My plea.
SoldierDad
Posts: 1,602
I keep reading all these post on MFP and post after post contains so many personal attacks. I am not just talking about my own post, but almost EVERY single post. Why my friends? Isn't their enough ugliness, hate, and cruelness around. Why create more? People join this website to make friends and be encourage. You don't know what they may or may not be facing. Just "turn away" if you don't like what they have to say. And if you can't, well attack me instead. I will even give you all the ammunition you need. Let's see... I have big ears, a big nose, I am not that attractive, I am short (5'8), and I cant spell or type. And that's just the physical. Before I came to Christ I was a drunk, a porn/sex addict, a thief, a liar, I slept with married women, and my sin led to my own child passing with me never even seeing her. Pick any of that you want and attack away. I won't be hurt and I won't get angry. I will love you and I will pray blessings over you. But as you do these things think about this. Anger, cruelty and sarcasm just lead to bitterness. Bitterness is a black-hole. Want to know how many marriages I have seen destroyed because one of the couple is constantly sarcastic? Is it not so much better to love, and to lift up? Jesus said what you do to the least of my children you do to me. Think about that.
I've said what i came to say. It's my plea that the fighting and ugliness stop. If it cant stop just aim it toward me.
I love you all dearly.
Blessings,
Ed
ps: i have put lyrics to a sawyer Brown song below... Just something more to think about...
A mother riding on a city bus
Kids are yelling kicking up a fuss
Everybody's staring not knowing what she's going through
Somebody said don't you even care?
Do you let 'em do that everywhere?
She slowly turned around, looked up and stared
She said Please forgive them
But they've been up all night
Their father struggled but he finally lost his fight
He went to heaven
In the middle of the night
So please forgive my children
(They don't understand)
Everybody's busy with their own situation
Everybody's lost in their own little world
Bottled up, hurry it up trying to make a dream come true
(They don't understand)
Everybody's living like there ain't no tomorrow
Maybe we should stop and take a little time
Cause you never really know what your neighbor's going through
(They don't understand)
A man driving on the interstate
Slowing down traffic making everybody late
Everybody's staring not knowing what he's going through
Somebody honked from the passing lane
Yellin' out the window, I ain't got all day
The old man looked around and he caught his eye
He said please forgive me
You know it's been a long life
My wife has passed away and my kids don't have the time
I've been left all alone
And its getting hard to drive
So please forgive me children
(They don't understand)
Everybody's busy with their own situation
Everybody's lost in their own little world
Bottled up, hurry it up trying to make a dream come true
(They don't understand)
Everybody's living like there ain't no tomorrow
Maybe we should stop and take a little time
Cause you never really know what your neighbor's going through
(They don't understand)
A man hanging on a wooden cross
Giving everything to save the lost
Everybody's starin' not knowin' what he's going through
Somebody said you don't have a prayer
If you were king, come down from there
The man just turned his head looked up and stared
He said please forgive them
For they have not seen the light
They'll come to know me when I come back to life
Go to heaven, to make everything all right
So please forgive your children
(They don't understand)
Everybody's busy with their own situation
Everybody's lost in their own little world
Bottled up, hurry it up trying to make a dream come true
(They don't understand)
Everybody's living like there ain't no tomorrow
Maybe we should stop and take a little time
Cause you never really know what your neighbor's going through
(They don't understand)
A mother riding on a city bus
Kids are yelling kicking up a fuss
Everybody's staring not knowing what she's going through
I've said what i came to say. It's my plea that the fighting and ugliness stop. If it cant stop just aim it toward me.
I love you all dearly.
Blessings,
Ed
ps: i have put lyrics to a sawyer Brown song below... Just something more to think about...
A mother riding on a city bus
Kids are yelling kicking up a fuss
Everybody's staring not knowing what she's going through
Somebody said don't you even care?
Do you let 'em do that everywhere?
She slowly turned around, looked up and stared
She said Please forgive them
But they've been up all night
Their father struggled but he finally lost his fight
He went to heaven
In the middle of the night
So please forgive my children
(They don't understand)
Everybody's busy with their own situation
Everybody's lost in their own little world
Bottled up, hurry it up trying to make a dream come true
(They don't understand)
Everybody's living like there ain't no tomorrow
Maybe we should stop and take a little time
Cause you never really know what your neighbor's going through
(They don't understand)
A man driving on the interstate
Slowing down traffic making everybody late
Everybody's staring not knowing what he's going through
Somebody honked from the passing lane
Yellin' out the window, I ain't got all day
The old man looked around and he caught his eye
He said please forgive me
You know it's been a long life
My wife has passed away and my kids don't have the time
I've been left all alone
And its getting hard to drive
So please forgive me children
(They don't understand)
Everybody's busy with their own situation
Everybody's lost in their own little world
Bottled up, hurry it up trying to make a dream come true
(They don't understand)
Everybody's living like there ain't no tomorrow
Maybe we should stop and take a little time
Cause you never really know what your neighbor's going through
(They don't understand)
A man hanging on a wooden cross
Giving everything to save the lost
Everybody's starin' not knowin' what he's going through
Somebody said you don't have a prayer
If you were king, come down from there
The man just turned his head looked up and stared
He said please forgive them
For they have not seen the light
They'll come to know me when I come back to life
Go to heaven, to make everything all right
So please forgive your children
(They don't understand)
Everybody's busy with their own situation
Everybody's lost in their own little world
Bottled up, hurry it up trying to make a dream come true
(They don't understand)
Everybody's living like there ain't no tomorrow
Maybe we should stop and take a little time
Cause you never really know what your neighbor's going through
(They don't understand)
A mother riding on a city bus
Kids are yelling kicking up a fuss
Everybody's staring not knowing what she's going through
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Very well said! My grandmother used to say " treat everyone with kindness because you never know when you are entertaining an angel"!!0
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Ed-I've taken to avoiding the boards for the most part because of the ignorance and cruelty. Your posts are uplifting and bring a sense of peace. You are encouraging and always bring a smile. Thank you.
