What was your "I need to change" moment

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erinlibke
erinlibke Posts: 144 Member
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My sister got married in October and I was the bridesmaid. For 6 months I knew this day was coming and I knew all eyes would be on me (if only for a brief moment). Still I did nothing. Two weeks before the wedding I tried on my size 18 dress and it was too tight- I could not even get the zipper up. I had to take it to the steamstress and get it let out while my 9 month pregnant sister had to get the same size dress taken it. I was so ashamed. I put on my best "skinny pants" and thought I looked ok and had a blast at the wedding.

Then I saw the pictures! I looked horrible!!! (<--See profile pic with my gorgeous son) And I felt even worse- about myself, about ruining my sister's pictures, for my husband as I let myself go so much in the 4 years we've been together. So I'm working on it. I was 184 in october, 166 this morning. Still have a long way to go but I'm working on it!

When did you know you had to make a change?
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  • alpine1994
    alpine1994 Posts: 1,915 Member
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    Amazing progress!

    My "moment" was a picture as well. It's the one in my profile in the red and white striped shirt. Ii appeared on facebook and couldn't believe I had let myself go that much. I was already a member of MFP but hadn't used it at all. Started logging that day and never stopped!
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
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    Pants wiast getting tight.

    Belt on the last notch.

    Feeling like I had weights on my ankles while playing tennis and moving around the court.

    The once baggy XL shirts started puffing up just a bit too much in the front around the belly (I should be in a Large, not XL)

    Etc.
  • salcha76
    salcha76 Posts: 287 Member
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    I was at an all you can eat pizza buffett....my fat *kitten* had stretched out the elastic in my undies....and they were falling off me...fell off...and were hanging below the hem line of my shorts...on probably my 4th trip or so back from the buffett line....wow. Fat girl had to put the fork down and stop....41lbs since then...no more pizza buffetts for me!
  • curvynblonde
    curvynblonde Posts: 170 Member
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    My moment was when I put on my super big, super comfy 49ers Jersey that I wear to lounge around the house, and it was no longer super big and comfy but super snug and short! Yikes!
  • deb3129
    deb3129 Posts: 1,294 Member
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    In March, 2012 I went to the doctor because I was having pain in my chest,mainly when I ate. I was diagnosed with acid reflux, and he discussed dietary changes and gave me a prescription for Nexium. I walked out of his office, and it struck me that at 42 years old and 338 pounds, it was only a matter of time before it was medicine for diabetes, high blood pressure, etc. I knew that it was time to change. I did, and I feel like a new person.
  • PamelaGatorMom
    PamelaGatorMom Posts: 348 Member
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    Last month when I realized I was turning 40 this year & still had so many things I wanted to do but my weight was an issue (like skydive)
  • jcartwright2008
    jcartwright2008 Posts: 73 Member
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    When I saw pictures from our cruise last year. Like the ones from this year much better :happy:
  • missemily1124
    missemily1124 Posts: 102
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    When at the age of 19, I stepped on the scale and it was almost 180 (5'3")!!! This was just a few years after my grandpa had died from complications due to diabetes. It finally clicked that I was on the same scary path. I've now lost almost 50 pounds and can't imagine ever going back.
  • nano83
    nano83 Posts: 24 Member
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    I was not obese , just overweight..
    I'm 5,4 and my highest weight was 155 lbs ..

    I ended a bad unhealthy relationship..
    My ex was always giving me criticizing looks, and commenting on my weight..
    That destroyed me..my self-esteem was so low..because I was so in love with him...
    I can't be in a relationship with anyone right now because I'm not confident that I'm good enough..

