what's up fatty!!!

oX_Vanessa_Xo
oX_Vanessa_Xo Posts: 478
in Motivation and Support
Ok so I know this shouldnt bother me but deep down inside it does

Not sure if its because I hate the loser or because of the fatty comment.

Im standing with the baby and my 4 yr old daughter, waiting for my 6 and 8 yr old to get off the school bus.
This guy that use to live by us and caused drama for everyone, drove by and yelled "what's up fatty!" So I flipped him the finger and he flipped one back as he drove off then drove by again and waved at me. He is just pissed that everyone here ( townhouse complex) busted him for cheating on his woman, which he still is, and she knows but stays. Ugh

So im trying to tell myself he is nobody, a no one, a loser....but another part of me wants to wear an even bigger sweater to hide my fatness. Like who am I kidding? Sure I lost 16 lbs, but all in all...I'm still fat until I lose at least 50 more pounds.

/vent
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  • Scott2ndGradeTeacher
    Scott2ndGradeTeacher Posts: 147 Member
    I know it's easier said than done, but consider the source.

    He soinds like a bitter tool.
  • coacherik
    coacherik Posts: 73
    Don't let the loser get under your skin! You are doing amazing! This is not about him, this is about you and your transformation... You are going from Hot to Damn Girl! He is just jealous that he can't have either of his women be as hot as you!

    Keep up the great work... You are doing it, and doing it right! The problem is in a year, that DOG will be driving down the lock and let out a whistle or a "Hey Sexy" before he realizes it is you... And if you get the chance... Kick him in the nuts... Just saying!
  • befit68
    befit68 Posts: 28 Member
    Well, First off, I'm sorry that happened to you.
    In the moment, I'd be pretty P.O.'d too. Until I sat down and thought about his pathetic existence. I mean who the heck is this Jag who feels better about himself by putting others down?! Without ever meeting him, I can tell you that he is nothing more than dirt beneath your feet. He forgot the "Golden Rule", and look where he finds satisfaction now.... Don't waste another breath on him.
  • watchhillgirl
    watchhillgirl Posts: 597 Member
    When someone does something like this to me....I just sigh and think..."poor man...must have a small one"...
  • coacherik
    coacherik Posts: 73
    When someone does something like this to me....I just sigh and think..."poor man...must have a small one"...

    Well put!
  • oX_Vanessa_Xo
    oX_Vanessa_Xo Posts: 478
    Well, First off, I'm sorry that happened to you.
    In the moment, I'd be pretty P.O.'d too. Until I sat down and thought about his pathetic existence. I mean who the heck is this Jag who feels better about himself by putting others down?! Without ever meeting him, I can tell you that he is nothing more than dirt beneath your feet. He forgot the "Golden Rule", and look where he finds satisfaction now.... Don't waste another breath on him.

    In this area he is known as "douche bag" who got evicted and took a dump in the washer and left it here.
    I just keep telling myself what a dumbass he is with those bug ugly stupid ear stretchers.

    I think maybe I'm just pissed that there wasn't a rock close enough to throw at him lol
    Or the fact that he said that to me in front of my daughter.

    I've always known I was fat, but I've never beem called fat.
  • oX_Vanessa_Xo
    oX_Vanessa_Xo Posts: 478
    Don't let the loser get under your skin! You are doing amazing! This is not about him, this is about you and your transformation... You are going from Hot to Damn Girl! He is just jealous that he can't have either of his women be as hot as you!

    Keep up the great work... You are doing it, and doing it right! The problem is in a year, that DOG will be driving down the lock and let out a whistle or a "Hey Sexy" before he realizes it is you... And if you get the chance... Kick him in the nuts... Just saying!

    This time next yr couldn't come fast enough!
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Sent you a message.

    Don't let anyone make you doubt that you are AMAZING.
  • vixtris
    vixtris Posts: 688 Member
    hes an *kitten*. and I know you probably dont want to hear this, but come time you lose the weight he will probably say something else just as mean to you :/
  • TheCaren
    TheCaren Posts: 894 Member
    Hard to apply I know, but the reality is nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission. DO NOT GIVE THAT IDIOT PERMISSION TO RENT EVEN A TINY SPACE IN YOUR BRAIN! And my mama always used to say "consider the source."

