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    Ladies interested in guy at gym - how do you act?

    Posts: 85
    edited January 17 in Chit-Chat
    Ladies, I have a question for you. Personally, if you are interested in a guy at the gym, how do you act? Do you just go about your routine, do you make eye contact, work out near him,,, etc. Just curious to hear everyone's different techniques haha

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    • Posts: 3,562 Member
      I can't help but ask, have you met this woman?

      http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/920424-i-approached-my-gym-crush
    • Posts: 85
      No
    • Posts: 1,855 Member
      Eye contact...you straight up rape a guy with just your eyes...luckily most of them like it ♡
    • Posts: 3,562 Member
      No

      Well, so much for serendipity. :laugh:
    • Posts: 1,949 Member
      First few times: make eye contact, smile, say "hello".

      Next time: compliment him on his perfect form, ask him to critique my form.
    • Posts: 1,899 Member
      Personally, I'm all about acting normal IN the gym. I'm there to work out, so I don't let anyone distract me. I will notice you, without you knowing I have, and I'll sneakily find out what car is yours in the parking lot; if I'm really interested, you'll find a post-in note on your windshield. The gym is like work, I don't mix business with pleasure, but outside of it's walls is fair game.
    • Posts: 12,209 Member
      show previous quotes

      Well, so much for serendipity. :laugh:

      bwhahaha... Nice work though.
    • Posts: 465 Member
      I just make sure I kick a** in my workout. If he notices, good for me, if not, oh well. I personally will not go out of my way for a guy at the gym. I'm there to get sh** done.
    • Posts: 590 Member
      I can't help but ask, have you met this woman?

      http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/920424-i-approached-my-gym-crush

      Lol I was thinking the same thing
    • Posts: 590 Member
      It's hard. I currently really like someone at my gym, a friend of mine.

      I personally do not want to show my interest because I don't want to make things uncomfortable for either of us. So I just try to go about my business. Will smile at him and engage in the small conversations but nothing I wouldn't do with anybody else.

      Makes it really hard to give my workouts the attention they deserve though. Especially when he offers to spot me. Ha!!!
    • Posts: 624 Member
      flirt your *kitten* off
    • Posts: 11,118 Member
      If I was interested, there would be eye contact to start. If you smiled at me, I'd probably smile back. When approached, there would be smiling and a willingness to talk. If I wasn't interested, I would be sending out the prickly vibes - or it would appear that I was serious about my workout and too busy to talk.
    • Posts: 516
      Personally, I'm all about acting normal IN the gym. I'm there to work out, so I don't let anyone distract me. I will notice you, without you knowing I have, and I'll sneakily find out what car is yours in the parking lot; if I'm really interested, you'll find a post-in note on your windshield. The gym is like work, I don't mix business with pleasure, but outside of it's walls is fair game.
      im going to agree whole heartly.. i dont look at anyone i dont talk to anyone im there to do my job and thats it.. talk to me after thats fine.. approach me while im in the middle of something and you usually wouldnt like the response.. people are there to work out. The last thing they need is someone breaking their mental focus..
    • Posts: 441 Member
      I am going to say..... Strong eye contact is a good idea, but not to over interested. Maybe just when you enter or leave the gym. Kick Butt in your work out, that always draws the right attention. Stay focused but have a welcoming attitude. A smile never hurts, Don`t get flirty that will totally blow you cover. LOL
    • Posts: 137 Member
      Rape the **** out of him with my eyes.. And try to work-out near him lol
    • Posts: 177
      i don't show interest. just do my workout, and maybe look through the corner of my eye
    • Posts: 235 Member
      If you have a "gym crush", you're obviously going to the gym for the wrong reasons.
    • Posts: 711 Member
      There's a lot of rape in this thread. Why not seek out consensual eye love making?
    • Posts: 611 Member
      I'm too focused on my running to notice anyone at the gym.
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