"Why it is Hard For Obese People To Lose Weight..."

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  • tbetts23
    tbetts23 Posts: 303 Member
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    My question would be how you get to be 100's of pounds overweight without having any concern about it in the first place. It's not like you wake up one morning and you're obese. Is there not a point where you're getting a bit overweight that you notice and think "Wow, I need to lose a few pounds"? It always amazes me how people can go so off the rails that they are morbidly obese and seem to have no clue how that happened, like it snuck up on you.
    No one ever said we didn't know we were fat. There are a lot of things and time that come into play with weight gain. Things happen in life. Denial happens. The hope is that we will wake up and realize we need to change. That is what this site is for. At least I thought so.
  • etoiles_argentees
    etoiles_argentees Posts: 2,827 Member
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    just copying an old post.
    While I'm not keen on the entire set - point theory, I do think genetic inheritance plays a very important part in the body returning to a "comfortable" weight. I really think weight is due to a combination of both genes and environment. After reading articles like the following I can't help but wonder if dieting is just too hard for some. My thinking (at the moment ) leans towards the possibility that people who relapse are just tired of the struggle to maintain the constant vigilance. Maybe it's due to a shifting of values where remaining thin is no longer a top priority in life, or counting calories and thinking about food becomes too time consuming and starts taking away from someone's life instead of adding to it. It's nice to be free from analyzing your options every time you eat something, to be able to eat something because that's what you "want", and not what you "should" have.


    I'm sure there are many reasons, just throwing some possibilities out there...
    May 8, 2007
    Genes Take Charge, and Diets Fall by the Wayside

    By GINA KOLATA
    Correction Appended

    It was 1959. Jules Hirsch, a research physician at Rockefeller University, had gotten curious about weight loss in the obese. He was about to start a simple experiment that would change forever the way scientists think about fat.

    Obese people, he knew, had huge fat cells, stuffed with glistening yellow fat. What happened to those cells when people lost weight, he wondered. Did they shrink or did they go away? He decided to find out.

    It seemed straightforward. Dr. Hirsch found eight people who had been fat since childhood or adolescence and who agreed to live at the Rockefeller University Hospital for eight months while scientists would control their diets, make them lose weight and then examine their fat cells.

    The study was rigorous and demanding. It began with an agonizing four weeks of a maintenance diet that assessed the subjects’ metabolism and caloric needs. Then the diet began. The only food permitted was a liquid formula providing 600 calories a day, a regimen that guaranteed they would lose weight. Finally, the subjects spent another four weeks on a diet that maintained them at their new weights, 100 pounds lower than their initial weights, on average.

    Dr. Hirsch answered his original question — the subjects’ fat cells had shrunk and were now normal in size. And everyone, including Dr. Hirsch, assumed that the subjects would leave the hospital permanently thinner.

    That did not happen. Instead, Dr. Hirsch says, “they all regained.” He was horrified. The study subjects certainly wanted to be thin, so what went wrong? Maybe, he thought, they had some deep-seated psychological need to be fat.

    So Dr. Hirsch and his colleagues, including Dr. Rudolph L. Leibel, who is now at Columbia University, repeated the experiment and repeated it again. Every time the result was the same. The weight, so painstakingly lost, came right back. But since this was a research study, the investigators were also measuring metabolic changes, psychiatric conditions, body temperature and pulse. And that led them to a surprising conclusion: fat people who lost large amounts of weight might look like someone who was never fat, but they were very different. In fact, by every metabolic measurement, they seemed like people who were starving.

    Before the diet began, the fat subjects’ metabolism was normal — the number of calories burned per square meter of body surface was no different from that of people who had never been fat. But when they lost weight, they were burning as much as 24 percent fewer calories per square meter of their surface area than the calories consumed by those who were naturally thin.

    The Rockefeller subjects also had a psychiatric syndrome, called semi-starvation neurosis, which had been noticed before in people of normal weight who had been starved. They dreamed of food, they fantasized about food or about breaking their diet. They were anxious and depressed; some had thoughts of suicide. They secreted food in their rooms. And they binged.

