How do you get yourself to the gym

How do you do it when you really don't want to? I had to force myself to go today. anyone have little mental tricks they play on themselves to get up and just do it?
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  • RepsnSets
    RepsnSets Posts: 805 Member
    I bet you felt better though afterwards.

    On those unusual days I need a kick start I usually think about why I started my journey in the first place then about my results and the work Ive put into getting my results. Im also a creature of habit if I miss a lifting session I think Ive stuffed up the whole programme lol just a sillu mental thing for me but it works :)
  • bostonwolf
    bostonwolf Posts: 3,038 Member
    I drive.

    I also do my best not to make excuses for myself. I need to work out five times a week minimum, so I get the workouts in during the first five days of the week, less stress for me!
  • Serah87
    Serah87 Posts: 5,481 Member
    I drive. :wink:

    I just go, no excuses!! :bigsmile:
  • imtrinat
    imtrinat Posts: 153 Member
    I focus on how much better I will feel for making myself go. I know I will feel bad for missing a session. My options are: sit around thinking about the gym or get up and burn some calories. The time will pass anyway. I've also added a preworkout to give me a boost. You may not agree with them or like them, but they give me the kick I need to get going. There is no way I can sit around after I've taken C4, Jack3d, or Assault. :)
  • matt2442
    matt2442 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I think to myself that i am going to disney world to see mickey when I get in my car then when I get to the gym and find out that I am not in disney world, I get mad so i have to lift weights to take all my stress away.
  • YoungDoc2B
    YoungDoc2B Posts: 1,593 Member
    Get in my car and drive there!

    But seriously, I try to think of how awesome I'm going to feel afterwards, and how proud I'll be of myself for going instead of staying home.
  • PurpleTina
    PurpleTina Posts: 390 Member
    As with everything else in my week, it's in my diary. The time is allocated, so I have to go. I used to have to sort of talk myself into it, but once I got into a routine it just became part of what I do.
  • I take my gym stuff with me to work, if I've got it with me, I'll go on my way home. If I come home first, it's 50:50 whether or not I'll bother.
  • JeneticTraining
    JeneticTraining Posts: 663 Member
    Going to the gym is how I start my day. If I don't go to the gym in the morning, I'm more likely to give an excuse not to (i.e. I have to do homework, I have class, too tired). I set my alarm to wake up early - *kitten* crack of dawn. It's a great way to start your day.
  • JohnDun
    JohnDun Posts: 140
    I have a 15 year old daughter recovering from ACL reconstruction so I go along her 3 or 4 times a week. Two of these visits are at 6.30am. She gets on with her rehab exercises and I just do my own thing.

    We both motivate each other into going apart from me kicking her out of bed at 6am.... ;-) The joys of waking her up....
  • Surfrider
    Surfrider Posts: 364 Member
    Due to my crazy work schedule, the only time I have is AFTER being out of the house 13-14hrs a day!! Needless to say, I have a hard time getting into the gym on certain days. I focus on the feeling I will have post-workout. I always feel rejuvenated and good about myself. It is 100% a mental game!
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    Going was the hardest part for me.

    So I quit and bought weights for home and do all my running outside. It's worked beautifully.
  • KateRunsColorado
    KateRunsColorado Posts: 407 Member
    Now that I'm in a habit of going, it's not that hard.

    BUT, before it became a habit, it helped me to pack my gym bag the night before (I shower there, so I have to pack clothes, shower stuff, hair dryer etc) so then when I was tired in the morning and didn't want to go, I would tell myself that I already packed everything. If I don't end up going, then I just wasted all that time getting everything ready for no reason.

    It seems kind of silly, but it helped me!
  • jkestens63
    jkestens63 Posts: 1,164 Member
    I go first thing in the morning and look at it as being as mandatory as going to work, I have no choice. If I try to talk myself out of it I use a technique that a trainer told me: Go to the gym and at least touch the door. If you truly still don't feel like working out then turn around and go home. Personally, I have never gone home. I may tell myself I'll take it easy but usually once I get going, I get bored with not pushing it so I end up going all out.

    There is a big mental factor... Nike is right: Just do it!! And you will always feel great for having done so.

    Edited to add


    Always make sure your gym bag is packed and ready to go the night before (including water bottle in the fridge and post workout snack in the bag, I even have most of my breakfast laid out). Also make sure you get enough sleep. Hard to get out of bed or extend your day after work when tired.
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    Now that I'm in a habit of going, it's not that hard.

    BUT, before it became a habit, it helped me to pack my gym bag the night before (I shower there, so I have to pack clothes, shower stuff, hair dryer etc) so then when I was tired in the morning and didn't want to go, I would tell myself that I already packed everything. If I don't end up going, then I just wasted all that time getting everything ready for no reason.

    It seems kind of silly, but it helped me!

    Cosigned.

