Worst Gym Experience?

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  • kf4vkp
    kf4vkp Posts: 164 Member
    I had an appointment with a personal trainer for joining Planet Fitness a while ago, and was not in the best of shape at all. The personal trainer was this @ss of a guy who was showing me how the triceps weight machine worked and cheering me on for doing such a huge weight so well. When I looked in the mirror, he was pushing the machine so I was doing absolutely no work at all, because my triceps were wimpy. I wouldn't go back after that and cancelled my membership the next day (had to make sure I wasn't just over-reacting and truly was upset.)

    Now I belong to another gym that has women's only centers. They're great and I wouldn't consider going anywhere else!
    i think you overreacted. he was just trying to build up your self confidence.


    I wouldn't have canceled my membership over that, but I wouldn't have used that trainer again either. I don't need self confidence from my trainer, I need a work out. And I get that somethings are better done with help (you generally can't start pull ups on your own if you're too weak) but I would rather a trainer give me less weight than help me with a bigger one.
  • My best friend and I both joined the same gym but in different cities. So one day we went to work out at a gym that is between our two cities. So we walk in and are changing our shoes and the owner comes up to us asking if we were new with a huge attitude. We told him no, but this was the first time that we have used this particular location. So then he proceeds to tell us since we didn't sign up at this location we really shouldn't be working out here. I told him that as far as I knew with the contract that I signed, I am entitled to go to any facility in any city. Well that shut him up for a minute, then he went on to tell us about "his" facitlity. As he was telling us things he said and you can get on the treadmill and watch Biggest Loser. We both just kinda looked at each other like really?? Between his attitude and that snide comment, we both decided screw this and walked out the door. He came running out after us and said, "Well that was a quick work out ladies". We told him we didn't appreciate his negative attitude from the moment we walked in, including the snide comment about The Biggest Loser. I told him that he has no idea what walking into a new gym for the first time is like for 2 overweight ladies. You have to get the courage up to walk into somewhere new where you don't know anyone, the gym layout is different from your own gym and some of the equipment is different. I told him instead of being a condescending *kitten*, he should have welcomed us with open arms instead of griping about us not signing up in "his" gym. Karma sure is a *****, cause it wasn't a month or so later that "his" gym was closed! We loved it!
  • Doodlewhopper
    Doodlewhopper Posts: 1,018 Member
    When you decided to join the gym it was with a reasonable expectation of certain standards & conditions. Those expectations included at minimum a supportive & positive environment, not the hostile environment you were daily exposed to; which was being harassed, abused, pressured, degraded, humiliated, & made the butt of jokes.

    As a result, it is the gym, not you who voided the contract. You agreed to purchase something you didnt get....a place to freely pursue a wholesome & healthy activity.

    Contact corporate and insist that either this employee be replaced immediately or they negate your membership agreement.

    Next step would be small claims court or retain a lawyer for the return of all your fees. (cheaper for them then paying a lawyer)
  • I used to have problems at my gym until I started working out with the little old lady that came in the same time I do. Though, most of my problems weren't mean but were "exceptionally nice." I think the best line that ever came out of her mouth was, "Honey, she ain't got time for your abs, but I'll take you home and give you a thorough shine-down."

    I think she's in her late 70s, early 80s. Tells the raunchiest stories I've ever heard and is the main reason I will do anything to get into the gym when she's there!
  • Rodderick89
    Rodderick89 Posts: 205 Member
    I used to have problems at my gym until I started working out with the little old lady that came in the same time I do. Though, most of my problems weren't mean but were "exceptionally nice." I think the best line that ever came out of her mouth was, "Honey, she ain't got time for your abs, but I'll take you home and give you a thorough shine-down."

    I want a little-old-lady workout partner like this hehe!
  • veggieluver2
    veggieluver2 Posts: 70 Member
    The most disgusting thing I've seen is at 24 Hour Fitness someone threw up in the water fountain. Ewwwww.

