Gym Etiquette

AIZZO4
AIZZO4 Posts: 404 Member
So I am at the gym and I find myself glancing at other people from time to time. I hear all the time some girls hate going to the gym because they don't like guys staring at them. I completely understand. My question is, is it ok to do a quick glance? Or is that just terrible gym etiquette?
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  • jcmartin0313
    jcmartin0313 Posts: 574 Member
    I think people in general should be able to work out without being objectified. Women look at men at the gym also. As a typical male, I find it difficult not to observe members of the opposite sex working out when they wear gym clothes which barely cover their bodies. I never stare and try to be discrete because I know they may not want people gawking. It is human nature to admire attractive members of the human race.
  • monipie
    monipie Posts: 280 Member
    i think it is fine to look or take quick glances but staring is not good.
  • moosegt35
    moosegt35 Posts: 1,296 Member
    If women didn't want men looking at them they wouldn't wear yoga pants.
  • stunningalmond
    stunningalmond Posts: 275 Member
    Glancing is ok. Makes a lady feel good. But the staring gets creepy. Lol!
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    It's terrible gym etiquette to look anywhere BUT your machine or weights that your using.

    This clearly makes you a creep.

    Just like wearing make up in the gym makes you a hooker.
  • SteelersFan7
    SteelersFan7 Posts: 217 Member
    I watch men in the weight room. I'm always looking for new exercises and I pay attention to form. Usually if I'm staring it's because the guy is using bad form and I'm expecting a clavicle to pop or something. I think it's ok to watch.
  • ApexLeader
    ApexLeader Posts: 580 Member
    just don't get caught
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    TAKE A GOOD LONG STARE.
    WE ARE STARING RIGHT BACK.
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    i think it is fine to look or take quick glances but staring is not good.

    I have a habit of staring off into the distance and it could be perceived as me staring at someone.

    I can honestly say that if I see what I think is someone staring at me they're doing so because I'm in great shape. Sometimes it can look like someone is staring when they are actually looking up at the television or at themselves in the mirror while they do their cardio.

    Unless someone is standing right in front of me staring like a real creep then I just assume that the person in question is just either looking or gazing off into space.
  • Kanuenue
    Kanuenue Posts: 253 Member
    I look around all the time. Guys, girls, gym equipment, the ceiling, snack bar, whatever- I find staring at the TV or machine display boring. But like anywhere, staring is considered rude, and people are going to be more sensitive when they are in a place where they are critiquing their own bodies already- they assume you are too.

    People are too full of themselves anyway, just because I am looking in your direction doesn't mean I have even noticed you.

    As long as you aren't gawking (be honest), you are totally fine.
  • This made me laugh. I knew there was a reason I wear baggy sweatpants - put my hair in a pony tail and put on a ball hat. No one would want to look at me - ha!
  • LiftHuff
    LiftHuff Posts: 131
    There's a big difference between taking a look at what someone is doing and leering in a predatory fashion.
  • drchimpanzee
    drchimpanzee Posts: 892 Member
    If she's dressed like I should be following her around with a camera with a Girls Gone Wild sticker on it then she's getting stared at and I have no shame. Other than that, quick look.
  • Brunner26_2
    Brunner26_2 Posts: 1,152
    Better play it safe and wear horse blinders.
  • Missylydia
    Missylydia Posts: 304 Member
    If women didn't want men looking at them they wouldn't wear yoga pants.

    This way of thinking really frustrates me! So we should be covered from head to toe in baggy clothes so that we get far too hot and our trousers get all tangled together up when we try to sprint on the treadmill? That is actually ridiculous!
    "Oh she's wearing shorts, therefore I am entitled to gawk?" I don't think so! Maybe she's a little bit warm from exercising?!

    In regards to glancing around, we all glance around between sets etc, the only other option is to study your own bellybutton, just don't be a perv.
  • SlickFootAnna
    SlickFootAnna Posts: 611 Member
    Oh just stare dude. I mean seriously, any chick that starts stretching with legs wide open in front of the treadmills full of guys is wanting to be stared at. So don't look, gawk.
  • lotushead
    lotushead Posts: 200 Member
    If she's dressed like I should be following her around with a camera with a Girls Gone Wild sticker on it then she's getting stared at and I have no shame. Other than that, quick look.

    gross.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    It's terrible gym etiquette to look anywhere BUT your machine or weights that your using.