    Except I go after work. Once you get into the habit it feels weird to skip a day.
  • Wabbit05
    Wabbit05 Posts: 434 Member
    Make it part of my schedule. I go right after work. No excuses. It's on the way home, it's got a Kids Klub for my daughter and I require myself to do 30 minutes which is next to nothing in the scope of one day.
  • AshleyRKnutson
    AshleyRKnutson Posts: 98 Member
    I'm a member of 24 hour fitness and I add classes to my calendar so this way it pops up to remind me to go. If that doesn' work, I think about how many calories I'll burn. It usually helps me. :smile:
  • waylandcool
    waylandcool Posts: 175 Member
    I look at myself in the mirror and compare what I see to what I want to see. Then I grab the bag and go workout.

    Usually works.
  • ness8484
    ness8484 Posts: 42 Member
    Those are the days I put my workout in MFP before I go so I can see how it helps my day, and if I burn enough calories (and have them left over without using them all back up) I eat a little snack afterwards. I get excited to say okay if I go I can have a couple cookies or some chocolate pudding when I get home.
  • Mantha18
    Mantha18 Posts: 25 Member
    i really need to use some of these tips, im hopeless.

    i do agree with the preparation though, if ive remembered to sort out my gym bag and put it in the car, im much much more likely to stop at the gym on my way home...
  • sally_jeffswife
    sally_jeffswife Posts: 766 Member
    I don't go to the gym, I work out at home. I have kettlebells here and alot of fitness dvds and a stair stepper machine. But sometimes if I am out of town or something will work out at the motel I am staying at etc if they have a fitness center.
  • doc800
    doc800 Posts: 148
    I cut a deal with the girls at the desk for the next two months. If they don't see me and if they check the computer and its a second day off in a row, I have to go deliver them a salad and since I am there I have to work out lol. There is no way I want to buy them a salad lol
  • TheNewDodge
    TheNewDodge Posts: 607 Member
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  • melindanew
    melindanew Posts: 150 Member
    I walk. :)

    I go first thing, three days a week. If I don't go then, I can't go - I have work and then I have university commitments. So I set the alarm, my husband gets up and walks the dogs - so he's up, the dogs are up, the cats are up, so I guess I'm up, too. I lay out my gym clothes, pack my food and my gym bag the night before, so when I get up on goes the heartrate monitor, the gym clothes, the gym shoes, then I grab my lunch out of the fridge and I'm out the door and at the gym when the door opens at 6am.

    As for motivation, I have a pretty severe congenital back problem, so some mornings I have to make myself decide if my back is genuinely unable to cope or if I'm being a crybaby. (I'm always in pain, so it's more about where is the pain located and can I actually walk well enough.) If I skip - some days I have to - I go the next day, no excuses. Some days I go and skip the bits my back can't handle, but I do that the next time.

    If I don't go my back gets worse. If I don't finish losing the weight, the surgery will be worse or possibly my surgeon won't agree to do it when the time comes.

    But the best motivation of all is my loser ex-husband weighs 350lbs and is unemployed. I'll see him for the first time in 10 years this September at my son's graduation. Spite and hatred get me out the door, some days. ;)
  • bumblebums
    bumblebums Posts: 2,181 Member
    The first thing I do after waking up is put my exercise clothes on. It usually does the trick. You could even try setting them out at night so they are right there in front of you when you wake up.

    It took me a while to figure out that I can only be consistent about exercise when I do it in the morning. In the afternoons and evenings I am too hungry, too tired, and in general have too many excuses ready. I also prefer to exercise on an empty stomach, so mornings are better for me. YMMV.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    It helps that I love lifting weights...but really, it was a matter of making it a habit. I missed all of last week due to some unforeseen circumstances and it really gnawed at me.
  • JTick
    JTick Posts: 2,131 Member
    I pack my gym bag the night before and set it out...I feel like if other people see that I plan to go the gym, I'd better go! I feel more accountable if someone else knows I'm going. Once I'm there, it's pretty easy to get a full workout in...I get embarrassed if I don't do a full workout when other people are "watching", even if they aren't actually paying attention!
  • bumblebums
    bumblebums Posts: 2,181 Member
    Posted before I read the rest of the thread, and I am so glad I read it! This is my favorite kind of thread, "things that work". Nice to see recurring themes!

    A couple more things that worked for me: I don't make a schedule for my entire week, the way some people do. I just get myself to the gym, and I decide there what I am going to do. I try not to lift two days back-to-back or run two days in a row, and if I feel like having an easier day, I'll just use the stationary bike or the elliptical. Once I get there, I know I'll do something, but I do not like being tied to a rigid plan.

    Also, I don't like showering twice in one day unless it's 100F outside--it seems wasteful. Working out in the morning, then showering--that's my routine. Even on rest days I try to take an extra long walk with the dog before showering.
  • Flixie00
    Flixie00 Posts: 1,195 Member
    I have a locker at my gym for toiletries and shoes, plus the gym launder my kit for me. My gym is 5 mins from my office, and its second nature for me to hit the gym on the way home. I also have a number of fitness targets which help keep me going :-)
  • cindybowcut
    cindybowcut Posts: 250 Member
    Some days I have to have a talking to myself about going. Like this morning, I told myself I would go after work. However I know that I wouldn't because I have other obligations after work. So I made myself get up and go. The other thing that makes it easy for me is that I go with my daughter. It is easier to go if you have somebody hounding you about going. I am an emotional eater, when I feel like I want to eat my feelings for the day, I go to the gym instead and take it out on something there.