    The Rockefeller researchers explained their observations in one of their papers: “It is entirely possible that weight reduction, instead of resulting in a normal state for obese patients, results in an abnormal state resembling that of starved nonobese individuals.”

    Eventually, more than 50 people lived at the hospital and lost weight, and every one had physical and psychological signs of starvation. There were a very few who did not get fat again, but they made staying thin their life’s work, becoming Weight Watchers lecturers, for example, and, always, counting calories and maintaining themselves in a permanent state of starvation.

    “Did those who stayed thin simply have more willpower?” Dr. Hirsch asked. “In a funny way, they did.”

    One way to interpret Dr. Hirsch and Dr. Leibel’s studies would be to propose that once a person got fat, the body would adjust, making it hopeless to lose weight and keep it off. The issue was important, because if getting fat was the problem, there might be a solution to the obesity epidemic: convince people that any weight gain was a step toward an irreversible condition that they most definitely did not want to have.

    But another group of studies showed that that hypothesis, too, was wrong.

    It began with studies that were the inspiration of Dr. Ethan Sims at the University of Vermont, who asked what would happen if thin people who had never had a weight problem deliberately got fat.

    His subjects were prisoners at a nearby state prison who volunteered to gain weight. With great difficulty, they succeeded, increasing their weight by 20 percent to 25 percent. But it took them four to six months, eating as much as they could every day. Some consumed 10,000 calories a day, an amount so incredible that it would be hard to believe, were it not for the fact that there were attendants present at each meal who dutifully recorded everything the men ate.

    Once the men were fat, their metabolisms increased by 50 percent. They needed more than 2,700 calories per square meter of their body surface to stay fat but needed just 1,800 calories per square meter to maintain their normal weight.

    When the study ended, the prisoners had no trouble losing weight. Within months, they were back to normal and effortlessly stayed there.

    The implications were clear. There is a reason that fat people cannot stay thin after they diet and that thin people cannot stay fat when they force themselves to gain weight. The body’s metabolism speeds up or slows down to keep weight within a narrow range. Gain weight and the metabolism can as much as double; lose weight and it can slow to half its original speed.

    That, of course, was contrary to what every scientist had thought, and Dr. Sims knew it, as did Dr. Hirsch.

    The message never really got out to the nation’s dieters, but a few research scientists were intrigued and asked the next question about body weight: Is body weight inherited, or is obesity more of an inadvertent, almost unconscious response to a society where food is cheap, abundant and tempting? An extra 100 calories a day will pile on 10 pounds in a year, public health messages often say. In five years, that is 50 pounds.

    The assumption was that environment determined weight, but Dr. Albert Stunkard of the University of Pennsylvania wondered if that was true and, if so, to what extent. It was the early 1980s, long before obesity became what one social scientist called a moral panic, but a time when those questions of nature versus nurture were very much on Dr. Stunkard’s mind.

    He found the perfect tool for investigating the nature-nurture question — a Danish registry of adoptees developed to understand whether schizophrenia was inherited. It included meticulous medical records of every Danish adoption between 1927 and 1947, including the names of the adoptees’ biological parents, and the heights and weights of the adoptees, their biological parents and their adoptive parents.

    Dr. Stunkard ended up with 540 adults whose average age was 40. They had been adopted when they were very young — 55 percent had been adopted in the first month of life and 90 percent were adopted in the first year of life. His conclusions, published in The New England Journal of Medicine in 1986, were unequivocal. The adoptees were as fat as their biological parents, and how fat they were had no relation to how fat their adoptive parents were.

    The scientists summarized it in their paper: “The two major findings of this study were that there was a clear relation between the body-mass index of biologic parents and the weight class of adoptees, suggesting that genetic influences are important determinants of body fatness; and that there was no relation between the body-mass index of adoptive parents and the weight class of adoptees, suggesting that childhood family environment alone has little or no effect.”

    In other words, being fat was an inherited condition.