    And another thing I've had to remind myself of often: Heavy is WHAT I am, it's not WHO I am. (I've recently reached goal weight so I don't have to say that right now, but have had to much of my adult life)
  • EmilyOfTheSun
    EmilyOfTheSun Posts: 1,548 Member
    Next time don't even react. Don't bother flipping him off, especially with your kid standing right there. Be the bigger person. If you don't give him a reaction, he'll probably give up on trying to bother you.
  • jenstanley13
    jenstanley13 Posts: 193 Member
    Don't give that loser another thought. If your daughter mentions anything else about it then use it as a teaching opportunity that everyone is beautiful no matter their size and that calling some fat is very hurtful.
  • Hellbent_Heidi
    Hellbent_Heidi Posts: 3,669 Member
    Just remember, you will one day reach your goal weight..and you won't be a 'fatty', but he will ALWAYS be a *kitten* :laugh:
  • ladydy911
    ladydy911 Posts: 126 Member
    When someone does something like this to me....I just sigh and think..."poor man...must have a small one"...

    bwahahaha almost chocked on my yogurt! Love this!!
  • chm2616
    chm2616 Posts: 434 Member
    What a douchy mcdoucherson. I would be upset too, but let it go. This guy is clearly not worth it. You have worked hard, so don't let him get you down!!
  • ShanR77
    ShanR77 Posts: 287 Member
    When someone does something like this to me....I just sigh and think..."poor man...must have a small one"...

    Exactly!!!
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    You should light a bag of dog poo on fire on his front step.
  • oX_Vanessa_Xo
    oX_Vanessa_Xo Posts: 478
    Next time don't even react. Don't bother flipping him off, especially with your kid standing right there. Be the bigger person. If you don't give him a reaction, he'll probably give up on trying to bother you.

    You're right, I shouldn't of given the satisfaction of letting him know I was pissee. Luckily I dont think my daughter was paying attention.
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    Next time don't even react. Don't bother flipping him off, especially with your kid standing right there. Be the bigger person. If you don't give him a reaction, he'll probably give up on trying to bother you.

    You're right, I shouldn't of given the satisfaction of letting him know I was pissee. Luckily I dont think my daughter was paying attention.

    Awe I missed the part that he did this in front of your young daughter. What a real d!ck!!
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    What a total ****. And a small one at that.

    Hold your head high, honey!!
  • iWaffle
    iWaffle Posts: 2,208 Member
    Just remember, you will one day reach your goal weight..and you won't be a 'fatty', but he will ALWAYS be a *kitten* :laugh:

    Exactly. Mean people are just mean. You keep your head up and keep doing what you're doing. This guy isn't worth you giving the time of day to.

    Also people love to pretend to hate what they can't have. He envies something about you or he wouldn't bother taking the time to yell at you.
  • Ivian_
    Ivian_ Posts: 276 Member
    You should light a bag of dog poo on fire on his front step.

    This. /end thread
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    Jenny__Taylia

    Cool user name.
  • oX_Vanessa_Xo
    oX_Vanessa_Xo Posts: 478
    Jenny__Taylia

    Cool user name.

    :bigsmile:
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Jenny__Taylia

    Cool user name.

    How did I not see this. Awesome.
  • gingameister
    gingameister Posts: 125 Member
    He's a knob, and he always will be. Don't waste any more of your time on him.

    Love your username by the way. Awesome! 8-D
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I'm sorry you have to deal with a loser like that, but that's all he is: a loser. And he will always find something about you that he can insult based on what he thinks is a vulnerable spot for you. So, keep that in mind. It's understandable that it upset you in the moment that it happened. Things like that catch us off guard, that was what he was trying to do. :heart:
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    If he inspires you to lose weight then take him as a positive influence.

    I am a great believer in `everything happens for a reason`

    Some guy made a comment to my Dad about him taking time ordering his food when we were in a restaurant a year ago (my dad was 76 years old at the time) so I shouted the guy down and said pick on someone your own age ...during the argument he called me a `fat *kitten*

    It was a wake up call for me, am never going to be that `fat *kitten*` again lol!

    But as others have said he is a douche bag, same as the guy that was grumbling at my Dad.

    You can make changes they will most likely live their whole lives as douche bags!
  • oX_Vanessa_Xo
    oX_Vanessa_Xo Posts: 478
    Im going to look at this as motivation to keep going and push myself a little harder.

    As bad as this sounds, I also noticed his woman put on quite a few pounds since they moved out of here so knowing she is practically the same size as me now, basically he thinks she is a fatty too.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Ok so I know this shouldnt bother me but deep down inside it does

    Not sure if its because I hate the loser or because of the fatty comment.

    Im standing with the baby and my 4 yr old daughter, waiting for my 6 and 8 yr old to get off the school bus.
    This guy that use to live by us and caused drama for everyone, drove by and yelled "what's up fatty!" So I flipped him the finger and he flipped one back as he drove off then drove by again and waved at me. He is just pissed that everyone here ( townhouse complex) busted him for cheating on his woman, which he still is, and she knows but stays. Ugh

    So im trying to tell myself he is nobody, a no one, a loser....but another part of me wants to wear an even bigger sweater to hide my fatness. Like who am I kidding? Sure I lost 16 lbs, but all in all...I'm still fat until I lose at least 50 more pounds.

    /vent

    Need a hammy cut? I know a guy...

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