    Most unhappy with G____'s. They promised towel service--told me I could use as many as I wanted. What they failed to tell me is that they charge an extra $10 per month! I'm locked into a membership with them and can't get out. I have been so unhappy with them that I joined another gym for a fraction of what I'm paying at G____'s. Lesson learned! Ask a lot of questions before signing a gym membership. Also, not everyone is paying the same price per month at G____'s. Mine is on the high-end. Seems like shady business.
  • High five to you for standing up for your right to expect to be treated with dignity and respect! Especially when you are paying for it. This is the problem with shows such as the Biggest Loser that send a message to personal trainers that its o.k. to become personal abusers. Does that gym not realize that good customer service is what keeps customers coming back????
    That trainer should be fired for harassing the members he was hired to help. Rather than sharing my worst gym experience - I'd like to share that there are alternatives. There are trainers, gyms, and organizations out there that work with people of all body sizes with dignity and respect.. A google search should bring some of them up.
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    Joined Gold's gym and got sweet talked into the personal trainer. I was just coming off a bad shoulder separation and wanted help or a tailored workout for recovery. $700.
    A month later the personal trainers were gone. I ask the manager and he says the personal trainers were a contract company, signed a bunch of people and then went out of business.....sorry.
  • Sunka1
    Sunka1 Posts: 217 Member
    That happened to me in grade school gym class. As if being the fat girl wasn't enough to deal with. Referring to the pants splitting incident.
  • sbdoolin
    sbdoolin Posts: 6 Member
    Years ago, I had a membership at LA Fitness and was interested in getting some help from a pt. She was asking questions and writing answers down on a form and wrote "LAZY??" across the top in big letters, like I couldn't read it upside down. I got up and left.

    Those big box gyms often skeeve me out. If you're looking for a low pressure, low cost gym membership, check out your local Jewish Community Center. You don't have to be Jewish to join (I'm not and I've belonged most of my life). It's just a regular gym and they often have a lot of activities and play rooms for kids so you can work out while the kids do their thing.
  • Ascolti_la_musica
    Ascolti_la_musica Posts: 676 Member
    I want to thank Croz1007 and Doodlewhopper.

    Croz: The Consumerist picked up my story! Excellent idea!

    Doodlewhopper: You may notice I lifted some of your wording, because you said it better than I could.

    http://consumerist.com/2013/02/05/gym-staff-member-bullies-couple-for-being-fat-they-want-out-of-their-contract/

    I also sent a consumer complaint to the local TV news station and a letter to the editor of the local newspaper. I am hoping that with enough of this publicity, they will not only void my contract, but also become a little more selective of trainers and open to a wider (no pun intended!) variety of people.
  • Ascolti_la_musica
    Ascolti_la_musica Posts: 676 Member
    High five to you for standing up for your right to expect to be treated with dignity and respect! Especially when you are paying for it. This is the problem with shows such as the Biggest Loser that send a message to personal trainers that its o.k. to become personal abusers. Does that gym not realize that good customer service is what keeps customers coming back????
    That trainer should be fired for harassing the members he was hired to help. Rather than sharing my worst gym experience - I'd like to share that there are alternatives. There are trainers, gyms, and organizations out there that work with people of all body sizes with dignity and respect.. A google search should bring some of them up.

    I decided to watch a couple episodes of TBL this season, because I was curious. Jillian Michaels scared the absolute crap out of me, and I was not at all surprised that her team was not doing well under her "leadership." I was also freaked out by the people passing out and puking all over the place in the first episode. People think this show is a good thing? Really?!
  • jillsjourney
    jillsjourney Posts: 167 Member
    I saw that on the Consumerist and wondered if it was you!
  • I belong to O2 now, and love it- BUT before my gym was owned by O2, it was something else...like a couple of names a couple of times. At my heaviest, I went in and talked to the guy who managed the personal trainers. When I said I'd need to run the price of the monthly draft for personal training by my husband, he said "if your husband says he doesn't want to pay, then he really doesn't care about your health."

    Say what? PT is expensive. I knew it would take some rearranging of our budget to pay for the sessions...but that guy's nasty attitude made me walk out and not even consider training sessions there. I was not sad in the least bit when that fitness chain failed. With more equipment and better ownership, I love my gym now. And I wish I knew where that *kitten***** guy was today, now that there's nearly 80 pounds less of me- and I didn't use a trainer.
  • benol1
    benol1 Posts: 867 Member
    What irritates me is when people come to the gym either not having washed or are wearing dirty gym gear.
  • Ascolti_la_musica
    Ascolti_la_musica Posts: 676 Member
    I belong to O2 now, and love it- BUT before my gym was owned by O2, it was something else...like a couple of names a couple of times. At my heaviest, I went in and talked to the guy who managed the personal trainers. When I said I'd need to run the price of the monthly draft for personal training by my husband, he said "if your husband says he doesn't want to pay, then he really doesn't care about your health."

