What does it for you & What Kills it?

Dr_Flo
Dr_Flo Posts: 465 Member
edited January 18 in Chit-Chat
I dunno if I believe in love at first site .. But I can tell you that Lust at first site happens ALL the time..

Whats the thing that can get you goin' about somebody :devil:

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Whats the thing that can kill it with an otherwise "perfect" match for you :noway:
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  • JessieJanie
    JessieJanie Posts: 428 Member
    Facial hair and tattoos do it for me, and bad grammar kills it.
  • Dr_Flo
    Dr_Flo Posts: 465 Member
    Facial hair and tattoos do it for me, and bad grammar kills it.

    HaHaHa. hope my sentences were properly formatted
  • JessieJanie
    JessieJanie Posts: 428 Member
    :laugh: They were!
  • PattiBaldwin88
    PattiBaldwin88 Posts: 41 Member
    Bad teeth!!
  • Dr_Flo
    Dr_Flo Posts: 465 Member
    Bad teeth!!

    Thats a half answer yound lady
  • sbbhbm
    sbbhbm Posts: 1,312 Member
    I like a nice chestorial region on the guys and gals I'm interested in.

    Smoking and chewing tobacco are the biggest turn-offs ever for me.
  • PattiBaldwin88
    PattiBaldwin88 Posts: 41 Member
    Bad teeth!!

    Thats a half answer yound lady

    Blonde hair, blue eyes, and a nice chest/arms and I'm GOOD
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    Works - nice arms, confident (bordering cocky even), full lips, tall, intelligence, compassion

    Kills it - unkind, bad teeth, manboobs, poorly dressed, arrogant (there is a fine line between being cocky and being arrogant)
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    For me, height is a major plus.

    Lack of manners around women kills it.
  • Lennonluv2
    Lennonluv2 Posts: 956 Member
    Maybe I'm old fashioned or maybe because there seems to be a lot of me first attitudes around these days but when a guy holds a door for me that's a turn on and a major turn off is talking with a mouth full of food.
  • 3foldchord
    3foldchord Posts: 2,918 Member
    Pros: unattached, nicely shaped earlobes. and that clavicular shoulder bump
    Cons: bad breath, poor grammar, stupidity
  • Valera0466
    Valera0466 Posts: 319 Member
    Well groomed - should be obvious they take time with their appearance.

    Foul language and behavior that shouldn't happen in front of a lady.
  • Dr_Flo
    Dr_Flo Posts: 465 Member
    I dont think Id make it for most of you - Im a smoker (thank Uncle Sam), I curse like its the only way to complete a sentence and I have plenty of tats.

    However, I do hold open doors, Im a grooming nut,Head to toes you'll never find anything that isnt well taken care of. Despite my time in the military and in selling trucks I still have soft hands, so I like to hold hands.. I'm a softy to a degree when it comes to someone I care about.
  • drchimpanzee
    drchimpanzee Posts: 892 Member
    Do: Get dressed up like you want to impress me. What can I say, guys like their egos stroked.

    Don't: Needy = bad. We don't need to talk 19 hours a day or be attached at the hip after two dates.
  • MrsBobaFett
    MrsBobaFett Posts: 802 Member
    Tattoos = YES
    Eat like a pig = NO!
  • mlclarke22
    mlclarke22 Posts: 551 Member
    TATS FOR SURE!

    Crappy attitudes suck...but its funny..the first thing I always look at are a guys shoes...weird i know!
  • Dr_Flo
    Dr_Flo Posts: 465 Member
    Since I havent said mine:


    DOES IT FOR ME: Smells nice.. Takes the time to paint her toes and clip them if she's going to wear open toed shoes, uses makeup as an accent not a spackle, hygene (everywhere) must be a priority, make me feel wanted. Im not your buddy.. treat me different, special even

    KILLS IT: If you smell, we're done. If you're not taking care of your no no places...OMG we're done. If your toes could pass for an Eagles talons.. EWW.. And if I end up feeling like Im following you around instead out with you.. yeah we're done.

    PS - If you're a freak behind closed doors .. thats HOT .. but I dont need you wearing stuff that shows everyone else what you're workin' with too. That's just ZERO respect for me not to mention yourself.
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    I dont think Id make it for most of you - Im a smoker (thank Uncle Sam), I curse like its the only way to complete a sentence and I have plenty of tats.

    However, I do hold open doors, Im a grooming nut,Head to toes you'll never find anything that isnt well taken care of. Despite my time in the military and in selling trucks I still have soft hands, so I like to hold hands.. I'm a softy to a degree when it comes to someone I care about.

