Is it a good idea to meet an ex for dinner?
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Aggressive how? Physically? Emotionally? In regards to sex?0
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Bring some jimmie hats....just in case.0
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As soon as I saw the word aggressive, my gut is to say NO. If you do feel like you want to go anyway, do it in a group. Stay safe.0
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is just dinner right1 he paying? I say go out to dinner and talk catch up on things you haven't caught up on in other ways.
if he seems aggressive them excuse yourself. I would meet him there at the place to eat Don't let him pick you up, if he picks you up its a date. otherwise its two friends meeting for a dinner.0 -
It doesn't sound to me like you want to go. If you do want to go, it doesn't sound like you want to be anything more than just friends. Either, don't go - or make it VERY clear that this is a friendship only thing for you and if he is interested, you want to be CLEAR and you don't want to lead him on and if he still wants to get together, you will go (if you WANT to).
You "dated" for under a month though, that is not even a real relationship.
Anyway. I don't know why you are considering it, so I guess, in the end - that's on you what you want to do.0 -
You dated for 3 weeks, you say he's aggressive AND that he's the nicest man you ever dated? Heck, I wouldn't want to meet the unpleasant ones!
Timing is important, but whether you ended your relationship one day or 3 years before you met if he was the right person the timing doesn't actually matter. Just like all those deal-breakers and must-haves fade away when you meet the right one.
Seriously, I wouldn't go.
If he'd been the right man back then he'd now be taking you out for your anniversary...he wasn't and he isn't.0 -
Generally it's not good to meet an ex for dinner due to the following reasons: 1) you two might just forget the reason why you broke up in the first place and fall for the sake of a "romantic idea" and not really falling in love; OR 2) regardless of where you end the night, one of you might think it is getting into something deeper while the other one will think it's just one of those nights.0
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its been 2 years, you should go out with him0
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The OP has DEACTIVATED their account. So I'll keep my opinion to myself now.0
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The OP has DEACTIVATED their account.
I was just about to say that.0 -
Oh hey. Deactivated. Alright then.0
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The OP has DEACTIVATED their account. So I'll keep my opinion to myself now.
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are you kidding really. Ask yourself one simple question. Should I invite my husband to go with me. If the answer is no you are not happy in your relationship and you are destined to become single again. If the answer is yes then go for it and have a great time...Howard0
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Well, billieljamie, you be careful. We often look back with rose colored glasses. We practice selective forgetting, remembering only the good. However, guys' mothers jumping in is a bad signal. Beware!0
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