    Say what? PT is expensive. I knew it would take some rearranging of our budget to pay for the sessions...but that guy's nasty attitude made me walk out and not even consider training sessions there. I was not sad in the least bit when that fitness chain failed. With more equipment and better ownership, I love my gym now. And I wish I knew where that *kitten***** guy was today, now that there's nearly 80 pounds less of me- and I didn't use a trainer.

    That guy sounds like a real charmer. Ugh.
    My brother and sister in law are members of the O2 in Apex (?) and haven't mentioned any issues, but they are also not fat. We are members at Fuquay-Varina.
  • I belong to O2 now, and love it- BUT before my gym was owned by O2, it was something else...like a couple of names a couple of times. At my heaviest, I went in and talked to the guy who managed the personal trainers. When I said I'd need to run the price of the monthly draft for personal training by my husband, he said "if your husband says he doesn't want to pay, then he really doesn't care about your health."

    Say what? PT is expensive. I knew it would take some rearranging of our budget to pay for the sessions...but that guy's nasty attitude made me walk out and not even consider training sessions there. I was not sad in the least bit when that fitness chain failed. With more equipment and better ownership, I love my gym now. And I wish I knew where that *kitten***** guy was today, now that there's nearly 80 pounds less of me- and I didn't use a trainer.

    That guy sounds like a real charmer. Ugh.
    My brother and sister in law are members of the O2 in Apex (?) and haven't mentioned any issues, but they are also not fat. We are members at Fuquay-Varina.

    SHUT.UP:) I go to the Fuquay and Cary locations:) PM me! I also go to a new gym in Holly Springs called TKO and love it there!
  • dangerousdumpling
    dangerousdumpling Posts: 1,109 Member
    I want to thank Croz1007 and Doodlewhopper.

    Croz: The Consumerist picked up my story! Excellent idea!

    Doodlewhopper: You may notice I lifted some of your wording, because you said it better than I could.

    http://consumerist.com/2013/02/05/gym-staff-member-bullies-couple-for-being-fat-they-want-out-of-their-contract/

    I also sent a consumer complaint to the local TV news station and a letter to the editor of the local newspaper. I am hoping that with enough of this publicity, they will not only void my contract, but also become a little more selective of trainers and open to a wider (no pun intended!) variety of people.

    You totally rock!!! Good for you not taking that crap!

    My worst experience happened one day after a great workout. I had a date after so I brought my stuff to get showered and ready before I left the gym. I'm happily walking along towards a shower and I see..."something" ...on a shelf in the shower. I slow down, squint, and keep walking toward the shower trying to identify what I was seeing. I think my brain wouldn't allow me to accept what I was seeing. Something small, tubular, and slightly reddish. At this point I hear the music from Jaws in my head. Dun dun. Dun dun dun dun. Dear God, help me, it's a bloody tampon! I just about jumped out of my flip flops, dropped my towel, and almost killed myself jumping over a bench to get away. For cryin' in the night, what kind of person would leave that behind?
  • Doodlewhopper
    Doodlewhopper Posts: 1,018 Member
    I want to thank Croz1007 and Doodlewhopper.

    Croz: The Consumerist picked up my story! Excellent idea!

    Doodlewhopper: You may notice I lifted some of your wording, because you said it better than I could.

    http://consumerist.com/2013/02/05/gym-staff-member-bullies-couple-for-being-fat-they-want-out-of-their-contract/

    I also sent a consumer complaint to the local TV news station and a letter to the editor of the local newspaper. I am hoping that with enough of this publicity, they will not only void my contract, but also become a little more selective of trainers and open to a wider (no pun intended!) variety of people.

    LOL....my pleasure

    btw - Contact the BBB & the State Attorney General. Then call the credit card company and be very assertive but polite. Stay in control as they may be recording your call.

    Explain that you have made a complaint with the BBB/State Attorney Gen & that you want the charges for the gym membership stopped. The CC companies have become more reluctant to do this, but regardless, demand they do so because this is a case of consumer fraud & that the gym is wanting to force you from using the facilities but still collect the fees.

    If the CC company refuses ask to speak with a supervisor; calmly and with dignity explain the situation (practice the words before calling). You want the supervisor on your side. If the supervisor still refuses, then state that you wish to cancel the credit card immediately.

    Contact the Gym management and inform them that you want a complete refund or you will be taking them to small claims court. The rules for small claims courts vary from state to state. You will have to call the local small claims court and they will help you. I cant tell you how many times I have filed small claims only for the defendant to call and concede.

    I am not a lawyer, but have worked as a consultant for businesses and have been on both sides of the fight. If you have questions, in box me. Be a bear, do not give up.
  • Doodlewhopper
    Doodlewhopper Posts: 1,018 Member
    I want to thank Croz1007 and Doodlewhopper.

