This has really pushed my button!

I am not a "fat acceptance" kind of person, but this is going too far.

I hate it how advertising is pushing the boundaries of what we are to consider beautiful human body with "photoshop gone too far approach".

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This is a Banana Republic ad.

Neither food industry nor fashion or beauty industry is promoting a healthy body image in this country.

Nobody does, you don't see it anywhere but the Sunday morning fitness infomercials.
We can't even see it on any ads we are constantly bombarded with. How are we supposed to aspire to a healthy body type and lifestyle, as a society?
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  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,021 Member
    Choose not to accept that either then.

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  • babymariss33
    babymariss33 Posts: 17 Member
    Why do you need the media to tell you how to be healthy or what sort of body you should have? We have a million different resources where we can go to see what a REAL healthy body looks like. All we can do is teach our kids, or ourselves if need be, that those photoshopped pictures are basically cartoons and unrealistic. It's something each person has to come to terms with on realizing that those are FAKE images and FAKE people. Ignore it if you don't like it, but it's there. I see more and more NEW images showing the anorexic models next to REAL people and people know that the real people look soo much better. Who wants to look like skeletor??? Not I.
  • NYCNika
    NYCNika Posts: 611 Member
    It is interesting how as the nation gets fatter and fatter, the images on ads become more and more skinny and unrealistic.

    Look at that photo and image her standing up.
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    It's interesting how the more they push these images at me the more I find myself disliking skinny... and then I feel bad because all body types should be appreciated. *sigh*
  • FromHereOnOut
    FromHereOnOut Posts: 3,237 Member
    Seems they were going for a retro '60s Twiggy kinda thing.

    I'd just ignore it. To each their own. We are each given our own body, to do with it what we will. You can't police what others are doing to their bodies (i.e., the model in the photo). You can only do what YOU prefer, with yours. It seems that many people exert little to no control over their health (obesity epidemic), while a very few take pictures like this to heart and exert the utmost control over their body with unhealthy results (disorders such as anorexia, bulimia). The key is to IGNORE all that, and do what you need to do for yourself and your body. They can create ads, but they can't MAKE you do anything that you don't choose to do with your body. So, ignore them and do what you want.
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
    I am not a "fat acceptance" kind of person, but this is going too far.

    I hate it how advertising is pushing the boundaries of what we are to consider beautiful human body with "photoshop gone too far approach".
    What I don't understand is why people would choose to let someone else dictate their preferences to them.
  • Bownzi
    Bownzi Posts: 423 Member
    True... they have gone far enough.... i guess they did not get the twiggy memo from the 70's.....
  • christabel6
    christabel6 Posts: 173 Member
    Because when it's around you all the time and it's held up as a model of beauty and fashion, it's hard not to let it affect the way you feel about yourself even if you are close to conforming to the model. It's constant.

    And look at the effect it's having on young people, male and female; puberty is the very age they shouldn't be dieting and should be letting their body find its own natural size, and it's the time they start getting really neurotic about body fat, partly because they are finding their own style and identity and end up trying to look like the trendy models in the pics. You grow up with that around you and it's bound to have an effect.
  • I get what you're saying, but the thing is Coco Rocha really IS that thin, I've seen her in person.

    I'm sure that picture is photoshopped, but she actually is a very small woman. Just thought I'd throw that out there.
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    It is interesting how as the nation gets fatter and fatter, the images on ads become more and more skinny and unrealistic.

    I have often marveled at this same phenomena myself.

    To those claiming to simply not choose it - that doesn't come easy as a child, when your brain isn't yet able to form critical thinking skills, and you are bombarded with it growing up. It actually takes UNlearning, as opposed to learning, to reverse the images and ideas in your head.

    Media affects us. Anyone who says otherwise is dismissing the idea of culture (to which we are saturated in from birth to death.) No one exists in a vacuum.
  • Gallowmere1984
    Gallowmere1984 Posts: 6,626 Member
    It is interesting how as the nation gets fatter and fatter, the images on ads become more and more skinny and unrealistic.

    I have often marveled at this same phenomena myself.

    To those claiming to simply not choose it - that doesn't come easy as a child, when your brain isn't yet able to form critical thinking skills, and you are bombarded with it growing up. It actually takes UNlearning, as opposed to learning, to reverse the images and ideas in your head.

    Media affects us. Anyone who says otherwise is dismissing the idea of culture (to which we are saturated in from birth to death.) No one exists in a vacuum.

