what am i DOING WRONG?!

Hello there all! I have been having a Special K protein shake for breakfast, one for lunch, portion controlled dinner and lots of water everyday as well as 1 hour workout consisting of 30min Cardio( interval training: running), arm and leg exercises with a 2 pound dumbbell and floor exercises everyday and I am not losing weight!! I am trying to prepare myself for a physical agility test and don't feel like I'm getting anywhere!! help!

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  • Yooperm35
    Yooperm35 Posts: 787 Member
    My guess is you are not eating enough. I went to your profile page and it says you only have 5# to lose. At that lpoint in the diet world, you should be eating almost at maintenance.

    How much do you weight what is your height?
  • Shari325
    Shari325 Posts: 196 Member
    How many calories are you eating?
    If you are not eating enough to fuel your muscles, you will do poorly on your agility, as well as slow down your weight loss.
  • I think sometimes your body gets complacent too. You explained what you're doing very specifically which sounds like you do exactly the same all the time.

    Mix it up a bit. Change your meals around or try new foods and exercises. I find this is usually enough to shock my body into dropping weight again whenever i plateau.
  • Yooperm35
    Yooperm35 Posts: 787 Member
    How many calories are you eating?
    If you are not eating enough to fuel your muscles, you will do poorly on your agility, as well as slow down your weight loss.
    If she says she is having a protein shake for breakfast (about 190 calories) and one for lunch (190 calories) and a 'portioned controlled dinner'. That dinner would have to be up around 800 calories to even be near 1200 (which is still too low when working out and almost at your goal weight.
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    I'm just going to guess, eat more, a lot more. Weights, I'm not sure what you are doing with 2lbs dumb bells. Try just separating your cardio and lifting. New rules of lifting for women or strong lifts. Couch to 5k. .
  • GauchoMark
    GauchoMark Posts: 1,804 Member
    So, how many net calories are you ending up with at the end of the day and what is your BMR? Also, how long have you been doing this routine?

    Also, for what it is worth, Special K protein shakes are HORRIBLE "protein" shakes. If you are trying to get a lot of protein, look into muscle milk or something like that. Even a serving of greek yogurt has more protein in it (and less calories). If you are drinking them because you just like them, then so be it, but if you are trying to get a meal replacement with high protein, then I'd look elsewhere (read labels!).
  • stubbysticks
    stubbysticks Posts: 1,275 Member
    I'm just going to guess, eat more, a lot more. Weights, I'm not sure what you are doing with 2lbs dumb bells. Try just separating your cardio and lifting. New rules of lifting for women or strong lifts. Couch to 5k. .
    ^^^^
    All. Of. This.
  • BeinAwesome247
    BeinAwesome247 Posts: 257 Member
    1. I'd be starving....awful diet plan and just that a Crash diet plan - doomed to fail

    stop drinking special K shakes, eat real food - fruits, veggies, lean meat, etc
    separate your cardio & strength days

    And 2lbs weights? Your purse probably weighs more than that
    Never lift weights lighter than your purse - pointless
  • krhn
    krhn Posts: 781 Member
    Hello there all! I have been having a Special K protein shake for breakfast, one for lunch, portion controlled dinner and lots of water everyday as well as 1 hour workout consisting of 30min Cardio( interval training: running), arm and leg exercises with a 2 pound dumbbell and floor exercises everyday and I am not losing weight!! I am trying to prepare myself for a physical agility test and don't feel like I'm getting anywhere!! help!

    Like people have said, are you sure you are eating enough - you should eat back your exercise calories if your in a caloric deficit in the first place...

    If I were you, recalculate how much you should be eating with context of the workouts you do!
  • bobberbean
    bobberbean Posts: 3
    Yikes! I thought I was doing pretty good :/ I weigh 175lbs and im 5'1. I have been on this "diet" since January, not necessarily to be on a diet I just thought the special k protein shakes were quick, low cal, and had protein. Im not a huge breakfast or lunch eater and have a crazy schedule. Thanks for your help so far guys. I really didn't think I was doing anything wrong... As far as the dumbbells went I was doing two different arm and leg workouts that required 2-5 pound
    Dumbbells. I was going to a gym running and circuit training everyday but also didn't make a huge difference.
  • pinksparklefairy
    pinksparklefairy Posts: 97 Member
    Avoid all those commercial "diet" things. They are not filling and contain too many chemicals and too much sugar!