    Croz: The Consumerist picked up my story! Excellent idea!

    Doodlewhopper: You may notice I lifted some of your wording, because you said it better than I could.

    http://consumerist.com/2013/02/05/gym-staff-member-bullies-couple-for-being-fat-they-want-out-of-their-contract/

    I also sent a consumer complaint to the local TV news station and a letter to the editor of the local newspaper. I am hoping that with enough of this publicity, they will not only void my contract, but also become a little more selective of trainers and open to a wider (no pun intended!) variety of people.

    You totally rock!!! Good for you not taking that crap!

    My worst experience happened one day after a great workout. I had a date after so I brought my stuff to get showered and ready before I left the gym. I'm happily walking along towards a shower and I see..."something" ...on a shelf in the shower. I slow down, squint, and keep walking toward the shower trying to identify what I was seeing. I think my brain wouldn't allow me to accept what I was seeing. Something small, tubular, and slightly reddish. At this point I hear the music from Jaws in my head. Dun dun. Dun dun dun dun. Dear God, help me, it's a bloody tampon! I just about jumped out of my flip flops, dropped my towel, and almost killed myself jumping over a bench to get away. For cryin' in the night, what kind of person would leave that behind?

    Seriously, no joking, that is a bio hazard.
  • celebrity328
    celebrity328 Posts: 377 Member
    I think the worse exp for me was when my PT called me a liar about my food/calories, told me I was secretly binge eating or something. After 5 months of doing it her way, I quit going to the gym and went to a doctor. My results from the doctor were very telling and I was put on a medical diet. After 6 months of no gym or PT I went back a 1.5 months ago (stuck with 8 more sessions with this women!) 65lbs lighter.

    A month ago she brought up my diet and asked me how many calories I have been eating, and told me if I ate 1600+ calories a day I would gain weight. Then tells me that I should stop, cut it down to 1200 again and I would see weight loss. I then remind her we did it "her way" for 5 months with no results, my way has worked so far and is being supervised by a MD! I think I got this thing down! :p
  • Ascolti_la_musica
    Ascolti_la_musica Posts: 676 Member
    Update: I have been in contact with the CEO and the "VP of Fitness." They both seem to think this is about money or "buyer's remorse." They keep offering free sessions with a different trainer. They can't or won't understand that I can not walk through those doors. How do I make them understand just how scared I am to run into this guy, even if he is 'on his best behavior' or whatever?

    I have a panic attack just thinking about trying to go back in and work out there. I am *scared.* I hate being this afraid, and feeling so weak and pathetic. HATE it. I don't want free training, and haven't even really asked for a refund. I just want out. I want this whole ordeal behind me.

    Why won't they just let me out?!
  • dad106
    dad106 Posts: 4,868 Member
    Update: I have been in contact with the CEO and the "VP of Fitness." They both seem to think this is about money or "buyer's remorse." They keep offering free sessions with a different trainer. They can't or won't understand that I can not walk through those doors. How do I make them understand just how scared I am to run into this guy, even if he is 'on his best behavior' or whatever?

    I have a panic attack just thinking about trying to go back in and work out there. I am *scared.* I hate being this afraid, and feeling so weak and pathetic. HATE it. I don't want free training, and haven't even really asked for a refund. I just want out. I want this whole ordeal behind me.

    Why won't they just let me out?!

    We had a similar experience with our gym.

    I wanted out of my training contract because my trainer was being switched and I didn't want a new one.. Neither did my mom.

    They told us the only way to get out was to bring a doctors note in. Which is what I suggest you do. Bring in a doctors note saying that you are not cleared for exercise.. and they can't argue after that!
  • Doodlewhopper
    Doodlewhopper Posts: 1,018 Member
    Update: I have been in contact with the CEO and the "VP of Fitness." They both seem to think this is about money or "buyer's remorse." They keep offering free sessions with a different trainer. They can't or won't understand that I can not walk through those doors. How do I make them understand just how scared I am to run into this guy, even if he is 'on his best behavior' or whatever?

    I have a panic attack just thinking about trying to go back in and work out there. I am *scared.* I hate being this afraid, and feeling so weak and pathetic. HATE it. I don't want free training, and haven't even really asked for a refund. I just want out. I want this whole ordeal behind me.

    Why won't they just let me out?!

