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  • melmelton193
    melmelton193 Posts: 33
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    I can't say too much because I like guys..not girls.. But a personality and intelligence should be considered as well, right?!
  • turtlefitnessdad
    turtlefitnessdad Posts: 585 Member
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    Wow.. I'm kinda shocked! I really thought the guys would go for the body..


    A lot of ladies would think that i am sure as the body is given so much attention inmainstream media but in the real world things are different. (of course there are many out there that would say otherwise though.)

    This is exactly what surprised me. All these years of worrying about not being "up to standard", my OH has always said this, I just assumed he was being polite!


    the "standard" as you say, is just a stupid image put out there to distort reality. A real man learns that a lady is not a magazine air brushed porno freak and then starts acting like an adult. Real women that don't think of only themselves is what a good man wants. Of course we all have preferences but good genuine women are getting harder and harder to find in this "standard" kind of a world.
  • melmelton193
    melmelton193 Posts: 33
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    And really good men are hard to find too!!!

    Wow.. I'm kinda shocked! I really thought the guys would go for the body..


    A lot of ladies would think that i am sure as the body is given so much attention inmainstream media but in the real world things are different. (of course there are many out there that would say otherwise though.)

    This is exactly what surprised me. All these years of worrying about not being "up to standard", my OH has always said this, I just assumed he was being polite!


    the "standard" as you say, is just a stupid image put out there to distort reality. A real man learns that a lady is not a magazine air brushed porno freak and then starts acting like an adult. Real women that don't think of only themselves is what a good man wants. Of course we all have preferences but good genuine women are getting harder and harder to find in this "standard" kind of a world.
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
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    Ok, I hate these threads but I'll answer for a sec.

    It isn't this or that. The whole is greater than the sum of the parts.

    Attitude, self-worth, happy-factor, personality, willing to rock the world and teach me things, along with a nice body, a nice face will always be more effective than any single thing. For me wits, a smart-mouth and willing to do damage can be a plus or a negative. It's about outlook.

    Great face but a mental lump?
    Great body but always negative?

    Work with what you've got and make it rock. Confidence, confidence, confidence. And like I said before: breathing is good.
  • camrunner
    camrunner Posts: 363
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    would u rather have a woman with a beautiful face and a not so booming body. Or a unattractive face with a booming body, U cant say both one or the other for this topic:)

    I'd rather have a woman with grammar.
  • watergallagher
    watergallagher Posts: 232 Member
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    Do i want one prefect thing, or a different perfect thing. Anyonewho sez ur not perfect is an idiot.

    Omg beautiful, just be average/average and then make that awesome. Control is outside, mastery is within, im trying to see ur insides,wanna show me ur insides?

    U ROCK!
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
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    ya spelling and grammar, i mean every couple plays pictionary in bed before they sleep ? good one
  • watergallagher
    watergallagher Posts: 232 Member
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    ^^^^^^ haha fugg u chad:D
  • dishythefish
    dishythefish Posts: 5
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    A beautiful smile everytime!
  • determinedbutlazy
    determinedbutlazy Posts: 1,941 Member
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    would u rather have a woman with a beautiful face and a not so booming body. Or a unattractive face with a booming body, U cant say both one or the other for this topic:)

    I'd rather have a woman with grammar.

    Let's make out.
  • My0WNinspiration
    My0WNinspiration Posts: 1,146 Member
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    Men are over-rated
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
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    A beautiful mind and a big heart.

    :flowerforyou:

    Both face and body will sag and wrinkle eventually...
  • K_Serz
    K_Serz Posts: 1,299 Member
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    would u rather have a woman with a beautiful face and a not so booming body. Or a unattractive face with a booming body, U cant say both one or the other for this topic:)

    Cant answer that. Define "Not So Booming"

    Does that means the body is an 8 instead of a 10? If so, then beautiful face and not so booming body (you didnt say fat or obese).

    A lot of women have already proven on here the body can be changed.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
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    Face if we are being superficial, but I like women with a nice personality. Beauty fades as we get older, but a dull / nasty person will always be the same.

    True
  • fmebear
    fmebear Posts: 172 Member
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    Face if we are being superficial, but I like women with a nice personality. Beauty fades as we get older, but a dull / nasty person will always be the same.

    Beauty does not necessarily fade since there is the option of cosmetic surgery or taking care of oneself.
  • heymirth
    heymirth Posts: 448
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    Beautiful face. We can work on the body later
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
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    Face if we are being superficial, but I like women with a nice personality. Beauty fades as we get older, but a dull / nasty person will always be the same.

    Beauty does not necessarily fade since there is the option of cosmetic surgery or taking care of oneself.

    I understand your point, but in my opinion, the look following cosmetic suregery is "fake" to me and therefore not beautiful
    Plus there's probably some insecurity issues (??), which are not attractive to me either
  • Oishii
    Oishii Posts: 2,675 Member
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    Ok, I hate these threads but I'll answer for a sec.

    It isn't this or that. The whole is greater than the sum of the parts.

    Attitude, self-worth, happy-factor, personality, willing to rock the world and teach me things, along with a nice body, a nice face will always be more effective than any single thing. For me wits, a smart-mouth and willing to do damage can be a plus or a negative. It's about outlook.

    Great face but a mental lump?
    Great body but always negative?

    Work with what you've got and make it rock. Confidence, confidence, confidence. And like I said before: breathing is good.

    As an added complication, I'm a completely different person with different people... Well, not really, but different people bring out different sides of me. So, I think personal chemistry is a big factor.
  • SerenaFisher
    SerenaFisher Posts: 2,170 Member
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    Face if we are being superficial, but I like women with a nice personality. Beauty fades as we get older, but a dull / nasty person will always be the same.

    Beauty does not necessarily fade since there is the option of cosmetic surgery or taking care of oneself.
    Yes because Joan Rivers is gorgeous, just because you can do cosmetic surgery and maintain a form of youth doesn't mean it will last and work forever.

    For me it's all ratio if you have a 6 body, and a 10 face it balances to an 8. If I were a man I'd use the same ratio. A not so attractive face could be an 8 to some. :) It's all perspective. In the end we're all old, or dead, in rocking chairs and wrinkled. No amount of surgery saves you from that. I think we all, men and women, want that person next to us to be enjoyable, mutually shaking fists at whipper snappers, and eating our foods through the same straws. :) That's love, that's what I want.
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,443 Member
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    Just put a flag over her face and do her for your country.

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