    Dr. Stunkard also pointed out the implications: “Current efforts to prevent obesity are directed toward all children (and their parents) almost indiscriminately. Yet if family environment alone has no role in obesity, efforts now directed toward persons with little genetic risk of the disorder could be refocused on the smaller number who are more vulnerable. Such persons can already be identified with some assurance: 80 percent of the offspring of two obese parents become obese, as compared with no more than 14 percent of the offspring of two parents of normal weight.”

    A few years later, in 1990, Dr. Stunkard published another study in The New England Journal of Medicine, using another classic method of geneticists: investigating twins. This time, he used the Swedish Twin Registry, studying its 93 pairs of identical twins who were reared apart, 154 pairs of identical twins who were reared together, 218 pairs of fraternal twins who were reared apart, and 208 pairs of fraternal twins who were reared together.

    The identical twins had nearly identical body mass indexes, whether they had been reared apart or together. There was more variation in the body mass indexes of the fraternal twins, who, like any siblings, share some, but not all, genes.

    The researchers concluded that 70 percent of the variation in peoples’ weights may be accounted for by inheritance, a figure that means that weight is more strongly inherited than nearly any other condition, including mental illness, breast cancer or heart disease.

    The results did not mean that people are completely helpless to control their weight, Dr. Stunkard said. But, he said, it did mean that those who tend to be fat will have to constantly battle their genetic inheritance if they want to reach and maintain a significantly lower weight.

    The findings also provided evidence for a phenomenon that scientists like Dr. Hirsch and Dr. Leibel were certain was true — each person has a comfortable weight range to which the body gravitates. The range might span 10 or 20 pounds: someone might be able to weigh 120 to 140 pounds without too much effort. Going much above or much below the natural weight range is difficult, however; the body resists by increasing or decreasing the appetite and changing the metabolism to push the weight back to the range it seeks.

    The message is so at odds with the popular conception of weight loss — the mantra that all a person has to do is eat less and exercise more — that Dr. Jeffrey Friedman, an obesity researcher at the Rockefeller University, tried to come up with an analogy that would convey what science has found about the powerful biological controls over body weight.

    He published it in the journal Science in 2003 and still cites it:

    “Those who doubt the power of basic drives, however, might note that although one can hold one’s breath, this conscious act is soon overcome by the compulsion to breathe,” Dr. Friedman wrote. “The feeling of hunger is intense and, if not as potent as the drive to breathe, is probably no less powerful than the drive to drink when one is thirsty. This is the feeling the obese must resist after they have lost a significant amount of weight.”

    This is an excerpt from Gina Kolata’s new book, “Rethinking Thin: The New Science of Weight Loss — and the Myths and Realities of Dieting” (Farrar, Straus & Giroux).

    An article in Science Times on Tuesday about the role of genes in weight gain misstated the publication date for an article in the journal Science describing the biological controls over body weight. The article was published in 2003, not 2000.


    Lots of comments after this article at the New York Times if you're interested - most not as depressing as this article and a few by readers that are maintaining a large loss of weight.
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
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    Is there a tl;dr version of that ^ ?
  • neva4saken
    neva4saken Posts: 300 Member
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    if i can be brutally honest because i was that person.. quite frankly i got lazy, i blame shift, and let everything going on in the world cause me to forget about me. I got used to self pity and woe is me and you feel your body changing and your organs rebelling and yet mentally refuse to drag my sorry, self loathing pitiful behind out of the pit in was in simply because i wanted to blame someone for "breaking my heart" when they've moved on in their life. I will never forget the doctor who very sarcastically insulted me and it was my kick in the pants.. so once that happened the "hard for me to lose weight" mentality left and i dropped 100lbs in 9 months. Just being honest bout me. carry on
  • junglejenny01
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    My question would be how you get to be 100's of pounds overweight without having any concern about it in the first place. It's not like you wake up one morning and you're obese. Is there not a point where you're getting a bit overweight that you notice and think "Wow, I need to lose a few pounds"? It always amazes me how people can go so off the rails that they are morbidly obese and seem to have no clue how that happened, like it snuck up on you.