    Have 30 g of oats with skim milk and a banana for breakfast = 300 cals
    Small handful of nuts/apple for a mid-morning snack - 100 cals
    Tuna/chicken + raw vegetable salad for lunch - 300 cals
    500 cals left for dinner = 1200 calories
    plus eat back any exercise calories!
  • GauchoMark
    GauchoMark Posts: 1,804 Member
    Yikes! I thought I was doing pretty good :/ I weigh 175lbs and im 5'1. I have been on this "diet" since January, not necessarily to be on a diet I just thought the special k protein shakes were quick, low cal, and had protein. Im not a huge breakfast or lunch eater and have a crazy schedule. Thanks for your help so far guys. I really didn't think I was doing anything wrong... As far as the dumbbells went I was doing two different arm and leg workouts that required 2-5 pound
    Dumbbells. I was going to a gym running and circuit training everyday but also didn't make a huge difference.

    I hope we didn't come off too harsh... Everyone here is trying to help.

    What you are doing now is definately better than what you WERE doing to get up to 175 lbs. So, from that point of view, good job for making a change. The main thing you will find on this forum is that most of us are into changing your life - not just going on fad, quick fix, "special" diets.

    Ask yourself - are you going to drink Special K shakes for breakfast and lunch for the rest of your life? If the answer is "no" then what you are doing is temporary and the results will be as well. It is much better to LEARN how and what to eat so the results stay.
  • Yooperm35
    Yooperm35 Posts: 787 Member
    Yikes! I thought I was doing pretty good :/ I weigh 175lbs and im 5'1. I have been on this "diet" since January, not necessarily to be on a diet I just thought the special k protein shakes were quick, low cal, and had protein. Im not a huge breakfast or lunch eater and have a crazy schedule. Thanks for your help so far guys. I really didn't think I was doing anything wrong... As far as the dumbbells went I was doing two different arm and leg workouts that required 2-5 pound
    Dumbbells. I was going to a gym running and circuit training everyday but also didn't make a huge difference.

    According to my Fat2Fit App, with your stats, you would have the following BMR:

    Acvtivity Level sedentary - 1709
    Light Active - 1958
    Moderate active - 2207
    Very active - 2456
    Extremely active - 2705
  • GauchoMark
    GauchoMark Posts: 1,804 Member
    According to my Fat2Fit App, with your stats, you would have the following BMR:

    Acvtivity Level sedentary - 1709
    Light Active - 1958
    Moderate active - 2207
    Very active - 2456
    Extremely active - 2705

    Those are not BMR's. Those are TDEE's.
  • herblackwings39
    herblackwings39 Posts: 3,930 Member
    I agree with the others in thinking you're not eating enough. There are some really great threads on BMR, TDEE, and TDEE-% on this forum. Check them out. They'll help a great deal. If you decide to do the MFP set up just enter your information setting your goal at 1 lb loss a week and be sure to eat back your exercise calories.

    If you have a few minutes you can still do shakes, but using greek yogurt, fruit, and veggies. They tend to be tastier than the Special K shakes and you know what's in them. My favourite is yogurt, milk, cocoa powder, and frozen cherries. I usually blend in some flax meal or hemp hearts as well.

    Whatever way of eating you pick be sure it's something you'll be comfortable doing for the rest of your life. It's great to lose weight, but unless you can enjoy what you're eating it's not sustainable.

    Good luck!
  • rainbowbow
    rainbowbow Posts: 7,490 Member
    Hello there all! I have been having a Special K protein shake for breakfast, one for lunch, portion controlled dinner and lots of water everyday as well as 1 hour workout consisting of 30min Cardio( interval training: running), arm and leg exercises with a 2 pound dumbbell and floor exercises everyday and I am not losing weight!! I am trying to prepare myself for a physical agility test and don't feel like I'm getting anywhere!! help!

    everything. :P


    No.

