I think he is cheating on me.

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felice03
felice03 Posts: 2,732 Member
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I met my special guy about five years ago. I like to think it was love at first sight...and I thought he felt the same way. We spent all of our time together. I always made him his favorite food, he loved my cooking. My favorite was just cuddling on the couch watching TV. I have never been so happy curling up with someone and just relaxing.

But lately, things have changed. I make him dinner and he doesn't eat...yet he is gaining weight. He goes outside and disappears for hours. He sits on the other end of the couch instead of next to me....that just broke my heart. That was always "our time".

I just don't know what to do. I just can't bring myself to follow him to see what he is doing...I am too afraid of what I might find out. Even if there is someone else I dont know if I could kick him out. I mean, as silly as it seems, I love that darn cat even thought he is breaking my heart.
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  • iWaffle
    iWaffle Posts: 2,208 Member
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    Buy a dog and be happy. That is all.
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
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    No get a cat---Oh then get another cat... or a bird
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,012 Member
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    My dog would never do something like this to me. They are not sneaky or deceitful like those dirty cats......
  • VoodooLuLu
    VoodooLuLu Posts: 636 Member
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    Maybe the new lovey dovey feeling is wearing off and he's starting to feel comfortable. Don't jump to conclusions ask him.
  • babydiego87
    babydiego87 Posts: 905 Member
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    hes just not that into you, boo
  • FireEngineRedHead
    FireEngineRedHead Posts: 281 Member
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    You tricked me so hard.
  • missyj1115
    missyj1115 Posts: 1,220 Member
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    Take it from me..... If you think he is..... HE MOST DEFINITELY IS!!!
    It is nobody's fault but your own should you choose to stay with the SOB!!!
    Live day in and day out heartbroken or kick him to the curb and get on with your life with someone
    who DESERVES YOU!!!!! PERIOD!!!!
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
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    You can win back his affection:

    http://www.etsy.com/listing/113695483/prissy-hissy-panties-catnip-toycat-treat
  • chubby_checkers
    chubby_checkers Posts: 2,354 Member
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    Take it from me..... If you think he is..... HE MOST DEFINITELY IS!!!
    It is nobody's fault but your own should you choose to stay with the SOB!!!
    Live day in and day out heartbroken or kick him to the curb and get on with your life with someone
    who DESERVES YOU!!!!! PERIOD!!!!

    Yeah!
  • VoodooLuLu
    VoodooLuLu Posts: 636 Member
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    @ Scattered he meows haha
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,732 Member
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    Maybe the new lovey dovey feeling is wearing off and he's starting to feel comfortable. Don't jump to conclusions ask him.


    when I ask him, he just ignores me and walks away!
  • VoodooLuLu
    VoodooLuLu Posts: 636 Member
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    give him some whiskas that will open him up
  • Danni3ll3
    Danni3ll3 Posts: 365 Member
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    Wondering and worrying is going to make you sick. I would rather know (by asking him point blank, not spying) and deal with the results. If he is cheating on you, you need to ask, are you better off with him or without him. Depending on that answer, you may choose counseling or kick him to the curb. You are a special person and you deserve a decent relationship.
  • cindiva65
    cindiva65 Posts: 335 Member
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    Sounds like he might be catting around. If he wont communicate with you don't *****foot around with this....follow him.
  • Dark_Roast
    Dark_Roast Posts: 17,689 Member
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    just break up
  • LadyPakal
    LadyPakal Posts: 256 Member
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    You know what you need to do to win back his affections...
  • salsera_barbie
    salsera_barbie Posts: 270 Member
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    You know what you need to do to win back his affections...

    Yeah.....can of tuna
  • TX_Thundercat
    TX_Thundercat Posts: 2,437 Member
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    Have you considered hitting him with a rolled up newspaper or taking away his toys?
  • LadyPakal
    LadyPakal Posts: 256 Member
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    That - or is he neutered?
  • thepersonaboveyou
    thepersonaboveyou Posts: 8
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    Try going into denial. It works for me.

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