    This is very true. That being said, the people who can't unlearn it are the ones with the problem, not the people who choose to shrug it off, or even those who push it.
  • EatClean_WashUrNuts
    EatClean_WashUrNuts Posts: 1,590 Member
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    Realization is the key to a present state of mind that allows the clutter of media to dissipate
  • wikitbikit
    wikitbikit Posts: 518 Member
    I am impressed that you only have one button!
  • neanderthin
    neanderthin Posts: 10,252 Member
    It's culture is by design and not to be taken for face value, so to speak. In my opinion the more fat society gets the more negative emotions such as stress, shame, guilt, depression, insecurity and body dissatisfaction is going to happen.
  • KenosFeoh
    KenosFeoh Posts: 1,837 Member
    I see ads like this with the same seriousness as I see doodling.
  • Funny how you make clear you're not one of THOSE PEOPLE who accept and love their fat bodies.
  • WandaWoman41
    WandaWoman41 Posts: 153 Member
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    Realization is the key to a present state of mind that allows the clutter of media to dissipate



    Deep dude
  • Ramberta
    Ramberta Posts: 1,312 Member
    This probably isn't the response you wanted, but that's a gorgeous picture. Is the model unhealthily skinny? Oh god yes. But you can't deny that the dress looks fabulous on her, that the shot is showing off all her best features, and even her little nude flats are adorable. Fashion boils down to any other art form-- the ultimate achievement is creating something pleasing to the eye. And I would say this is very pleasing. Do I wish there were more "curvy" fashion models? Yes, but I have long come to accept the fact that NOBODY, regardless of body size, will look as good as these models do all glammed up. It's called: hair and makeup, extensive training, and expert photographers and photo editors. I'm sure even this girl can look frumpy and not attractive when not on camera...
  • albertasis
    albertasis Posts: 12 Member
    That dress look cool though :) although my girlfriend doesn't like geometric prints.


    Oh. sorry we were talking about the model? I didn't notice :D
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
    Because when it's around you all the time and it's held up as a model of beauty and fashion, it's hard not to let it affect the way you feel about yourself even if you are close to conforming to the model. It's constant.
    But it isn't around me all the time, or even a little of the time. This is the first (and I'm sure only) time I've ever seen this picture or this person.

    Also this idea that whatever is put in magazines (or wherever this was) becomes accepted as attractive, I'm not buying it. If the 'norm' of the ads became totally out of shape people with raggedy dirty ripped up clothes, rats nest hair, missing teeth, etc etc it would not suddenly become a new standard of beauty.
  • symonspatrick
    symonspatrick Posts: 213 Member
    A healthy body is about what is going on inside your body. Ads are about selling something. They are two different things.
  • RunDoozer
    RunDoozer Posts: 1,699 Member
    I like it. She looks pretty.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    i dont get it?

    a picture of a thin person has upset you?

    eh?!
  • Justjamie0418
    Justjamie0418 Posts: 1,065 Member
    It is interesting as far as advertisement goes... but her head is as wide as her waist...
  • Kymmu
    Kymmu Posts: 1,650 Member
    I work with gymnasts- Everyone looks like that at my workplace!
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    I really don't see what the big deal is. It's just exagerated proportions and angles.

    I do object to the shoes though. I find them ugly.
  • Keysted
    Keysted Posts: 21 Member
    "A healthy body is about what is going on inside your body. Ads are about selling something. They are two different things."


    This post is right on:smile:
  • This could do with some context.
    That dress is part of a Mad Men 60s inspired collection and in the 60s, the Twiggy bodytype was high fashion. This campaign is in keeping and some people *are* just that thin.

    I agree that there should be a broad range of shapes advertising fashion, but that shouldn't exclude the skinnies.
  • SkimFlatWhite68
    SkimFlatWhite68 Posts: 1,254 Member
    I desperately want one of those chairs!
  • neandermagnon
    neandermagnon Posts: 7,436 Member
    I get what you're saying, but the thing is Coco Rocha really IS that thin, I've seen her in person.

    I'm sure that picture is photoshopped, but she actually is a very small woman. Just thought I'd throw that out there.

    ^^^ this. Her arms look like they've been photoshopped (either that or she has really skinny forearms, if it was me I'd start doing wrist curls to counteract that) - however her legs have a nice shape and she has nice calves. She clearly is tall with a small frame, and she doesn't look unhealthy. She looks like a tall, small framed person with a low-ish body fat percentage, she doesn't look starved (if she was starving herself she would not have shapely calves, she'd have wasted looking legs)

    The issue I have with supermodels and the message being put "out there" to kids, is that the supermodel look is only achievable by those who are tall with small frames. However, when you look at fitness models and female athletes, they come in all heights and frame sizes, and also different sports can attract different body types, e.g. the front row players of a rugby team have a very different body type to a gymnast, but both are really strong.

    I don't think we can really change how the fashion industry is, tall, small framed people make good fashion models because of the way clothes hang on them and how they look on the catwalk, in photos etc. It's not like there's a conspiracy against short, large framed people.... but when it comes to role models, then I'd much rather my girls look to female athletes or fitness models for how they want to look (and more importantly, what they can do), not fashion models. The older one has a fairly slender build (takes after her dad, tall and medium framed), but the younger one takes after me and is short and has inherited my large rib cage. I don't want them to start aspiring towards looks that are unachievable, I want them striving towards being strong, fit and healthy, and looking good because they're strong fit and healthy, not because they achieved some desired "look" from a magazine or fashion show. And yes as a parent I'm going to do what I can to steer them in that direction.