    1.) eat enough food. real food. not special K anything.

    2.) consistently hit your calorie goal.

    3.) lose the 2 lb weights and pick up some heavier ones. Try 10-15 just to start and then work your way up (whatever is heavy for YOU).

    4.) exercise with compound movements instead of isolation exercises.
  • smn76237
    smn76237 Posts: 318 Member
    We have really similar stats! I'm 5'1 (ok ok 5'0 and 1/2 inch) and just weighed in at 172.5 yesterday. My calorie goal is set at 1800, and on particularly hard workout days when I'm hungrier I eat a bit more (up to 2100). I started around 200 lbs in January. I am probably more active than you, but you should still not be afraid to eat more than you are now.

    Things that have helped me:

    -Eating real food. Cereals and shakes do not fill me up for any period of time. I usually have half a serving of plain oats + a serving of peanut butter + chia seeds for breakfast with my vitamins and coffee (344 calories).

    -I pack my lunch the night before and try to make it something I'll look forward to eating, and usually in the 350-400 calorie range. I like huge homemade salads or leftovers from dinners I've made. One of my favorites is spinach, green onion, tomatoes, cilantro, goat cheese, chicken, and salsa for dressing.

    -I meticulously use my food scale to weight everything I prepare, even though I've already made the same thing a dozen times. Getting exactly 32g of peanut butter every morning assures I'm not eyeballing extra calories.

    -Use the recipe builder for dinners to make sure you're not underestimating how much you're eating

    -Find a healthier treat to enjoy so you don't feel overly restrictive. I have 85% or more dark chocolate with lunch, and strawberries + chocolate almond butter or chocolate macaroons and a cup of milk for dessert after dinner.

    -Incorporate more resistance training with your cardio. Doesn't have to be lifting heavy per se. Use some heavier weights than 2 lbs though. For example, you can hold 10 lb dumbells in each hand and do lunges. Hold them close to your chest and do squats. Try kettlebell exercises (lots of vids are out there to help). Do body-weight exercises (push-ups, planks, lunges, squats, mountain climbers, burpees).

    That's all i can think of for now. Good luck!
  • Yooperm35
    Yooperm35 Posts: 787 Member
    :) oops - my mistake. My chatty 3-year old was talking away as I was typing
  • bobberbean
    bobberbean Posts: 3
    Yikes! I thought I was doing pretty good :/ I weigh 175lbs and im 5'1. I have been on this "diet" since January, not necessarily to be on a diet I just thought the special k protein shakes were quick, low cal, and had protein. Im not a huge breakfast or lunch eater and have a crazy schedule. Thanks for your help so far guys. I really didn't think I was doing anything wrong... As far as the dumbbells went I was doing two different arm and leg workouts that required 2-5 pound
    Dumbbells. I was going to a gym running and circuit training everyday but also didn't make a huge difference.

    I hope we didn't come off too harsh... Everyone here is trying to help.

    What you are doing now is definately better than what you WERE doing to get up to 175 lbs. So, from that point of view, good job for making a change. The main thing you will find on this forum is that most of us are into changing your life - not just going on fad, quick fix, "special" diets.

    Ask yourself - are you going to drink Special K shakes for breakfast and lunch for the rest of your life? If the answer is "no" then what you are doing is temporary and the results will be as well. It is much better to LEARN how and what to eat so the results stay.


    Not too harsh at all! I slowly gained weight with my 3 pregnancies. During my first I developed pre-elclampsia and during my third blood clots were found in my lungs. I spent alot of time in and out of the hospital and/or in bed. At the end of my third pregnancy I weighed 205lbs. Now like I said before the special k drinks weren't an attempt at a quick weight loss crash diet thing..just easy :/ I appreciate all the advice! In fact I officially ditched the special k and ate a healthy cup of oatmeal and apple slices for breakfast and ate every 3 hours after that. Also i didn't work out today. Decided to give my body a day to relax and reset. Tomorrow i start a cardio kickboxing class at a local MMA gym. I am a person that doesn't like to wait to get things done. The coach will be guiding me through weight training as well. I don't want to stay were I am.