Emotional breakdown- will it end?

It will end. But its ok to feel sad, to grieve too, its part of the process. Acknowledge those feelings. I was the same about a year ago, had no appetite, it came back eventually. I personally took the time to just figure out what I wanted and who I wanted to be. It takes time, but everyday that passes is a step in the right direction and eventually you'll look back and realise that somewhere in that time you overcame it.

I got a lot of suport from family and rebuilt my life. One of the best things that came out of my experience was realising how amazing they are and how lucky I am to have them. Seek out support, you'd be surprised how many people will help if you just ask.

Focus on doing things you used to enjoy, taking time to relax and de-stress, work out if you can (it really helps) and have fun!

I'm in the mental health field so maybe this is a bit out there for you but I found that learning mindfulness (the mindful way through depression is really good) really helped me cope with a lot of things. Deep breathing also helped when things just got way too much.

Good luck

Everyone has offered great advise but I just wanted to second what someone said about seeing a counselor if possible. I was very much against doing so and thought it reflected badly on me but finally got to the point with a family situation where I felt like I had no other option. I only went about 4-5 times but just to have an unbiased 3rd party tell me what I was doing was right and that I was still a good person helped a ton!!! If at all possible, I would suggest it to anyone going through a very stressful time.

so who cheated on who?

^^never been loved.

I asked the question because you don't handle guilt and anger the same way. Someone has to be the realist.

There are different and more acceptable ways of asking that question than the way you did. Plus, it is the OPs business and the fact that she didn't disclose the reason in her post would indicate that she doesn't want to. Have some decorum.

OP, I have no great advice, other than there are many, many people that have or will go through the same thing. They all get through it and so will you. Cheesy I know, but time really is the best healer.

By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.
~Confucius

It gets better. Little by little, every single day, it does get better. Give yourself time to grieve, to get over disappointment and loss but get up everyday and keep doing what you need to do. Talk, shout, scream and cry about it when you need to. Eat what you can, shower, sleep, wake up, see your friends/family, go to school, go to work. You have to keep moving and you have to take care of yourself.

Good luck!

you did the right thing, if you were being mistreated, you did right by getting out.

this feeling you have will pass and you will be feeling better than ever soon enough! I say congrats!

It really sucks when you lose someone you love or even thought you loved. All I have for you is to say that time really is a healer. Instead of thinking about the bad right now try and think about the good and move on. Don't stay in that bed and mope over it and think it to death. Distance yourself from it for right now until the acute pain is gone and then maybe later on when you're in a better frame of mind you can figure out what went wrong and learn from it. We all go through it at one time or another but it helps us to grow into the people we are meant to be. That which doesn't kill you makes you stronger and you are a strong woman! So hope you get to feeling more like yourself soon. Hugs your way!