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edited January 25 in Chit-Chat
...to me, is NOT the word you use to describe someone to whom you do not say goodnight, and then not text or call for 2.5 days and when you do it is only because she has texted you first to see if your plans are still on for the eve and all you have to say is "not today i had to work."

seems to me like 'weekend piece of @ss' is more appropriate in this situation.

amiright?

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  • Posts: 624 Member
    Right
  • Um.

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  • So you don't have plans tonight?

    How YOU doin'?
  • Posts: 166
    I am fresh from a break up.... So this sounds...AWESOME

    But if you are a keen bean and it makes you feel rubbish, then kick his @s! to the curb...
  • Posts: 976 Member
    My only suggestion then is "Don't be his girlfriend".
  • Posts: 1,410 Member
    Just break up.

    FIRST!!!!!
  • Posts: 599 Member
    fwb

    Keep looking until you find someone worthy of you- use the current moron for your gratification then kick him out of bed after he brings you a sammich.
  • Posts: 1,109 Member
    At your age, you should have control of your own love life. It's pretty simple. Embrace the booty call or tell him to get lost.
  • Posts: 104 Member
    You answered your own question. For obvious reasons, why does this need to be validated?!
  • Posts: 3,195 Member
    I think u already kno the answer to this.

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  • Posts: 115 Member
    Boo. I am in a similar situation. And it's driving me crazy. Why are we exclusive if our relationship practically doesn't exist? It's not like I'm the one that said let's be bf/gf, so why do I have to deal with having a semi-present significant other? I think I'll talk to him about it when I see him...this weekend...unless he stands me up. :grumble:
  • Posts: 185
    He's not that into you. Move on.
  • Posts: 590 Member
    Sounds to me like you're single hun. Go out and have some fun
  • Posts: 1,671 Member
    He's not that into you. Move on.

    ^^^ This. He's not worth your time if he doesn't feel that you are worth his time. You can find better and feel better.
  • Posts: 1,323 Member
    Why are we exclusive if our relationship practically doesn't exist? It's not like I'm the one that said let's be bf/gf, so why do I have to deal with having a semi-present significant other? I think I'll talk to him about it when I see him...this weekend...unless he stands me up. :grumble:

    EXACTLY. i came for the @ss. i wasn't looking for a bf. HE started in with the goo-goo eyes and the 'gf' talk and introducing me to all his friends and family, saying 'i make him happy'. WTFever.
  • Posts: 1,109 Member

    EXACTLY. i came for the @ss. i wasn't looking for a bf. HE started in with the goo-goo eyes and the 'gf' talk and introducing me to all his friends and family, saying 'i make him happy'. WTFever.

    If that's the case, then why does it bother you?
  • Posts: 115 Member

    EXACTLY. i came for the @ss. i wasn't looking for a bf. HE started in with the goo-goo eyes and the 'gf' talk and introducing me to all his friends and family, saying 'i make him happy'. WTFever.

    DITTO. Seriously, it was a one night stand. We met at a bar. And then he's like, is that all this is?

    And the problem, @sillygooseie, is that now I'm supposed to be in an exclusive relationship. So basically I'm not allowed to look for other men, but I'm not REALLY in a relationship. It's just annoying. I'd rather be single and chatting other men up or in a relationship with a guy who's really there.
  • Posts: 3,927 Member

    If that's the case, then why does it bother you?

    This.

    I don't see anything "exclusive" about anything I've read in the quotes here. These are merely casual hook-ups that go on for longer than average.
  • Posts: 115 Member

    This.

    I don't see anything "exclusive" about anything I've read in the quotes here. These are merely casual hook-ups that go on for longer than average.

    He's discussed it with me. We are definitely supposed to be exclusive.
  • Posts: 1,671 Member

    EXACTLY. i came for the @ss. i wasn't looking for a bf. HE started in with the goo-goo eyes and the 'gf' talk and introducing me to all his friends and family, saying 'i make him happy'. WTFever.

    **** punch him.
  • Posts: 9,003 Member

    He's discussed it with me. We are definitely supposed to be exclusive.

    So maybe you should.. uh......just leave?
  • Posts: 115 Member

    So maybe you should.. uh......just leave?

    Maybe we should. I'd rather talk with him about it first though, because I do like the guy.
  • Posts: 1,126 Member
    I am fresh from a break up.... So this sounds...AWESOME

    But if you are a keen bean and it makes you feel rubbish, then kick his @s! to the curb...



    YES x11'y billion.
  • Posts: 33 Member
    My now ex and I had this going on for the last month of our relationship. Finally I told him to f*** off.
  • Posts: 2,633 Member
    Awkward.....
  • Posts: 2,078 Member
    At your age, you should have control of your own love life. It's pretty simple. Embrace the booty call or tell him to get lost.
    That's kind of what I'm thinking... :blushing:
  • Posts: 1,344 Member
    Sounds like my relationship with the pizza delivery guy.
  • Posts: 3,038 Member
    Awkward.....

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  • Posts: 1,573 Member
    Yep, that's called a piece and nothing more.

    Sorry! :flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 476 Member
    Just break up.

    FIRST!!!!!

    LOL :laugh: :laugh:
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