I'll continue to avoid most forum threads because many people tend to be overcritical and downers. I realize that not everyone is in a good place, but if not, just don't post. We don't need ANY more negativity here. Just as the song Ed posted-everyone is shouldering as much as they can bear and it is impossible for anyone else to understand, but the negativity really hurts others.
Thanks Ed, for showing us what a person can be.
ps-I apologize for my own negativity and cynicism.0 -
Hello Ed,
Thank you for sharing. We are hear to encourage each other. I'm part of a Thread that is nothing put positive and it's important to be around people who will lift you up and not bring you down. I pray that you find a group of people or maybe you can start a thread that is going to be for those of us who just need encouragement and nothing else.
God bless You!!
Blessings,
Aurora0 -
Well said Ed!! I agree. And I always find ur post very helpful and inspirational.
Erin
SW (3/1/10) 241
CW (5/17/10) 2150 -
Thank you for your continued Positive Inspiration to people struggling on this website. Even if it only helps one person that never posts and says Thanks, it's worth it.0
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Agreed. This week I haven't seen so much of it but I know in the recent past there have been groups of people who've certainly got on everyone and everything said here. And I see many many posts asking for people to stop the madness. It is unfortunate people are so aggressive when this site is built for those who want to get healthier and we are all here for that reason.
I may not always reply to your posts but I read a lot of them and I enjoy what you say!
have a good weekend all!
Lacey0 -
Thank you Ed!! Beautiful song ... made me I don't like the people being negative either.0
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Thank you for your inspiring words!0
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I totally agree with this. I came here for encouragement, motivation, somewhere to share the struggle not only for myself but for others as well. Thanks Ed for reminding us all. :happy:0
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I've been pretty fortunate since I've been on this site since August 09 and have never seen any of the things you guys are saying. (I better examine myself and make sure it isn't me!!) :laugh:
Every thread I've been on has a great bunch of people, so I just wanted to encourage someone that we aren't all bad!! :bigsmile:
Ed, isn't Jesus great!! Look how far you have come in Him!!! May the Lord continue to bless you!
Have a great weekend everybody!0 -
WOW, Ed. One of my wishes is to be able to put words together so others can understand what I'm saying. You did a fantastic job. Thank you0
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Ok, perhaps I'm having a old-ER person moment, but what does this mean??:laugh: :bigsmile:0 -
Very well said! My grandmother used to say " treat everyone with kindness because you never know when you are entertaining an angel"!!0
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They are hearts0
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I guess some how I just have been fortunate enough to miss out on these bad posts everyone speaks of all the time. I hope that all works out though.0
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Well said! I always tell my kids to treat your friends they way you want to be treated...we need to build each other up, not break each other down!0
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Wonderful post Ed. God bless you. It almost made me cry reading about how you were before you accepted Christ as your savior. So glad you joined MFP. Our God is an awesome God. :flowerforyou:0
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Ok, perhaps I'm having a old-ER person moment, but what does this mean??:laugh: :bigsmile:0 -
I guess some how I just have been fortunate enough to miss out on these bad posts everyone speaks of all the time. I hope that all works out though.0
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What is the name of this song? I want to download it.0
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Ed u rock!0
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Very well said. Thanks so much for sharing your life with us.:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:0
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Maybe I haven't been here on MFP long enough... but I have yet to see one single personal attack from one member against another. Where is this happening?0
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Well said Ed. More people need your attitude on life!0
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Ed,
I belive that we are all on here for one reason and that is to get healthy and make the best out of our lifes..You said it very well and I thank you for that..as you said we are not in the other persons shoes and you dont know what they maybe going thru..they could be a normal, just trying to get healthy person or it could be a person that has a depression issue and a persons weight does not help ..I would hate to think that I sent a depressed person over the edge by making negitive comments to them..So I say the next time a person reads something if they have nothing positive to say about it..then just keep your thought to yourself..Treat others as you want to be treated.. Thanks again Ed for your post!!! I also belive that there needs to be NO attacks toward you also!! You are a guy who made wrong choices in life but has found the real reason of life and have moved on..If you can show me one person on here that has never made a mistake or a wrong decision, I would love to meet them..but I am not holding my breath on that note..I want to keep breathing and living!0 -
I havent seen anything negative, I cant imagine why anyone would write anything belitting, how sad. love your post!0
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Wonderfully said! I couldn't have said it any better if I tried!!!0
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What is the name of this song? I want to download it.
The name of the song is They Don't Understand - Sawyer Brown .. it's beautiful!0 -
Ed,
It is my pleasure and honor to get to know such a kind and thoughtful person like you. I am sorry for the struggles you have gone threw in life, but is sure sounds like you have it together now. Threw God all thinks are possible!
Enjoy your night out with your wife and have a wonderful weekend.
Thanks for encouraging everyone to keep it positive.0
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