Friend collectors

jbutterflye
jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
edited January 19 in Chit-Chat
Why? I don't get it!:huh:
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  • ACepero79
    ACepero79 Posts: 711 Member
    Are friend collectors like bone collectors?
  • mmm_drop
    mmm_drop Posts: 1,126 Member
    I only collect the good ones...you know, like you. :flowerforyou:
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    I only collect the good ones...you know, like you. :flowerforyou:

    You, my dear, are a gem! Muah!
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    I just don't get the thought process of adding someone that you never interact with. Does not compute!
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    my guess is because some people are new (me) and have a hard time figuring out a game plan. Maybe someone could share what worked for them? Maybe because you would like to see their post, maybe it may motivate you. Like dating, you may date a few to see which one works for you. There are various reasons...
  • mmm_drop
    mmm_drop Posts: 1,126 Member
    I just don't get the thought process of adding someone that you never interact with. Does not compute!

    Well, I have added people who were friends of friends that I found to be funny. A random add? No, but for sure I have friend requested people (probably yourself included) who have asked themselves who in the heck are you...and I did it because of you interactions with my other friends.

    I do get what you're saying though...I hate when people friend request me and then never interact with me. It makes no sense to me either.
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    maybe your friends dont know how to approach you quite yet, so they watch your post. Later when they have a specific question they may chat with you?
    I just don't get the thought process of adding someone that you never interact with. Does not compute!

    Well, I have added people who were friends of friends that I found to be funny. A random add? No, but for sure I have friend requested people (probably yourself included) who have asked themselves who in the heck are you...and I did it because of you interactions with my other friends.

    I do get what you're saying though...I hate when people friend request me and then never interact with me. It makes no sense to me either.
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    kind of like facebook, people add me, I do not talk to them every day. It may be once a year, or I may reply or like one of their posts. Its because I see their post and what they are doing, and I feel as if I am getting an update on them, their life. Then there are my very good friends that i reach out to more frequently.
  • mmm_drop
    mmm_drop Posts: 1,126 Member
    maybe your friends dont know how to approach you quite yet, so they watch your post. Later when they have a specific question they may chat with you?
    I just don't get the thought process of adding someone that you never interact with. Does not compute!

    Well, I have added people who were friends of friends that I found to be funny. A random add? No, but for sure I have friend requested people (probably yourself included) who have asked themselves who in the heck are you...and I did it because of you interactions with my other friends.

    I do get what you're saying though...I hate when people friend request me and then never interact with me. It makes no sense to me either.

    Oh no, I know how to interact with her. She is one of my mfp faves! :heart:
  • swimmer_chick
    swimmer_chick Posts: 137 Member
    I agree, I love to chat and interact with people and get to know them :)
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    I just don't get the thought process of adding someone that you never interact with. Does not compute!

    Well, I have added people who were friends of friends that I found to be funny. A random add? No, but for sure I have friend requested people (probably yourself included) who have asked themselves who in the heck are you...and I did it because of you interactions with my other friends.

    I do get what you're saying though...I hate when people friend request me and then never interact with me. It makes no sense to me either.

    Yeah, I'm referring to the ones that request the friendship but then never say a word afterward. Like, why did they even bother then, just to have the label "Friend" and a head count? What need does this fulfill? Lol!
  • _noob_
    _noob_ Posts: 3,306 Member
    sometimes I *kitten* to blondes, sometimes to redheads, and I need more hot brunettes...
  • 4ME77
    4ME77 Posts: 25 Member
    I have selected a few that I've had for over a year...they are awesome...I keep it minimal
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    maybe your friends dont know how to approach you quite yet, so they watch your post. Later when they have a specific question they may chat with you?

    Maybe a simple "hello" or "thanks for the add" is a start. Some of them there's not even that.
  • mmm_drop
    mmm_drop Posts: 1,126 Member
    maybe your friends dont know how to approach you quite yet, so they watch your post. Later when they have a specific question they may chat with you?

    Maybe a simple "hello" or "thanks for the add" is a start. Some of them there's not even that.

    Honey, you're super approachable, so I don't think this is the case anyway. Maybe they just want your beautiful face on their wall.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    sometimes I *kitten* to blondes, sometimes to redheads, and I need more hot brunettes...

    Yeah, but do you tell them you *kitten* to them? See, I'd like to know if someone was *kitten* to me. It makes me feel all warm & fuzzy inside. And then I'd never delete them, ever! A good *kitten* is as good as a blood oath in my book.
  • Iron_Duchess
    Iron_Duchess Posts: 429 Member
    I just don't get the thought process of adding someone that you never interact with. Does not compute!

    I don't understand it either. If I am added by someone like that I give it a few weeks, but if there is no interaction at all I just un-friend them. It is just too stressful for me because it feels like I am failing them somehow by not being the support that they need.
  • Icelandic_Saga
    Icelandic_Saga Posts: 2,926 Member
    sometimes I *kitten* to blondes, sometimes to redheads, and I need more hot brunettes...

    I wish I didn't like this but it honestly made me laugh a bit :smile:
  • mmm_drop
    mmm_drop Posts: 1,126 Member
    sometimes I *kitten* to blondes, sometimes to redheads, and I need more hot brunettes...

    Non-discriminatory *kitten*. I like it.
  • InnerConflict
    InnerConflict Posts: 1,592 Member
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    0 friends when I logged in today. Will still be 0 when I log off.
  • Icelandic_Saga
    Icelandic_Saga Posts: 2,926 Member
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    0 friends when I logged in today. Will still be 0 when I log off.

    antisocial?
  • 1shauna1
    1shauna1 Posts: 993 Member
    Yeah, there was one guy who friended me; every post of his was just all the women he's now friends with! I deleted him.
  • tadpole242
    tadpole242 Posts: 507 Member
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    0 friends when I logged in today. Will still be 0 when I log off.

    antisocial?
    More like Lazy
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
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    0 friends when I logged in today. Will still be 0 when I log off.

    antisocial?
    More like Lazy

    I think he's conflicted.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    maybe your friends dont know how to approach you quite yet, so they watch your post. Later when they have a specific question they may chat with you?

    Maybe a simple "hello" or "thanks for the add" is a start. Some of them there's not even that.

    Honey, you're super approachable, so I don't think this is the case anyway. Maybe they just want your beautiful face on their wall.

    :flowerforyou: thank you hun. It's true, I'm very approachable. It's kinda creepy when there's no contact. I want to know what they do all day on my wall, just sitting motionless like that, staring. :huh:
  • Laura42012
    Laura42012 Posts: 180 Member
    I request people that inspire me on here. That their profiles or success stories show me what I am looking for in my quest to get into shape. There may not be a lot of interaction daily but there will be where it counts. That's what this site is about.
  • InnerConflict
    InnerConflict Posts: 1,592 Member
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    0 friends when I logged in today. Will still be 0 when I log off.

    antisocial?

    You don't need to have someone on your friends list to interact with them.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
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    0 friends when I logged in today. Will still be 0 when I log off.

    antisocial?

    You don't need to have someone on your friends list to interact with them.

    What about intercourse with them?
  • _noob_
    _noob_ Posts: 3,306 Member
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    0 friends when I logged in today. Will still be 0 when I log off.

    antisocial?

    You don't need to have someone on your friends list to interact with them.

    Oh wow, there's no way I could enjoy my friends as much without interacting on their newsfeed here.
  • InnerConflict
    InnerConflict Posts: 1,592 Member
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    0 friends when I logged in today. Will still be 0 when I log off.

    antisocial?

    You don't need to have someone on your friends list to interact with them.

    What about intercourse with them?

    Private messaging
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