    my answer is easy. i burried my 22 year old son. i gained 60 pounds. i sold my business and became a stay at home wife. i gained another 20 pounds. it didnt sneak up on me. i invited it in with every plate of food i ate. LOL

    now, 3 years later, im working on getting the weight back off & getting healthy again. ill never lose it as fast as i gained it. but i will lose it. :)
  • rm7161
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    When I decided I was not going to let anything stop me, I was able to lose weight at a steady, if not rapid, clip. I am not unhappy with the rate of weight loss I've had. It didn't get there overnight, it won't come off overnight either. Nobody gets over 100 lbs overweight, overnight.
  • jamiesadler
    jamiesadler Posts: 634 Member
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    For me personally, it's because I love stuffing my fat face with big macs, pizza and liquor.

    Me too! And I hate going to the gym. No mystery here.
  • Elleinnz
    Elleinnz Posts: 1,661 Member
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    You have to change habits that you have cultivated over years..... If you don't change the habits the weight will come back ..... Sure as anything....

    This is what is different for me this time (after 20 years of diets) I have changed my habits, which is slowly changing my mind - and my relationship with food.....I have learnt a lot in 2 and a half years, but it will most probably take me another 2 to 3 years (if ever) before I can feel " safe" in my new life..... Until then I will just remind myself every day of the 100lbs that is gone - and sure as anything is not coming back into my life!!
  • kamiAK
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    For me personally, it's because I love stuffing my fat face with big macs, pizza and liquor.

    lmao
  • issyfit
    issyfit Posts: 1,077 Member
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    bump, great thread, thank you all who have replied.
  • kazzsjourney
    kazzsjourney Posts: 674 Member
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    My question would be how you get to be 100's of pounds overweight without having any concern about it in the first place. It's not like you wake up one morning and you're obese. Is there not a point where you're getting a bit overweight that you notice and think "Wow, I need to lose a few pounds"? It always amazes me how people can go so off the rails that they are morbidly obese and seem to have no clue how that happened, like it snuck up on you.

    I can only speak for myself...as a teen I had undiagnosed PCOS,dealing with the death of my dad and youngest sister as well as having been molested by a uncle the night of my dads funeral, as a adult i had depression related to my coming out (im a lesbian) and my relationship with my mum and her second husband had suffered cos of it......until you can work out what emotionally is making you over eat you cannot honestly and successfully lose weight. Usually there is a lot more going on then just eating too much.
  • TNR32
    TNR32 Posts: 110 Member
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    Bump for later
  • raeleek
    raeleek Posts: 414 Member
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    My question would be how you get to be 100's of pounds overweight without having any concern about it in the first place. It's not like you wake up one morning and you're obese. Is there not a point where you're getting a bit overweight that you notice and think "Wow, I need to lose a few pounds"? It always amazes me how people can go so off the rails that they are morbidly obese and seem to have no clue how that happened, like it snuck up on you.

    Denial my dear!

    Oh I had it bad. My numbers were still ok even though I was so overweight and therefore, it's you not me set in. It literally took a loved one dying for me to get it. When I finally did get it I looked at myself and thought WHEN/HOW/WHY did you let this happen to youself!?! I've been moving and eating better ever since and love it. Since the weight has started coming off I have really seen how much my weight was actually bothering me. Not just losing sizes but my body just feels SO MUCH better. The way I feel now will keep me going because I NEVER want to feel as bad as I did. I NEVER realized how crappy I really felt until I had something to compare it to.
  • My0WNinspiration
    My0WNinspiration Posts: 1,146 Member
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    When morbidly obese its hard because its simply just a long, hard road ahead. I will never forget thinking..."holy crap i have to lose 100 kilos/220 pounds" and you are filled with self doubt that you can do that...its such a imaginable mountain that you need to climb. I have lost 82 kilos/182 pounds so far....and I did it very slowly....took me over 6 years so far and will prolly be over 7 years by the time I reach goal. But it is honestly the best thing I have ever done :)


    This seems about right.
  • kimad
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    Strange, I just read something recently claiming to debunk that 'you have to lose it slow to keep it off' theory. Then again the study it was based off of seemed to involve some kind of liquid low calorie diet so maybe it's the one that is wrong.

