The little things that suck about being single...

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  • lglg11
    lglg11 Posts: 344 Member
    Snugglef@ck:

    a transition from napping/cuddling to sensual foreplay.
    follwed by passionate, rough sex .... aka , I really want to hold
    you and be close but lets go to pound town on the f@ck truck ..


    Yea thats what I miss

    damn you .... now I need a cold shower!

    Yup . Story of my life . ugh
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I just miss having an excuse to stay all Saturday/Sunday morning...and making someone else carry the 50lb container of cat litter up the stairs for me.

    Cat's. OHHHH now we get it.

    Just one, smart *kitten*. I realize that I totally set myself up for that one though.

    I wasn't going to mention I have a cat...and I'm single....worst is when I forget bout buying the stupid thing food and have to run to Walgreens at like 9pm at night b/c it won't shut up. So here I am at walgreens, at night, in my pjs, buying cat food....I feel like I have failed at life at that point

    You just made me sad because I had to do that the other night.
  • acm2789
    acm2789 Posts: 29 Member
    The one thing I miss is cuddling.
    I love being cuddled up, tight in someones arms, it is a great way to spend an evening.
    It makes even the worst days better.

    Other than that, I love being single.

    Yup This.
  • MightyDomo
    MightyDomo Posts: 1,265 Member
    Please... I can pay someone to clean that carburetor.

    Its the endless hours of mind blowing sex with someone you really care about, who cares about you.... that's what I hate about being single.....

    HAHA, yes this ^^ Well said.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I just miss having an excuse to stay all Saturday/Sunday morning...and making someone else carry the 50lb container of cat litter up the stairs for me.

    Cat's. OHHHH now we get it.

    Just one, smart *kitten*. I realize that I totally set myself up for that one though.

    I wasn't going to mention I have a cat...and I'm single....worst is when I forget bout buying the stupid thing food and have to run to Walgreens at like 9pm at night b/c it won't shut up. So here I am at walgreens, at night, in my pjs, buying cat food....I feel like I have failed at life at that point

    LMAO That's awesome :)
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    Why limit it to singletons? These things all can also suck about being married, depending on the partner.

    I was just telling a friend how I'd planned never to wash my own car or take out the trash once married. A pipe dream's what that was...

    Plus side: you never get so dependent on anyone else that you can't clean your own snowblower. Or, you know, "clean your own snowblower".
  • silky_kitten
    silky_kitten Posts: 171 Member
    "snowblower" is that what the cool kids are calling it now adays? Or did I just go somewhere else entirely? :blushing:
  • I'm single and it doesn't "suck". I get done what needs to be done and I get it done when it needs to be done. I've been a widow for 11 + years and I'm ready to marry and so is my husband to be! :) You have to be content where you are and be ready for what changes God brings into your life. :)

    Oh, and I didn't have to discuss how my children are to behave, dress, or what school to attend. tho' I'd have liked my husband to be to have been there... we get a long fantastically and I think he's wonderful!!!!
  • nomorewishing
    nomorewishing Posts: 250 Member
    Maybe I just don't know what I'm missing, but the only thing I don't like are the people that seem to think that I want pity because I'm single.
  • _SABOTEUR_
    _SABOTEUR_ Posts: 6,833 Member
    I still get the mind blowing sex (Yes, I am a ho, thanks) but I miss the snuggling you have when you're with someone long term.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    occasionally I miss a relationship but I'm not 16 I don't need a BF just to say I have one...

    Besides I want sex I just make some phone calls

    I wanna make out/ cuddle phone calls

    FWB exsist for a reason also batteries...
  • NicoWoodruff
    NicoWoodruff Posts: 369 Member
    Cuddling and sex I miss although the worst to me is when there's a really big@$$ spider or wasp in the house.. stuff like that.
  • SkimFlatWhite68
    SkimFlatWhite68 Posts: 1,254 Member
    Nope, can't think of anything.
  • sillygoosie
    sillygoosie Posts: 1,109 Member
    I'm single and it doesn't "suck". I get done what needs to be done and I get it done when it needs to be done. I've been a widow for 11 + years and I'm ready to marry and so is my husband to be! :) You have to be content where you are and be ready for what changes God brings into your life. :)

    Oh, and I didn't have to discuss how my children are to behave, dress, or what school to attend. tho' I'd have liked my husband to be to have been there... we get a long fantastically and I think he's wonderful!!!!

