weight loss surgery!

One of my friends brothers is dying, he is on stomach tube feeding and has lost over 100 pounds in 3 weeks. He is one story you will never hear. I also have 5 friends who have had bypass and are losing weight well. My take on it is this is for a life time and if you learn to lose weight on your own then you will have a lasting effect. You don't have to get surgery to eat the way they do. Take chia seeds or a natural appetite suppressants and eat low calories. IF you have the will power to eat the way they do on weightloss surgery then you will lose weight without it.

I had the Lap-band and it ruined my life, seriously. Had to have it removed after numerous complications. Now I get to look forward to paying off the placement and removal for the next 10 years. I would NEVER do it again and would never recommend it to anyone.

I have stated on here numerous times that I take away nothing from those that choose to have WLS to use it as a tool to save there lives but that being said I also like to throw my hat into the ring and tell you it CAN be done on your own. I was 560 lbs. just 4 years ago and unable to walk could barely stand for 30 seconds at a stretch. I had been home bound for over 2 years when I had the AHA moment I had enough common sense to know that if I could not fix what was broken in my head then nothing not even WLS was going to make a bit of difference. So I got into therapy to first address my addictions and then hit the Pool to use water displacement to allow me to stand long enough to begin to exercise... I spent 17 months in the water and lost close to 180 lbs, before I could get out of the pool and be fitted for knee OA braces to allow me to exercise out of the water... Fast forward to today and you can see my ticker, I have taken control of my destiny and now my future is again unwritten... You have to do what is best for you first and foremost but just wanted to say you can dig yourself out of any hole as long as your willing to put forth the effect.... Best of Luck......

What an inspiration you are to all of us! Hats off to you!!

Hi - I'm a little late to the party, but thought I'd throw in my 2 cents...I have been a wee bit leery to talk about weight loss surgery on the message boards because some of the comments I've gotten have been pretty inappropriate - and in all honesty, a little mean. I had the Duodenal Switch (DS) done a year ago, and have lost 120 pounds (still have about 100 go to). We all need to do what is right for us - for some, that is weight loss surgery, for others, it is counting calories, doing Atkins, South Beach, MFP, whatever.
I didn't go into the decision blindly, I talked to a lot of doctors, sought out a lot of advice from those who had weight loss surgery, and listened to my gut/heart. Diabetes and heart disease are major health concerns in my family - my mother and father both had Type II diabetes - they suffered terribly and died at young ages. They both lost both legs, use of their kidneys, suffered strokes, etc. It was a sad thing to see what diabetes did to them. Both sets of grandparents had diabetes; aunts, uncles, and cousins on all sides have/had diabetes. My endocrinologist sat me down one day and said, "Becky, you can lose all the weight you want, you are ALWAYS going to be a diabetic. You can exercise every single day and eat the right things, but you are ALWAYS going to be a diabetic." I didn't believe him, so I went to another doctor, and another doctor, and another doctor. All telling me the same thing. Yes, losing weight will help control diabetes, but it will always be there. Going back to my original endocrinologist, he suggested I talk to someone about a procedure called the Duodenal Switch - he had read there was great success for diabetic patients. So, I called the U of M, and made an appointment with one of the oldest surgeons I'd ever met - Dr. Buchwald. He spoke in plain language and didn't pull any punches. Yes, being fat was my fault - genetics plays a roll, but I'm my own worst enemy. Yes, losing weight will help with health problems and help get the diabetes under better control. No, losing weight will NOT cure diabetes. Dr. Buchwald went on to say that over 90% of his patients were "cured" of diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, etc. After doing my research, doing a lot of praying, and talking things over with my love, I decided this was what I needed to do.
A year later, my doctor is petitioning to have diabetes removed from my medical record. I've lost 120 pounds, am doing my first 5k on Sunday, and have a wonderful outlook on my future. Was there a chance I could have died from surgery? You bet there was. Were there complications from surgery? Sure...but nothing too serious, and nothing I'm still dealing with now. Do I have to watch my vitamin levels and closely watch my protein intake? Every single day for the rest of my life. Am I glad I did it? Yes. Glad and proud. Weight loss surgery is not the easy way out, as some would have you believe. I struggle with food, and always will, but I have the tools, the knowledge, and the support that I need to continue to be successful.
I'm happy to talk if you'd like...and I apologize for the length of this post...just wanted to help you understand where one person who underwent weight loss surgery was coming from. Best of luck to you!!

Hi! I had Gastric Sleeve Surgery in March of this year, March 11 to be exact. Since then i have lost 50 lbs. I am feeling much better and have so much more energy. I have really began to accept my new way of life. In the past I was never really for it for myself but always had friends that I knew that had the surgery. But in the past 7 years, since I had my twins it became more and more difficult to lose the weight and to be able to maintain a steady workout plan. I kept having issues with my back and my knees. I made the decision in June of last year and had a lot of things to get done prior to the surgery. One thing that solidified my decision was my last doctor's appointment prior to surgery with my PCP. Everything was up, my blood pressure, cholesterol, thyroid, and i even had an abnormal EKG. This made me certain it was the right decision, because had I not been going for surgery those would have all required new meds to maintain. But I am told that the surgery will more than likely begin to correct these with my new lifestyle.

Congratulations Schnooky Girl, never be ashamed of it, it is merely another tool for our toolbox.
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This was very moving for me. I think you are amazing! You are almost there. Best wishes and way to power through.

I had the sleeve surgery in March of this year, and I have not regretted one thing in that decision. I have struggled with weight all of my adult life, and I wish I had done this years ago. It is a lifestyle change, but it is also much easier to have this as a tool to the weight loss. I have been adjusting to my new way of life and have found that I have to choose to eat right in order to get the right amount of protein each day. I really don't miss my old ways, in fact I love my new ones.

I am right there with you, I too had done all the weight loss plans and researched the surgery as well as watching the you tube videos of botht he surgery itself and the people who had it. I had reached 453 pounds which was heavier than I was when I was 8 months pregnant with my twins. I made a decision that I needed help with this and that is when I went to a seminar for the surgery. My insurance required me to do a 6 month doctor controlled diet plan which was up and down but I made it through and had my surgery in March. So far I have lost 57 lbs and feel great.

I have stated on here numerous times that I take away nothing from those that choose to have WLS to use it as a tool to save there lives but that being said I also like to throw my hat into the ring and tell you it CAN be done on your own. I was 560 lbs. just 4 years ago and unable to walk could barely stand for 30 seconds at a stretch. I had been home bound for over 2 years when I had the AHA moment I had enough common sense to know that if I could not fix what was broken in my head then nothing not even WLS was going to make a bit of difference. So I got into therapy to first address my addictions and then hit the Pool to use water displacement to allow me to stand long enough to begin to exercise... I spent 17 months in the water and lost close to 180 lbs, before I could get out of the pool and be fitted for knee OA braces to allow me to exercise out of the water... Fast forward to today and you can see my ticker, I have taken control of my destiny and now my future is again unwritten... You have to do what is best for you first and foremost but just wanted to say you can dig yourself out of any hole as long as your willing to put forth the effect.... Best of Luck......

Everytime I read your story I get inspired!

I had the Lap-band and it ruined my life, seriously. Had to have it removed after numerous complications. Now I get to look forward to paying off the placement and removal for the next 10 years. I would NEVER do it again and would never recommend it to anyone.

Amen girl! Like me, you are a lucky one!

This happened to my friend but sue hasnt got it removed yet. She still is heavy. When the band came undone she went back to her own eating.