Coutnin' calories for the rest of your life?

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GoffGirl1029
GoffGirl1029 Posts: 93 Member
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Last night I went out to dinner with a friend I haven't seen or talked to for a couple of years. I only had 700-some calories left for the day I had spent the whole afternoon stressin', thinkin' what could I possibly get at this particular restaurant that wouldn't make me go over. I knew my options where next to none. I get there, and start lookin' over the menu and I just decided to eat what I wanted, without worryin' about calories. I ate and I'm sure I went over my remainin' calories, but I didn't stuff my face and I enjoyed my meal and the company.
Upon leavin' the place, I got to thinkin' about countin' calories and if it's really somethin' I can see myself doin' for a long time. The answer is NO. I will long enough to get the excess weight gone, but for me, this has been a journey in portion control and all over healthier eatin'. My goal is to have transitioned over to the clean eatin' lifestyle, and I don't feel like once I've mastered that, I'll even need to really worry so much about calories.
Anyone else out there feel like this? Or do you plan on continuin' to count calories/points/what have you for a long, long time? Any clean eaters out there that don't count calories and have lost/maintained weight?
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  • imchicbad
    imchicbad Posts: 1,650 Member
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    I'm hopping one day to be so well trained that I won't have to. No I do not want to count calories forever. Not how I want to spend my life. HOWEVER until I reach my goal, learn about MY body and eating habits from a different prospective, I will continue to log . I want to get it through my head that I need to limit my portions, work out, and maintain a healthy life style, and not just diet. When it's second nature. I can let go. But if it doesn't work, I will come right back too it without hesitating. But as long as I can, for now I will and it might be helping someone else.
  • Athena53
    Athena53 Posts: 717 Member
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    When I was in my 20s I was a lot more conscious of the calorie count of everything. Now I have a general idea of the relative calorie count of what I eat and I rarely pay attention to the actual count except when looking at nutrition labels. I know fresh vegetables (other than the starchy ones such as beans and potatoes) are near zero, and that grilled is better than fried, tomato-based soups and sauces are better than cream-based ones, etc.

    I'm very careful in restaurants because of the "super-size" portions. And yes, you CAN do dinner for 700 calories. Get a salad with no cheese or meat, dressing on the side, and dip your fork in the dressing before stabbing the veggies rather than pouring the dressing on. Instead of a main dish order an appetizer that's not fried or a non-cream based soup. Get a side of steamed veggies if you want. Skip the bread and dessert. Heck, you can even enjoy a glass of wine or a small scoop of sorbet.

    No need to stress, and no need to give up and think you can't stay within your calorie limit.
  • rileysowner
    rileysowner Posts: 8,157 Member
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    After over 40 years of bad eating, I am thinking I will have to count for the rest of my life. Would it be nice for me to be able to stop, sure, but when I do I put weight on again. For the amount of time it takes me to count calories with an app like MFP, it is not an issue. As for eating out, one meal will not hurt one way or the other, and it would be easy enough to get a meal that is tasty and within 700 calories at pretty much any restaurant. I would just require making some careful choices and perhaps asking them to modify how they prepare things.
  • vicrandom
    vicrandom Posts: 80 Member
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    Applejack, is that you?
  • IMYarnCraz33
    IMYarnCraz33 Posts: 1,016 Member
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    I'm hopping one day to be so well trained that I won't have to. No I do not want to count calories forever. Not how I want to spend my life. HOWEVER until I reach my goal, learn about MY body and eating habits from a different prospective, I will continue to log . I want to get it through my head that I need to limit my portions, work out, and maintain a healthy life style, and not just diet. When it's second nature. I can let go. But if it doesn't work, I will come right back too it without hesitating. But as long as I can, for now I will and it might be helping someone else.


    ^This!^
    I don't want to count calories forever... but as the above says, until it's 2nd nature, I will continue to log. And if I slip up, then you bet your sweet *** I'd come back.
  • Brianna716
    Brianna716 Posts: 303 Member
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    I've been using MFP on and off for a while. May 2012 I was at my high of 153, I managed to get in to the 140s before I stopped. August 2012 I was back up to 152. I was down to 145 within 2 months and stopped using MFP again. I didn't look at a scale again until January 2013 and I was down to 140- without counting calories! I didn't exercise and didn't pay all that much attention to what I ate. I must have changed my portion sizes though, how else would I have lost another 5 pounds?

    So I think that once I'm at my goal weight I will be able to maintain without counting calories because MFP is helping me to make a lifestyle change and learn what proper portions are. I'm not on a fad diet and I will be able to maintain my new weight :D
  • dawn_eichert
    dawn_eichert Posts: 487 Member
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    For me personally, I know that I will need to at least keep an eye on calorie counting forever. I lost almost 40 pounds using MFP two-three years ago. Then got lazy and quit logging, watching it or even exercising (gee I got married too - corralation??) So now I am back, exercising, logging everything, reading all labels and cleaning up my eating habits and am down almost 12 in less than 2 months. Yes I will be on here forever and will keep track forever. I may not log everything everyday once I have maintained awhile but I won't leave again.

    However, if you are sticking with eating clean, you may not need to track as closely once you have the total hang of it. I know on days that my planned meals follow eating clean, it isn't a concern. But for me, while I may try to do that as much as possible, it just isn't a norm that I can stick with between kids sports, my activities, etc....