    I think the whole point is that we're happily single. We just periodically want to use others for their various skills. Then they can GTFO.
  • BeingAwesome247
    BeingAwesome247 Posts: 1,171 Member
    I wasn't going to mention I have a cat...and I'm single....worst is when I forget bout buying the stupid thing food and have to run to Walgreens at like 9pm at night b/c it won't shut up. So here I am at walgreens, at night, in my pjs, buying cat food....I feel like I have failed at life at that point

    LMAO That's awesome :)

    Couple weeks ago this happened actually and what made it worse was the hot night manager...like who would expect that
    And the girl working is one of my clients....didn't realize she worked there
    :embarassed:
  • Jennisin1
    Jennisin1 Posts: 574 Member
    I still get the mind blowing sex (Yes, I am a ho, thanks) but I miss the snuggling you have when you're with someone long term.

    Maybe its different for me... but I can get all the freaking sex I want... but it takes a connection for it to be mindblowing.....
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I'm single and it doesn't "suck". I get done what needs to be done and I get it done when it needs to be done. I've been a widow for 11 + years and I'm ready to marry and so is my husband to be! :) You have to be content where you are and be ready for what changes God brings into your life. :)

    Oh, and I didn't have to discuss how my children are to behave, dress, or what school to attend. tho' I'd have liked my husband to be to have been there... we get a long fantastically and I think he's wonderful!!!!

    I think the whole point is that we're happily single. We just periodically want to use others for their various skills. Then they can GTFO.

    Yes. Such as spider killing (good call), mechanical *kitten*, and grilling... as completely random examples :P
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    I still get the mind blowing sex (Yes, I am a ho, thanks) but I miss the snuggling you have when you're with someone long term.

    Maybe its different for me... but I can get all the freaking sex I want... but it takes a connection for it to be mindblowing.....

    Then shes doing it wrong
  • Jennisin1
    Jennisin1 Posts: 574 Member
    I still get the mind blowing sex (Yes, I am a ho, thanks) but I miss the snuggling you have when you're with someone long term.

    Maybe its different for me... but I can get all the freaking sex I want... but it takes a connection for it to be mindblowing.....

    Then shes doing it wrong

    I'm a she... that's one of my current candidates....... trying for the position of mindblowing sexual partner.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I still get the mind blowing sex (Yes, I am a ho, thanks) but I miss the snuggling you have when you're with someone long term.

    Maybe its different for me... but I can get all the freaking sex I want... but it takes a connection for it to be mindblowing.....

    Then shes doing it wrong

    cuz ur better amirite?
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    You fail to remember who I'm living with Odus. The day his powder blue Prius driving furry butt cleans out any sort of mechanical device to ensure a working device is the day he moves all the beer stuff from our dining room.


    Read: NEVER GONNA HAPPEN.
  • I don't get it.

    I'm married and barely get it...maybe once every 6 weeks...
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    You fail to remember who I'm living with Odus. The day his powder blue Prius driving furry butt cleans out any sort of mechanical device to ensure a working device is the day he moves all the beer stuff from our dining room.


    Read: NEVER GONNA HAPPEN.

    Yet he maintains his "brewery" to immaculate conditions *LOL* Oh he does make me giggle.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    I love being single. Just don't tell my wife that I'm happy....she'll totally ruin it.
  • BonnieandClyde29
    BonnieandClyde29 Posts: 1,026 Member
    My boyfriend is amazing, buuuuuut lets just say i can fix a car and take a man down faster then he can....i kind of miss being single sometimes, like when i feel like being left alone just to do what i want, and not have to check in or be touched when i dont want to and i can do that but if im single i dont have to explain why......no matter what it seems the grass isnt always greener
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
    I don't get it.

    I'm married and barely get it...maybe once every 6 weeks...

    I'm married too and I got it TWICE before work this morning!! :blushing:
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    You fail to remember who I'm living with Odus. The day his powder blue Prius driving furry butt cleans out any sort of mechanical device to ensure a working device is the day he moves all the beer stuff from our dining room.


    Read: NEVER GONNA HAPPEN.

    Yet he maintains his "brewery" to immaculate conditions *LOL* Oh he does make me giggle.

    This is a true story. He's lucky he's really really cute.
  • hph442
    hph442 Posts: 319 Member
    Needing a steady supply of batteries
  • Yeah being single can be fun but I feel it is in our nature to meet someone. Companionship is something I guess I desire and you know I been single for most of my life so I know how fun it is but sometimes I do find myself contemplating that there is something missing in my life. Coming from engineer most of college you can expect to not even see girls and just be locked into your studies. But once thats over and done with you do realize that something is off. Especially Valetines day if its ever the worst then just seeing all the couples around you lol its silly but who knows I would love to do something special on those days as well. Blah...haha long rant
  • tageekly
    tageekly Posts: 3,755 Member
    I don't get it.

    I'm married and barely get it...maybe once every 6 weeks...

    I'm married too and I got it TWICE before work this morning!! :blushing:

    Why you gotta brag like that?!

    Some single people *ahem* can't get it at all it seems... :grumble: