Before and Afters
soldier4242
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People will post before and after photos and I love to go look at them, because it is highly motivating for me to see the differences that all our hard work can produce. But every once in a while someone will post a couple before and after pictures that I swear don't have any difference at all.
I will just look back and forth and I swear I can't see a difference. When this happens I don't post anything at all. It could be some sort of technical error I guess, maybe they posted the wrong pictures and we have two before pictures but l don't dare ask. That would be liken to asking a women when her baby is due. You had better be damn sure she is pregnant before you ask that question.
What gets me though is people will be posting in droves about how they do see the difference. It's like the emperor's new cloths in real life. In my mind I'll be thinking "Oh come on this person was a walrus before and still is a walrus." Again I don't dare actually post that cause I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and thankfully these cases are pretty rare. I think for the most part people wait until their after picture is noticeably different from their before pictures.
I just want to know am I the only one that ever sees this?
I will just look back and forth and I swear I can't see a difference. When this happens I don't post anything at all. It could be some sort of technical error I guess, maybe they posted the wrong pictures and we have two before pictures but l don't dare ask. That would be liken to asking a women when her baby is due. You had better be damn sure she is pregnant before you ask that question.
What gets me though is people will be posting in droves about how they do see the difference. It's like the emperor's new cloths in real life. In my mind I'll be thinking "Oh come on this person was a walrus before and still is a walrus." Again I don't dare actually post that cause I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and thankfully these cases are pretty rare. I think for the most part people wait until their after picture is noticeably different from their before pictures.
I just want to know am I the only one that ever sees this?
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Some changes are really subtle, but I still try to encourage them saying things like, "keep at it" or such. I don't ever say I can't see it.0
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I completely agree.
Some people get a bit ahead of themselves and post before and afters 2 weeks into a diet or exercise routine and it's just crazy.0 -
Thanks for the laugh...
"Oh come on this person was a walrus before and still is a walrus."
I see this...I'm like you I just don't say anything, but I'm glad people encourage them to keep going!0 -
Haha I love this! Made me giggle, and with the pregnancy thing.. wow that's risky ground! I agree though, it's nice that people are pleased with their progress but posting pictures after a week or two of dieting/exercising isn't quite what I'd use at motivation. Those people who post true before and after pictures are great!
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I'm sure they are thinking that if the scales say that they have lost a few pounds then everyone should be able to see it. And unfortunately sometimes we can't see it. But I would never, ever say I couldn't. That could be detrimental to someones esteem.0
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I love looking at before and afters, but like you I just move on when I can't tell a difference.0
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Hahaha. If I couldn't see a difference, I just wouldn't post. Sometimes there are subtle differences that can only be noticed by the individual.
I posted photos like this once and pretty much everyone that commented said they couldn't see a difference. It's just an individual thing. 0 -
You know what? I do agree with you. I literally stare at a pictures to see if they're faking a before and after, plus see a difference. Are they just sticking out their gut, slouching... oh jeez you didn't loose any weight at all! lol I've done before and after pictures before and I know for sure that I can see a difference.0
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I'm glad I am not the only one to notice. I don't see anything wrong with people being excited about what they have done so far. I can see why someone would still say something encouraging. You want to have a positive impact and help to foster the community. In a very real way people say encouraging stuff for the same reason that I don't say anything. We feel it is the most positive response we can have.
The only issue I have is if we elevate mediocre results to the level of "You look amazing" aren't we diluting the value of that compliment on this site?
One compliment I found extremely interest was on a before and after of like some 120 pounds or something like that and the person went from looking like Jaba the Hut to looking like a smoking hottie. It took her 2 years to pull off and someone said
"You look great before and after."
Now I get why she said it. I understand she was trying to avoid saying something like
"Thank god you did this cause I would have hired Jedi to kill you otherwise."
The thing is this person really put in two years worth of work and it paid off. She looks 1000% better now and telling her that she looked great before and after to me is not paying full respect to all the effort she put in.
I know when I finish losing weight I will post some pictures. I will hope people will say things like.
"You look like a bucket of turds before but now you look sexy as hell."
I want my effort to manifest and tangible and undeniable difference in my appearance. If I end up looking just as good in both pictures then I will feel like I haven't done enough.
I bear no ill will toward anyone for doing any of these things. I totally understand why they do it and there is nothing wrong with being nice for the sake of being nice. These are just my views on how we go about evaluation the results of our efforts.0 -
People will post before and after photos and I love to go look at them, because it is highly motivating for me to see the differences that all our hard work can produce. But every once in a while someone will post a couple before and after pictures that I swear don't have any difference at all.
I will just look back and forth and I swear I can't see a difference. When this happens I don't post anything at all. It could be some sort of technical error I guess, maybe they posted the wrong pictures and we have two before pictures but l don't dare ask. That would be liken to asking a women when her baby is due. You had better be damn sure she is pregnant before you ask that question.
What gets me though is people will be posting in droves about how they do see the difference. It's like the emperor's new cloths in real life. In my mind I'll be thinking "Oh come on this person was a walrus before and still is a walrus." Again I don't dare actually post that cause I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and thankfully these cases are pretty rare. I think for the most part people wait until their after picture is noticeably different from their before pictures.
I just want to know am I the only one that ever sees this?
Today I was thinking posting pics. Got the camera out. PUMPED. After reading this...not so much. And I'm not uber sensitive or anything.