    This clearly makes you a creep.

    Just like wearing make up in the gym makes you a hooker.

    wow..a **** ton of hookers go to my gym then....and they all take part in the silver sneakers workout.
  • GoldspursX3
    GoldspursX3 Posts: 516 Member
    This made me laugh. I knew there was a reason I wear baggy sweatpants - put my hair in a pony tail and put on a ball hat. No one would want to look at me - ha!

    Psshhh...I love my wife in a ball cap and pony tail with saggy sweats!
  • BrainsOnGains
    BrainsOnGains Posts: 282 Member
    as soon as I get caught I act like I am sneezing..
  • bokodasu
    bokodasu Posts: 629 Member
    *A* quick glance? I don't think anyone would care. Ogling and glancing away whenever they notice you to try to qualify it as "not staring", yeah, that's creepy.

    I don't think anyone *never* looks. I mean, you at least need basic situational awareness to avoid smashing someone in the head with a dumbbell, and that's gonna require looking, which will occasionally lead to noticing a super-hottie. Can't be helped.
  • ami5000psu
    ami5000psu Posts: 391 Member
    If glancing at me means you won't get in my way then go for it. I hate when people aren't paying attention and I have to do some ninja evasive action before they bump into me.
  • JerseyGirlinTN
    JerseyGirlinTN Posts: 144 Member
    I guess it depends on the gym, lol. I go to an all women's gym, so everybody greets everybody, and NOT glancing up from your machine makes you rude.
  • JerseyGirlinTN
    JerseyGirlinTN Posts: 144 Member
    It's terrible gym etiquette to look anywhere BUT your machine or weights that your using.

    This clearly makes you a creep.

    Just like wearing make up in the gym makes you a hooker.

    wow..a **** ton of hookers go to my gym then....and they all take part in the silver sneakers workout.

    This made me snort water out of my nose!
  • Melissa22G
    Melissa22G Posts: 847 Member
    Keep glancing, I know I look good.
  • doggiesnot
    doggiesnot Posts: 334 Member
    I look around all the time. Guys, girls, gym equipment, the ceiling, snack bar, whatever- I find staring at the TV or machine display boring. But like anywhere, staring is considered rude, and people are going to be more sensitive when they are in a place where they are critiquing their own bodies already- they assume you are too.

    People are too full of themselves anyway, just because I am looking in your direction doesn't mean I have even noticed you.

    As long as you aren't gawking (be honest), you are totally fine.

    ^^Exactly!
  • tigerblue
    tigerblue Posts: 1,526 Member
    If women didn't want men looking at them they wouldn't wear yoga pants.

    This way of thinking really frustrates me! So we should be covered from head to toe in baggy clothes so that we get far too hot and our trousers get all tangled together up when we try to sprint on the treadmill? That is actually ridiculous!
    "Oh she's wearing shorts, therefore I am entitled to gawk?" I don't think so! Maybe she's a little bit warm from exercising?!

    In regards to glancing around, we all glance around between sets etc, the only other option is to study your own bellybutton, just don't be a perv.

    This!!!!

    Gym attire is appropriate in the gym. As stated above, that may involve showing a bit of skin in order to be comfortable. How would you men feel if we told you to wear heavy, long sleeved clothes so we wouldnt be distracted!

    Men should learn to look away and not stare at a woman's parts.

    Also if i have on makeup at the gym it's because i came straight from work and don't have time to remove it. That doesnt make me a hooker. Just a busy mom.

    With the above being said, no woman (or man) has to push the limits of decency with extremely skimpy gym clothes. There are moderate choices.

    And staring is always rude. Looking, and then moving on is different.
  • BrainsOnGains
    BrainsOnGains Posts: 282 Member
    Keep glancing, I know I look good.

    :::glancing:::hard:::
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Look , we all do it. Just don't stare or leer.... Hell when I do cardio I park myself on the elliptical infront of all the free weights... Part of it is to enjoy the view.... :devil: .. I dont care if you look just dont stalk me lol
  • AIZZO4
    AIZZO4 Posts: 404 Member
    This made me laugh. I knew there was a reason I wear baggy sweatpants - put my hair in a pony tail and put on a ball hat. No one would want to look at me - ha!

    Lol we would still look