    Maybe by losing weight I will get my confidence back and start to love myself again..
    I'm 140 now, so far so good..
    Exercising gave me satisfaction, made me be believe in myself again..It also helps with my depression..
  • cuddlescreampuff
    cuddlescreampuff Posts: 42 Member
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    Hi there! My moment was in June if 2011. I was watching Extreme Makeover - Weight loss edition. I was not always overweight, but gained 30 pounds after getting married in 2006. I thought to myself "if these people can lose over 100 pounds in a year I should be able to lose the 30 pounds. Well I came close, and lost 23. Then late last year I just stopped loggin in to MFP, and gained back 8 pounds. In January of this year I took back control, and have lost 3 pounds in 3 weeks. Not gangbusters but good for me. I am back on track and have been working out and eating more healthy. Even my hubby joined this time. Please add me if you're looking for someone to encourage you and hold you accountable. I'm always looking for new friends :flowerforyou:
  • MyProgressISYour1Proof
    MyProgressISYour1Proof Posts: 376 Member
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    When my health started to decline and I was well on my way to having diabetes and high blood pressure :( that and the scale...
  • VinaAnderson
    VinaAnderson Posts: 104
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    I noticed I couldn't walk a flight of stairs without losing my breath at age 30. When I laid on my side, I had rolls of fat and I had a fat pouch on the back of my legs behind my knees. That's when I knew it was time for a change.
  • adiannen83
    adiannen83 Posts: 32 Member
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    Like a lot of people I've been big for the majority of my life. My "I need to change" moment happened when my then 3 year old let go of my hand and started running toward a busy parking lot. I had to yell to get her to stop because I couldn't run fast enough to stop her. Luckily she stopped, but in the back of my mind I always think, what if she hadn't? What if something had happened to her because I wasn't healthy enough to be the mother she needed? I realized that not only have I been jeoparodizing my health, but hers as well and that is just selfish. So, now I'm on the roady to healthy so that I can be the mother my daughter deserves. :-)
  • auntygill
    auntygill Posts: 108 Member
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    When i couldnt get a bra big enough to fit me !!!!!
  • XXXMinnieXXX
    XXXMinnieXXX Posts: 3,459 Member
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    At 301lbs being told I was too big for gall bladder surgery. I went away lost 50lbs whilst getting sicker and sicker. Found I needed 3/4 of my liver removed due to tumors. I'd lost enough weight to make much smaller incisions and it reduced my risk of death on the table massively. Recovery has been hard but I've been determined to keep going and I have.

    I've reversed my high blood pressure, high heart rate and type 2 diabetes. There's no trace of it in my system for the last year. No going back for me ever.

    My depression is much better, as is my anxiety. My need to binge is now once a year (yesterday... Bad day...really bad... But back on it today.) my whole outlook on life and the way I think and feel is totally different.

    My fybromyalgia is greatly improved when I'm exercising and eating well. Eating junk now makes me feel terrible. I feel full, satisfied and happy on my macros. This is a total lifestyle change for me. I'll always be glad that doctor told me I was too fat for surgery

    There were lots of other factors leading up to it. Spent my whole life work, eat, sleep. Repeat. Had no energy to do anything active. No time with my family. Everyone concerned and upset. Something had to click in me though, I had to want it for me and that was my light bulb moment. I realised I deserved better. I realised I wanted a life, and got the fight in me to go get it.

    Zara x
  • ErikaWasTaken
    ErikaWasTaken Posts: 3 Member
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    When I put on a pair of my "fat pants" and had to squeeze them to get them on. I was already wearing the highest size I'd ever worn (14) and did not want to go up to a new size -- and a new clothing department.

    14 has often been the last hold out, where I was still in standard sizes.

    I started the Farrell's Extreme Bodyshaping program on January 14 and I have my five week testing *this* Saturday! I'll learn how much wieght I've lost, as well as body fat percentage and measurements!
  • fiferize
    fiferize Posts: 141
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    Mine was when I lost my mom to Congestive Heart failure and I went to the Endocrinologist that month and she wrote yet another prescription for me becuase my legs were swollen. Jeeze was that an eye opener! My dad was also diagnosed with Diabetes that year. I was already on so many medications that when I saw my mom pass away I knew then that it was time to take control of my life and get off all those medications!
  • soni_me
    soni_me Posts: 95 Member
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    When I went to the dr and my blood pressure was so high, he told me he'd give me 3 months to lose weight and cut sodium and if nothing changed, he'd put me on bp meds. I knew the last pics I took were horrible, but I dont want to be meds if it can be prevented. That was in December and I've been working hard ever since to be get some of this weight off and just be healthier in general.
  • AudgePaudge
    AudgePaudge Posts: 537 Member
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    When I saw a picture of me from my cousin's wedding!
  • brenn24179
    brenn24179 Posts: 2,144 Member
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    yes a picture when I was on a cruise, too much eating there. Also I was 10 lb up on the scale after a 40 lb loss 2 years ago. I am really angry, hope I am mad enough to change!

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