The thing is I still look like a walrus...BUT a smaller one. I guess that doesn't count. :ohwell:0 -
I look at the success stories all the time to keep me motivated and I agree with you. There are those that show no difference at all. Maybe they are seeking that "wow you look great" from reading everyone else that has noticeable differences? Maybe they don't have anyone in reality telling them they can see a change. I do try to encourage them but not as enthusiatic with them as I am with others. A simple keep up the great work will do, they are obviously looking for kudos.0
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I know when I finish losing weight I will post some pictures. I will hope people will say things like.
"You look like a bucket of turds before but now you look sexy as hell."
I will remember that and quote it if I ever see your before and after pictures ha!0 -
Nothing wrong with kudos, even for small triumphs. Some times you just need a nod that you are heading in the right direction. As far as that being mediocrity....that is hit and miss.0
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Hope there's a difference in mine!! I don't want to be one of those annoying people!! :P I hear ya though, really!
(Yes, just a shameless self love pic..HAHA!!!)
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Couldn't agree more!Nothing wrong with kudos, even for small triumphs. Some times you just need a nod that you are heading in the right direction. As far as that being mediocrity....that is hit and miss.0 -
Hope there's a difference in mine!! I don't want to be one of those annoying people!! :P I hear ya though, really! (Yes, just a shameless self love pic..HAHA!!!)
I would say that this is an obvious and noticeable difference. You really do look a lot better in your after pictures. I hope that you continue doing what you are doing and keep reaping the benefits.0 -
i laughed.
and i laughed.
then i was still....for you speak only the truth.0 -
People will post before and after photos and I love to go look at them, because it is highly motivating for me to see the differences that all our hard work can produce. But every once in a while someone will post a couple before and after pictures that I swear don't have any difference at all.
I will just look back and forth and I swear I can't see a difference. When this happens I don't post anything at all. It could be some sort of technical error I guess, maybe they posted the wrong pictures and we have two before pictures but l don't dare ask. That would be liken to asking a women when her baby is due. You had better be damn sure she is pregnant before you ask that question.
What gets me though is people will be posting in droves about how they do see the difference. It's like the emperor's new cloths in real life. In my mind I'll be thinking "Oh come on this person was a walrus before and still is a walrus." Again I don't dare actually post that cause I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and thankfully these cases are pretty rare. I think for the most part people wait until their after picture is noticeably different from their before pictures.
I just want to know am I the only one that ever sees this?
Today I was thinking posting pics. Got the camera out. PUMPED. After reading this...not so much. And I'm not uber sensitive or anything.
The thing is I still look like a walrus...BUT a smaller one. I guess that doesn't count. :ohwell:
Well that actually is progress. Understand I am not talking about everyone having to look like a single standard of success. Going from walrus to smaller walrus is improvement. I am talking specifically about those rare occasions when you don't see a difference at all.
I am of the opinion that small victories are victories. I am only talking about one specific phenomena. I also did not say that I even wanted anything to change I just wanted to know if I was the only one that felt this way and that was my original meaning for posting.0 -
I know when I finish losing weight I will post some pictures. I will hope people will say things like.
"You look like a bucket of turds before but now you look sexy as hell."
I will remember that and quote it if I ever see your before and after pictures ha!
I feel like I am 20-30 pounds away from being able to post a legitimate success photo. I had also considered waiting until I had my six pack back before posting regardless of what I weigh but I'll just play it by ear. I have taken my picture at three different weights so far and I can't yet notice a difference.0 -
Hope there's a difference in mine!! I don't want to be one of those annoying people!! :P I hear ya though, really! (Yes, just a shameless self love pic..HAHA!!!)
Nah still a walrus lol0 -
I've seen those before and usually skip them, but if I HAVE to comment, it's usually something like, Keep at it and you will see and even bigger difference! Most of the ones I've seen though are people looking for confirmation if there is anything there, or if it's just in their head. People get excited just starting out to see the changes, and they want other people to see them as well. I don't mind when people do face shots though after a few weeks and their double chin is gone...gives me hope mine will eventually go away! :laugh:
I am also right there with you with the comments on oh you looked good before and you look good now. I hope people don't say that to me (and doubt they will!) because it's simply not true. If I look like Jabba the Hut now, I wanna be slave Leia when I'm done :smokin:0 -
I am also right there with you with the comments on oh you looked good before and you look good now. I hope people don't say that to me (and doubt they will!) because it's simply not true. If I look like Jabba the Hut now, I wanna be slave Leia when I'm done :smokin:
I am aware that I am not as attractive as I used to be. I am also aware that if I simply abstain from soda and I eat vegetables and other healthy foods while working out every day I will eventually look like I used to. One version of me does look better than the other. You will be slave Leia one day and I will be that guy that played Captain America in the avengers who's name escapes me at the moment. We will look better and we will know it.0 -
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I know when I finish losing weight I will post some pictures. I will hope people will say things like.
"You look like a bucket of turds before but now you look sexy as hell."
I will remember that and quote it if I ever see your before and after pictures ha!
I was just thinking the same thing!0 -
I know when I finish losing weight I will post some pictures. I will hope people will say things like.
"You look like a bucket of turds before but now you look sexy as hell."
I will remember that and quote it if I ever see your before and after pictures ha!
I was just thinking the same thing!
If I get in good enough shape to warrant posting a success picture I will look for this comment. I would find it to be hilarious. :laugh:0
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