    I go more for, you have to change your habits/lifestyle and add some form of exercise to keep it off, theory.

    I lost 75lbs my first year, and have maintained (not done yet) 84-86lbs loss... I have been at this for 2 years.
  • Helenov
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    I'm an adult now and I've made an adult decision to lose weight.

    But know this -

    I was overweight before I was 1 year old. I was being teased in grade 1 about my weight. Everyone told me my entire childhood to "just stop eating". But what's a 9 YO going to do when she's offered sugary, fatty food and pop? I was obese before I was a teen. When I went off to school I still didn't know the first thing about what to eat. I lived on Mr. Noodles and pizza.

    It wasn't until after my first child when a naturopath started teaching me about food and what to eat.

    No, my weight didn't sneak up on me. But you can't point a finger at anyone who's fat and say it was definitely a personal failing either.
  • Jsnuggles
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    My question would be how you get to be 100's of pounds overweight without having any concern about it in the first place. It's not like you wake up one morning and you're obese. Is there not a point where you're getting a bit overweight that you notice and think "Wow, I need to lose a few pounds"? It always amazes me how people can go so off the rails that they are morbidly obese and seem to have no clue how that happened, like it snuck up on you.

    Psych meds, having a baby, PCOS, bipolar/ptsd/anxiety..much more, but I do not think a message board is the place to air such business. Just be aware that there is a lot more going on with the obese, and morbidly obese, population than simply knowing they need to lose weight.

    Weight can take years to put on, and the whole while your perception of yourself is changing. You adjust to your new, higher, weight and trick yourself into seeing less pounds in the mirror than what is truly there. There comes a point when you either get yourself together, and work on getting healthy or you do not and you fall even further into the well. Health problems, and physically in pain or discomfort from daily activities seems to trigger getting healthy in a lot of people. It comes down to how you feel more than how you look.-
  • Brujah1981
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    For me there was never any denial. I knew I was bigger (about 230lbs) and part of it was "at least I'm not 350" but I knew I was in terrible shape and had a gut. Honestly, I stayed big because I felt like I shouldn't have to lose weight for people to like me. That people should like me for who I am, not how "good looking" I was. It was a poor excuse, but I love to eat, so it worked.

    Another thing that held me back was the fact that I hate HATE exercise. Not because I'm lazy, but because I feel really really bad afterwards. All the time. After doing 60 minutes of interval running I want to die. I can lift weights all day, but let's face it that doesn't help you lose a lot of weight. The thought of cardio makes me want to cry. I used to work out 5 days a week for almost a year, and it never got better. I never got that "runner's high" or even the "I have so much energy after working out" that I keep hearing about. For those of you that feel great after a good work out, you need to realize that it's not that way for everyone, and keeping weight off when you can't consistently work out because it's painful, is very hard to do.
  • Tecia1970
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    my problem is i love food and so it is very tough exspecially when you live with ppl who eat the worst food ever and your trying to cont your calories its very tough i mean i try to think of ways to eat healthier and there eating fatening *kitten* food right in front of me
    I can cook healthy food and my husband will pile stuff on top of it to make it fattening! Like chicken and rice...he piled cheese and sour cream on his! My 16 year old who stays in shape, plays high school football and is also on the power lifting team just looked at him and said, "Dad...really?!" LOL!
  • acogg
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    I was 45 years olds, 10-15 pounds overweight and then broke my foot. I gained another twenty, five pounds a year, one winter after another. I got used to sitting around, not doing anything and eating anything I wanted while suffering from and then milking the simpathy of my injury. I am not proud of that laziness in my life. Anything I can do is be better than that mind set. I am very proud that I got back to my regular self. It was hard, tedious, seemingly never ending work, but worth it. Still working on the fitness!