    I quit last year after 33 years. It's hard. I started smoking BEFORE the military though.
    Tats, not a problem, some are quite impressive.
  • PattiBaldwin88
    PattiBaldwin88 Posts: 41 Member
    Since I havent said mine:


    DOES IT FOR ME: Smells nice.. Takes the time to paint her toes and clip them if she's going to wear open toed shoes, uses makeup as an accent not a spackle, hygene (everywhere) must be a priority, make me feel wanted. Im not your buddy.. treat me different, special even

    KILLS IT: If you smell, we're done. If you're not taking care of your no no places...OMG we're done. If your toes could pass for an Eagles talons.. EWW.. And if I end up feeling like Im following you around instead out with you.. yeah we're done.

    Sounds like someone may have a foot fetish.... haha
  • Dr_Flo
    Dr_Flo Posts: 465 Member
    Since I havent said mine:


    DOES IT FOR ME: Smells nice.. Takes the time to paint her toes and clip them if she's going to wear open toed shoes, uses makeup as an accent not a spackle, hygene (everywhere) must be a priority, make me feel wanted. Im not your buddy.. treat me different, special even

    KILLS IT: If you smell, we're done. If you're not taking care of your no no places...OMG we're done. If your toes could pass for an Eagles talons.. EWW.. And if I end up feeling like Im following you around instead out with you.. yeah we're done.

    Sounds like someone may have a foot fetish.... haha

    lol .. NOT in the traditional sense. I have no desire to worship or suck toes .. thats NOT me.

    But I can appreciate if a woman takes care of her feet. I have this long stnading theory that it says alot about a woman. If she takes care of her feet.. other places are going to be immaculate. If she doesnt.. yikes.. be ready for anything.
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    Edit cause PMs.
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
    Dealbreakers:

    smelling badly

    rudeness to others (especially waitstaff)

    neediness/clinginess

    poor English (ESL is different)

    intolerance

    lack of confidence
  • mlclarke22
    mlclarke22 Posts: 551 Member
    Since I havent said mine:


    DOES IT FOR ME: Smells nice.. Takes the time to paint her toes and clip them if she's going to wear open toed shoes, uses makeup as an accent not a spackle, hygene (everywhere) must be a priority, make me feel wanted. Im not your buddy.. treat me different, special even

    KILLS IT: If you smell, we're done. If you're not taking care of your no no places...OMG we're done. If your toes could pass for an Eagles talons.. EWW.. And if I end up feeling like Im following you around instead out with you.. yeah we're done.

    Sounds like someone may have a foot fetish.... haha

    lol .. NOT in the traditional sense. I have no desire to worship or suck toes .. thats NOT me.

    But I can appreciate if a woman takes care of her feet. I have this long stnading theory that it says alot about a woman. If she takes care of her feet.. other places are going to be immaculate. If she doesnt.. yikes.. be ready for anything.

    very true!
  • stewartcarden
    stewartcarden Posts: 126 Member
    See when a woman has big hairy eyebrows ... with a ruler edge straight cut french exactly 3.3cm above them ...... and possibly a squint.

    Oaft
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    Can I just add bigotry to the kills it list? Nothing would make me run for the hills like a bigot!
  • Dr_Flo
    Dr_Flo Posts: 465 Member
    Ive been pretty successful with that theory thus far. It has proven to be right time and again.

    I will never understand why a woman would neglect her body.. Men.. well we're expected to be dirty, to a degree.
    But when women are.. its just shocking.

    Musty... *just threw up a little :sick:
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    I don't paint my toenails **gasp**

    Guess I am undateable
  • Dr_Flo
    Dr_Flo Posts: 465 Member
    I don't paint my toenails **gasp**

    Guess I am undateable


    Its a preference.. Im sure there are guys that like that.
  • mlclarke22
    mlclarke22 Posts: 551 Member
    Ive been pretty successful with that theory thus far. It has proven to be right time and again.

    I will never understand why a woman would neglect her body.. Men.. well we're expected to be dirty, to a degree.
    But when women are.. its just shocking.

    Musty... *just threw up a little :sick:

    ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    I don't paint my toenails **gasp**

    Guess I am undateable


    Its a preference.. Im sure there are guys that like that.

    LOL, I wasn't worried. Chipped polish is a pet peeve of mine, so I just don't even bother. I'd rather have nude nails than bad polish.
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