    The issue as I see it is you never wanted to have attention drawn to yourself as you are self conscious; that you only want an end to this drama as you have suffered emotionally....and after this humiliating experience you dont know if you will ever have the courage to step foot in a gym again.

    Tell corporate you have had enough of the spotlight and it's time to put this issue to rest. Tell them they can keep whatever dues they have collected, but you will not concede another dollar. Tell them this thing will end up costing a lot more the longer they try to drag this out. (lawyers are expensive & they will be spending valuable time in court.)

    Without repeating, I suggest you continue to follow what I outlined earlier.
  • That's horrible! =( You're at the gym trying to better yourself, you shouldn't be ridiculed.

    For me, it was when I fell off the treadmill when running. (Yeah, it happened.)
  • gfedex
    gfedex Posts: 226 Member
    I had a dude hit on me by...telling me how he almost died being stabbed in the neck. It was awkward.

    I have a spinning instructor who claims she's going to start *****ing out the spinners who don't have proper shoes. She's been on vacation the past couple weeks but she's back Friday, so we'll see. According to her, dropping $100 should be no big deal for anyone. I'm not a fan of the "check your privilege" retort but I think it applies here.
  • Ascolti_la_musica
    Ascolti_la_musica Posts: 676 Member

    The issue as I see it is you never wanted to have attention drawn to yourself as you are self conscious; that you only want an end to this drama as you have suffered emotionally....and after this humiliating experience you dont know if you will ever have the courage to step foot in a gym again.

    Tell corporate you have had enough of the spotlight and it's time to put this issue to rest. Tell them they can keep whatever dues they have collected, but you will not concede another dollar. Tell them this thing will end up costing a lot more the longer they try to drag this out. (lawyers are expensive & they will be spending valuable time in court.)

    Without repeating, I suggest you continue to follow what I outlined earlier.

    The fine print in our contract says that we have to pay their legal fees. I am not rich, but the CEO most certainly is. I'm not sure if a lawyer is really an option, but my husband thinks it is going to have to be. I wish they would just work with me here.
  • Doodlewhopper
    Doodlewhopper Posts: 1,018 Member

    The issue as I see it is you never wanted to have attention drawn to yourself as you are self conscious; that you only want an end to this drama as you have suffered emotionally....and after this humiliating experience you dont know if you will ever have the courage to step foot in a gym again.

    Tell corporate you have had enough of the spotlight and it's time to put this issue to rest. Tell them they can keep whatever dues they have collected, but you will not concede another dollar. Tell them this thing will end up costing a lot more the longer they try to drag this out. (lawyers are expensive & they will be spending valuable time in court.)

    Without repeating, I suggest you continue to follow what I outlined earlier.

    The fine print in our contract says that we have to pay their legal fees. I am not rich, but the CEO most certainly is. I'm not sure if a lawyer is really an option, but my husband thinks it is going to have to be. I wish they would just work with me here.

    That fine print does not give them license to defraud or abuse the public. That fine print is to scare people. Contact the BBB & your credit card company. The BBB should be able to help you. Tell the credit card company that you will be canceling the credit card if they continue paying the gym fee & send a follow up letter. You are a victim and you do have consumer rights.
  • scott1111111
    scott1111111 Posts: 53 Member
    My worst experience wasn't in a regular gym. Back in the day when I was actually in shape I was in the weight room for practice. We were doing max lifts and I was on the bench press. I was trying a weight that I had not done before. Just as I was picking it up off the rack someone yelled something at my spotters and they turned their heads. My arms buckled and it came straight down towards my face. The bar hit my nose and my mouth as I was trying to catch it and finally stopped it resting it on my chest.

    I yelled and my spotters grabbed it off of me, but to this day I am leery of doing the bench press unless it is a machine with no chance to smash my face. Amazingly nothing got broken or seriously injured but it really scared the crap out of me.
  • Ascolti_la_musica
    Ascolti_la_musica Posts: 676 Member
    My worst experience wasn't in a regular gym. Back in the day when I was actually in shape I was in the weight room for practice. We were doing max lifts and I was on the bench press. I was trying a weight that I had not done before. Just as I was picking it up off the rack someone yelled something at my spotters and they turned their heads. My arms buckled and it came straight down towards my face. The bar hit my nose and my mouth as I was trying to catch it and finally stopped it resting it on my chest.

    I yelled and my spotters grabbed it off of me, but to this day I am leery of doing the bench press unless it is a machine with no chance to smash my face. Amazingly nothing got broken or seriously injured but it really scared the crap out of me.

    OMG! That is scary! Glad you didn't break your face! >.<