Rewarding ourselves with Food
DustyBanana
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I was thinking when I get to my next goal weight of 179-180lbs I would reward myself to a splurge dinner at this delicious Little Panda Chinese restaurant. And I won't go there until at my goal...
Then I wondered maybe I should reward myself with something non-food related....like a massage lol
So how many people rewards themselves with "bad" foods and just welcome your general thoughts/opinions? :-)
Then I wondered maybe I should reward myself with something non-food related....like a massage lol
So how many people rewards themselves with "bad" foods and just welcome your general thoughts/opinions? :-)
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I do the same thing. Funny thing, when I hit my last milestone I rewarded myself with dinner at a new place; I ordered a lemon chicken dinner that was about 500 calories, but that is what I really wanted. Satisfied and was under by calories for the day!0
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I buy shoes or new make-up! Food is definitely something that I don't want to use as a reward. That's just my opinion.0
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It's up to you. Some people feel like allowing themselves a splurge will only set a dangerous precedence that derails them from "strict eating". That's what works for them, and deviating from the "rules" can be pretty disastrous.
I personally don't feel that way, so if you want to
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go ahead, you earned it!0 -
I disagree. I used to reward myself for achievements with food. And that is one of the ways I gained some of my extra weight. What I am doing for myself is when I hit certain goals. I have one of a new outfit, one a pedicure, and some goals are for things I want. Like I have one for a smart phone, and one for a swimp3 that I want really bad. But I am not allowing myself them until I hit my goal. I have a goal for about every 20 pounds I loose. That is my opinion. I don't think you should reward yourself with a bad day or food. Especially I know for me personally it could possibly set back into old habits.0
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I use all sorts of rewards, sometimes including food, sometimes not. A book, earrings, clothes, or lunch at a restaurant I like (keeping within my calories).
Food is a big part of celebrations in life--we go out for all kinds of special occasions, and that's not something I'm going to give up. So if I feel I deserve a celebration for a job well done and feel like taking myself out for a nice meal, I'm going to do it.0 -
Love this! Great dialogue--- and for the record, I don't do it always. And I think with having a bigger meal and just adjusting for the day or putting in more gym time can be fine as long you don't get de-railed easily0
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I've rewarded myself with a freshwater pearl and iolite necklace for my first 9 lbs. My next reward will be a gorgeous glittery bronze/copper/brown/cream dress belt, currently 2" short of fitting. I don't feel like using food, I'd rather have clothes or books or art supplies, stuff like that.0
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Food as a reward can work if it is done in a very measured way (though in many ways, it can contribute to the process in some people's heads where food is equated with happiness) so I will often use non-food rewards, like iTunes purchases, clothes, or athletic clothing.0
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I used to make my rewards food, now it is clothes. But I always buy the next size down for motivation It's funny how your rewards change the longer you go at this. Food is no longer a desire but a necessity. You start to view it as fuel and not a treat.0
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Nope I never "reward" myself with food, I like to think i'm a human and not a dog. For rewards I like to pick things such as new workout clothes, heart rate monitor, sneakers, etc.0
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I'm beginning to understand how much of a vice food is for me. Rewarding myself for hitting the 15 pound mark has led to a week long descent into food madness that I'm slowly getting control of again. Until I fully learn to see it as fuel I wont reward myself for it anymore.
Edited to say: with it. I wont reward myself with it anymore.0 -
I buy some new clothing. Not rewarding with food at all because that was why I'm here in the 1st place....0
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Nope I never "reward" myself with food, I like to think i'm a human and not a dog. For rewards I like to pick things such as new workout clothes, heart rate monitor, sneakers, etc.
The problem with this kind of thinking is that
1)dogs are awesome. Many people would increase in awesomeness by being dogs.
2)dogs learn new behaviors pretty much the same way we do
3)properly applied and timed food rewards are extremely effective for reinforcing new behaviors
No, I wouldn't reward reaching a weight loss goal with food either. Instead, target a behavior you want to increase: big workouts. MFP lets you track exercise calories, which allows you to "reward" big workouts ALL THE TIME with food that fits in your macros.0 -
I rewarded myself with a night out to a Mexican restaurant eating all the things I had cut out during my losing phase because they didn't fit in my goals when I reached my goal weight. I went right back to eating sensibly. I still occasional go out for celebration dinners, and I just fit them into my goals.
If you let yourself have a small treat as a reward for working out or eating sensibly the rest of the day, and fit it into your calorie goals and are sensible about it, I don't see a problem with food rewards.
edit: I reached me goal in Nov of 2011, and have successfully maintained since then.0 -
I hate to use the term "reward" because really I think only dogs get rewarded with food. lol. I'd look at it as a hard earned indulgence, and I definitely do take advantage of that! I just make sure to get in my water intake for the day and some gym time to balance it all out0
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I hate to use the term "reward" because really I think only dogs get rewarded with food. lol. I'd look at it as a hard earned indulgence, and I definitely do take advantage of that! I just make sure to get in my water intake for the day and some gym time to balance it all out
I don't understand where this comes from? Do you have a special euphemism for peeing and taking a dump because dogs do that?0 -
I 'reward' myself with a bowl of ice cream every night and a few beers on the weekends.
Hell . . . . life's supposed to be enjoyable.0 -
My opinion is that food related rewards aren't good because then they welcome old habits that we made new habits for. I personally would rather have non-related food rewards like new clothes, manicure, books, or whatever. I've rewarded myself with books and new clothes, but I want to do something big when I reach my next goal of loosing 10% of my starting weight.0
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I don't do food rewards, I know my personality too well, I would go nuts. That's the same readon I don't log my exercise, because I see the spare cals and over eat. I'm not saying I never have a treat, I just do it when I really crave it and I make sure it fits my cal plan. I have to be hard on myself because I have a knack of talking myself into treating myself. How ever if it works for you, go for it. mind you, a massage sounds wonderful! Good for you too, gets the blood pumping and moves toxins around and out ;-)0
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I 'reward' myself with a bowl of ice cream every night and a few beers on the weekends.
Hell . . . . life's supposed to be enjoyable.
Before I started tracking I'd spent all day snacking and then have a mean dinner because I felt guilty. Now, I've got better at eating well. Last night I had some calories left over, so I made popcorn. Simple.0 -
All the research I have read says to never reward a weight loss goal with food. Food is what made us overweight to begin with, your rewarding the behavior you are trying to get rid of.
If you want to eat at this restaurant, fit it into your calories for the day. You should not be cutting out the things you love, because it could lead to over eating.
I personally use clothes as my reward. It is something you can always use, and it is a constant reminder of how hard you worked to fit into it.0 -
I'm beginning to understand how much of a vice food is for me. Rewarding myself for hitting the 15 pound mark has led to a week long descent into food madness that I'm slowly getting control of again. Until I fully learn to see it as fuel I wont reward myself for it anymore.
Edited to say: with it. I wont reward myself with it anymore.
Food madness is my problem, too. I am trying to treat my weight loss experience the same way I treated cigarettes when I quit smoking. I'm an addict, which includes my thoughts and feelings as well as physical cravings. It's better for me to look at food as fuel and choose other rewards... like an extra-long walk at dawn with a friend, new clothes, a new book, or other nice reward.0 -
Don't reward yourself with food, you are not a dog!!!
Think about a lasting item you really want. Maybe add money to a "piggy bank" for your goals and when you have enough for the one thing you want, go get it!! It will be a reminder of your success and it is something that lasts and you wanted it!!0
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