    Good Luck
  • norrisski
    norrisski Posts: 1,217 Member
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    Last night I went out to dinner with a friend I haven't seen or talked to for a couple of years. I only had 700-some calories left for the day I had spent the whole afternoon stressin', thinkin' what could I possibly get at this particular restaurant that wouldn't make me go over. I knew my options where next to none. I get there, and start lookin' over the menu and I just decided to eat what I wanted, without worryin' about calories. I ate and I'm sure I went over my remainin' calories, but I didn't stuff my face and I enjoyed my meal and the company.
    Upon leavin' the place, I got to thinkin' about countin' calories and if it's really somethin' I can see myself doin' for a long time. The answer is NO. I will long enough to get the excess weight gone, but for me, this has been a journey in portion control and all over healthier eatin'. My goal is to have transitioned over to the clean eatin' lifestyle, and I don't feel like once I've mastered that, I'll even need to really worry so much about calories.
    Anyone else out there feel like this? Or do you plan on continuin' to count calories/points/what have you for a long, long time? Any clean eaters out there that don't count calories and have lost/maintained weight?

    I plan on logging my food and exercise for the rest of my life. i have been down this weight loss too many times to quit now because everytime I quit thinking about it, all my efforts were for naught and the d**m weight returned. Well, I am 53 years old and don't plan on dying fat so yes I am logging everyday and counting calories forever more.
  • vytamindi
    vytamindi Posts: 845 Member
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    Applejack, is that you?

    I read that in her voice, too!

    As far as the topic goes, I don't even trust myself "eyeballing" portions (I'm always WAY off when I double check with my food scale), so not calorie counting is a far way off for now, at least.
  • ATOLLIT
    ATOLLIT Posts: 149
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    I'm intending to get to my goal weight, carry on counting at maintenance for, say, 3 months, until I feel like I can keep eating sensibly at that level, and then stop :) I don't want to do it forever, but if I stop too soon I know I'll just go straight back to square 1.
  • EjaneK11
    EjaneK11 Posts: 209 Member
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    I don't want to count calories for the rest of my life. I am doing it to get my weight down and learn to exercising.
  • ciardasully
    ciardasully Posts: 28 Member
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    Sadly, I think I will need to log for the rest of my life too :-(
  • TheNewBlake
    TheNewBlake Posts: 25 Member
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    Yeah as soon as i can eat well i will probably ditch mfp i will just have smaller portions and excersize stuff i didnt do in my past i use to be skinny as a kid because i didnt eat much and always played outside riding my bike etc but then i stopped doing stuff and ate and ate
  • laserturkey
    laserturkey Posts: 1,680 Member
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    I plan to weigh and measure foods and to track calories for the rest of my life. Now that I'm old enough to have been around the block a few times, I know that is THE way for me to attain and maintain a healthy weight.
  • namluv
    namluv Posts: 194 Member
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    I have been on this rollercoaster weight ride too long to leave out the option I may do it for the rest of my life, if that's what I need to do to prevent a relapse I am all for lifetime.
  • strikerjb007
    strikerjb007 Posts: 443 Member
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    I don't think you have to do it for the rest of your life. It's just a tool to help you gain or lose weight. That's all. I keep track mostly because I tend to undereat. But nowadays, I feel like I really don't need to. Even going over 500 calories will not kill anyone.
  • cls_333
    cls_333 Posts: 206 Member
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    When I was in my 20s I was a lot more conscious of the calorie count of everything. Now I have a general idea of the relative calorie count of what I eat and I rarely pay attention to the actual count except when looking at nutrition labels. I know fresh vegetables (other than the starchy ones such as beans and potatoes) are near zero, and that grilled is better than fried, tomato-based soups and sauces are better than cream-based ones, etc.

    I'm very careful in restaurants because of the "super-size" portions. And yes, you CAN do dinner for 700 calories. Get a salad with no cheese or meat, dressing on the side, and dip your fork in the dressing before stabbing the veggies rather than pouring the dressing on. Instead of a main dish order an appetizer that's not fried or a non-cream based soup. Get a side of steamed veggies if you want. Skip the bread and dessert. Heck, you can even enjoy a glass of wine or a small scoop of sorbet.

    No need to stress, and no need to give up and think you can't stay within your calorie limit.

    ^^This exactly. I pretty much know after 1 year on MFP the calories in everything. I used to think "am I never going to be able to fit a cookine in my diet again?" I try to eat lots of fruits & veggies & good foods, stay away from processed, and go for the lower cal option on anything I can (tomato based sauce over cream based as noted above). I don't really count calories anymore & am maintaining. I will add though that I run close to 50 miles a week, which helps. But trust me, even doing that I can gain weight if I'm not careful.
  • lauristewart
    lauristewart Posts: 379 Member
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    I don't know how to keep the weight off w/o counting. It is so easy though, to do. The tools MFP gives you makes it so easy!! And yes, there will be days when you go over. That is life!! There are some of us who just can't do w/o it....others can. As soon as I quit logging, I gain weight. So I will be here forever! It works! I had lost about 20 lbs and gained most of it back by not logging, so am back at it!! 12 more to go!!!
  • Going4Lean
    Going4Lean Posts: 1,077 Member
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    once you get used to controlling how much food you eat you wont need to count calories.
  • stumblinthrulife
    stumblinthrulife Posts: 2,558 Member
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    I'll do it until I trust myself to make good food choices in proper portions without it.

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