to is that I am really afraid. I don't want to go back to where I was 6 months ago, and I am scared of giving into food.

And when I find a new food that I think is healthy, I find 20 other people who tell me what's wrong with it. I know it's just about finding a balance and what works for me, but for someone who has battled weight and food for most of her life, it can be quite challenging. My addiction is food, I can't just stop eating the way an acholic stops drinking, so in that way it is really challenging and scarey.

I feel crazy admiting all this. But I know that I just need to re-learn how to eat. I am not sure how to start. Maybe replace one of my shakes with an actual meal? I'm not sure, but thanks for the post. I promise I will try.

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Uhhh..i'm so one of these people & i hate being one! Very ironic as i've just posted a topic about this "too many calories"
Any advice welome x

I have been sick for the past 2 days with the stomach bug. I found it interesting to note the my food journal is calculating my weight loss to be less in 5 weeks eating so far under my calories then when I stay at my goal. If I eat right I should be down13 pounds but if I continue to eat like this, which I won't, I will only be down 9 pounds. Something to think about for all those who are constantly below their calorie goal. It just isn't healthy for the long run and believe me, as a nurse for 30 years, healthy rocks. I hope everyone goes for that and not just the thrill of getting in a tiny bathing suit.

While I am certainly no expert, I have spent the majority of my life involved in sports/fitness & maintaining "fairly" healthy eating habits. The biggest shock I had coming to this website was how few calories so many people ate. It blew my mind.

I agree! I was a 1200-er for a couple months and then hit a hard plateau and lost ZERO for 6 weeks. I sought the advice of a personal trainer who put me on an 1800 calorie diet...and I've lost 14 more pounds! Depriving myself for that long was not healthy. And yes I'm eating well now with 4-5 servings of fruits and veggies a day and complex carbs and manage to get my calories. The whole "I just eat really well now and can't eat 1200" doesn't make sense to me.

I think MFP, as great as it is, is partially to blame. Other sites tell me My bmr is 1400. P90x tells me to eat 1800 calories, but if I set my goal as such then MFP tells me I won't lose any weight, which makes me doubt myself. Nevermind that we get no credit for strength workouts.

I have been under eating as well because I have been eating some filling foods like raw veggies and it takes work and planning to meet my calorie goals while not taking in too much sugar or junk. In fact I have started trying to use MFP as a meal planner so I can get enough calories. Beachbody programs are unforgiving if you skip the calories! I had to cheat my way through Insanity cause I just couldn't keep up. Thank god for trader joes organic peanut butter!

As a doc I can testify that we get all of 2-3 lectures on nutrition, most of it is on nutritional deficiencies, and we don't know squat about weight loss and healthy diet unless we learned it on the side like everyone else. Sad but true. :frown: