How many $$$ to be expensive - Restaurant?

motown13
motown13 Posts: 688 Member
At what dollar amount do you say a restaurant becomes "expensive"? ( including tip )

I admit, I hate paying a lot to eat in a restaurant.... Just like I hate paying a lot for hotel rooms.... If I could, I wouldn't spend more than $15 - $20 for myself on dinner, including tip. I don't drink so I do save money there.

Anyway, to answer my own question, I start saying to myself that a restaurant is expensive if I have to pay $30 p.p. including the tip, but like I said, I am a tightwad when it comes to paying for food. The absolute most I can ever remember paying for a meal was $55, including tip, while in Vegas on vacation. And because I am so cheap, LOL, it bothered me all night.

BTW, I had to pay $370 last weekend for a dinner for 10 people, including tip, and all I kept thinking was "These people better eat all their food and not waste it." And then my mom took ONE BITE from her dinner, and proclaimed herself full. She absolutely KNOWS that she doesn't eat more than a few bites at a meal, so she probably should not have ordered a meal... sh had already eaten an app and a salad, which is more than she can usually eat...... I felt like she wasted $22 of my money.
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  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    Anything over $10 for me and my date is too expensive..
  • Mutant13
    Mutant13 Posts: 2,485 Member
    I would consider 40-50 a plate to be expensive, 20-30 to be average and >20 to be cheap. Eating out in Aus is costly
  • She did waste $22 of your money..Do you think she did it on purpose?
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    $25.00 and up for a meal.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    We never go to fast food joints and rarely eat out, so, when we do, price is not a factor. We usually make our decisions based on type of fare and occasion.

    I love to cook, so I'd rather make something special for my wife at home.
  • nataliefamily3
    nataliefamily3 Posts: 189 Member
    If its over $50 with no alcohol involved for 2 people I start to grumble.
  • bmqbonnie
    bmqbonnie Posts: 836 Member
    I'd say if a lot of the entrees are $15 and over I'd say it's spendy. We don't eat out much, even fast food adds up. And then when we do we go somewhere we really like, expensive or not :)
  • zewolf77
    zewolf77 Posts: 173 Member
    Anything over 25-30/person is expensive, but I live in the Midwest. I think it's probably different depending on where you live.
  • shiseido_faerie
    shiseido_faerie Posts: 771 Member
    I would consider 40-50 a plate to be expensive, 20-30 to be average and >20 to be cheap. Eating out in Aus is costly

    This, except i'm in Canada.
  • motown13
    motown13 Posts: 688 Member
    We never go to fast food joints and rarely eat out, so, when we do, price is not a factor. We usually make our decisions based on type of fare and occasion.

    I love to cook, so I'd rather make something special for my wife at home.

    Me too, and I am an excellent cook. I would almost call myself a chef, but not quite. But my wife likes to eat out once a week, sometimes with our kids, sometimes not.
  • LindseySprake
    LindseySprake Posts: 333 Member
    Are we talking starter, main & desert? Of just main?
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I don't really care for $300 shoes.
    I have a nice purse, I don't need more. In looking at houses I want a nice reasonable one, no matter what we can afford.

    However, there IS NO price for a GOOD meal I consider to be too much.
    Food is my thing.
  • jess7386
    jess7386 Posts: 477 Member
    I'd consider an entree over $30 to be expensive. I live in the city and don't eat fast food/applebees type restaurant food, so I am fine paying the price for better quality.

    If my fiancee & I go to dinner, it's usually around $100 or a bit more for an app, 2 entrees, and drinks. We don't go out every night, so it is a splurge & something nice for us to do together.

    ---

    To the OP, IMO if you're taking people out to eat, you are required to pay for their meal, no matter how little or how much they eat of it.
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    If drinks are involved, I prefer to keep it under $50-$60 per person.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    You guys are fancy. My.butt clenches at anything over $15.
  • danasings
    danasings Posts: 8,218 Member
    We never go to fast food joints and rarely eat out, so, when we do, price is not a factor. We usually make our decisions based on type of fare and occasion.

    I love to cook, so I'd rather make something special for my wife at home.

    Your wife is a lucky woman!! :love:
  • MG_Fit
    MG_Fit Posts: 1,143 Member
    If drinks are involved I'm comfortable with $75 per person, if I were on a date.

    If I got out myself, I try to keep it around $20.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    We rarely go out to eat, so when we do, we try to make it somewhere interesting and consider it a special thing. For a general 'once a month' type dinner out, I would say anything over $50pp is expensive. When we plan really special dinners (about twice a year with friends), we'll pick somewhere supa-fancy and end up about $100pp.
  • Once you get over $120 per couple that is where I would begin to consider it expensive. I have two young kids so my wife and i get out to our favorite steak house about twice a month. Generally after tip we are right around $100 unless we have drinks then it gets closer to $140.

    Having kids tacks on another $40-60 for a baby sitter....
  • amberlykay1014
    amberlykay1014 Posts: 608 Member
    For us, if the main entrees are over ~$20, I think it's expensive. We usually do get an appetizer and at least 2 drinks each though, so it adds up fast.

    Usually when we go out to our favorite "nice" places, we'll end up spending around $75 for two including tip.
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    I would consider 40-50 a plate to be expensive, 20-30 to be average and >20 to be cheap. Eating out in Aus is costly

    This, except i'm in Canada.

    X2

    My most expensive meal was in Vegas @ $380 for myself though, I like fancy places lol
  • Brianna716
    Brianna716 Posts: 303 Member
    I rarely go anywhere that I pay more than $25/person including drinks. No place is too expensive when my dad is treating though :)
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    I guess I've been in new York city for two long. $120 (including tip) for dinner for two with drinks and dessert is pretty normal.
  • At what dollar amount do you say a restaurant becomes "expensive"? ( including tip )

    I admit, I hate paying a lot to eat in a restaurant.... Just like I hate paying a lot for hotel rooms.... If I could, I wouldn't spend more than $15 - $20 for myself on dinner, including tip. I don't drink so I do save money there.

    Anyway, to answer my own question, I start saying to myself that a restaurant is expensive if I have to pay $30 p.p. including the tip, but like I said, I am a tightwad when it comes to paying for food. The absolute most I can ever remember paying for a meal was $55, including tip, while in Vegas on vacation. And because I am so cheap, LOL, it bothered me all night.

    BTW, I had to pay $370 last weekend for a dinner for 10 people, including tip, and all I kept thinking was "These people better eat all their food and not waste it." And then my mom took ONE BITE from her dinner, and proclaimed herself full. She absolutely KNOWS that she doesn't eat more than a few bites at a meal, so she probably should not have ordered a meal... sh had already eaten an app and a salad, which is more than she can usually eat...... I felt like she wasted $22 of my money.

    Maybe you should go into a dinner where your picking up the tab less concerned with what is consumed. You are spending the money either way why let it ruin your time. If it makes you that uneasy perhaps invite them to your house for a less expensive dinner or don't take that many people to dinner.

    You treated everyone to a nice dinner, consider it a sunk cost and move on. Don't sweat the small stuff.
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
    I think of it more in a "get what you pay for" scale.

    If I'm eating fast food, over $10 is expensive.
    If it's casual dining, over $50 is expensive.
    If it's upper scale, over $150 is expensive.

    That's for 2 people, btw.
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    So no one here eats at a better place than Chili's? Hell, I'm not sure Chili's even comes in at this price point.
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    For a special occasion at a nice place you gotta be wiling to splurge a bit. $100-150 for two is to be expected for something really nice and is worth it at the right kind of place.

    Now normally I like some take out or delivery and there's no reason for that to be much more than $30 for two people.
  • mattagascar
    mattagascar Posts: 708 Member
    Depends on the type of food.. Burgers 10 bucks...steak 50 bucks.
  • MeeshyBW
    MeeshyBW Posts: 382 Member
    I think an expensive meal out is around £50 per head so i think that's about $75 each including drinks a couple of drinks each, beer for hubby, wine or bubbles for me (but not a bottle of wine/bubbles)

    Eating out is more expensive in the UK from my experience in the US. Our portions are considerably smaller too!

    Most I ever spent on a meal was about $390 not including tip or wine. It was disappointing v's the cost.
  • ChrisR0se
    ChrisR0se Posts: 1,855 Member
    Anything over 75 and I better get laid lol!