Men

ladies this just shows that all of u OBSESS too much over your bodies ... majority of men prefer face including my friends

Spot on right here. I dont care how banging a woman's body is, if you look like you should have a horse feed bag on, im out.

hahahaha thats gold @macgeek.

Wow.. I'm kinda shocked! I really thought the guys would go for the body..

Wow.. I'm kinda shocked! I really thought the guys would go for the body..

A lot of ladies would think that i am sure as the body is given so much attention inmainstream media but in the real world things are different. (of course there are many out there that would say otherwise though.)

I had expected to see a lot more "body" posts, nicely surprised.

not so good really.... people can change how their body looks, but can't change how their face looks.

I know, but most of us have been brought up with the image of perfect bodies and nothing else matters, this from a country where we still have Page 3, it's quite refreshing to see that it's not just about having a body to die for.

yeah I get you re page 3, it does make you think that men are only interested in big boobs.............(and it's not like you can control your boob size, is it?)

what I like is in many threads asking this question, plenty of men and women say they find confidence and intelligence more important than looks, that's very refreshing :flowerforyou:

Us men not bothered really , as long as they can cook , clean , have no opinion, and are great (not good-but great ) in the sack we are happy :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:

Bet you were all getting ready to bite that one LOLOL

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BUT BODY WITH SHAPE PLEASE AND NOT BONES

I can't say too much because I like guys..not girls.. But a personality and intelligence should be considered as well, right?!

And really good men are hard to find too!!!

Wow.. I'm kinda shocked! I really thought the guys would go for the body..

A lot of ladies would think that i am sure as the body is given so much attention inmainstream media but in the real world things are different. (of course there are many out there that would say otherwise though.)

This is exactly what surprised me. All these years of worrying about not being "up to standard", my OH has always said this, I just assumed he was being polite!

the "standard" as you say, is just a stupid image put out there to distort reality. A real man learns that a lady is not a magazine air brushed porno freak and then starts acting like an adult. Real women that don't think of only themselves is what a good man wants. Of course we all have preferences but good genuine women are getting harder and harder to find in this "standard" kind of a world.

would u rather have a woman with a beautiful face and a not so booming body. Or a unattractive face with a booming body, U cant say both one or the other for this topic:)

I'd rather have a woman with grammar.

ya spelling and grammar, i mean every couple plays pictionary in bed before they sleep ? good one

A beautiful smile everytime!

Men are over-rated

would u rather have a woman with a beautiful face and a not so booming body. Or a unattractive face with a booming body, U cant say both one or the other for this topic:)

Cant answer that. Define "Not So Booming"

Does that means the body is an 8 instead of a 10? If so, then beautiful face and not so booming body (you didnt say fat or obese).

A lot of women have already proven on here the body can be changed.

Face if we are being superficial, but I like women with a nice personality. Beauty fades as we get older, but a dull / nasty person will always be the same.

Beauty does not necessarily fade since there is the option of cosmetic surgery or taking care of oneself.

Face if we are being superficial, but I like women with a nice personality. Beauty fades as we get older, but a dull / nasty person will always be the same.

Beauty does not necessarily fade since there is the option of cosmetic surgery or taking care of oneself.

I understand your point, but in my opinion, the look following cosmetic suregery is "fake" to me and therefore not beautiful
Plus there's probably some insecurity issues (??), which are not attractive to me either

Face if we are being superficial, but I like women with a nice personality. Beauty fades as we get older, but a dull / nasty person will always be the same.

Beauty does not necessarily fade since there is the option of cosmetic surgery or taking care of oneself.

Yes because Joan Rivers is gorgeous, just because you can do cosmetic surgery and maintain a form of youth doesn't mean it will last and work forever.

For me it's all ratio if you have a 6 body, and a 10 face it balances to an 8. If I were a man I'd use the same ratio. A not so attractive face could be an 8 to some. It's all perspective. In the end we're all old, or dead, in rocking chairs and wrinkled. No amount of surgery saves you from that. I think we all, men and women, want that person next to us to be enjoyable, mutually shaking fists at whipper snappers, and eating our foods through the same straws. That's love, that's what I want.